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rm_shemaleVIDA 60 F
14  Articles
Online Dating Dilemma: Dishing Out Rejection   1/16/2005

The Internet is a strange place, and what seems abnormal for in-person experiences is completely common on the Internet. Notice that the word is common, not polite or considerate. <br> You need to know how to dish out rejection in an appropriate way. As with real life, you must do it quickly – and with a modicum of kindness, if possible. Granted, for some people, a more ...


2 Comments, 423 Views, 31 Votes ,4.29 Score
if you only knew...   1/16/2005

If you only knew that almost 83% of the people on this site is the same person would that make a difference. Her name is Mildred Sassity. She's 53 and a librarian in Cedar Rapids. In her spare time, she assumes the mantle of about 3, 456 different profiles and returns e-mails and makes up these great profiles. So don't worry, you will probably never meet Mildred anyway.


2 Comments, 448 Views, 23 Votes ,3.36 Score
HunkInHeat2005 60 M
20  Articles
Men=Wild Animal   1/15/2005

When you think about wanting a man in your life, I suggest that you consider the "Wild Animal" strategy to deal with them. Think of it like this: Suppose it's not a man that you want in your life, but a Bobcat. If you wanted a Bobcat, you'd have to be real careful once you spotted him. You'd make sure you had safety equipment in case things got tricky. You'd never turn your back on it, or ...


0 Comments, 97 Views, 10 Votes ,2.19 Score
rm_D1nonly00 45 M
2  Articles
Told You That B#t%h Is Crazy!!!!   1/14/2005

It's always the beautiful ONES Well.. I would have hope that one of my friends would have given me a warning or something. It's going on week FIVE and I still can't get her to go away. The 1st time I saw her was at this but that I had just started going to. She was yelling at some guy that made her mad. Makin a scene at that. Red flag, or at least it should have been. This was about two ...


2 Comments, 277 Views, 20 Votes ,1.21 Score
RedHotRomantic 67 F
1  Article
Ladies BEWARE of the Sexual Preditor!   1/14/2005

This is for the ladies on this site.... Please be safe and get to know someone well by email and phone before you go out with them.... Case in point...Beware of DarylJon54....he is a sexual preditor of the slickest kind. He will romance you with hot lusty emails....and is VERY agressive about wanting to make passionate love to you....he will make a date of passion with you...and BAM!! ...


17 Comments, 668 Views, 35 Votes ,1.39 Score
try new things....   1/14/2005

I use to use a .357 for dating safety. That big bad boy could drop a BBW at 75 feet. Dead in her tracks. But lately with the new age women, I find that a taser jock strap works best. If they want to try anything out of line, especially before I've had a chance to ask them if they know our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ, then I'll juice my crotch and give 'em quite the shock. Depending on how ...


3 Comments, 171 Views, 16 Votes ,0.78 Score
the first date first meeting   1/4/2005

when you have talked to someone online and are ready to meet in person. meet in a public place. if they dont want to then drop them quick. they are hiding something. get their phone number and call it. tell them you are letting a friend have it and his name. try to meet somewhere where you know someone so they will be able to keep on eye on you to see you are okay. introduce your date ...


1 Comments, 179 Views, 33 Votes ,5.63 Score
rm_havoc_022 43 F
5  Articles
public   1/4/2005

Definalty a public place that you are familliar with on the firstdate..it make you feel more secure. Always take ur own car..this can be akward because of the well no need to take 2 cars and waste gas or add more crap to the air.. And well if you feel any pressure BOUNCE on home


1 Comments, 125 Views, 22 Votes ,3.01 Score
Letting Friends Know   1/3/2005

I usually let at least three friends know when I'm going to meet an online friend. I tell each one to call me at a different time within a hour to two hour time frame. <br> This way if things go well, I'm alone. And if things don't go too well, I can have a drink and think about what could have been done differently.


1 Comments, 133 Views, 9 Votes ,1.93 Score
Be safe   12/31/2004

I am extermely cautious who I date, the men I date are recommended by friends. First time meetings are somewhat a roll of the dice, but I'm a good judge of a person. Pepper spray takes the fight right out of a man to give you a head start if all else fails.


1 Comments, 159 Views, 20 Votes ,2.74 Score
Worried about discretion   12/25/2004

I hope this place is easier to get together and find exactly what I need. I joined my cities local singles site last year and hooked up a couple times the first month from uncomplicated women that sought me out. Great sex with both and I still see one every few months. I was rather surprised but after that the third chick that again sought me out turned out to be a stalker and I had to get ...


0 Comments, 91 Views, 8 Votes ,3.01 Score
rm_lloyd05 49 M
2  Articles
WE agree   12/23/2004

After much discussion with my wife we agreed on some guidelines if our "Date" ever happened, they seem like words to live by...Did we miss anything? 1. Meet in a public place. 2. Always wear what they are not looking for so you can walk away if they seem "Shady". 3. NO ..If you want you can give them the number of a restaraunt you'll be at. 4. NEVER GO TO "THEIR" PLACE, always use a ...


5 Comments, 350 Views, 43 Votes ,3.76 Score
Always let some one know   12/17/2004

Hi, its one thing to be spontanious and free, but its another to play it un safe. I think its a good idea to always let someone know where you are at all times, especially if your meeting someone alone for the first time.


4 Comments, 154 Views, 56 Votes ,4.92 Score
SensualFriend4us 68 C
38  Articles
    12/16/2004

If you are just starting down that road to getting to know someone, might be advisable to give them your cell phone number, instead of your home phone number. <br> With the click of a few buttons on the internet, it becomes very easy for someone to do a reverse number look up on a phone directory site, and know your home address. <br> Just something to think about in ...


4 Comments, 152 Views, 35 Votes ,4.91 Score
SensualFriend4us 68 C
38  Articles
Modern Technology and Safety   12/16/2004

Most of us today have cell phones, and we should not be afraid to use them as a tool in keeping ourselves safe. On a first date, especially if you have never met before, it is wise to meet in a public place, and to also make sure someone else knows where you are. However, you can also use your cell phone to be even safer...have your friend call you say an hour into the date...if all is ...


2 Comments, 71 Views, 23 Votes ,5.46 Score
Her Choice   12/16/2004

I guess being of the OLD school I was raised to respect a females wishes when it cam to dating. to a point i still hold true to these values. When I feel the timing is right to ask for a first date i always try to reasure the date that we will meet when and where She wants to. I do this so that she will feel as safe as possible. and I have also suggested that she bring a friend if she ...


4 Comments, 71 Views, 14 Votes ,5.22 Score
Iwannasexxx 52 F
2  Articles
Remember   12/14/2004

Just a quick reminder guys-this can be a fairly scary thing for a lot of women/men. A lot of us are new to this, Start slow-it will pay off in the end.


2 Comments, 233 Views, 45 Votes ,4.69 Score
Background check   12/13/2004

Would you invest in a background check for someone you met on here? It's probably best, esp. for the ladies. <br> http://passion.com professional service providing background investigations and personal profiles. Some of the information they will check into for you - SSN, marital information, addresses, , relatives & associates, property deeds, bankruptcy, judgments, liens, ...


0 Comments, 104 Views, 19 Votes ,3.39 Score
Tips for meeting online, esp. for the ladies   12/13/2004

When you do decide to meet someone whose company you enjoy online, meet in a public place and bring your friends. Your online buddy will understand and accomodate your wishes if they are honest about their intentions towards you. If during the date, you decide to go somewhere else, use your own car. <br> Don't agree to hiking dates or meetings in remote areas until you know ...


1 Comments, 87 Views, 37 Votes ,4.68 Score
rm_shemaleVIDA 60 F
14  Articles
Characteristics of a Psychopath   12/10/2004

Symptoms and Signals: A psychopath will use people for excitement, to build their self-esteem and they invariably value people in terms of their material value (money, property, comfort, etc..). To date there is a checklist of behavior and symptoms that will tell you with certainty is a person is a psychopath. These are warning signs. <br> Characteristics of a Psychopath: ...


1 Comments, 199 Views, 48 Votes ,5.93 Score
what's too much to ask?   12/1/2004

i'm having a very difficult time finding ways to bridge the gap between flirting, building an email friendship and simultaneously determining the safety practices and history of the people (men) i'm communicating with. it seems to me that meeting from an anonymous state would make thid dialog the most obvious first steps yet it still seems so taboo to mention, as if there's aconversation ...


3 Comments, 38 Views, 34 Votes ,2.61 Score
If you want a date   11/30/2004

If you want to fuck me do not let the size of your cock bother you. They all feel great and I can bet you my pussy feels great to all of you.SO if you want the best twat going around come and get you some


1 Comments, 148 Views, 50 Votes ,6.38 Score
Safe Sex and AdultFriendFinder   11/29/2004

I read a story in a profile of a young Hispanic woman from California here on AdultFriendFinder (her profile name is "justyournympho") who said she met three men at a hotel, and then they immediately went to the hotel room and had sex. She implied that she spoke to these men before the hotel meeting. No mention in her profile of condom use or meeting these guys prior to their supposed sex encounter. In ...


2 Comments, 172 Views, 58 Votes ,8.35 Score
keep ur head up....   11/27/2004

I have met 30some people from this site....be sure to "make a connection" with them, get to know how they act under all different situations. Talk to them online and on the phone for a while until u know them well enough to meet up.......BE CAREFUL!!!!! Some people are really weird......just make sure you know what your doing....


1 Comments, 156 Views, 62 Votes ,8.44 Score
DO's for safe dating   11/25/2004

Take the time to get to know someone at first by phone is a great way to start talk a few times then if comfortable set up a meeting in a public place or club safety is best policy always.


7 Comments, 107 Views, 74 Votes ,7.71 Score
What every woman should know and practice   11/20/2004

Don't Be A Crime Victim! I am sending this to every woman I know, ,please read it and pass it on to all your female friends, , <br> <br> <br> Some time ago, I attended a personal safety workshop, and it jolted me. It was given by an amazing man, Pat Malone, who has been a body guard for famous figures like Farrah Fawcett and Sylvester Stallone. He works for the ...


1 Comments, 61 Views, 42 Votes ,8.24 Score
Survival signals for women   11/20/2004

The Gift of Fear <br> and Other Survival Signals That Protect Us From Violence <br> By Gavin de Becker <br> <br> <br> The following is taken from pages 210-212. <br> There are many reliable pre-incident indicators associated with spousal violence and murder. They won't all be present in every case, but if a situation has several of these ...


1 Comments, 48 Views, 35 Votes ,7.29 Score
Even if your married....   11/16/2004

Even if your married try to chose some one who you know can keep a secret. I know that I trust one of my relatives to keep my secrets.If I go out on a date I call her and give her the guys cell number, what we will be driving and where we will be going. If I dont contact her in a certain amount of time, she might think that something has happened. Its nice to make sure things are descrete, ...


3 Comments, 92 Views, 75 Votes ,9.05 Score
needsexverybadly 43 M
1  Article
lets join   11/13/2004

Hi just checking this thing really works???


2 Comments, 16 Views, 41 Votes ,4.57 Score
I'm newly single. What to look for?   11/9/2004

I'm scared to go to bars. My girlfriend was slipped a "roofie"? and taken back to her appartment and . They also poisened her with terpentine in the same drink. <br> It's crazy and it's scary out there. What are your suggestions???


2 Comments, 78 Views, 43 Votes ,5.50 Score
First meetings on AdultFriendFinder   11/9/2004

Any previous experiance / hints on first time meetings through AdultFriendFinder would be very much appreciated. Thanks.


0 Comments, 45 Views, 27 Votes ,5.03 Score
mobang 65 M
1  Article
Best way   11/4/2004

I'm 50 and never been with a man is there any one that can tell me how I should let the first man enter my ass{ie} standing and what type lude should I use. THANKS


2 Comments, 57 Views, 33 Votes ,3.79 Score
CaCouple4Action 41 C
1  Article
Shady People   11/3/2004

My husband and I were meeting a couple at a bar one night. The couple comes in and we meet and talk for a while, we start to feel comfortable with them and dance for a while and head back to their place. once we get to their place, there are about 4 guys waiting there, all with cocks in hands, and the couple states that they were sure we wouldnt mind if some people watched. Make sure you ...


1 Comments, 159 Views, 99 Votes ,8.69 Score
Lifestyle Safety, Security and Privacy   11/2/2004

So you want to enter the lifestyle?.. Well thats fantastic !! So providing that you acted 'responsibly' and took some time to read up on the issue, as well as, opened up a permanent dialogue with your spouse, we would like to mention a few things about safety, security, and overall privacy and discretion. <br> We are a bicpl (very fit/sexy) who have been in this lifestlye that ...


1 Comments, 74 Views, 58 Votes ,7.64 Score
Sad isn't it....   11/2/2004

You talk to someone... you think they're great... So why not meet *and here it's all about sex* but even in normal settings... You have to prepare.. <br> 1. ALWAYS.. ALWAYS tell your friends where you'll be and until when. 2. Limit the 1st date, to drinks or coffee in a public place. (If goes well you can always meet again for longer somewhere else) 3. Always set up a ...


1 Comments, 52 Views, 58 Votes ,8.77 Score
hard feelings   10/30/2004

we have been in different situations that have ended in tears for her, and embarrasement for us both, When you say no thanks, and the others are a little more persistent than average, how to you get them to understand while leaving no bad emotions?


3 Comments, 45 Views, 39 Votes ,6.82 Score
rm_rm_mslovesexi 51 F
1  Article
The "NEW" Drink Carry-Method!   10/22/2004

Ladies (& Gentlemen too!!!) I have been prompted by a friend about what is termed the "NEW" drink carry when in clubs or at parties.... <br> It is when you carry the drink dead in front of your chest. You actually put your hand over the top of the cup/glass/chalis---and carry it like you are holding it directly in front of your chest/heart area.... <br> Why? <br> ...


1 Comments, 78 Views, 103 Votes ,9.08 Score
condoms   10/17/2004

no glove no love.....get it got it good. there is some dirty shit out there. be carefull


1 Comments, 10 Views, 51 Votes ,8.96 Score
Call Girls- Are they worth it?   10/9/2004

I want the men opinion on calls girls. I am a naught girl myself and the way i see it is a lot cheaper way to go for a sure thing. I did the exotic dance thing and at the end of the night a guy would have spent several hundered dollars on beer and lap dances just to maybe see and smell some pussy (and maybe sneek a touch in). Or you go into a bar and try all the best lines and still come up with ...


6 Comments, 92 Views, 63 Votes ,6.66 Score
is there a sex addicts help centre???   10/4/2004

Is there such a thing as too much sex? To me, No there is never enough. When do you know you have a problem? Is it when u lay in bed half the day naked writhing in pleasure? Or on your knees with a hot cock in your mouth in the middle of the kitchen, dark roads, cars and anywhere u can get it? Sex is my life… it’s all-good but never enough. Anyone have any ideas? Like 2 ...


2 Comments, 44 Views, 29 Votes ,5.25 Score
NitroX1969 54 C
3  Articles
Why even bother?   10/3/2004

Hey, whats up everyone? I had my first AdultFriendFinder date last night. Just to let you know, I was chatting and getting to know this person through this site and by phone and through web cam. She definatly knew what I looked like at every angle possable so my question is to you all is why did this person set something up with me just to come over and back out of it. First of all, why go half way when ...


0 Comments, 69 Views, 34 Votes ,6.30 Score
p_proteus2003 44 M
8  Articles
One in the Hand is worth Two in the bush   9/28/2004

There are many ways to make dating safe and fun. I find that when I meet a person from this site for the first time it is always wise to wear a helmet. I am not talking about a condom here. I am talking about a full motorcycle helmet with face shield. This sets the tone for the evening and shows your perspective date that you are a responsible adult. Secondly, always wear a protective cup. ...


1 Comments, 82 Views, 22 Votes ,0.12 Score
rm_forty870 57 C
7  Articles
Apples.   9/17/2004

When dating be very careful, because a old lady told me one time, "The apple don't fall far from the tree.", so what I'm trying to say check out there tree before you let them under your tree.


0 Comments, 16 Views, 48 Votes ,4.69 Score
hornynychick79 44 F
1  Article
couple more tips   9/9/2004

I meet guys from AdultFriendFinder for sex frequently. While not completely foolproof, the risk is lessened. <br> My number one rule, completely unbreakable, is that the person MUSt give me his first and last name AND a phone number, which I call. It's not foolproof, but one thing I pay attention to is how he REACTS to the request. Guys that get pissy or angry make me wonder why they dont ...


0 Comments, 62 Views, 69 Votes ,9.04 Score
rm_ambush_xx 38 M
6  Articles
is oral sex safe   9/8/2004

We know we're supposed to use a condom for vaginal or anal sex with non-monogamous partners, but is it really necessary to use protection when giving or receiving oral sex? In a word, YES! <br> Bacterium and viruses that cause a host of nasty diseases -- HPV, HIV and Hepatitis, to name a few -- can easily move from fluid to fluid. When the saliva in your mouth comes in contact ...


0 Comments, 46 Views, 92 Votes ,8.48 Score
Re: Be safe   9/6/2004

I agree with the author of the previous entry. <br> As with meeting anyone on the Internet, safety comes first. Once you established phone contact and agree on an initial meeting place, it should be a place that is in a public setting (i.e., restaurant, mall, etc.). You tend to feel a person out in a relaxed setting like simply having lunch. If things don’t work out, ...


0 Comments, 24 Views, 37 Votes ,8.57 Score
wvfexpcpl 53 C
0  Articles
Beware obssession   9/5/2004

Recently my Girl recived a call from a guy who is just a freinds, since we have only been serious for the past 3 months, he thought she was his girlfriend. He sat outside her house while I was with her at my place, and called all night long. she had to end the relationship. The key to this is to make sure set boundaries are there. I myself had a obssessed coworker cause me trouble and got ...


0 Comments, 51 Views, 108 Votes ,5.95 Score
RebeccaAnn 44 F
1  Article
Be safe   8/30/2004

Ladies ( and men as well) <br> Just a tip that most would think is silly but here goes. When ever you decided to take it to the next level and meet in person, someone that you have met online here or any other site. ... always meet in a public place!! Trust your insticts..if something does not feel right , than it praobly isn't. Watch your drinks carefully if you are in a bar ...


2 Comments, 284 Views, 92 Votes ,8.52 Score
rm_gdbhandy 55 M
1  Article
get a pic   8/24/2004

I have found that when dating through AdultFriendFinder it is wise to get a picture of the person. I have found that the people that are not willing to send you a picture even after several chats have something to hide. The something that they are trying to hide varies but it hardly is ever good. <br> I have had a wonderful experience using AdultFriendFinder but would caution you if you ...


0 Comments, 21 Views, 76 Votes ,7.87 Score
Married, , wonderful husband but still looking   8/23/2004

I am married, with a wonderful husband, who does everything for me, he will even kiss the ground where I walk on, but when it comes to sex, he always reached climax before I can even get geared up. And then he is done, go to sleep and not even bothering how I feel. If this happens once or twice fine, but not all the time. He does not communicate with me much, talks more to the than to me, ...


0 Comments, 60 Views, 104 Votes ,8.42 Score
Watch the computer meetings   8/10/2004

Especially ladies remember, you have no idea who you are meeting by just talking on the computer, sending pics , talking on the phone etc. A person could totally misrepresent themselves to you and you would never knoe nti lthe last minute when you actually meet, so be careful and when you do meet make for sure that you have someone you trust watching around you when you meet , and never ...


0 Comments, 12 Views, 113 Votes ,8.73 Score
First Date Safety   8/10/2004

I think a very safe way to meet someone from this site (there could be some weirdos out there, afterall), is to meet in a very public setting. A restaurant, coffee shop, or even a park during the day are stellar places to get to know one another, while ensuring that you're not going over to some psycho's place blindly.


0 Comments, 7 Views, 90 Votes ,8.68 Score
rm_ericlatonya 49 C
3  Articles
meeting   8/7/2004

okay people, i know a single girl and she likes to meet guys on the internet but they all seem to be thugs or want to to be hard up men. She has had some nice guys but she always rejuects them. Why is it that alot of big women will go and search for a one night stand around the world for a probably not even an hour of fun that you are not going to see again. To me this is not safe but ...


0 Comments, 21 Views, 26 Votes ,6.80 Score
The 10 Best Places   8/6/2004

I know, I know - You work really long hours and you aren’t spending your Sunday mornings in church, right? You wouldn’t be caught dead at a single’s event, and you know you can’t meet anyone decent at a bar. Luckily now you have this list to refer to when you’ve run out of ideas. <br> <br> Classes/ workshops On the job Bookstores/Coffeehouses Friends ...


0 Comments, 31 Views, 143 Votes ,6.35 Score
The 10 Worst Places not to Meet   8/6/2004

Strip bars Traffic court The Waiting Room at the Experimental Hemorrhoid Clinic Prison socials A Convent IRS Audit First day in Rehab Baby department at K-mart on a Sunday The Graceland gift shop, at the special edition Elvis decanters sale table A ‘Free Charles Manson’ Rally


0 Comments, 18 Views, 86 Votes ,6.05 Score
Why are games being played on the site?   8/3/2004

Hello Ladies and Gentlemen! I have encountered in my short time being on AdultFriendFinder lies and deceit. Being on the site not yet a week. I have come across the most deceitful person I could imagine. If you have had any dealing with a b/m, 62yoa, 6'1, average built, living in Huntsville, AL, gold membership, please let me know. This person has let others view his site and this person had emailed ...


0 Comments, 49 Views, 57 Votes ,8.97 Score
How do you meet people in public??   7/24/2004

You meet people in public everyday, at the grocery store, gas station, club, restaurant, etc. Obviously, you're not meeting all of these people for dating but what if you were? How would you react? Do you have a back up plan, a safety net, do you give them your phone # or address if you're interested in them? Do you talk for a while? Do you follow your instincts? Meeting people from the ...


0 Comments, 18 Views, 75 Votes ,8.21 Score
aquamarine99 44 M
2  Articles
Telephone info   7/17/2004

When is it safe to give out your telephone info once you have met someone on the net


0 Comments, 20 Views, 52 Votes ,0.44 Score
rm_Syndein1 53 M
4  Articles
Have Fun, But Be Safe   7/16/2004

With the modern technology we all love to use these days, you are more likely to meet a person initially online rather than in person. Being on a site like this, I don't have to tell you about all the fun it can be to meet someone online, but you should not jump in fully trusting just because you enjoy talking to someone. Here are some things to think about when conversing with someone ...


0 Comments, 10 Views, 53 Votes ,7.95 Score
some simple rules   7/15/2004

I have always found that talking with the person for several days to a week or so on messenger or something of the like can help. Ask questions and have them ask you questions, you can ask the question a couple different times in different conversations and see if they add up. I will also talk to them through webcam, just to see if they are who they say they are so when the meeting comes ...


0 Comments, 16 Views, 57 Votes ,8.07 Score
Mandyxx9 63 F
3  Articles
Be sure to be safe   7/14/2004

If your a woman who is looking to meet another woman make sure you meet in a busy place and dont give out any home telephone number of address. <br> On AdultFriendFinder men disguise themselves as women and turn up to meet you. Its very disappointing and a bit of a shock and you spend ages trying to get rid of them.


0 Comments, 68 Views, 10 Votes ,5.58 Score
Security   7/9/2004

Before a meeting, always find out as much as possible about the person beforehand, relay the info to a friend, let a friend know when, where, and how long you plan to meet with the individual, if you end up elsewhere, call and leave a message to let the friend know where and also to give descriptions etc. Always safe than sorry especially with all the crazies that are lurking about.


0 Comments, 7 Views, 30 Votes ,8.44 Score
Please have a back up plan when meeting   6/30/2004

In addition to meeting at a public place (a bookstore that serves coffee/tea/latte is a good idea) and telling someone you trust where you will be and when you should be expected home, have this friend telephone you on your cellular phone at an appointed time. Agree on a code word so he/she will know everything is all right. Another word so he/she will know to call back in half an hour ...


0 Comments, 33 Views, 74 Votes ,8.70 Score
rm_michael9712 69 M
2  Articles
Nigeria Scams   6/25/2004

i answered a few personal ads. Someone instant messaged me. she wanted me to receive items and send them to charities in Nigeria. I gave my home address. i received some packages but figured that they were purchased with stolen credit cards. The bottom line is it best not to communicate with anyone in Nigeria.


0 Comments, 24 Views, 39 Votes ,7.23 Score
rm_two4fun1962 51 F
115  Articles
Re: Safety questions: getting to know them and discretion?   6/22/2004

You can give people info about yourself, just be careful of what you do tell them. For example, do not tell someone your address, also the people I have met have NO clue what my last name is. As for those that need to be discreet, I have met 1, we met at a local restaurant in my city for lunch. Most people who need to be discreet will not meet within their own city.


0 Comments, 20 Views, 43 Votes ,7.17 Score
Re: PLEASE HAVE A BACK UP PLAN WHEN MEETING   6/20/2004

I read the article and was horrified that some of my female friends have been lucky enough not to come across such an encounter. Some have been too trusting with a first meeting at the places they went to. After reading this article I fully understand why 1 of my contacts insists on viewing a web cam. Ladies, if you have not read this article posted on 5/10/04, please do so. I thank the ...


0 Comments, 12 Views, 36 Votes ,8.59 Score
Re: Safety questions: getting to know them and discretion?   6/20/2004

33Mychael hopefully I can give a decent answer to your questions. Getting to know someone doesn't involve giving out personal information like home address. Focusing on interests and type of personality is usually a safe way to keep personal information out of a conversation. Don't give names of places you hang out at and keep specifics out of the conversation when chatting or ...


0 Comments, 11 Views, 21 Votes ,6.22 Score
Be Ready!   6/15/2004

Do you know your plans. Be sure U do. <br> Fighting is close to dating, ..If you know what sex is, your gonna have a hard time saying "No, I know what I'm after." So give me what I want or I'm Outtie." <br> Don't do whats not on your mind!


0 Comments, 14 Views, 22 Votes ,5.41 Score
A stalker   6/9/2004

Ladies, <br> Ever come across a man who refused to take "NO" for an answer? I have. As a matter of fact, I came across a man in chat, upper midwest room, while talking to my buddies. This man was ordering me to talk about "sex" (just with him) what I liked, what I wanted so on and so on. During this badgering session, he constantly reminded me that AdultFriendFinder was a sex site, and ...


0 Comments, 21 Views, 92 Votes ,9.01 Score
playfulpets4us 55 C
2  Articles
Safety & Porn   5/31/2004

I find it distressing that viturally none of the major porn film studios insist on their actors wearing condoms. Only one or two studios make it mandatory. Sheesh...Would a contruction worker show up at the site without his hardhat?? The reason most studios refuse to have their actors wear condoms is because "gonzo" sex sells much better in the international market than safe and ...


0 Comments, 29 Views, 83 Votes ,8.06 Score
onlyhuman84 36 M
0  Articles
Remember : BE CAREFUL   5/20/2004

One of the sad truths of this world is that there ARE people out there who would delight in causing harm to their fellow man. Fortunately there are ways to protect yourself. When meeting someone for the first time, always make sure to meet on neutral ground, like a restaurant or cafe. Also, if you hit off with the person, don't rush off to the nearest hotel room, especially one of your ...


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hi   5/20/2004

SERIOUS INQUIRES ONLY 23 YEAR OLD FEMALE FUN AND ENTERGETIC (HAVE A HARD TIME FINDING SOMEONE TO KEEP UP. UP TO THE CHALLENGE?) BROWN HAIR AND GREEN EYES GOOD LOOKING not looking for a relationship just sex nothing but sex all day long if interested let me know <br> Looking For: Men for Erotic Chat or Email, 1-on-1 sex, Discreet Relationship or Misc. Fetishes ...


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Be SAFE when meeting a one nighter!   5/19/2004

If you are planning on meetine someone you dont know or have just met on the internet, some good saftey tips: <br> 1. Leave your plans with a trusted friend. Even if you do not want to go into details, just tell SOMEONE where you are going and the time you expect to be back. <br> 2. Charge your cell phone! <br> 3. Bring along a good # if you need a ride or ...


0 Comments, 41 Views, 114 Votes ,9.51 Score
I did the stupidest thing   5/18/2004

I had a few e mail exchanges that went well. I planned a trip to visit my new buddy. We talked on the net about the possibility that we might or might not like each other and discussed what might happen if we didnt. The conclusion was- we would enjoy each others company anyway. Well, I totally wasnt attracted to the guy. And he really put on the moves. He even tried to make me feel guilty ...


0 Comments, 38 Views, 128 Votes ,9.23 Score
basic security   5/16/2004

the internet is a wonderful place to meet people for some very wonderful experiences. however, until you have met that person in a public place, it is a good idea to keep your information to yourself there are many sites that, with a person's full name and date of birth, you can get their address, telephone number, and sometimes for a fee a LOT more information. some of them not ...


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scammers   5/10/2004

never give any personal info online. too many scammers out there trying to get over on you.


0 Comments, 4 Views, 31 Votes ,5.83 Score
i want to meet a real woman want sex   5/7/2004

my user name is my mobiel nomber i love to fuck lovely woman and need to loved i want any kind of age my user name is my mobiel nomber i love to fuck lovely woman and need to loved i want any kind of age white or black just lovely woman white or black just lovely my user name is my mobiel nomber i love to fuck lovely woman and need to loved i want any kind of age white or black just ...


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Being safe is easier than being lucky   5/2/2004

Sexual predators are not a far-removed threat. They are real, and you must not even dare think that it'll 'happen to someone else'. Chances are, one day you could be 'someone else'. Men are not excluded from this, heterosexual or homosexual. Everyone should be careful. Some of the things you can do to protect yourself are: <br> 1. Tell one or more friends where you're going to be ...


0 Comments, 18 Views, 47 Votes ,8.17 Score
Re: Happliy married...   4/28/2004

There is a difference between thinking and doing. Most of our fantasies should remain fantasies. The taboo is much more of a turn on when it is taboo rather than reality. God knows, happliy married means completely bored sex wise. Being with the same person for years can do that to a person. If you need to think of someone else to orgasm, don't feel bad, everyone does. Look up the Coolidge ...


0 Comments, 17 Views, 39 Votes ,5.84 Score
gretretr ghtegtegt ntegrttrtrt   4/27/2004

OK, so you're ready to add an article, quiz, or other text that you feel that our members would love to read - all you need to do is fill out this form. We suggest that you first write the article in your favorite text editor (e.g., Word) and then use "cut and paste" to copy your article in the proper field below. Note: your article must be yours - submitting copyrighted information will ...


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Tip for girls   4/21/2004

Never turn your eyes away from your drink, or else some guy may pop in roofies ( drug). Beware, it's more common than you may think.


0 Comments, 10 Views, 43 Votes ,6.86 Score
sevenlong2000 50 M
4  Articles
Choose your partner wisely   4/21/2004

To date safely, choose your partner wisely. Enusre you know some of his/her background before getting laid. Lastly use condom.


0 Comments, 5 Views, 47 Votes ,7.32 Score
Safe sex or no sex   4/21/2004

This is something that can't be said enough. Maybe if enough people say it, it'll sink in.


0 Comments, 30 Views, 30 Votes ,7.36 Score
Falcon40 40 M
9  Articles
Meeting for the first time   4/20/2004

If you are to meet on your first date for the first time; you should meet in a public place where there is lots of people around. Safety in numbers. I wouldnt go to someones place or them come to my place unless i got to know them better on here or on the phone.


0 Comments, 4 Views, 33 Votes ,6.45 Score
Re: Just say no to fat chicks   4/10/2004

First of all the "average" woman is about 10 pounds over weight, not a model or movie star. Most women 35 and above have hips and many a belly. (ever seen a skinny belly dancer??) Most of all, they have experience, sensuality and know how to please a man. You have no idea what you are missing!!


0 Comments, 24 Views, 85 Votes ,7.90 Score
Woman for couple!   4/7/2004

How and where do you bisexual women like to meet with a couple that is interested in being with you after an initial contact?


0 Comments, 3 Views, 21 Votes ,4.49 Score
rm_funwithfems 56 F
7  Articles
drinking   4/3/2004

Haveing spoken with several people who have had some less than desirable experiences, I have the following advice. Women: do not drink any alcohol on a first date. Too much and who knows what can happen, but even a little can easily bring you to a compromising situation.


1 Comments, 30 Views, 31 Votes ,6.02 Score
rm_funwithfems 56 F
7  Articles
RE: How do you know?   3/21/2004

There really is no way to know who the person you are about to meet really is. Many people are married for a several years before they learn who they are married to or what their spouce's personality is like. The key is to think, be smart, and question everything. If you still feel comfortable at that point, then go for it.


1 Comments, 58 Views, 37 Votes ,8.23 Score
RE:Just SAY NO to Fat Chicks   3/13/2004

In reguards to this article........ I feel sorry for any man that feels that a woman that weighs 165 or more is "FAT" and undesireable. You have NO idea what that woman's personality is like and won't because you are so shallow! Your LOSS! and probably her gain....... to NOT put up with YOU!


2 Comments, 51 Views, 89 Votes ,8.47 Score
URfantasyfilled 45 M
8  Articles
Know who you are dealing with   3/6/2004

This is just a reminder to all out there meeting for the first time. It is a crazy world out there, and I hope all of you are taking the right precautions when meeting. My suggestion is to meet in a public place have coffee, or a drink ect.ect. and make sure the person(s) you are seeing for the first time are what you are expecting. If not all you have to do is say "thank you but, this is ...


0 Comments, 14 Views, 41 Votes ,8.18 Score
rm_alrhem 35 M
1  Article
...   3/5/2004

Recent problems with regards to ... <br> Recently there are drugs being used in conjunction with rohypnol... a little sterilizer tablet used for horses and other large animals. The problem with this is that not only is there a , but also the sterilizer portion of the tablet not only stops the chances of pregnancy from the , but chances of ever becoming pregnant become incredibly ...


0 Comments, 80 Views, 79 Votes ,9.15 Score
How safe is this really?   2/29/2004

I have found guys I want to meet and have sex with. The problem is that I don't want to go to their place, they could have the place booby traped or something and be an ax murderer. I'm not bringing them to my home so they can kill me there or find out where I live and stalk me. I can't afford a hotel that would be the safest thing to do. So I guess my question is how many of out there ...


0 Comments, 14 Views, 70 Votes ,8.31 Score
Dating Sex Offender's   2/26/2004

Has anyone on here every met someone, fell in love and later finds out he is on the sex offender's list. <br> There are so really bad sickening perverts out in the world, some may even been on this site. I think there should be more restrictions for porn related sites, to keep from finding them. Should be a universal link/site to go to with all porn. Then parents could block ...


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How do you know?   2/25/2004

How do you know the people your meeting are not some crazy nut case? Has anyone got any good Ideas about what questions to ask or things you should do?


0 Comments, 14 Views, 21 Votes ,5.72 Score
good to meet in a public place   2/3/2004

for those who like to meet... it's nice to meet a nice open place. <br> not just for the obvious reason of safety but also like if you're compabible, mannerism and attractiviness <br> heck I find just have fun


0 Comments, 5 Views, 80 Votes ,8.42 Score
rm_Cryderman 41 M
18  Articles
what to do   1/20/2004

i always try ot say nice things but for some reasont they alway come out bad and wrong, it is getting me in alot of trouble


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WALK THE WALK   1/19/2004

If you are on AdultFriendFinder to find something that interests you, then you must be willing to take that final step and meet with the person. No head games. We are all in the same boat searching.


0 Comments, 5 Views, 23 Votes ,6.98 Score
rm_hotlips710 52 C
5  Articles
re who are we meeting   1/14/2004

re who are we meeting? now that sometimes is the question, we went to meet someone who we met on AdultFriendFinder, we were looking forward to meeting them after all the chats and photo swapping we had done. the big day came and we set off to meet our friend at the train station both a little excited, when we arrived this complete stranger walked over to us and said hello he must have been at least ...


0 Comments, 32 Views, 79 Votes ,9.01 Score
'STOP, THINK and NEVER LOOSE CONTROL   1/14/2004

This article is for other straight females, it is a must read. <br> My personal experience: <br> I met a man on AdultFriendFinder this last summer. One would think this "thing" we had going was the work of an angel. Everything wasnt perfect, but it was really good, I, like he, well lets just say, we were in heaven. We wrote eachother for months, then we spoke on the phone, then ...


0 Comments, 28 Views, 99 Votes ,9.61 Score
three may be a crowd   1/8/2004

the problem i have is my girl is willing to have a threesome but wont engage in trying to get another girl involved so i'm stuck not knowing if shes really into it or not . this makes me feel like i'm doing something bad but it's understood between us why for kicks only . i dont want to leave her , or just screw someone down the street . so i guess i'm stuck till it falls in our laps.


0 Comments, 14 Views, 42 Votes ,7.01 Score
Self Defense   1/2/2004

When you feel the need to defend yourself, here's a sure-fire method: <br> poke them in the throat (windpipe)...that will drop anyone, regardless of their size


0 Comments, 2 Views, 23 Votes ,5.70 Score
touchme83 58 F
1  Article
Can Online Dating Be Safe?   12/30/2003

Has anyone met that person online who they thought would be the one for them. Let me say that meeting anyone new anywhere will always have risks. I have met a few people online myself. To me it's better then meeting them in person to an extent. The reason I say this is because you have the opportunity to feel them out. Even though you don't have them in front of you physically doesn't mean ...


1 Comments, 69 Views, 46 Votes ,8.11 Score
goldenthrob69 38 M
0  Articles
Internet Dating Filters   12/28/2003

INTERNET RELATIONSHIPS ADVICE Before the first date! <br> 1. Get an anonymous e-mail account. NEVER post your real name anywhere online. Remove it from chat programs, and any email accounts that you use for recreational correspondence. <br> 2. Take your time! Nothing will give you better prospective than time! Have your date's habits, mood or language ...


0 Comments, 56 Views, 73 Votes ,7.87 Score
HIV and Porno   12/17/2003

Everyone out there who uses this site should be fully aware of how much HIV/AIDS is going to kick your ass. I am a professional 3D animator and I had the joy of modeling/animating the virus for broadcast television. Quite frankly, I was very impressed with the virus. It's a machine, and must be respected in nature...you wouldn't walk into a Lava Flow would you? The problem is that the ...


0 Comments, 10 Views, 105 Votes ,9.00 Score
lynn299 56 F
3  Articles
me and my girlfriend   12/13/2003

i was about 23 yrs old and me and my girlfriend got kind of drunk. she started to kiss me and ii kissed her back and then she took off her shirt. me being a girl asked her what she was thinking.she said i have always wondered what you would taste like so i told her to find out.but i was just joking but she wasnt.she took my things slowly and was kissing me the whole time.she kissed my ...


0 Comments, 49 Views, 45 Votes ,6.74 Score
Is it just me or what is up with...   12/8/2003

Every article I have read usually end up with the man cumming in the women. Besides diseases, doesn't anyone worry about pregnancy? I am fixed but I am still amazed...


0 Comments, 4 Views, 61 Votes ,7.67 Score
oral stimulation   12/4/2003

Ok everyone, hopefully someone knows the answer to this one, being that i'm new to all of this, I lack the proper factual info. Question: Can you contract a sexually transmitted disease from giving or recieving oral sex with a woman, if so, what exactally is the definations? THANKS!!


2 Comments, 55 Views, 124 Votes ,7.49 Score
1stTimeWithMan 54 M
3  Articles
Re: Always   11/28/2003

Just wanted to add that wearing 2 condoms is a very bad thing to do. It drastically raises the chances of breakage. Always wear one, but don't ever put 2 on at the same time.


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Why is everyone so damned scared?   11/24/2003

My god people! Learn how to size someone up prior to meeting in person. Look for signs of deceit, evil, bad intentions. I have rules and if they choose not to cooperate and do as I ask then game over! BEFORE I EVER MEET IN PERSON! Now if a psycho slips through the cracks , be prepared! Get over the damn little scarries and get aware and in tune with what the hell IS going on! If you have ...


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tips   11/19/2003

If person is unknown meet in a public place, never in private. <br> Never do anything your not comfortable with. <br> Talk to this person as much as possible before agreeing on anything. <br> <br> Always be prepared incase your date forgets to pay the bill and you get stuck with it. <br> Going to a movie is a classic first date scenario.


0 Comments, 1 Views, 54 Votes ,5.67 Score
"no expectations" means EXPECTITANYWAYS   11/8/2003

Well, let me just start out by saying I have been on here almost 3 monts now and I have only met two men from here...both in which were very good looking and nice. But there was something about the one guy.....we talked for over two and a half weeks online, and he would beg me to meet him...well I told him to not "expect" anything and he told me he didn't, so I finally did! I thought he ...


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Always   11/7/2003

The most important dating tip that I can think of is to always where a condom - always, sometimes 2 dependingon the "lady" you're with. Another saftey tip, it helps if you're both drunk. That way, niether can be blamed or scared of the other....make sense, I didn't think so. Just remember to always keep your gaurd up.


0 Comments, 14 Views, 52 Votes ,7.38 Score
rm_sexyhuge 47 M
4  Articles
Sexy Young Married Tenants   10/31/2003

The Tenants This is a completely true story that began about mid July 2003 it is now October 8, 2003. I am relatively well off financially and am now 57 years old although I really pass for 47 easily. The tenants in this story rented one of my rent houses in January of 2003. They are a married couple of a little over two and a half years. Jill is 25, 5’5, 138 pounds with beautiful ...


2 Comments, 354 Views, 31 Votes ,4.39 Score
OH REALLLLLLLLLY!!!   10/28/2003

Seems if AdultFriendFinder is sooooo concerned about the safety of others they would not allow the blocking of standard members to view the basic profiles of potentials!!!!! Replying 'blind' to others is bullshit! If we dont have a clue of who the hell they are or ANYTHING for that matter where is the safety there?????


0 Comments, 18 Views, 43 Votes ,8.60 Score
picking the right spot for the first meeting   10/15/2003

This is just a little advice for people like I was a few months ago, when you meet someone for the first time you need to do it in a public place. This is first and foremost to protect yourself from who knows what and also it is not as nerve racking to meet in public rather than in a private place, the first meeting should probably be for lunch, that way if things aren't going well you can ...


0 Comments, 24 Views, 131 Votes ,8.42 Score
rm_sexyhuge 47 M
4  Articles
Another's Wife Fucking   10/15/2003

I have been on the internet for many years. Talking to people online in chat rooms, message boards and E-mails. I talked to single women and couples, meeting them for sex. One day I talked to a guy who had a fantasy of seeing his wife fuck another man but she was not to keen on the subject. We met in a bar and he asked me how can he get her interested into fucking another man. The first ...


0 Comments, 172 Views, 297 Votes ,8.14 Score
bobbywp123 58 M
1  Article
Gay is Gay   10/1/2003

I get very upset when i hear about a woman who contracted AIDS from her male lover whom she didn't know was bi/gay. Let's be serious folks, gay is gay. There is no in the middle. If you are gay/bi, be honest with your partners so they can decide if they want to take that chance. In this man's opinion, there is no such thing as a straight or bi male who likes other males. Your butt is ...


0 Comments, 53 Views, 132 Votes ,0.96 Score
How to be safe if you need discreetion?   9/30/2003

I saw many articles about taking references, letting someone know where you are, etc. But what if you need discretion, like if you are married and don't want anyone to know what you are doing, so you try to find someone over the internet. How to be safe there?


0 Comments, 23 Views, 110 Votes ,2.33 Score
rm_lgliang 41 M
9  Articles
Be cautious on your first meet.   9/26/2003

... After you've spent months communicating with that 'perfect' guy on the other side of the internet cable, you decide to arrange for a first meet up, but are you sure you're gonna be safe? <br> ... A lot of times you hear in the news about date and such related crimes, but you can plan and prepare some preventive measures in case the person you want to meet is another media ...


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Re: safety first   9/20/2003

Just wanted to add something. Always have a saftey person. Someone you can trust completely. They also come in handy as your albi person. lol Send any and pertinant e-mails to them for safe keeping. Always meet for the first time in a very public place. Follow your instincts. If something doesn't feel right, just leave. This goes for the guys as well as the girls. I'm from a very small ...


0 Comments, 7 Views, 96 Votes ,8.25 Score