I'm a full time bottom trans girl. i get on cam here once in a while when I'm bored :) looking for relationship, and open to regular play partners or fwb when not dating gold members -- message me, don't use IM for those local enough and want the real thing and not just looking at pics, msg me here and ask to take me out to dinner so we can chat to see if there's chemistry :) full time 24/7 (10 years now) 200% passable nobody will know except you :) just so we don't waste each other's time -- i'm not into overweight people... you can check your own BMI :) I'm 5'7 135. not into bottoms or subs. no guys shorter than 5'7 plz. as for trans girls, only if you're pre-op pretty and top. not much into cis girls, and absolutely no interest in couples of any kind. let's chat over dinner to see if there's chemistry and go from there :) i work m-f so i do not play during the day on weekdays - i'm free weeknights and also weekends re BMI -- i'm not necessarily looking for mr. fitness, but if your BMI is obese then it would be nice for you to share a recent body pic with no shirt on -- perhaps you're very muscular instead of overweight. just trying to not waste your or my time :) the rest like i said is chemistry. and for men -- don't lie about your height -- i've met many who claim to be 5'9 or 5'10 but are clearly much shorter -- i'm 5'7, and always in my 3 inch heels so i will know right away if you're shorter than 5'9 or 5'10 if you're not local but are visiting my area, you can msg me and we'll see -- maybe you can convince me to grab dinner and go from there. don't msg me just to chitchat, I'm not looking for penpals i never share full face pics, too many creeps and a-holes on this site. if you can't respect that, don't msg me. i do not chat off this site till after we've met in person. no one below 40, if you're late 30s i might consider but definitely not mid or early 30s this is how dinner works, since I've ran into many no-shows, fakes, and scams -- we'll msg each other an hour or so prior with what we'll be wearing, color and style, so easy to recognize while we wait by where people usually wait to get seated. it always works well. but if you don't msg me on time to exchange what we'll be wearing, it means you don't care if you can recognize me, then clearly you're a fake and a scam who don't intend to show up, then dinner is automatically off, and you'll be blocked. if you cancel on me, you'll be blocked as well regardless of why, because I've heard the same excuses literally hundreds of times don't be rude or crass or immature (like telling me you're horny), basically do not say things to me that you wouldn't say to a woman in person out at a bar - you're trying to impress me, not to show me you're a pig besides being on cam sometimes, I'm here to meet for real. so only message me if you intend to meet in person. otherwise just comment on my pics, or chat when I'm on cam

My Ideal Person nice fun respectful men, or pretty pre-op top trans girls. someone who appreciates that it's not everyday you find a trans girl like me who is full time and fully passable - if you don't care much for that then it would be much easier if you simply look elsewhere. things that will get you blocked -- being rude or crass or immature, or making dinner plans with me but not follow through