So much to learn, so little time? Spend a while where you'll get a smile (or more!) A full head of hair a full head of fantasies yet reality still proves best Email on line and when time's right Our paths may cross And then....... let's see just how we communicate I would not embarrass myself by bragging about my cock size, 'cause honestly, I'm not the longest nor the thickest. I'm just me. I'm not a virgin, a newbie, nor a "male slut", however, I've lived (and loved), lived and learned a thing or two. I believe when partners/lovers relax and have trust, many MANY wonderful pleasures are possible/ This is not a "booty call", this is an offer to cross paths over lunch, dinner or drinks, take (at least) some time to "check each other out", and decide to continue on to the next level. This will not be an endless exchange of emails either. We will either progress or part ways at any point. No harm no foul. Background My first serious lover (I was a senior in HS, she was a college freshman) was a multi-orgasmic squirter. I thought that's what was normal. Nope. Some are, some have more of a challenge getting there, and some women honestly seem to be scared to let go and ride the waves until they splash and squirt. And then there are women who can get what I call a "foot-gasm" from a foot rub. First time I had a lady get an unexpected foot-gasm from a footrub, it was sitting around with a bunch of friends, fully clothed, and totally unexpected. (OMG). Since then I've learned thru reflexology that the foot nerves are connected to different areas of the body, and foot-gasms are indeed experienced by a small percentage of women. I've studied massage, taken classes, and practiced with close friends. It's a great way to relax as well as demonstrate the level of comfort and willingness to go to the next level with your partner. As a massage progresses into the tantric areas, the techniques can often bring the partner to orgasm, to multiple orgasm, to the point of squirting. For some, this point is difficult to make that final abandonment and giving in to the feelings... others who have had the pleasure before know they want more, again and again...the multi-orgasmic squirting experience. What do I get out of this? I get to expand my world of aquaintances, regardless of whatever comfort level or intimate contact we enjoy. I get to practice my massage / tantric techniques and Maybe we'll decide to enjoy each other 's friendship for as long as our paths are shared.

My Ideal Person I'm looking for someone casual, yet comfortable with themselves, able to be spontanous, sexy and satisfying. Open minded and willing to grow and experience as well as teach, tame, or train...

The handle SlowHands comes from reflexology and massage - something special to be experienced.

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