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daddysmichele 49 F
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Making time for fun

2/17/2021

If this has been asked I'm sorry. I couldn't find
it. Plus, seeing as the advice page is seriously lacking
I thought I'd ask something that's been on my mind
when I get a second to relax. So my question is: how do you
make time in a busy schedule for yourself to do what you'd
like to do? Be it just relax, or to have quiet time alone with
your significant other, and not even taking Corona into
account it seems that between work, errands, and the
it seems impossible some days to even sit down let alone
to have time with my husband. How do you make the time for
you?

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This is a question for the ages. Put the kids to bed early turn off the electronics and tv. And make the time early.

2/18/2021



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Who has a busy schedule during this pandemic? I have all the time in the world for ME time, just dont have a local partner that wouldnt be an extreme risk to me with COVID rules being ignored to the max!

2/18/2021



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Never seemed to have that much of a problem with IT, and I worked rotating shift work for years. At times, we really appreciated IT when home alone, sex was the farthest thing in our minds. That was way before the Great Butthurt Plague or the I Wanna Be a Snitch Cellphone Syndrome. Sometimes ya just gotta do what ya gotta do.
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2/18/2021



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Make it happen. Dont think of how. But simply stop breath and dedicate time. You can live once. So enjoy the ride along the way. Plus it makes even thw most successful day just melt away. 3824281

2/18/2021



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Simple. Commit and make the time. If you want that that bad enough. There is always yime. 3824281

2/18/2021



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Try and set aside one night a month for date night. Just the two of you. No talking about work or the kids.

2/18/2021



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didnt the obvious answer occur to you? that is..you just set your mind to do it..and...just..DO IT? this goes for all situations...

2/18/2021



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make a point of getting that hubby of yours hot and horny more often and he will find the time . Turn off the damn cell phones and tell the kids to fuck off cause you plan on so long fucking your own two selves

P.s. you have an unusual and interesting blog .

2/18/2021



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quote Longcocked9erplu:
Simple. Commit and make the time. If you want that that bad enough. There is always yime. 3824281
If you're gonna be a good multi-profile troll, you're gonna have to learn to talk to yourself.

2/18/2021



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Thanks for all the replies. I'm glad you all took the time to read and answer my question. I was mostly wondering how everyone else is coping through the pandemic? My husband and I work opposite schedules, but we do get Sundays to have a little time together. It does seem impossible some days for more than a few minutes though so I was hoping your advice could assist me in creating more time somehow. Again, thank you all for taking the time to read and reply.

2/19/2021



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You plan . We get 24hrs a day . I bet you that is alot of hours not only that we have days off work . YOU ONLY LIVE ONCE .

2/25/2021



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SE PUEDE....MIENTRAS ESE TIEMPO SEA DE CALIDAD LA CANTIDAD NO IMPORTA

3/2/2021



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not sure, tell me how....

3/5/2021



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I will priority should be the key word . If you have family that would be nice . Talk to them ask for help . Covid can be a challenge too but I also need time to breath . If you have trusted friends too make use of them . With vaccines being mustered that should be good for you to get pple to help u .

3/5/2021



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During this time you need to make time for relaxing. I have had the covid vaccine and so have my close friends, so during the day we visit each other I go to them or they cum to me you have to trust some people and make the time for the good things in life

3/16/2021



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Cut something more time consuming out your life for the day

4/5/2021



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Being in a line of work that has seen an uptick since Covid hit, I spend more time than before working and find I have less time to enjoy the time I get off of work. Lately, it's not as much about finding/making the time, but not being so drained as to not make the time I get count. I find that if I sit down to relax for more than a few minutes, I'm done. I also get my free time all to myself these days (not necessarily by choice), so on that note, it is easier for me to find that 'me' time.

4/28/2021



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5/9/2021



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I do bids for jobs and set up playtimes during and in between

5/29/2021



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This is easily said, but not as easy to initiate. But stick to it and you will be greatly rewarded. I promise. First off don't plan you know " Date Nite" every Thursday night. Routine. Won't be that great. Just agree that when an opportunity does pop up, that you promise to take full advantage of it. Be passionate about what ever may happen. You deserve it. And please never use the fear of losing personal time as a pawn in the form of punishment or blackmail. Be mad after. Or should I say try to be mad after. You will no longer have to waist time better spent than wondering. Do not plan!

6/17/2021



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It's all about prioritizing.

7/17/2021



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sometimes yoU just have to say....STOP

7/19/2021



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Need to get the time for oneself

7/25/2021



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Get it in when you can lol

7/27/2021



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This is a question of all questions, my answer is say enough is enough no more hustle and bustle of a busy schedule shit off the phone, lock the doors and ignore work for a day just be you!

9/11/2021



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quote q_d_mcgraw:
If you're gonna be a good multi-profile troll, you're gonna have to learn to talk to yourself.
Can somebody talk to themselves lol



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9/13/2021



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Prioritize your time . We make life look busy yet we do not plan our days .

9/24/2021



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Depends to work, family… sometimes it’s hard to make time for me

10/20/2021



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