Hello ladies. I am a divorced 52 year old who is a flirt, a confidant, a wingman, a friend, and I want you to be the same for me. I am easy going and so without drama and complications. I believe in living life to the fullest every day, as every day gone is a day that can't be re-lived, nor can it be recovered. My friends will say I am easy-going, some say I have the patience of a Saint. I abhor liars and cheats. If you're involved with somebody, that's ok, just tell me upfront. If we can make it work, we will. But if you lie about things upfront, it's not going to be a good time when it comes out. Same about your likes and dislikes. Don't say you're a freak then only want missionary style sex with the lights off. And finally, be honest about your appearance. If you're lying about your appearance, it will be painfully obvious when we finally meet. When it comes to physical health, I am good health, and about 15 pounds overweight. I feel that is admirable as I used to be about 40 pounds overweight. I get my exercise by walking and cycling, I am not a gym rat. In the bedroom I am definitely the Alpha male, almost dominant. I will tell you how it feels, I want you to tell me how it feels, I want feedback and I certainly give it. I will pull your hair to kiss you, and nibble and bite you. While I am open to suggestions, I want you to follow my lead in the bedroom. You will never accuse me of being submissive by nature. As an engineer and a scientist, I am very experimental by nature, and I will try anything once, and most things twice. Sex should be emotional, fulfilling, fun and rewarding. I am all for the quickie, but the chase, the pursuit, the mind-fuck before all makes it the better. Same for the connection - while there has to be some physical attraction, I love the emotional attraction as well. If we connect mentally and emotionally, the physical will certainly be there. I enjoy the art of flirting, the seductive talk, the suggestive ideas, the touch, the whisper, all the things that help make that emotional connection happen.

My Ideal Person I am seeking a woman who lives within a few hours distance (Not Ghana or Nigeria), who is open and embraces her sexuality and who she is. Hopefully she can appreciate who I am, and in turn who we are.

I want a woman who is sensual and sexy. There is a difference, and it does matter. Of course I want a woman who is a great lover. One who is understanding, open and willing, and respects limits and has her own. While I am not bi-sexual, I am always open to MFM, couples and groups as well. I enjoy the swing lifestyle, and have been in the lifestyle for many years. I am open to most sexual situations.

Here are my requisites: You must be a good kisser. Kissing is mutually pleasurable, I enjoy it, and you must as well. Cleanliness - goes without saying, but never hurts to point it out. Teeth - please have all your teeth, and brush them. PDAs - I am not going to hide my affection and attraction for you, so don't be ashamed or embarrassed that I want to hold your hand or touch you in public. Finally about smoking - I am not a smoker, but I don't have a problem if you are, assuming you're respectful when you smoke near me.

As far as I go, only a few things are off limits: extreme pain, permanent marks, animals, poop and blood and M-M sex. Aside from that, it's game on!

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
I am open to almost anything except M-M sex. and I have some
more that we can discuss in person, and hopefully will experience
together as a couple. <br><br>
I prefer to make memories rather than harbor fantasies.
Need a woman or a couple to help with that.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Fetishes, Light Bondage, Candle Wax, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Mutual Masturbation, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Blindfolds, Leather, Massage, Facials and cum shots

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, A little of each

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
No, I hold my partner in celebrity status, and all I care
about is her. What turns me on is seeing her pleasured and
turned on.

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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