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sexaddictdon 67 M
31  Articles
COVID 19 - Sex and Dating in the time of a pandemic   1/16/2023

Perhaps it is my age, perhaps it is just common sense or as a few friends have said maybe it's stupidity. Turning down several sex partners over the last 8 or so weeks has had a strange impact on me (and my relationship with potential partners). Finding myself isolated and playing here online, the opportunity to fuck (suck and cuddle for 1 woman in particular) has presented itself ...

2 Comments, 50 Views, 2 Votes ,1.04 Score
G000dbuddy 36 M
23  Articles
Dating a control freak   9/3/2022

It starts innocently enough. At first you may be flattered and think that the first signs of control in your relationship are cute. Think again. Many women have had their lives turned upside down by a controlling man. Some women have had to escape their situations with nothing but the clothes on their backs. Never ignore signs of control in a relationship. To do so can be one of the most ...

2 Comments, 4 Views, 1 Votes ,5.00 Score
rm_sexyinblu4u 57 C
8  Articles

Would you agree to have sex with another couple at their house if their were there in bed sleeping?

7 Comments, 110 Views, 18 Votes ,4.08 Score
Stranger Danger Warning Signs   6/23/2021

Unfortunately there is a very small percentage of people using chat rooms, personal ads, and instant message sites to prey upon innocent victims. Below are some tips to help you recognize or determine warning signs that someone may be a danger to you.

Sending you or posting obviously false pictures that they claim to be them. These are pictures that you obviously can tell were taken by ...

6 Comments, 200 Views, 16 Votes ,6.95 Score
trust   6/19/2021

WOW We learnd the hard way in trusting this site. Or the people that we had met. I know it is our responsability to get to know the people. So we did. We had an encounter with them. and then it was dinner and a movie. They seemed to be realy trusting, Aperantly NOT. Some how the guy had talked to our and told her everything that had went on the night. I confronted the guy and so did my ...

2 Comments, 346 Views, 12 Votes ,3.51 Score
rm_shemaleVIDA 60 F
14  Articles
Characteristics of a Psychopath   6/19/2021

Symptoms and Signals: A psychopath will use people for excitement, to build their self-esteem and they invariably value people in terms of their material value (money, property, comfort, etc..). To date there is a checklist of behavior and symptoms that will tell you with certainty is a person is a psychopath. These are warning signs. <br> Characteristics of a Psychopath: ...

1 Comments, 199 Views, 48 Votes ,5.93 Score
happycouple973 49 C
95  Articles
Anal - A guide jow to keep it clean!!!   6/18/2021

Anal Sex. Also known as Sodomy, Greek love, Buggery, Booty sex, Backdoor loving, Dicking the derriere, Banging the bung hole, Reaming the rump, Probing the poop chute, Touring the Hershey highway, the rectum, Packing the fudge, Traveling the old dirt road, Tossing the salad (don’t ask) and plain old Butt fucking. Why the Fascination with Anal Stimulation? ...

3 Comments, 986 Views, 45 Votes ,8.41 Score
SensualFriend4us 68 C
38  Articles

If you are just starting down that road to getting to know someone, might be advisable to give them your cell phone number, instead of your home phone number. <br> With the click of a few buttons on the internet, it becomes very easy for someone to do a reverse number look up on a phone directory site, and know your home address. <br> Just something to think about in ...

4 Comments, 152 Views, 35 Votes ,4.91 Score
Be careful out there   6/10/2021

Most of you heard about the crazy who made a face ad on craigslist for a nanny and killed the young girl when she arrived. That my friend is the world we live in, there are tons of normal people and a mixed into the general population are the wolves.

So a few tips. Tell a friend where you are going. Write a note. If you want to get technical, use outlook and send an email (to be ...

1 Comments, 83 Views, 6 Votes ,4.50 Score
IL ladies, watch out for this one!!!   6/9/2021

Just wanted to warn you about "moose0930" here in N Illinois. I met up with him a couple weeks ago and he is NOTHING like the person he portrays himself to be online.

We'd chatted over several days and many hours, and he seemed decent, down-to-earth, and normal.

But, when I stupidly agreed to meet with him, he was VERY physically aggressive despite me telling him he was hurting ...

3 Comments, 446 Views, 11 Votes ,2.42 Score
hot date   1/6/2021

The first thing that you need to do is to treat her right. Mabe take her out for dinner. But better yet invite her over to your place, and cook her a great meal, have dessert . you will get alot father when she is a good mood and her tummy is full. then from there just see what happens!

2 Comments, 15 Views, 2 Votes ,1.73 Score
Biggirll510 61 F
0  Articles
I try to avoid confrontation but...   12/11/2020

I had been chatting online back and forth for a couple days with this guy. He questioned whether my account was real or not. I asked him how did he want me to prove that I am who I say I am. He said a private video. I have never webcammed before, I tried using the webcam feature here but it wouldnt let me go private. Then he suggests to chat on facetime, but I dont have a smart phone that has ...

7 Comments, 105 Views, 6 Votes ,3.65 Score
Keeping safe   11/9/2020

I personally don’t give out any of my “real information” until I’ve met the person face to face. No or my real name. I’m more than happy telling someone at the onset that I don’t uE my real name until we actually meet. Just too many crazy people.

3 Comments, 54 Views, 24 Votes ,2.79 Score
jasontarheel 38 M
2  Articles
“veryhotblonde197” is catfishing!!! Beware! What else can I do...?   9/7/2020

First off, BEWARE of “veryhotblond197”! They are catfishing! Second, what else can I do? I’ve reported the twice now and they are still active on here...? Third, the very embarrassing interaction! I started talking to the “person” on here, traded pictures, and then started talking on WhatsApp, and even had a phone or two. There was a lot of sexual dirty talk in the messaging, what we ...

1 Comments, 38 Views, 1 Votes ,5.00 Score
Grewpetty 57 M
9  Articles
Dating during Corona   6/10/2020

For most people, I assume that the current situation with social distancing etc. has had a big impact on activities here. Anyone have a story to share about that?

5 Comments, 48 Views, 2 Votes ,3.12 Score
......corona virus ??   6/4/2020

I want to say that yes I understand this is a serious threat to all of us. <br><br> but I think the media is over doing it to sensationalize it like they do everything else. <br><br> when they have no foundation to attack a conservative they attack the public by trying to scare the hell out of us. you know that whole thing about controling the masses by fear mongering ...

4 Comments, 24 Views, 3 Votes ,0.98 Score
Thizzlerontheroo 32 M
2  Articles
More   3/28/2020

Who cheats more

3 Comments, 23 Views, 7 Votes ,3.04 Score
tripod2014 52 M
15  Articles
Always...   2/12/2020

Meet in public first...then have fun Never Pressure.... Always keep it wrapped. Have fun!

1 Comments, 18 Views, 3 Votes ,1.96 Score
Fake profiles   2/3/2020

There has been an increase of fake profiles lately . Some are no brainer on how fake they are. They state how much they want to find true love and happiness. Some seem normal for this site and even go as far to pay for a gold membership. If they ask for email/phone right away is also a sign. I know they prey on men. I’m not sure if the women members are getting it on their end. Just be careful. ...

5 Comments, 73 Views, 16 Votes ,3.13 Score
Mrcapa7 39 M
3  Articles
Accidents happen   2/2/2020

Today I was fooling around with my wife. We were going at it doggie style hard when I accidentally pulled out and thrust right up her ass. Need less to say there were screams that only excited further. I finished on the next thurst while she tried desperately get away. It all happened so fast she couldn't get words out. When I was done she turned around and slapped which I grinned and ...

5 Comments, 63 Views, 9 Votes ,3.43 Score
safty first.   1/25/2020

I don't give out my real name until we first meet and I am upfront on that. I use a app on my phone that acts as a second phone tat even gives me a new Phone number that is only tied to a email account that I can login and out and check for messages/texts that I had missed when I was logged out of the app. When I do meet I always meet at a public place and talk over drinks and if things ...

2 Comments, 26 Views, 13 Votes ,2.30 Score
Lixxalotapus 54 M
1  Article
No pressure   1/20/2020

Men please understand that women are the creatures that we desire. Do not try to pressure or force them into a meeting that they are not comfortable with. Always have a safe place to meet first, then if it is right, work out something between the two of you that works for both. You will both enjoy yourselves more.

4 Comments, 45 Views, 16 Votes ,1.51 Score
Wayneb518518 42 M
5  Articles
Date safe   1/12/2020

Date the

5 Comments, 51 Views, 29 Votes ,1.94 Score
jay69kl 38 M
3  Articles
For Points and Many More   1/9/2020

This is an article to gain , feel free to vote!

7 Comments, 55 Views, 32 Votes ,3.71 Score
Contact info   1/6/2020

How long do you wait give out personal i fo?

8 Comments, 61 Views, 30 Votes ,2.46 Score
Any bad stories   12/28/2019

Anyone have any issues or crazy stories

1 Comments, 40 Views, 29 Votes ,2.34 Score
NickgNite 21 M
1  Article
Be safe   12/24/2019

Dont give personal info. Be safe out there

7 Comments, 62 Views, 38 Votes ,3.82 Score
Yankees2378 42 M
5  Articles
Date safe   12/18/2019

Date safe for points

4 Comments, 55 Views, 43 Votes ,3.08 Score
TattedH0tR0d8069 44 M
6  Articles
Blacks   12/17/2019

Bdjfkfofofof.fkvovovogofofororkf. cofofof..cckcofofodoepdld

2 Comments, 57 Views, 38 Votes ,1.33 Score
Johnybluu 44 M
8  Articles
Std   12/12/2019

This is pretty weird. I just wanna know. Is it OK to ask a woman to take 8STD test before you hook up with them. I know some of the tests are perfectly accurate and you have to wait some time after having sex for the test a relatively be correct. I just have this crazy phobia and I think I built it up in my own mind. The last couple of women that I've done together with I haven't hooked ...

12 Comments, 106 Views, 56 Votes ,2.98 Score
PittHotWife1 35 C
1  Article
Hotwives   12/8/2019

Solo or with husband present? If solo, how do couples ensure safety?

9 Comments, 108 Views, 60 Votes ,2.41 Score
Longstick983 42 M
4  Articles
When meeting someone for the first time   12/7/2019

When meeting someone for the first time what precautions do you guys and gals take to ensure your safety?

4 Comments, 81 Views, 44 Votes ,3.09 Score
Points are good   12/6/2019

Having safe sex for points is the only way to live.

4 Comments, 44 Views, 36 Votes ,3.41 Score
Points points points   12/2/2019

Plz points

5 Comments, 31 Views, 21 Votes ,1.52 Score
Always be safe   12/1/2019

I need. Points can anyone help ?

2 Comments, 24 Views, 21 Votes ,1.39 Score
be safe boys   12/1/2019

some these girls crazy be careful there lads

1 Comments, 48 Views, 34 Votes ,2.34 Score
B00biesman 41 M
7  Articles
How do you date safely on here?   12/1/2019

Are you beat meeting up in a nuetral place like an hotel on first meeting?

2 Comments, 36 Views, 26 Votes ,2.27 Score
karen_mwf 35 F
2  Articles
Where to meet   11/30/2019

I know that it's a good idea to meet a stranger in public for the first time but where is the best place to meet. Just wanting to get opinions from those who have actually done it.

20 Comments, 154 Views, 53 Votes ,3.86 Score
Yankees51841 45 M
5  Articles
Dates   11/29/2019

Be safe for points

2 Comments, 50 Views, 37 Votes ,1.80 Score
Wayneb4151841 42 M
5  Articles
Safety   11/28/2019

Points are very safe

4 Comments, 35 Views, 26 Votes ,1.52 Score
shikarilauda 32 M
5  Articles
Safty on first   11/27/2019

dont share personal detail Dont give number too early Dont post identity dont post pics dont drink too much dont shy to wanna go trust on yourself if dont feel good leave the date.

1 Comments, 16 Views, 12 Votes ,2.09 Score
onebigpickle 40 M
5  Articles
Good place to meet someone   11/25/2019

What is your personal preference on places to meet someone for the first time?

3 Comments, 33 Views, 22 Votes ,0.60 Score
Alec89067 23 M
1  Article
Be safe   11/14/2019

Always meet in daylight for safety of both of you

1 Comments, 5 Views, 2 Votes ,1.04 Score
9Goodatbnbad6 56 M
6  Articles
Carry enough   11/14/2019

points, it will keep you safe!

1 Comments, 28 Views, 20 Votes ,1.21 Score
barecheaters 38 M
5  Articles
First time meeting locations   11/7/2019

Do you guys usually meet in public places first or go straight to the bedroom. In the past I have jumped straight to he sex. Can be nerve racking not knowing what your walking into.

3 Comments, 50 Views, 34 Votes ,2.70 Score
pjfriendly001 44 M
1  Article
How safe are you?   11/3/2019

Do you require any pre-activities to meeting up. Or do you show up expect everything to work out just right? <br><br> Phone call, video call etc? Exchange addresses licenseplates etc? Do you let others know who you are going to meet and where? to call in certain time frame to make sure you are okay?

6 Comments, 55 Views, 28 Votes ,1.80 Score
ltfwbxxx67 56 M
5  Articles
Id like to date safety   11/2/2019

having enough points..

1 Comments, 27 Views, 21 Votes ,3.37 Score
2nd amendment   11/1/2019

Is it considered safe sex if you're carrying at the time?

2 Comments, 25 Views, 17 Votes ,0.44 Score
ComeHangWithMe85 35 M
5  Articles
Avoiding Blackmailers/Extortionists   10/26/2019

Any tips for avoiding blackmailers or extortionists on sites like this? Encountered a few weeks back and she's still on the site sadly. Had change accounts avoid her. Reported her but nothing has been done. Trying figure the best way avoid a repeat. Thanks!

2 Comments, 43 Views, 28 Votes ,4.68 Score
short term flings   10/24/2019

keep it wrapped up! though I haven't always been so diligent, it really does make more sense. Also helps with not feeling anxious later if you ever question if she was clean

1 Comments, 39 Views, 30 Votes ,3.53 Score
duke982000 55 M
21  Articles
yes   10/24/2019

mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm yes ty

1 Comments, 33 Views, 20 Votes ,2.36 Score
Use a condom   10/23/2019

Condoms and internal condoms are the only methods of birth control that also help prevent the spread of sexually transmitted infections like HIV, chlamydia, and gonorrhea. Even if you’re already using a different kind of birth control to avoid pregnancy, it’s a good idea to also use condoms or internal condoms every time you have sex to protect yourself from STDs.

4 Comments, 35 Views, 24 Votes ,4.49 Score
Markr6428 60 M
7  Articles
common sense   10/18/2019

meet in public places until you figure out who the person is...have your own ride....never let your drink out of your sight....let other people know where you are and who you are supposedly meeting...make sure you have that friend who will come get you, any place, any time...and don't get too shit faced you can't make good decisions... oh, ladies, learn how to defend yourself....was a ...

2 Comments, 46 Views, 28 Votes ,3.34 Score
Bigdeemikeh2 36 M
9  Articles
IF you don't like dating   10/18/2019

live by the three F's. They go by: if it floats, flys, or fucks, rent it don't buy it.

1 Comments, 19 Views, 12 Votes ,1.39 Score
bostonfunguy35 41 M
5  Articles
anal sex   10/12/2019

I want to try anal sex, but think condoms will make it not fun. How do you find someone safe?

1 Comments, 2 Views, 1 Votes ,1.10 Score
Points galore   10/11/2019

Points galore

2 Comments, 18 Views, 13 Votes ,2.81 Score
Bjman0 46 M
5  Articles
It’s hard   10/10/2019

There really is no safe way to date anymore if you look how the courts have been ruling and the victims fault. These judges have made it to wear its will be allowed without consequences sad really no one is safe anymore

2 Comments, 23 Views, 15 Votes ,3.90 Score
HedonistSwitch87 36 M
5  Articles
Random points   10/5/2019

How many people would actually pay that ridiculous price for a shitty product?

1 Comments, 19 Views, 14 Votes ,4.58 Score
loveitrough113 40 M
3  Articles
Safe dating   9/30/2019

The only way to safely date is using common sense. Trust your gut when it comes to meeting people. I think "dating" is inherently safe, but meeting up for fucking isn't.

1 Comments, 5 Views, 4 Votes ,2.47 Score
bluemonkey12345 40 M
3  Articles
What do you do to be safe?   9/30/2019

I have only been with girls, but want to try with a guy, what do I need to do to be safe? If I get a blowjob without a condom, what can I get?

1 Comments, 42 Views, 24 Votes ,3.58 Score
Gotta be safe   9/29/2019

so please use points.. just sayin!

1 Comments, 3 Views, 2 Votes ,1.73 Score
How do you feel about using   9/27/2019

the kik app? I like it because you can get live pics and video for verification. Plus you funny have to hand out your number if unsure about the other party.

2 Comments, 20 Views, 16 Votes ,4.01 Score
9  Articles
Dinning at the Y   9/25/2019

With STD concerns what is the best method for a guy to pleasure a woman with his tongue? <br><br> Hmm without protection is best but high risk <br><br> Other option is stretch a condom over her pussy, high risk of it breaking or leaking along sides and tastes bad. <br><br> Can this be an interactive article?

6 Comments, 43 Views, 28 Votes ,3.55 Score
Screwed   9/18/2019

That's what AdultFriendFinder does to u

6 Comments, 44 Views, 29 Votes ,2.94 Score
12josh1 35 M
5  Articles
Staying disease free   9/14/2019

Most members post DND free in profiles. How do people verify. Do you exchange results from a recent test?

7 Comments, 35 Views, 20 Votes ,2.23 Score
lurch4040 51 M
9  Articles
helping a friend   9/14/2019

my female friends usually text me when they meet someone for the first time. It's hard to find people you can trust and share your kinky experiences with

2 Comments, 35 Views, 27 Votes ,1.98 Score
Fake profiles   9/9/2019

Instead of changing this site for the worst with decreasing numbers in visitors and member they should put more effort in making sure the members and visitors are on here are actually real and not . No "google pictures"..... i can spot them from a mile away. AdultFriendFinder should give bonuspoints for the people who are actually genuine. <br><br> What are you're thoughts about ...

6 Comments, 65 Views, 43 Votes ,4.07 Score
PusssyLicker069 44 M
4  Articles
Safe to lick pussy on a first date ?   9/3/2019

Well as the title says... Will you lick on a first date ?

5 Comments, 68 Views, 35 Votes ,3.77 Score
Bbcforyou480 39 M
5  Articles
How long   9/2/2019

How long would you wait introduce your new partner friends/family?

2 Comments, 28 Views, 24 Votes ,2.11 Score
Fuego_intenso_ 37 M
2  Articles
En cuales sitios prefieren esa primera cita?   9/1/2019

Digase lo que se diga, las mujeres siguen siendo el principal blanco de personas malintencionadas o de enfermos que no aceptan un "NO" por respuesta; asi que en general el tema de elegir un sitio mas comodo para un primer encuentro, despues de ganarse la confianza mutua que no es tarea nada facil, es bastante complicado de decir. <br><br> Uno siendo caballero intentara por ...

1 Comments, 23 Views, 18 Votes ,2.72 Score
SimiPreciousWood 58 M
0  Articles
Who will you Meet?   8/23/2019

In this day of internet and online dating, safety is paramount . How do you know you're safe to meet someone?, you will never find the answer to this question in any profile, any photo or words spoken. A profile that you find interesting, could be legit and it could be a complete scam, in my experience the split between legit and scam profiles is approximately 50/50 across the internet, if ...

3 Comments, 62 Views, 39 Votes ,3.97 Score
Is anyone real   8/19/2019

I have been on this site for several years now and it seems that very few people seem to be real. What i mean by that is that they talk to you and such but when it comes to meeting its seems most people dont even want that. Is it because of the safety? Or do these people just head games oor what do you think the reason is for this?

9 Comments, 87 Views, 45 Votes ,2.21 Score
Nickloves2lick69 35 M
4  Articles
How   8/11/2019

How do you know sure the person you’re talking is safe meet?

0 Comments, 6 Views, 4 Votes ,2.08 Score
Wolfenstein52 41 M
7  Articles
Why is it sooo hard to have safe sex for some??   8/11/2019

Listen I know that going without protection feels soo good and sometimes people aren't as honest as they seem but you have yourself and your health... some things cannot be treated and everyone's safety you need make sure your not spreading something.

5 Comments, 56 Views, 40 Votes ,3.96 Score
Newbe509 47 M
7  Articles
Meeting   8/4/2019

Do you meet in a public place before ? I would

8 Comments, 65 Views, 39 Votes ,2.34 Score
Hed121409 43 M
6  Articles
Looking for real people   8/3/2019

Anybody think this site has gone to hell

5 Comments, 46 Views, 27 Votes ,3.56 Score
Exhibition414 34 M
6  Articles
Pics   8/1/2019

Be careful of fake pics with online dating. <br><br> Before meeting I always ask for a face pic with a certain number of fingers up to prove they are real. <br><br> What steps do you take?

5 Comments, 43 Views, 28 Votes ,2.52 Score
points   7/29/2019

points points points points points points points points points points.

1 Comments, 5 Views, 3 Votes ,2.45 Score
idkaboutthis113 34 M
1  Article
Scammer   7/20/2019

I have had way too many scammers from here. Is there any way to limit the number you see on your profile?

2 Comments, 40 Views, 26 Votes ,3.13 Score
for the women out there   7/15/2019

Are there actually women of this site that want to meet up? If so, what are you looking for, exactly? Hookup? Long Term? Summer fun? Also, for the very first meet, what is your preference? And how far does the first meet go?

5 Comments, 71 Views, 45 Votes ,2.87 Score
Car dates extremely unsafe for guys   7/12/2019

Have talked allot of people on here the say that they usually do car dates or host in their camper.

8 Comments, 76 Views, 42 Votes ,2.93 Score
J0nathan2019 52 M
1  Article
Dating Scam   7/6/2019

What Dating scam have you come cross? <br><br> I had the adult verfication scam . <br><br> Let get to know and not safe to meet so point a free verfication website which it is not[

3 Comments, 67 Views, 42 Votes ,2.54 Score
PeterWalton 57 M
4  Articles
Safety for girls   6/25/2019

How safe do girls feel meeting strangers for the first

7 Comments, 89 Views, 45 Votes ,2.07 Score
ttk209 33 M
6  Articles
points v2   6/24/2019

all about them

0 Comments, 7 Views, 4 Votes ,2.08 Score
billfla5 71 M
8  Articles
be safe   6/11/2019

If meeting on a website, the best way is always meet in a public place that makes you feel comfortable. Stay there talk have coffee and go with your gut feeling if it is right proceed if any doubts then time to leave. Be safe always

0 Comments, 55 Views, 43 Votes ,3.23 Score
passiondreamer13 37 M
7  Articles
never share info   5/18/2019

never share info

3 Comments, 80 Views, 46 Votes ,1.65 Score
wrap up or not?   5/5/2019

Do you all prefer raw or wrapped. Pros and cons?

8 Comments, 96 Views, 53 Votes ,1.69 Score
JFactor22 35 M
2  Articles
Need of Points   4/5/2019

Put a condom on and respect your partner. When you both know you are clean then start doing more.

5 Comments, 70 Views, 43 Votes ,2.02 Score
willwatchuforfun 49 M
5  Articles
condoms   4/2/2019

They are a must for me, when I find a woman that is more to the no condom position is it time to worry? or maybe just move on...haha

1 Comments, 5 Views, 3 Votes ,1.47 Score
SecretRomance4Us 41 M
5  Articles
points and more points   3/31/2019

just posting for points

7 Comments, 84 Views, 57 Votes ,1.54 Score
sweetkink33 35 M
9  Articles
Buyer beware   3/29/2019

How many people have run into countless fake profiles here? I would say we all to do our part to week out the almost 70% of fake and flake profiles. Anyone agree?

1 Comments, 4 Views, 1 Votes ,1.10 Score
I dunno if   3/24/2019

I have filled my quota of points filled for this...I wish I didnt need to scrounge for points..its hard being poor!

1 Comments, 21 Views, 18 Votes ,1.49 Score
Txmedic79423 50 M
2  Articles
Someone you know   2/9/2019

Have you ever realized the person you've been chatting with is someone you know, who doesn't know you're in the lifestyle? Would you be able to follow-through with plans to meet?

9 Comments, 148 Views, 105 Votes ,2.50 Score
be safe   2/5/2019

trust your instincts? and put on a raincoat if not sure?

6 Comments, 105 Views, 74 Votes ,2.34 Score
Alakabam92 31 M
9  Articles
AdultFriendFinder Male to Female Ratio/Crazies   1/26/2019

Seems to me there's a whole lot of men in here and not enough women. Me being in my 20s and straight is also another hassle entirely since most people here from what I've seen and talked to play both sides and are much much older. There's some people which seems to me have never had a sexual encounter in their lives by the way they act on here, say the craziest shit I've ever ...

3 Comments, 112 Views, 59 Votes ,3.68 Score
russ1683 43 M
1  Article
Safer surfing avoiding catfish   1/21/2019

There are a few things that can be seen in a general profile that can give away its authenticity, Glamour or Professional pictures in sets, especially in new profiles.By no means is this 100% as real members do use these types of photos but tend to be established, long term. A profile that contains all autocompletes or short incomplete responses, again not 100%. Moving on, when contacted the ...

4 Comments, 116 Views, 63 Votes ,3.81 Score
Best ways to meet someone safely   1/13/2019

Hello. What are some.of the best ways to meet someone face to face saflry? Public area? Someplace familiar? I need some ideas, so I'd appreciate the help!

1 Comments, 60 Views, 40 Votes ,2.92 Score
name change   1/8/2019

how many times have you changed profiles due to weirdos

4 Comments, 35 Views, 22 Votes ,2.17 Score
Sucknfuckn3 32 M
5  Articles
Best way to have a first meeting with Singles or couples?   12/26/2018

I’m curious what everyone’s go to first meeting location or scenario is? <br><br> I’ve done a few different ones and as a single man I prefer the public places doesn’t have to be a bar or dinner although if it’s either I usually feel it’s my job to pick up the tab. I think that’s just Curitious to do for anyone who may invite you into their home <br><br> What ...

4 Comments, 85 Views, 54 Votes ,3.60 Score
NHDomMA 35 M
1  Article
Safety Tips for the newly kinky.   12/23/2018

I’ve noticed an increase in the curiosity of the kink scene lately, and thought I’d post a small safety guide for the newly introduced and curious. <br><br> Bondage Safety: <br><br> * Don’t bind joints, or use a knot that bear weight and continue to tighten. * Rope has no business around the neck with very, very, few exceptions. * If you’re losing feeling or ...

3 Comments, 69 Views, 43 Votes ,3.31 Score
mtl_boy_toy 41 M
4  Articles
First encounter   12/21/2018

Curious.... based on experience do most people meeting for a coffee or drinks before actually hooking up? For whatever reason, sex has always been better for me when getting down and dirty right off the bat. The whole meeting for coffee.... chit chat.... and scheduling a sex date for another time just feels like a waste of time not too mention, has the relationship vibe which i'm not looking ...

3 Comments, 69 Views, 43 Votes ,2.93 Score
Beware   12/18/2018

People pretending to be women, who live close to you, are stranded 1000 miles away, and want to meet but can't get home without your help....yeah, right was my response. Be careful and happy holidays

1 Comments, 36 Views, 27 Votes ,4.40 Score
Stlforfun1990 33 M
2  Articles
couples on drugs   12/10/2018

Had an issue a few ago with a couple who did drugs, have since decided if you do more than weed, I will not meet.

3 Comments, 43 Views, 31 Votes ,4.10 Score
scubasex99 62 M
1  Article
Let's keep it real!   12/7/2018

It seems like there are several categories of people here on AdultFriendFinder. NOT including the people who pretend to want to meet & get their jollies in sending people on useless trips to meet people who aren't going to show of the type that create a profile that has no basis in reality... <br><br> So one type wants to meet instantly with very little "getting to know you" ...

6 Comments, 63 Views, 28 Votes ,3.55 Score
Heathen_G 64 M
11  Articles
Don't be this stupid ...   12/6/2018

Red flag one: The man was polite and a great conversationalist. <br><br> Red flag two: She had texted and spoken several times on the phone. [Don't do this before first meeting the guy]. One text should be enough... make plans to meet. <br><br> Red flag three: He wanted to TAKE the woman to Toronto for dinner (she lives 45 minutes outside of Toronto).... Why on Earth ...

1 Comments, 68 Views, 40 Votes ,1.88 Score
exhibitionmke 34 M
5  Articles
Verification Pic   11/25/2018

One thing I always do before meeting is asking for simple picture that verifies the person is real. Something like write todays date and their username on a piece of paper with a face pic, and returning the same. Or something easy as like asking for a certain amount of fingers raised in the pic. If they can't do that (pretty easy via text) that they are not worth the time to meet. Everyone is ...

2 Comments, 38 Views, 26 Votes ,3.67 Score
akshay1513000 37 M
5  Articles
be safe while sex   11/23/2018

do not go blind when ever you go for sex, always use protection talk freely with your partener regarding safe sex practise Talking about STDs is just as important as talking about preventing pregnancy. Condoms offer the best available protection against STIs by acting as a physical barrier to prevent the exchange of semen, vaginal fluids or blood between partners

1 Comments, 48 Views, 32 Votes ,3.43 Score
lasimery 30 F
2  Articles
Boyfriend can't make me orgasm   11/22/2018

I'm in a relationship, so this has to be discrete. My boyfriend can't make me orgasm.I'm cute and I give great b j I really want a man to go down on me and fu+ck me till I cum a couple of times. Hispanic, black, native I don't care just make me orgasm and I'll make you cum.Hit me>> 4347554577

2 Comments, 12 Views, 8 Votes ,3.71 Score

Guys beware! Apparently there are some really sad men that have nothing better to do than to pose as women. <br><br> Proceed with caution.

8 Comments, 80 Views, 38 Votes ,4.48 Score
ebonyluv4u 42 M
2  Articles
Meeting in Winnipeg, Safe and unsafe areas   11/10/2018

I am new to Canada and testing out the swinging scene on here. Want some advice on places that aren't so safe to visit in winnipeg. Also is there a protocol to meeting people here?

1 Comments, 21 Views, 16 Votes ,3.42 Score
Meeting Face to Face for the First Time   10/28/2018

Always be Honest and Truthful About Yourself

1 Comments, 31 Views, 18 Votes ,4.22 Score
Tell Someone Where You Will Be   10/28/2018

It is very important to let someone know where you'll be

1 Comments, 32 Views, 25 Votes ,4.35 Score
Getting Cold Feet   10/27/2018

Canceling and rescheduling a date just because you are nervous is not going to make your fear go away. just do it

4 Comments, 41 Views, 25 Votes ,3.46 Score
thickdicklydaddy 37 M
5  Articles
Always make sure to verify with a live pic   10/15/2018

Meeting up for random hookups can be dangerous for both men and women. <br><br> It's important to always make sure you verify that who you are talking with is who they say they are. I recommended using an app that lets you send live pics so you know they aren't dicking you about. Any other safety tips?

7 Comments, 78 Views, 38 Votes ,3.82 Score
safety   10/13/2018


1 Comments, 32 Views, 26 Votes ,2.81 Score
Adventureman200 75 M
14  Articles
How often to test for STD's?   10/3/2018

How recent should a bloodtest for STD's be to be relevant? Obviously if one has not had sex since their last test that is good, but things like Hepes take 12 weeks to show up in a test.

4 Comments, 66 Views, 37 Votes ,3.15 Score
Climaxondemand 65 M
2  Articles
People wanting your email or phone number.   9/30/2018

I just tell them that I chat through the web site and don't give out either until we have set a date to meet. That usually stops the conversations. But if they did persist, I would watch the information to make sure it was accurate. Some had suggested getting a $15 throw away phone but I haven't needed to yet and I don't keep any personal information or pictures. I have them deleted ...

8 Comments, 80 Views, 38 Votes ,3.74 Score
blackking85s 40 M
7  Articles
internet hookups   9/28/2018

i wanna know do you think it is safe to hook up with someone off the internet i have had a few exp and i can say they are all ok but i need your view people

1 Comments, 48 Views, 32 Votes ,4.55 Score
Jack123570 31 M
1  Article
Safety first   9/8/2018

Use condoms for safe sex when you meet strangers always even unplanned sex.

7 Comments, 64 Views, 30 Votes ,4.22 Score
endiluvscurves 58 M
8  Articles
How to Wipe and Wash Your Butt for Optimal Cleanliness   8/29/2018

If you feel a little bit clueless as to how exactly to keep things clean between the cheeks from wipe to wash, you're not alone. According to Reddit users, plenty of people actually don't know how to keep their downstairs squeaky clean. <br><br> "The number of people that don't wash their ass is astounding, " Redditor youallsuck6 wrote as a personal hygiene ...

3 Comments, 100 Views, 45 Votes ,3.74 Score
Online makes it safer or not   8/22/2018

With all the concern of net safety does everyone agree that online seems safer considering you can get to know each other from a distance, look each other up, find out limits and likes, see if you connect, and narrow it down to something that will work. The other option which is going in blind folded and in physical contact has always seemed more of a risk to me. I assume people would rather know ...

4 Comments, 52 Views, 24 Votes ,3.24 Score
Catfish   8/21/2018

Hello so anyway I've been chatting with a woman for about a year and we finally decide to meet so we chat over the phone she gives me her address and when I get there no one answers the door so just wondering why the people do this but I finally get up get out of it. So anyway still trying to meet legit people on here I have plenty of friends and my friend list or people close by but seems ...

2 Comments, 48 Views, 32 Votes ,4.27 Score
Caring and neuroticism   8/21/2018


0 Comments, 24 Views, 17 Votes ,2.14 Score
meet   8/19/2018

does anyone actually meet on this site?

5 Comments, 43 Views, 13 Votes ,3.31 Score
perfectman1312 42 M
2  Articles
tips   8/19/2018

1.Be sure whom you are meeting 2. Dont go for a complete blind date 3. Dont share personal information before meeting 4. Dont do financial transaction before meeting 5. Meet in a public place 6. Get to knw each other better before taking the plunge

1 Comments, 27 Views, 16 Votes ,3.42 Score
Rajrishi18 43 M
2  Articles
To be honest   8/15/2018

it is important when you go for a blind date or date from sure you are meeting in a crowded place.. be sure to see him/ her before hand.. dont listen to crap like lets go there .. until and unless ur dead sure about the person.. Share you whereabouts with your closest frd incase you get into trouble

1 Comments, 33 Views, 17 Votes ,2.84 Score
Andy303ude 32 M
1  Article
hey there   8/12/2018

just adding this to get the points its going to give me

2 Comments, 23 Views, 13 Votes ,3.48 Score
luvgluv19 75 M
28  Articles
If you simply must with genital warts   8/7/2018

If you simply feel that you must have sex with some one with genital warts listen up. First pull the mans under pants down and once an erection is in full bloom roll a condom down over the penis allowing room on the end for the cum to collect. Then pull the mans' under wear up and put the penis through the opening used to pee from in front of the under wear. Having done this pull the under ...

4 Comments, 33 Views, 16 Votes ,2.83 Score
luvgluv19 75 M
28  Articles
Phone usage   8/6/2018

If you wish to talk to someone on the phone get a second line. It cost about $15us a month for a second line and can save you some serious complications later. This is a very fun and interesting site BUT take care of your self there are nut cases out there.

2 Comments, 21 Views, 12 Votes ,3.86 Score
kuntryfuncpl 64 C
3  Articles
Using personal phones to text !   7/31/2018

To all who are not technical about new stuff, using your personal phine to someone or even worse talking with someone who simply ask for you to is very dumb. Once they have your and get you on with them thru texting or live , if your are anywhere using someones wi-fi you are in even worse risk and potentially a real sucker. These people who know what to do can be in all your info on , ...

5 Comments, 74 Views, 27 Votes ,3.87 Score
kuntryfuncpl 64 C
3  Articles
Using personal phones to text !   7/31/2018

To all who are not technical about new stuff, using your personal phine to someone or even worse talking with someone who simply ask for you to is very dumb. Once they have your and get you on with them thru texting or live , if your are anywhere using someones wi-fi you are in even worse risk and potentially a real sucker. These people who know what to do can be in all your info on , ...

2 Comments, 38 Views, 21 Votes ,3.00 Score
Superman4695 35 M
11  Articles
Is Badoo safe to use?   7/14/2018

I got a message from someone from Badoo thing is I never joined their site. Think it is someone that I responded over e-mail before. I know here name purposely withholding it. Is the site legit? Anyone use it?

1 Comments, 33 Views, 16 Votes ,2.25 Score
Clfunlax27 38 M
1  Article
Friday the 13th   7/13/2018

Is it a bad idea to propose on Friday the 13th? I didnt but a friend of mine decided to despite him having horrible luck on the day. I wonder will her saying yes change his luck? I mean it could have just continued to be bad and she say no right?

1 Comments, 17 Views, 9 Votes ,1.72 Score
Safe not Sorry ...   7/7/2018

Make sure your first meets are in very public areas in the day time ... A few people i have met have not been the people in their profile pics. Sometimes even men when i thought i was going to meet a woman. <br><br> Cafes are good places . if a woman and not worried , pick one where the staff are used to you being there. <br><br> Get to know the person first . ...

5 Comments, 51 Views, 22 Votes ,3.85 Score
which is safer??   6/18/2018

I have recently lost my virginity as a cd. I loved having my ass taken. My big question is this: Is it safer to swallow my lovers cum? or have him shoot it in my ass? I loved both but want to be a little safer if I can?????

3 Comments, 43 Views, 23 Votes ,1.26 Score
69games6162 41 M
5  Articles

in a single day how many time man can do it safely without health issue

6 Comments, 55 Views, 31 Votes ,2.66 Score
Parka462 45 F
5  Articles
Dobra rada   6/9/2018

Nie ma to jak cyber tu jesteś Saba

4 Comments, 13 Views, 5 Votes ,2.16 Score
Califgoldenrod16 69 M
3  Articles
FIRST DATE instructions for those considerijng meeting ANYONE offline!!!   6/9/2018

As a former chat room monitor for an 80s era ISP AOHELL, we always cautioned both men and women to meet in a public place before going on to other exploits. First, meetings should always be casual, last maybe an hour at best and have no expectations set or agreed upon in advance other than to say hello and have a cup of coffee, kind of a feeling out like an initial job interview.... NEVER drink ...

1 Comments, 52 Views, 22 Votes ,3.37 Score
Avoid confusions   5/23/2018

While dating through dating sites like these the mates should avoid confusions. A number of confusions as well as misunderstanding may arise due to a lot of reasons. More frankly speaking, it can be due to improper conversation they had between them. The source of the misunderstanding vary depending on the person and the time they are taking to meet.

1 Comments, 35 Views, 24 Votes ,2.33 Score
Tylerblk38 45 M
6  Articles
Question   5/20/2018

When u are dating on this site can you explain a good way in going into this <br><br> <br><br> Plz help

2 Comments, 47 Views, 25 Votes ,2.80 Score
First meet location?   4/29/2018

Looking for the best first meeting location ideas.

7 Comments, 40 Views, 20 Votes ,2.74 Score
apervypoet 62 M
2  Articles
coffee shops   4/12/2018

Safest place I have found are coffee shops. So many Dunkin Donuts/Starbucks/smaller shops that are perfect to finish a drink in peace and leave the wondering out beforehand. Let potential partner know that no sex will be coming from this meet - that way both can be relaxed and enjoy the time together. Maybe a hug with a whisper of a promise for next time can end the date.

8 Comments, 64 Views, 30 Votes ,2.75 Score
AceTwice83 41 M
5  Articles
Drinks first?   4/4/2018

Noticing it seems to be a foreign concept to meet for drinks in public setting , see how things evolve. Am I crazy to think that's the safe / comfortable thing to do?

6 Comments, 62 Views, 24 Votes ,3.13 Score
First date with someone you meet online   4/1/2018

You should always meet in a public place and tell someone you confind in where your going.

2 Comments, 39 Views, 23 Votes ,1.84 Score
sykdopfyr 25 M
4  Articles
Be careful   3/28/2018

getting to know each other on IM and exchange photos is a good start. Common interest, and expectations good start. Plan on first meet in public safe place. It can be fun and exciting to meet face to face. Get more time before going to motel , be careful.

1 Comments, 25 Views, 12 Votes ,1.92 Score
sykdopfyr 25 M
4  Articles
Where to meet   3/28/2018

You should always meet out at a public place. Somewhere where you feel safe there are people around it's well lit. We are all adults. But you do have to be careful.

2 Comments, 20 Views, 11 Votes ,2.23 Score
Adrianr0808 26 M
0  Articles
seguridad sexual   3/27/2018

me gustaría que no tuvieran miedo a encontrarse con personas en esta pagina por que siento que por eso no teman en cuanta a a todos los chavos que tratan de hablar con las personitas bonitas que las mujeres y deverian de darse la oportunidad de conocer a las personas

2 Comments, 31 Views, 27 Votes ,1.56 Score
jayandkayforfun 46 C
5  Articles
So Here Is a Question   2/20/2018

Since we are both positive and we are dating each other. There is no reason for us to ask each other. Cause we knew before we ever played just from talking about it with each other. How we found out the other had it that is another story all together. <br><br> <br><br> So here is our questions: <br><br> How many people have asked there date or play date if ...

2 Comments, 65 Views, 33 Votes ,3.42 Score
mikeincentralvt 53 M
2  Articles
Where to have your first meeting   2/6/2018

I'm curious about other's experiences when it comes to where to meet first. Specifically if it's one on one rather than couple/couple. With safety concerns I still find it surprising how many times a single woman has invited me to meet her at her place on a first 'date'. I'm perfectly safe, but how would they know that? It is rare that they ask to meet for a drink first in ...

5 Comments, 56 Views, 31 Votes ,3.53 Score
superamoker93 27 M
2  Articles
Fuck creampie   1/18/2018

Keep your shit wraped unless your in a monogamous relationship. Creampie arnt wprth the risk. Lol

3 Comments, 80 Views, 41 Votes ,4.33 Score
makeyougo0 32 M
2  Articles
Taken for a ride   1/17/2018

Just wanting to know, how many out there have started chatting to someone only to find they they are either not from their photos or completely the different sex?!

7 Comments, 88 Views, 40 Votes ,3.00 Score
It's always safe to me in a public place   12/30/2017

Meet in public where you feel safe where there's lots of people. I feel you should do this the first time you meet somebody until you get to know them. It's just a good practice. That way if anything happens there's lots of people around to help you. You never know some people might just be offended that you don't like now that that they would harm you but they might damage your ...

7 Comments, 61 Views, 33 Votes ,4.71 Score
sam197pulsar 37 M
84  Articles
Chatting in virtual world   12/30/2017

Don't appear overtly eager: Okay, so you've found the guy/girl of your dreams and you are eager to get to know him/her. But wait... don't make it seem like you are already dreaming about marriage. Take it slow. Once you have met the person casually send in your friendship request after a day or two. And make sure that you don't mention that you've been to his/her profile ...

1 Comments, 35 Views, 24 Votes ,2.68 Score
Meet in a public place   12/3/2017

You should always meet out at a public place. Somewhere where you feel safe there are people around it's well lit. We are all adults. But you do have to be careful.

11 Comments, 76 Views, 43 Votes ,3.76 Score
Iwannabeused 47 M
5  Articles
How safe is safe?   11/30/2017

Should all parties involved agree to be armed, shock collars? We all have to think about personal safety!

2 Comments, 41 Views, 26 Votes ,2.27 Score
looking to meet someone   11/5/2017

i been searching this web and looking for a woman that is mature and want to try new thing.looking for a mature woman that want to explore and go to the extreme into anything and try new kinky things. that is willing to meet.

0 Comments, 22 Views, 16 Votes ,3.13 Score
nightflyer121 49 M
6  Articles
phone   11/2/2017

is anyone else here nervous about girls who ask for a phone number right away?

1 Comments, 30 Views, 18 Votes ,3.12 Score
first date   10/29/2017

Yes, dating can be a total nightmare when you get hooked up with someone who is rude, obnoxious, or just not your type. <br><br> <br><br> Play it safe when you meet face-to-face

0 Comments, 21 Views, 13 Votes ,2.64 Score
sharknet5 52 M
6  Articles
So my flat or hers?   10/28/2017

Do you think it best to go to one flat or the other on a first date where sex is going to happen - donyoubprefer to be able to just leave or donyoubprefer your own surroundings?

1 Comments, 27 Views, 13 Votes ,2.47 Score
zekkstrom 38 M
6  Articles
Meeting   10/27/2017

Besides the basics of hygiene, decent clothes, and a being friendly there is one basic tip I might offer: <br><br> Meet in a public place first that is well lit and attended for a little while before moving on to a more private venue. <br><br> No matter how horny you might be, and want that late night meetup, be careful. Guy or girl, it doesn't matter, it is best to be ...

3 Comments, 26 Views, 9 Votes ,5.14 Score
fav of all time   10/16/2017

its time for one of those again!!! not another one!! yes!! another one <br><br> whats your fav safety advice of all time dun dun dun

0 Comments, 14 Views, 9 Votes ,3.21 Score
sam197pulsar 37 M
84  Articles
Social media   10/11/2017

Don't send a social media 'relationship' request until discussed in person. Do not post flirty drunken pictures of you and your partner on any professional networking site. He/she will be a lot less attractive after getting fired from the job. If you see your love interest signed into instant messenger with a 'busy' status, do not ping him/her to ask, "What's ...

2 Comments, 31 Views, 21 Votes ,2.88 Score
pleasureislan1 57 F
13  Articles
meet in a public place first time   10/6/2017

getting to know each other on IM and exchange photos is a good start. Common interest, and expectations good start. Plan on first meet in public safe place. It can be fun and exciting to meet face to face. Get more time before going to motel , be careful.

11 Comments, 76 Views, 40 Votes ,4.99 Score
Dating   9/28/2017

Has anyone actually gone out with anyone from this site.

1 Comments, 20 Views, 8 Votes ,1.86 Score
jr42468 57 M
24  Articles
becareful   9/25/2017

first and foremost all people involved should be very careful of who they are meeting especially if its a blind date or on website dating please take every precaution

1 Comments, 18 Views, 9 Votes ,3.64 Score
firefighterldh 41 M
9  Articles
aim right   9/23/2017

right in the pussy

1 Comments, 12 Views, 8 Votes ,2.32 Score
yesyou2015 54 M
3  Articles
Women are not the only ones   9/19/2017

Recently I meet a lady for coffee and everything seemed great. We meet a couple more times with out issues (just coffee) when we decided to go further that's when things changed. She became possessed irrational and down right a stalker. I had to go to the police and court to get a restraining order against her as I became very concerned. <br><br> Has anyone been in this situation ...

4 Comments, 29 Views, 12 Votes ,2.27 Score
tallman60314 42 M
16  Articles
Always be on the safe side   9/12/2017

Hi all, <br><br> i am a tall and strong guy but even myself I nowadays look for safe places to meet, at least for the first time. There are so many fake people on here that you never know. <br><br> Just be careful and enjoy!

4 Comments, 24 Views, 10 Votes ,3.39 Score
Enginary 33 M
39  Articles
safety   8/23/2017

what are the safety procedures for safe sex??

1 Comments, 23 Views, 15 Votes ,5.27 Score
mattjoe22 44 M
21  Articles
I am very safe and aware care about my health but...   7/6/2017

I am so very HORNY and want to fuck that I want to hook up ASAP! This site is so very addictive!

I would definitely have safe sex if it is going to happen but some people don't like condoms!

Do you leave the situation or take the chance of getting a disease?

Hashtag - Consequences!!!!

1 Comments, 27 Views, 6 Votes ,4.22 Score
justlookingfor08 30 M
1  Article
boring   6/23/2017

Does anyone find this site now impossible to get meeting or is it just meet?

2 Comments, 19 Views, 7 Votes ,4.06 Score
Safety Measures   6/6/2017

Safety Measures of Dating is to be taken for everyone because without safety, it consequences will be too effective.

1 Comments, 15 Views, 4 Votes ,3.63 Score
bpc6464 39 M
4  Articles
Is it part of the thrill   6/3/2017

Does it add to the sex, not knowing all aspects of a sexual partner or partners. At swinger clubs we meet and if the mood and everything is right we engage in sexual relationships. Those were the best encounters of my life. Having normal sex is not the same. I prefer a public scene with random encounters. I did have a partner to share in all of the fun until circumstances, unforeseen, intervened. ...

1 Comments, 20 Views, 11 Votes ,2.98 Score
GuyNextDoor2017 48 M
3  Articles
Childhood friend becomes fwb in adulthood (Last Part)   5/24/2017

The last night I spent with her, was when we finally got to make love. We were both lying naked in bed as she was deep throating my cock, stroking the shaft and sucking on the head. My cock was twitching and pulsating deep down her throat. I was so close to coming, but I wanted to make love to her, so badly, so I stopped her by saying, "I want to put it inside of you."

She stopped ...

2 Comments, 64 Views, 15 Votes ,3.13 Score
blackness04401 53 M
7  Articles
Aware   5/14/2017

To much fake ppl here who advertising meets and greets then they don't follow through free porn here I guess

2 Comments, 20 Views, 12 Votes ,4.92 Score
CuriousTallguy78 46 M
0  Articles
be warned of this guy.   5/4/2017

he makes threats if you aren't interested in him. do not exchange with this guy.

1 Comments, 27 Views, 7 Votes ,4.82 Score
First Dates   4/17/2017

I was curious to hear women's opinions on first dates from this site. Even though this can be entertaining and different, do you find its easier to build a quicker connection with those you meet compared to other sites where you might conceal some of your sexuality.....Just curious to hear your responses.

5 Comments, 40 Views, 13 Votes ,3.65 Score
cougarbait2091 33 M
6  Articles
Catfish   2/6/2017

Anyone have any bad catfish experiences on here? Or maybe one that turned out to be good? (if that even happens)

5 Comments, 65 Views, 22 Votes ,2.53 Score
pleasureislan1 57 F
13  Articles
he wrote down my licnse plate number   12/27/2016

I saw the man I went to meet, write sown my license plate number, I got real mad at him for doing that, it was a discreet meeting

16 Comments, 191 Views, 44 Votes ,4.50 Score
cutekinkym 40 M
7  Articles
Dating safety   12/3/2016

be safe

4 Comments, 31 Views, 11 Votes ,3.35 Score
urpleasure_2 38 M
4  Articles
How do you verify your date   11/22/2016

How do you verify your date? I have had a few who wont verify and I hesitate to meet them. Any advice.

3 Comments, 72 Views, 25 Votes ,3.80 Score
quan09 123 F
27  Articles
Article TitleArticle TitleArticle TitleArticle Title   11/21/2016

ORIGINAL MATERIAL ONLY - Discussion topics are for original material written by members. Any plagiarized material will be removed from the site. Also, please observe the HornyWife Terms of Use. If you see material that is inappropriate for HornyWife, or that may have been published elsewhere, please contact our abuse team.

Help with Text Commands

2 Comments, 24 Views, 14 Votes ,2.82 Score
quan09 123 F
27  Articles
Dating safety   11/20/2016

Dating safety

1 Comments, 12 Views, 6 Votes ,1.94 Score
quan09 123 F
27  Articles
Dating safety   11/20/2016

Dating safety

1 Comments, 13 Views, 8 Votes ,2.55 Score
24  Articles
LoL   10/17/2016

Monica Lowinski is voting for Trump. She said the last Clinton in office left a bad taste in her mouth

3 Comments, 28 Views, 10 Votes ,2.99 Score
biperth_guy 36 M
2  Articles
bisexual fun   10/5/2016

mmmm, i would love some cock right now, 2 or 3 would be just enough for now ;p

0 Comments, 71 Views, 14 Votes ,3.46 Score
Protection   10/2/2016

When dating, particularly for the first few times, we all a responsibility to respect our partners and practice safe and full relations. Certainly, when having intercourse- we all should observe the notion of, condoms, sleeves whatever you might like to call it. That goes for vaginal and annal is just safer and while unprotected sex does provide additional ...

3 Comments, 33 Views, 7 Votes ,3.80 Score
sexaddictdon 67 M
31  Articles
Fucking in a car.... how many positions are there?   9/22/2016

Here are a few that I thought of, please add to the list: click here 1. Missionary - With a little knee bending and some manageable discomfort, the backseat of your standard sedan provides maybe enough room for two fully-grown adults to lie on top of one another. Messes are inevitable in tight spaces like this, so make sure you've applied a healthy coat of ...

11 Comments, 146 Views, 38 Votes ,5.56 Score
Profiles   9/7/2016

Beware- an increasing number of fake profiles are added to AdultFriendFinder. Beware.

2 Comments, 17 Views, 6 Votes ,4.22 Score
Fake profile.   9/6/2016

Bevare of mature german women +60.

Many of These are- men.

1 Comments, 23 Views, 8 Votes ,3.71 Score
Fake profiles   8/26/2016

AdultFriendFinder- you have far too many fake profiles - why?

1 Comments, 32 Views, 10 Votes ,5.18 Score
Seeknfun80127 48 M
6  Articles
First time help   8/25/2016

Any advice on meeting someone for the first time from this site. We both need to be discreet but trying to figure out how to go about it. Thanks

2 Comments, 38 Views, 13 Votes ,3.31 Score
RhymesWithSassy 45 T
3  Articles
SAFETY TIPS   8/25/2016

Never let your guard down when it comes to online dating. Be a sceptic. Prepare for the worst and hope for the best. It only takes ONE lapse of judgment to end up chained to a basement wall (or worse).

Don't give out your phone number to anyone you don't know & trust, and want in your life on at least a semi-regular basis. There are a dozen alternative methods of communication to ...

4 Comments, 54 Views, 10 Votes ,5.18 Score
ldn_boy_4u 33 M
4  Articles
First date locations   8/18/2016

Where do you choose to meet first? do you screen through the phone? What about time of day? I guess these are all things to consider today

4 Comments, 59 Views, 10 Votes ,3.19 Score
wildcock2016 41 M
6  Articles
Be safe!   8/14/2016

Under no circumstance don't give your power in a relationship. They will run everything from there on in

0 Comments, 17 Views, 5 Votes ,2.49 Score
Safe Dating In India   7/27/2016

I have a strange story for the readers.

Recently in my city Indore, Police rushed into a park and humiliated the guys and girls sitting there. All the guys and girls were asked to produce their ID's

Some girls were asked to call their parents.

They were charged for what? Nobody knows.

Guys and girls were there because Hotels here are not open to the unmarried ...

0 Comments, 18 Views, 3 Votes ,1.47 Score
safer fun   7/13/2016

it is sad that we come onto a site like this, make an agreement to meet somewhere to see if we click, get excited, and then start wondering if it is a setup and you will get mugged or worse when you meet at that discreet, out of the way place. does this concern others? I am not one to back out of meeting someone, but I recently did. I overthought just one sentence the other person wrote which ...

2 Comments, 60 Views, 12 Votes ,3.86 Score
william25623 75 M
5  Articles
the next day   7/7/2016

The next as I got to work the boss was the only one on site. I ask where was the rest of the crew and he said we're the only ones today. I said what are we going to do then and he rubbed his crotch and said you can get over here and take care of this.

I laughed and said really what do you want me to do and he said get over here and suck my cock . I looked at him and ask you serious ...

1 Comments, 218 Views, 31 Votes ,5.64 Score
modern5000 37 M
11  Articles
If you meet some online .   7/4/2016

If you are meeting someone online I make sure they are real. Make sure there photo is real. Talk to them on the phone. Meet at a public place.

5 Comments, 53 Views, 24 Votes ,1.31 Score
modern5000 37 M
11  Articles
find out if somebody's telling the truth online   7/3/2016

The way I find out about somebody if they're for real I start asking him some questions. How to go with my gut feeling as well too. If I feel funny with my gut feeling about this person I simply do not go try to meet this person at all. I just simply find somebody else it was real and is honest.

1 Comments, 41 Views, 15 Votes ,0.38 Score
tincaps 52 M
3  Articles
Just wondering how women screen the crazy guys out.   6/19/2016

Guys don't tend to worry about being taking advantage of by woman they date, at least not in a physical way. However, it seems like that would be a big concern for women, especially if they don't the guy they are going out with. What do woman do to avoid a-holes?

3 Comments, 40 Views, 9 Votes ,3.64 Score
sexaddictdon 67 M
31  Articles
Lover, FWB, Friend, Acquaintance or (FBM) Fucking Big Mistake   6/2/2016

Last night while catching up with my several online Scrabble Games and emptying my DVR (Old Good Wife Episodes, Black Sails, Suits etc..yes I am a true geek at heart) my phone started blowing up with texts from a woman I have known albeit briefly from my past.
Yes, an email / text is nice when you are hearing from an ex-lover who is checking in to say hello and to try and catch up on life ...

1 Comments, 81 Views, 7 Votes ,2.79 Score
KFC36853 67 M
23  Articles
Public Place Always   4/29/2016

I have found that when meeting for the first time it is always the safest to meet in some agreed upon safe, public place. There is always time to go somewhere if the chemistry clicks and each want to take it further. If not agreeable, it is easy to walk away in a public place.

I once met a beautiful mid aged woman who had texted, then talked by cell and wanted to meet, presumably for ...

5 Comments, 54 Views, 14 Votes ,5.06 Score
xacandxin 44 C
1  Article
Confirm ID and Dating Safety   4/22/2016

We are HUGE advocates of the Confirm ID process that AdultFriendFinder offers. First of all, it costs nothing to do and it gets you 2000 points for free! Second of all, when reaching out to others who might be nervous that you are either fake or you are a person that means to mislead them or do them harm, it lets them know that you are a much safer bet than many others, because your actual name and address ...

2 Comments, 65 Views, 20 Votes ,6.57 Score
rm_PrisicaK 43 F
2  Articles
Illusion of Delusion   3/31/2016

I recently met a member who contacted me claiming to be something he was clearly not. I erred in not taking things more slowly. There is a tendency for men on this site to rush and "close the deal." This is understandable because the more time women are given to think and process information the more likely "no" is. A few reasonable correspondences on this site are not enough to agree to meet ...

2 Comments, 59 Views, 25 Votes ,6.23 Score
amelia_isd1 37 F
2  Articles
Keeping yourself safe   2/2/2016

I was recently asked about meeting a couple from my area. I agreed to meet in a very public place and informed them I would be accompanied by a male. They asked why I thought it was necessary to bring someone who wasn't going to be involved in any activities we might decide to engage in. I replied that as a single female it was for my safety. Their reaction was out of this world. Asked if I ...

18 Comments, 256 Views, 40 Votes ,6.75 Score
Heathen_G 64 M
11  Articles
"Sexual respect" and "Sexual disrespect" -The power of "Yes" and "No".   1/17/2016

The community here, and most any dating sites, being usually fewer women, there is a concern about sexual respect from men, towards women. As any civilized community, that is usually enforced.

However men don't talk about a woman's sexual disrespect of the male. Men don't report it, don't talk about it, and usually dismiss it as not important because we're men. But really, sexually ...

2 Comments, 90 Views, 51 Votes
rm_HelloILustU 21 F
1  Article
So someone wants to travel to see me...   12/25/2015

I've had a few people say they're willing to travel to see me. I realize a lot of them are just saying that and there are others who are visiting around my area so they're not here for me but they want a quick fuck (which isn't my thing).

My questions is this: is there like an acceptable distance threshold? Like if you're in San Diego and want to see me, that seems normal. But lets say ...

13 Comments, 138 Views, 38 Votes ,6.64 Score
frenchkiz4u2 53 F
27  Articles
Some of these Men think they are going just go   11/16/2015

Some men send me a message "come over to my house and let's", They are not thinking right. We need to set a time up to meet each other, see if we are attracted and like each other. I am not a free . Sure and call girls will come over as soon as you envite them, it's business and money to them. These are grown adult men acting so immature about trying to get laid. This the real world, it ...

10 Comments, 98 Views, 31 Votes ,6.79 Score
straight guy wants TS/Shemale   11/1/2015

I'm a straight guy, separate for 3 years, with whom always had a fantasy of being involved in a sexual intimacy with a TS/Shemale. I've seen a lot of videos online n I must say there are a lot of very feminine looking sexy attractive TS/Shemales whom I would love to be intimate with. I would like to meet a very feminine girl with big tittis n a cock no bigger than 6". She has to have a feminine ...

2 Comments, 67 Views, 7 Votes ,3.04 Score
rm_NOPoet30 67 M
47  Articles
Doms   10/17/2015

Should they be used under [in] all circumstances [meetings]? I was with the same lady for over 20+ years, before she left this world -for a better place I pray- and I refuse to wear the damn things. I tried once & she loved it, but I didn't really feel much of anything and the latex gave me a rash that lasted for days. Now, I try to explain that I'm 'fixed' + D&D Free. This seriously limits my ...

1 Comments, 38 Views, 3 Votes ,2.94 Score
Keep safe   9/21/2015

Ask questions out with people's comfort zones.

2 Comments, 17 Views, 4 Votes ,3.25 Score
horacekinky 51 M
1  Article
Know What You're Getting Into   8/31/2015

I was drinking one time and I had been chatting with a lady online and before I saw her pictures I sent her some pics of me including some dick pics and then she sent me her pics, and I was attracted to her, but I realized that I was drunk and so I stopped the chat abruptly and didn't respond to any more emails.I had said that I was thinking about going to her toewn, but I never said that I was ...

8 Comments, 156 Views, 18 Votes ,3.81 Score
frenchkiz4u2 53 F
27  Articles
your date takes down your license plate number   8/27/2015

you have a date and decide to get a room and enjoy intimate time together, he says he needs to go get ice, I look out the curtain to see what he was doing . He was writing down the license plate number off my car. The question is why is he doing this ? Your date is dicreet, but to mee that is not right to do that. He can have it traced and find out where I live. That is danger. Nothing ever ...

7 Comments, 114 Views, 18 Votes ,4.63 Score
Meeting   8/15/2015

Where's the best place to meet?

3 Comments, 33 Views, 5 Votes ,3.47 Score
rm_AmyC18 34 F
2  Articles
General Rules   8/15/2015

1. Never leave your drink unattended. 2. Don't be a slut 3. don't let random dude grope you at the club 4. carry pepper spray 5. Buddy system 6. Don't get roofied 7. ihop is a fantastic dating spot if you want to avoid getting "taken advantage of" 8. Wear a chastity belt at all times and swallow the key 9. get a chiuaua to carry in your purse, make sure he is vicious 10. stomp a bitch if ...

3 Comments, 53 Views, 26 Votes ,6.58 Score
frenchkiz4u2 53 F
27  Articles
He was a no show, or was he ?   8/13/2015

well, I went to my meet up at a café, but he never showed up. OR did he ? I noticed a man sitting in a blue truck as I was going into the café. I looked at him, and went on in. I finally left after having iced tea and cinnamon roll. As I was going to my car, the man was still parked there. I got into my car and drove away slowly. Then, in the rear view mirror he was driving too. I turned out ...

10 Comments, 155 Views, 23 Votes ,4.41 Score
narada1976 41 M
2  Articles
Most pressing thing   6/15/2015

with advent of many crimes it becomes very important that one is very careful, choosy while dating some one who has been met online only. The following steps might be helpful.

1. meet in public place (with lot of people around) till u develop confidence 2. try to get references. 3. try for a common friend. If found try to dig more information 4. Don't take any decisions when u r horny

5 Comments, 43 Views, 11 Votes ,2.79 Score
Would you like to know when....   5/10/2015

Having sex is fun, rewarding, intimate and in our nature. Knowing when your partner is having an orgasm is a turn on and adds to the sexual experience. Some people like to know when their partner is about to cum and cumming, so my question is for both men and women do you like to know your partner is about to cum and is in the process of cumming? Also how do you like to know, verbally(I am going ...

3 Comments, 40 Views, 14 Votes ,3.30 Score
Cmackcum 52 M
1  Article
Guys meeting up for suck/jerk...   5/3/2015

What are guys' experiences on here for this kind of meeting? Would you say the same advice for meeting up with a woman applies? Haven't done this yet, so I'm just curious. Have read some of the advice on do's and don'ts on men meeting women, and they all seem sound. Anything different to add? It seems like most of the guys I've chatted with just want another cock to suck and be sucked, and ...

4 Comments, 94 Views, 10 Votes ,2.59 Score
grannywrecker 55 M
2  Articles
protection   4/18/2015

When you meet someone from this site, is protection something you insist on, for unwanted pregnancies, STD's, etc?

13 Comments, 94 Views, 22 Votes ,4.33 Score
Knowing when it's cumming   3/27/2015

Just a question for all of you bored sex lovers out there.. are you able to tell when your partner is about to cum the first time you're having sex? Or is it just something you come to know the more you get to know them?

5 Comments, 43 Views, 6 Votes ,4.50 Score
onlyoneme913 34 M
10  Articles
tips   3/14/2015

out of all the times ive met up i never had any problems but i still take precautions i will meet in public places if requested but usually meet at/around residence me personally i always text my brother the address of where ill be and who i will be meeting and where i know them from and give him a certain time to hear from me by as a precaution im a pretty big guy and can handle myself but ...

3 Comments, 43 Views, 6 Votes ,4.50 Score
Dating Safety   12/26/2014

I am surprised when people do not take simple steps for their own safety. No matter how much you think you can trust someone you have just met, caution is the best way to go. Meeting in a public place is a must as is making sure you have some understanding of who they are. There are stalkers of both sexes and we all need to be safe.

9 Comments, 139 Views, 28 Votes ,3.86 Score
DaDevilsDelight 53 M
10  Articles
Never   12/17/2014

I would never meet a womanat a hotel if I hadn't met her in person first, I know a guy who got robbed off another site

10 Comments, 98 Views, 35 Votes ,4.21 Score
brandi455 50 C
1  Article
Ample   12/2/2014

Let's just say I'm a large girl and I don't want any naked pics on our profile. My question is would pics help if I were fully dressed in them?

14 Comments, 148 Views, 33 Votes ,4.07 Score
alt4139 64 C
10  Articles
Do you wonder?   11/28/2014

Since joining this site do you ever wonder sitting in a bar or restaurant if the people around you are meeting for sex or thinking about which of them you would play with if they were swingers?

14 Comments, 107 Views, 28 Votes ,5.81 Score
Married women are hot but married men are discussing. . why?   11/15/2014

Why is it that married men in the eyes of single women are trash? But married woman are sexy?

10 Comments, 126 Views, 22 Votes ,3.85 Score
picouple2o7 63 C
11  Articles
Would you feel safe?   11/13/2014

Would you feel safe going to a club that specialized in bondage?

7 Comments, 74 Views, 14 Votes ,5.54 Score
rm_robpsf415 27 M
12  Articles
Couples Joy   11/13/2014

What would be ideal in safety when hooking up with couples?

6 Comments, 50 Views, 9 Votes ,4.07 Score
Three's company   11/12/2014

I often get asked to meet couples in places I don't know and when I tell them that I want to bring another couple with me for protection they think I'm crazy. Am I being overly cautious?

19 Comments, 129 Views, 46 Votes ,5.46 Score
rm_karori100 53 C
4  Articles
Bare back   11/9/2014

Do you allow guys to fuck your ass bare back?

10 Comments, 225 Views, 17 Votes ,5.25 Score
t4girlplay 42 F
10  Articles
No way   11/3/2014

I often get couples asking me to meet them in less than reputable hang outs and when I say no they get upset. As a single woman I'll only meet someone in a very public place and if you don't like it then we're just not going to meet.

11 Comments, 87 Views, 21 Votes ,6.47 Score
rm_theetmj1515 33 M
10  Articles
older women   10/31/2014

how do I attract an older women?

5 Comments, 51 Views, 10 Votes ,2.79 Score
rm_theetmj1515 33 M
10  Articles
looking for older women   10/31/2014

looking for some mature females to have there way with me

3 Comments, 30 Views, 3 Votes ,0.98 Score
twomuchfu 64 C
11  Articles
Condoms   10/27/2014

Condoms sometimes break so the question is do you ever double bag?

11 Comments, 69 Views, 14 Votes ,4.74 Score
rm3wayfuninct 44 C
1  Article
Where to meet   10/16/2014

We recently had a couple that wanted to meet us in a very rough neighborhood for a drink in what could only be described as a dive. Once we realized just how bad the area was we phoned and asked them to meet us somewhere else but they got really upset and said it was there or nowhere. We opted for nowhere. Were we wrong not to meet them?

21 Comments, 146 Views, 27 Votes ,6.61 Score
rm_shenoda051 43 M
1  Article
first dating on my life   9/25/2014

since 3 years ago , I search for first dating but i have no chance may my charachters is not perferace to local girls or my they afraid my grand deck I think its not sham if medcine check done before releation for safety releation will be better doctor check , in that case will neednt to use condom

3 Comments, 43 Views, 17 Votes ,1.00 Score
Dating   9/11/2014

Dating Safety, so what do we mean by "dating" and what do we mean by "safety." lol..This category could have a wide range of topics. Males overall are not impressive and if I were a woman and drunk at a party with strange males around...I would want friends with me. Some males are barbaric.

2 Comments, 35 Views, 7 Votes ,3.04 Score
rm_culmu74 49 M
3  Articles
Saturday-Night-Fun-Time   8/5/2014

A couple of weeks ago I contacted a girl over for an actual date, not a hook-up, an One night stand or a quick fuck, but an actual date. A clean and precious date for a Saturday-Night-Fun-Time.


I've been separated from my wife for quite some time now, between work responsibilities, activities and house chores I thought that adult fun for just a quick stage would be ...

12 Comments, 193 Views, 30 Votes ,1.08 Score
rm_testprem425 43 M
5  Articles
online dating   8/1/2014

Online Safety Tips Protect your finances Ignore any request to send money, especially overseas or by wire transfer, and report it to us immediately – even if the person claims to be in an emergency. Wiring money is like sending cash: the sender has no protections against loss and it's nearly impossible to reverse the transaction or trace the money.

Never give financial information ...

5 Comments, 58 Views, 26 Votes ,5.72 Score
josejd69 31 M
2  Articles
meet in a public place   7/28/2014

first you need to exchange pictures (face pictures ) the don't give you real address, meet in a public place and don't go by yourself

10 Comments, 101 Views, 34 Votes ,4.86 Score
rm_d1n1cA2014 35 LC
1  Article
looking for real guy   7/17/2014

I am looking for a man, who will be interesting and smart person; I do not like boring and not educated people. I like when man has a very good sense of humor and like to joke

11 Comments, 148 Views, 29 Votes ,4.34 Score
First off meet some where with people   7/7/2014


3 Comments, 69 Views, 19 Votes ,4.44 Score
DGator69 57 M
3  Articles
A few tips for safety   7/3/2014

Here are a few tips for both men and women to keep in mind when meeting someone from this site or any other site....

1. Let someone know where you are going 2. Make sure your phone is fully charged 3. Even if the other person gives you proof they have been tested INSIST on safe sex 4. Meet in a public place 5. NEVER let your food or drink out of your sight 6. Do not tell the person what ...

8 Comments, 164 Views, 29 Votes ,5.15 Score
prateek_handsome 35 M
10  Articles
having sex after a successful date   7/2/2014

do u consider having sex after a successful date is right ? and doing it wdout protection is okay? or not pls comment people it wud be nice to hear from u people .. thanx a lot in advance

5 Comments, 60 Views, 11 Votes ,3.54 Score
Weirdos   6/14/2014

What percentage of the folks on here would fall into the "weird" category. And what is your "favorite" weird story to relate?

3 Comments, 43 Views, 5 Votes ,3.14 Score
rm_kawasakibb 39 F
1  Article
hello   4/12/2014

Looking for relationship cerious, long term . But also love sex

5 Comments, 70 Views, 13 Votes ,3.98 Score
oraljim201 75 M
4  Articles
scammers   2/17/2014

How do you tell a scam from an actual profile. Ive run across what I think was a scam. Is there and way to tell.I would appreciate some in sight.I know that the site screens scams, but I'm sure some must get through just because of the volume.

12 Comments, 188 Views, 24 Votes ,3.70 Score
annie444u 52 C
135  Articles
You Can Never Be Too Careful   1/23/2014

Recently a rather bad, bad, I mean bad guy was arrested in our town for assaulting several women.

Turns out the guy moved her from another state recently and was working a retail store.

Girls, don't go out with someone like that...someone new...unless you check him out. This guy's mug shot was on the internet all one had to do was query his name and it came up that he served x ...

11 Comments, 168 Views, 36 Votes ,4.79 Score
Use your...   1/13/2014

Think with your brain first, then with other parts

2 Comments, 32 Views, 4 Votes ,2.47 Score
hotbloodxxx 36 M
10  Articles
meets gone bad   1/12/2014

curious to hear about the meets through this site that have gone bad. we all must think hookups are great because thats why we're on here, but what about the meets that have put you off?

7 Comments, 157 Views, 8 Votes ,2.78 Score
are there alot of creepy gay men are here?   12/11/2013

Yes there are and they are so annoying cant they read that it says straight male for pussy. SO FRUSTRATING

1 Comments, 16 Views, 2 Votes ,5.20 Score
MissChelie 57 F
3  Articles
How do you....   11/17/2013

....Keep yourself safe when you are a woman dating couples or groups? What techniques work best to be sure you aren't getting into a bad situation?

7 Comments, 113 Views, 14 Votes ,3.46 Score
beanflicker17701 36 M
6  Articles
staying safe   11/7/2013

what is the best way to stay safe during a date if u just met the person

3 Comments, 37 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
How to be safe while being discrete.   11/3/2013

I have always wondered how someone that is trying to be discrete be able to stay safe since they can't really tell someone where they're going to be since they're trying to be discrete. Any suggestions?

2 Comments, 101 Views, 4 Votes ,3.25 Score
Should you believe them   11/3/2013

If a person tells you that they're clean, should you risk the chance and go without protection? I would love to hear your opinions.

6 Comments, 112 Views, 5 Votes ,2.82 Score
Indymilfhunting 37 M
1  Article
Best Place to meet?   10/5/2013

What are some of the better, safer places to meet a total stranger? Throw it out there people (and dont say a public place, be specific).

1 Comments, 21 Views, 3 Votes ,2.45 Score
JasperRidge 44 M
1  Article
Three Tips:   9/28/2013

If you're meeting up with someone for sex online, I think the first thing you need to do is establish that the other isn't too crazy.

If they're meeting up for sex online, chances are they are going to be pretty wild, but you don't want them too wild and showing up at your place uninvited.

1) Meet up during the day. If things go well, you can take them somewhere more private. ...

0 Comments, 53 Views, 8 Votes ,4.17 Score
Scams   9/18/2013

What are your favorite way to vet a suspected scam profile?

3 Comments, 64 Views, 6 Votes ,3.65 Score
hotfunnow902 24 M
10  Articles
5   9/4/2013

material for adding points always something to try. got no choice

1 Comments, 14 Views, 3 Votes
safe sex   8/18/2013

without using condom does it work

2 Comments, 20 Views, 4 Votes ,2.86 Score
hawg4fun13 43 M
15  Articles
Safe Sex   7/9/2013

Play Safe!!!!

3 Comments, 28 Views, 6 Votes ,2.51 Score
vickyggn22 35 M
10  Articles
Indian girls like white guys   6/29/2013

lots of Indian girls like white guys, and a lot won't even look at another brown dude because they know they can get white guys. Just try to go out for indian girls who hang out with white girls. With good game, anyone of any race can get any girl of any race, but it's much easier for white guys to get any girl of any race they want. Step it up.

3 Comments, 93 Views, 14 Votes ,1.70 Score
CommodoreNemo 26 M
4  Articles
Always Bring a Machete.   3/10/2013

...for if werewolves attack. Didn't you see Thriller?

1 Comments, 37 Views, 6 Votes ,2.51 Score
annie444u 52 C
135  Articles
Always Have Your Hubby or Boyfriend Drop You Off   2/2/2013

I swing a lot and I like to swing with other women of couples. Occasionally I'll meet someone new, but I'm always careful and Danny's always nearby. We make sure we have e-mail addresses, , a house number, apartment number or room number and that all is well before proceeding.

And Danny stays close and by the phone. I feel I don't have too much to worry about, he took care of himself in ...

2 Comments, 188 Views, 19 Votes ,3.39 Score
dcrel123 42 M
10  Articles
Measures   11/24/2012

How you assure that you will be safe with ur date? do u dont care abut it or do u do some efforts to make sure it does safe...

3 Comments, 54 Views, 8 Votes ,3.48 Score
prod1013 35 M
11  Articles
first dates   11/22/2012

Don't meet someone without hearing there voice first. A good idea always is to cam before meeting. Meet somewhere that you can start a long date or end a short one . Meet in public and dont go somewhere private the first date.

0 Comments, 50 Views, 10 Votes ,3.98 Score
want to give a date   11/14/2012

i am ready to share a date with aged girl.

1 Comments, 47 Views, 10 Votes ,0.40 Score
bigmoney22578 30 M
11  Articles
safety   10/27/2012

You Have To Watch Who To Date Because There Are MANY People Wearing Fake disquis So Be Care Who You Dating, .

2 Comments, 34 Views, 4 Votes ,2.86 Score
LioldyfrPasedena 87 F
13  Articles
Here's show   10/19/2012

Carry a damn hog leg with you.

2 Comments, 13 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
untilitsred2 56 M
1  Article
Sexually transmitted disease   10/14/2012

I know in this day and age alot of people have them but most of dont.

Please ladies and gentlemen, PRACTICE SAFE SEX.

Its not just Syphillis and Gonorhea any more.

Herpes, Aids and Hep C have climbed aboard.

If you dont have a condom and dont know that much about your partner its just not worth the risk anymore. People have shit they dont even know about. ...

2 Comments, 29 Views, 6 Votes ,3.08 Score
rm_maybehottie6 27 M
10  Articles
yea yea   9/23/2012

dating safety. to always wear a fucking condom

1 Comments, 37 Views, 5 Votes ,2.82 Score
yeszen2 23 M
11  Articles
Traveling   9/11/2012

What is a good distance many of you are willing to go to see someone you've set up with?

4 Comments, 39 Views, 9 Votes ,2.78 Score
Snozog 63 C
2  Articles
Letting someone know when meeting someone   9/9/2012

We have heard some horror stories in the chat rooms about bad experiences when meeting people in person. Those stories have been in the back of my mind for a while as my wife and I meet guys for MFM 3sums.

Recently, while on a long road trip Milady and I had lots of time to discuss topics like personal safety, which morphed into designing a smartphone personal ...

1 Comments, 201 Views, 17 Votes ,2.84 Score
joshie04101991 33 M
10  Articles
asking to many questions?   8/23/2012

have you ever been on a date and your date asks you very personal questions one after another?

2 Comments, 55 Views, 5 Votes ,3.14 Score
celticgent79 44 M
2  Articles
Think very seriously of a neutral spot no matter what.   5/23/2012

Every one talks about meeting up at a Starbucks, and that is a very good idea. However even when you have built up a good repore and you are going to hook up, think very seriously about going to a hotel to actually hook up. If they are insisting on not going to a hotel room that you are paying for, then you may want to move on.

Going into someone's house can be very intimidating, and ...

1 Comments, 55 Views, 5 Votes ,3.47 Score
Becoming a paid member   4/29/2012

I am a standard member since I just started. I want to become paid but since I want to start off with a discreet relationship, I am a bit nervous giving my address, credit card information. I would do so immediately. What options do I have?

5 Comments, 120 Views, 13 Votes ,2.81 Score
rm_karoonsem2 30 M
10  Articles
Safety in Dating   4/24/2012

what safety tips should be kept in mind while dating through AdultFriendFinder for the first time??

0 Comments, 50 Views, 6 Votes ,3.08 Score
just new   3/21/2012

as a beginner, i would love to know how you can filter the real from the not real people on here

4 Comments, 96 Views, 11 Votes ,3.54 Score
rm_tazmantenn 74 M
2172  Articles
Did you ever notice?   3/10/2012

As income tax time approaches, did you ever notice:

When you put the two words 'The ' and 'IRS' together, it spells


1 Comments, 70 Views, 7 Votes ,1.26 Score

Its always important to say the right things and things that will impress. Its also tremendously important not to say stupid things which may offend your date. You also do not want to bore your date by talking about things she totally cannot relate to.

These are some things that youcan mention or should take note while striking aconversation.

1. Be open minded Do not show ...

0 Comments, 47 Views, 7 Votes ,2.53 Score
Single girl to date bi couple?   1/29/2012

We have been searching for a single BI girl to date us? Anyone have any solid clues on the best place to search BESIDES here?

2 Comments, 103 Views, 18 Votes ,3.26 Score
rm_stan1423 24 M
12  Articles
safety   12/27/2011

dating safety

1 Comments, 35 Views, 8 Votes ,2.55 Score
If things don't add up, then something is wrong   11/11/2011

I think it's always important to talk several times before you even meet. I ask some of the same questions at different times and see what answers I get. If I get different answers then I am immediately done with that person. Just my two cents.

5 Comments, 123 Views, 24 Votes ,3.58 Score
dhasting1969 55 M
2  Articles
asking about std   10/25/2011

What's the best way to ask? I don't want to offend, but it needs to be a topic of conversation. Just be direct and ask up front? Thanks.

2 Comments, 70 Views, 8 Votes ,5.10 Score
is it safe ?   9/1/2011

is it really safe to date


3 Comments, 112 Views, 20 Votes ,2.49 Score
Devonprovidesfun 34 M
10  Articles
Meeting someone from online   8/30/2011

It's probably a good idea you meet them in a public place.

1 Comments, 56 Views, 10 Votes ,3.78 Score
rsilverblood 36 M
1  Article
How to avoid SPAM and fakers when dating online   8/18/2011

Most often, when we join adult dating sites, we will notice that there are quite a few members that add you for no reason, have no compatibility with you, etc.

Spammers are quite common: and the reason for this is that they prey on information. Their prize is information: they want your ID information, your address, your e-mail... just about anything will do.

The reason for this ...

4 Comments, 94 Views, 12 Votes ,4.39 Score
rm_needrelief77 38 M
5  Articles
Always carry protection!   7/7/2011

I talked to a buddy who still does not carry protection. He has had std's like 9 times adn today he has sores all over. unreal, be cautious out there! Always have protection, if your a man or a woman!!

3 Comments, 97 Views, 17 Votes ,6.38 Score
hjofuss 39 M
2  Articles
What is ok and not ok to do to others in a loyal relationship?   7/5/2011

So i have a younger brother whose female friend has always thought i was super hot. Well she's been in a loyal relationship for a long time and today jokingly i got her to send me nude photos of herself to me now i don't know if i was in the wrong to do this or what.

1 Comments, 52 Views, 4 Votes ,2.47 Score
tumim9 28 M
8  Articles
Sexy Sarala, my neighbour   6/22/2011

I live with my parents in a rented house. In that compound there are two houses including mine. I am the only to my parents. In the other house there were 3 people. Husband, wife, and boy. The husband is a thin looking man of 46. The boy was studying in 8 th standard. Now coming to the character of prime importance, the neighbour lady. She may be 38 – 40 years of age. I always have liking to ...

4 Comments, 277 Views, 16 Votes ,2.83 Score
Remember if the photo looks old...   5/9/2011

They probably are too. Beware those faded big 80s hair photos. That person will show up to meet you plus 20 years.

2 Comments, 77 Views, 15 Votes ,2.37 Score
Meet in a well populated area   5/8/2011

like a macdonalds or resturant. dont let him presure you into going with you if u dont want to ladies.

3 Comments, 63 Views, 15 Votes ,2.21 Score
never,never,never   4/16/2011

when you think you click with someone on this site, NEVER give out any personal info ie;email , cell #, house phone, and esp. where you live and who your friends are, meet this person in a public place to meet them first before any date, feel them out ask lots of ?, and go with your gut feeling about them if you feel good about it, tell them you will get back to them on fbos and set up the date, ...

1 Comments, 171 Views, 9 Votes ,4.49 Score
scorpioz76 44 F
4  Articles
safe sex   3/19/2011

Do not fall for these crazy guys on this site. A friend warned me that they wat youto am with them and they record it over and over agau=in and next there is a video of you out there on the net.

4 Comments, 217 Views, 26 Votes ,3.03 Score
safe?   2/15/2011

would you say it is safer to meet at a public place the first date? I think so, and have had many opportunities to meet up - always worked great

1 Comments, 7 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
rm_bacoj911 42 M
2  Articles
Wishing All The Valantine's Here   2/12/2011

Being on this site and seeing so many members assert their personal needs and as the day of valentines is approaching I cannot help but marvel at the change in mindset that has taken India by storm. No doubt some who hold primitive views are now a minority and thus seek to assert themselves through various forms of violence - but this is another matter altogether.


1 Comments, 29 Views, 3 Votes ,3.43 Score
Hotmix07 68 M
1  Article
Be safe dating   1/30/2011

Alway know who your going out with always let a friend know your were abouts when going out with someone for the first time make sure u're in a well surround area...

0 Comments, 24 Views, 8 Votes ,3.71 Score
10nudp 50 M
1  Article
condom or not   1/20/2011

i like getting head with condoms. is this bad.

10 Comments, 200 Views, 29 Votes ,3.14 Score