Time for a profile update... I'm 5'10", 170 lbs., with brown hair and green eyes, smooth and clean cut, single with my own townhouse in Columbia MD (no not South America and that is spelled diff anyway!). I'm average, though I work out enough to stay toned. I like going to the beach, casual biking, cookouts or dinners, travel, clubbing sometimes, hanging with friends. I'm a clean cut professional guy. Very bright and friendly with a good sense of humor. I guess I'm pretty "vanilla"... My idea of a good time is kicking back and chilling with some wine or drinks, good music, fireplace going (in winter), or maybe trying my jacuzzi tub. Or watching a fun DVD. I used to enjoy dance clubs like Nation in D.C., but it closed! Now I'm a little lazy about going to clubs. LOL. As far as music goes, I like pop stuff or techno dance music, or mellow trance, or upbeat stuff. Sometimes even classical or some of the newer more pop-oriented . Not too much of a fan of country music or NASCAR and mullets. Haha. I know the show is getting lame, but I still like American Idol. I'm STD free, and you should be too. And being freshly showered is a must! I like somebody that enjoys a good conversation while enjoying wine and such. Not into druggies, though the occasional 420 or even rolling is ok... Sex is fun but there has to be a mutual attraction of course. So I'm cool about meeting & no problem if not interested. Just friends is ok. I have many close good quality gay friends, yet most are couples and I'm single. Mostly looking for friends with benefits, but I'm open to a relationship if that happens too. One last thing- I hate the screen name I made when I joined this site! It sounds like a gay chat room. What was I thinking? LOL. But I've made some friends on here and had some interesting messages. It's cool if you aren't looking for an instant relationship, or just a total slutty hookup, or expecting a sudden BFF... something in-between is good. Haha. Update Jan 2011-- going on the Atlantis Allure of the Seas gay cruise in Feb, 2011 :)

My Ideal Person I prefer a similar guy- clean cut, decent build, smooth chest, nice and normal. LOL. No offense, but I really do only want similar guys... I'm not into overweight, or hairy bears, or fetish stuff like leather or bondage or drag or whatever. Even just chilling and casual j/o & oral stuff is my idea of a good time. Before we meet I'd want to trade messages and know a little about you or talk on the phone, and I'm fine about it if we meet and there's no interest. In real life it is all chemistry! Bi-curious is ok, and I like younger guys too.

Oh- and if you are even reading this... I surf local profiles of new members and if a guy has nice pics or an interesting profile I'll say hi with a compliment even if str8. So don't be offended! By and large with random messages and such on here, people are friendly/nice. Though the straight friends I've messaged with bemoan the fake female profiles. I guess guys on here outnumber the girls a lot, and guys are more into making pics.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Rimming, Mutual Masturbation, 69

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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