There are likely thousands of married men on here, I know this. And IâÃÂÃÂm one of them. Blah blah blah. If that bothers you, I understand. Believe me I wonâÃÂÃÂt pester you about it.
Vanilla sex is something we can do with our spouses.
Sexually, IâÃÂÃÂm very dominant. Think: choking and slapping you, calling you degrading names and humiliating you, throwing you around and making you feel like an absolute slut.
Outside of sex, however, IâÃÂÃÂm very even-keeled and have no desire to hurt anyone. I know that women have their preferences in regards to who they want to sleep with, and I wonâÃÂÃÂt pester you about that either. If IâÃÂÃÂm not for you, I donâÃÂÃÂt take it personally. In short, IâÃÂÃÂm not an asshole (usually).
This isnâÃÂÃÂt my first rodeo, I understand discretion and opsec and the all of the extra little bits of effort that extra-marital fun requires. Because of that, there will be no pictures of me exchanged until IâÃÂÃÂm sure weâÃÂÃÂre on the same page (I will tell you that I donâÃÂÃÂt look like what you expect).
Anyway if any of this interests you, then feel free to reach out. IâÃÂÃÂm pretty normal.
My Ideal Person My ideal is more of a spectrum than one specific thing. In general IâÂÂm attracted to white women older than me by 10-20 years. But thatâÂÂs not necessarily a hard rule. WhatâÂÂs most important to me is that our kinks line up.
