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oral kills   7/13/2006

if you think having unsafe oral cant kill dont cry when you are told you have std. more then ever reports show that unsafe oral std is on the rise. think and then have fun, use condoms.

2 Comments, 259 Views, 15 Votes ,4.51 Score
bigdaddychad7720 39 M
2  Articles
what is safe sex   7/13/2006

what is safe sex? the only safe sex is masterbation

0 Comments, 101 Views, 7 Votes ,3.55 Score
required   7/12/2006

I don't understand why people that don't know each other very well would take that risk.

0 Comments, 49 Views, 4 Votes ,2.47 Score
You should always practice safe sex.   7/11/2006

Just because a person say theyare std free never take achance. You are playing with death.

0 Comments, 70 Views, 7 Votes ,5.33 Score
condom or not   7/11/2006

what do girls prefere, saftey or feeling?

1 Comments, 213 Views, 4 Votes ,0.53 Score
rm_mohar10 44 M
16  Articles
Epson's PictureMate 500 review   7/11/2006

Professional small-format photos, the easy way, with a compact portable photo printer roughly the same size as a loaf of bread and engineered like a nuclear powered toaster! It makes digital photography easy and fun for all the family, even the Windows print driver is comparatively simple. This is practically the swan-song for the once lucrative but frustrating and time consuming commercial ...

1 Comments, 32 Views, 3 Votes ,3.92 Score
xtremelyhard4u3 55 M
11  Articles
safe is best!   7/10/2006

safe sex is best! we should all be responsible about it!

0 Comments, 26 Views, 0 Votes
rm_mohar10 44 M
16  Articles
Abortions After Fetal Viability   7/7/2006

Abortion is without a doubt one of the hottest and most politically divisive topics, as at least one in five of all UK women will have an abortion at some stage in their lives. This document will attempt to explore the following areas of abortion and termination:
[1] The facts concerning termination of pregnancy.
[2] The ethical and moral problems.
[3] The ...

0 Comments, 38 Views, 6 Votes ,3.08 Score
rm_mohar10 44 M
16  Articles
Wet And Messy sex can be as good as abstinence!   7/7/2006

Safe sex is all well and good, but short of saying no, how do you go about indulging a desire or appetite for certain bodily activities that are widely experienced as giving pleasure, here is one possibility.
WAM is an acronym meaning Wet And Messy, This is the fetish of getting messy or wet in a non-bodily-fluid substance, while this should not be the basis for a relationship ...

0 Comments, 109 Views, 4 Votes ,2.08 Score
4playdatenow 61 M
0  Articles
hold on cause here it comes   7/5/2006

if you want to stay safe then you only have a few options. one is to have sex with someone you know is safe. two is two use a condom. three is if your a man buy an aneros. it took some time to get used to but if you shove this thig up your ass and give it a chance then you'll be in for a real treat. after having one for awhile i practicly gave up until.. one day i put some lube on the end, ...

0 Comments, 172 Views, 7 Votes ,4.57 Score
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1 Comments, 68 Views, 6 Votes ,4.22 Score
who hates condoms?   7/3/2006

Do you think that using a condom takes away from the sexual experience?

1 Comments, 132 Views, 11 Votes ,3.73 Score
quick question   7/1/2006

what does d/d free mean? i'm not good with the lingo yet ;]...

1 Comments, 160 Views, 1 Votes ,5.00 Score
rm_robothunter 76 M
1  Article
one on one sex   7/1/2006

Hi all you atracttive buitifull ladies.Im new to this game as I have recentley seperated from my familey.After a lifetime in HMS armed forces were i retired as a Coy CSM.after 32 years mof unbroken service.Money wise I have no broblems.But Money cant buy you happyness or health.Thats so very true so the next best thing is a good woman to look after to make love to and be happy with. ...

2 Comments, 86 Views, 0 Votes
johninsomewhere 43 M
8  Articles
Foam Condom   7/1/2006

Her ein China they have a foam that the girl sprays in her vagina before acts as a lubricant and kills sperm..very nice...
Is this available where u are? If so do you use it?

0 Comments, 48 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
friendsforfun06 44 M
1  Article
I enjoy it   6/30/2006

I enjoy safe sex. i believe there is nothing wrong with it and more people should do it.

0 Comments, 34 Views, 2 Votes ,5.20 Score
rm_coolcutter25 38 M
1  Article
tounge condoms?   6/28/2006

most people now-a-days wear a condom when they have sex, for protection and birth control. but most people also have oral sex either during foreplay, or to reach climax. doesn't that open you up to STD's? i've heard of some kind of latex thing used for oral sex, but there is no way that would be any good. i personally love oral, both giving and receiving, and have no intentions of ...

2 Comments, 411 Views, 3 Votes ,2.45 Score
yuck   6/28/2006

If you meet someone and have unprotected sex you are gross. Use a condom.

0 Comments, 83 Views, 3 Votes ,3.43 Score
u never know   6/24/2006

Is same sex really worth it when you risk the possibility of contracting a deadly disease? I want to suck a guy off but can I get a disease if he fails to mention that he has aids? I wish they was a sure way to know before perform oral on the same sex. If you know how to tell let me know.

0 Comments, 150 Views, 5 Votes ,2.16 Score
wisemonkee 50 M
3  Articles
Ignorance isn't bliss, it's a recipe for disaster!   6/23/2006

A lot of entries on AdultFriendFinder mention the guy pulling out before cumming in case the girl gets pregnant.
What a load of rot! Even a tiny bit of sperm, such as that found in pre-cum, is able to fertilise an egg. Sure, it's going to be a very crafty little sperm, but it's still possible.
Guys, the only way YOU can know that your girl won't get pregnant is if you are wearing a ...

0 Comments, 105 Views, 6 Votes ,3.65 Score
use condom or not   6/21/2006

make connect with female/male - do you condoms or not. If so, how does male please orally? that's my love/passion

0 Comments, 90 Views, 3 Votes ,2.94 Score
anal sex with a man   6/20/2006

What are the consequences of having anal sex with another man? I'm just curious to know cuz I'm particularly new to this scene and would really appreciate some tips and advice.

Also, is it alright for a man to cum inside another man's anus? What are the consequences for doing something like that?

0 Comments, 218 Views, 1 Votes ,5.00 Score
rm_Parker231977 46 M
4  Articles
Practice Safe Sex   6/16/2006

I want to tell people to please practice safe sex. It's not worth just having sex with someone without asking questions first and always wear a condom with a strange partner. I wonder sometimes do people even care what they are spreading out there. I think the attitude is changing a little bit and I hope that safe sex is atop the list of priorities. Thank You.

0 Comments, 41 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
lucky6914_ 38 M
14  Articles
Acutane and Birth Control   6/15/2006

I was just wondering if acutane has any effect on the birth control pill. if a woman is on both will the acutane cancel out the pill?

0 Comments, 44 Views, 2 Votes ,3.81 Score
rm_Queen195 38 F
1  Article
Why Is It So Hard   6/14/2006

It seenms like these days men dont want to have safe sex. All they wanna do is have sex with out a condom. Why beacuse they dont get the same feeling....I mean come on that is a load of bullshit. And how many other women have they said that to. It makes me wonder why I even bother. Thats why I've decided to go for women. They have a softer touch and are more caring. I hope that I ...

2 Comments, 225 Views, 11 Votes ,2.05 Score
Oral tips   6/13/2006

Any tips on safe sex when having oral fun (men or women)

0 Comments, 104 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
rm_djsparkie 43 M
5  Articles
condoms   6/13/2006

are they necesarry...i have been asking maself whether they are....infact am in a dilema since am 50/ what do you guys think? coz for real sometime i prefer fuckin without coz its so sweet en sensational...but sometimes i just don't wanna take anybody with suggestions

2 Comments, 76 Views, 2 Votes ,3.81 Score
3  Articles
Why are people so naive?   6/13/2006

I went to dinner last night and me and a lady decided to have sex but she did not want to use protection. She says she was clean but I told her we needed to be safe and I ended up doing it myself at home. Naive or just dumb?

0 Comments, 73 Views, 2 Votes ,5.20 Score
Can you really have safe sex?   6/7/2006

I heard that if you suck cock that you can catch most sexually transmitted deseases.

0 Comments, 81 Views, 0 Votes
Must have protection   6/6/2006

All you "fun " guys and girls out there, Please have condoms on you at all times. ware them and enjoy the beautiful world of sex.

0 Comments, 20 Views, 0 Votes
bring a condom   5/24/2006

I have enough stories from guys who complain all the time about condoms. For the guys, if you dont care about yourself think of the lovely person you are with...always carry one out of respect for the one you are with...they deserve that and so much more

0 Comments, 26 Views, 1 Votes ,5.00 Score
clintonnlulu79 30 M
10  Articles
safer sex   5/12/2006

It is said that the best way to stay safe is not to have sex. But I don't think that is safe or sane. I NEED SEX! Do you feel me? I hope so.

1 Comments, 87 Views, 4 Votes ,4.41 Score
rm_star_gyal22 40 F
2  Articles
never talk life for granted   5/12/2006

always use protection cause prevention is always better that a curre.

2 Comments, 152 Views, 16 Votes ,5.33 Score
intrestingnfun 32 C
7  Articles
Masturbation for Men-tips   5/11/2006

myths about male masturbation is that you shouldn’t use anything other than you hand. While your hand might be doing the trick, adding some accessories can make the stimulation even more intense, and inspire more creativity with yourself, and with partners. Get a good quality personal lubricant . If it’s only for masturbation you can use something that’s oil based without worrying ...

0 Comments, 204 Views, 4 Votes ,4.02 Score
intrestingnfun 32 C
7  Articles
Masturbation for Women- tips   5/11/2006

Vibrators take some of the manual labor out of masturbation by providing direct, intense physical stimulation to the clitoris.
Water helps many women learn to masturbate. Lie back with legs spread in a bath with a shower hose and direct the stream of water at your clitoris. Vary the pressure, the pulsation, and the temperature. Alternate methods: slide your butt over the drain so ...

0 Comments, 109 Views, 4 Votes ,4.02 Score
lonelywife1969 46 F
1  Article
teenagers   5/6/2006

i would like some feedback on a issue i have just encountered . i have a who is nearly 14 i found out in jan this year that she had been engaged in sexual intercourse with a young lad her age and hadent used protection as you can imagaine i was horrified. luckly she did not get pregnant or catch anything after that i told her that although i would rather she did not do it again till ...

7 Comments, 1690 Views, 64 Votes ,6.45 Score
ExtreamPleas1000 53 M
115  Articles
Is it up to the guy or the girl to have comdoms when being intimate   4/25/2006

Is it up to the guy or the girl to have comdoms when being intimate. Most women I have met usually have condoms in their purse or in their night stand. what do you think.

9 Comments, 365 Views, 13 Votes ,4.49 Score
rm_Superman6911 42 M
10  Articles
What is it?   4/17/2006

Safe sex, also called safer sex, is a set of practices designed to reduce the risk of transmitting sexually-transmitted infections (STIs) (also known as sexually-transmitted diseases or STDs). Conversely, unsafe sex refers to engaging in sex without the use of any contraceptive or preventive measures against STDs.
Safer sex practices became prominent in the late 1980s as a result ...

0 Comments, 55 Views, 5 Votes ,4.45 Score
Gay Sucking   4/16/2006

Is cottaging dead? As a married guy who loves sucking cock (wife doesn't know) I used to love going to the cottages, and other areas, where anonymous sex was going on all the time:- Now, it seems almost everywhere is closed, or too dangerous! Is there anywhere left? Or does someone know of a place or group where this takes place anymore? My fantasy is to suck several guys at once ...

0 Comments, 286 Views, 8 Votes ,3.71 Score
bone_shaker69 41 M
10  Articles
condoms?   4/15/2006

Okay I have a problem with condoms. I understand there use for birth control. but when we swingers use them for "safe sex" we are sorta kiding ourselves. If a wowman performs oral on a man without using one well you already have what he has... and guys if you perform oral on a girl with out a barrier well you got whatever she has already too.

1 Comments, 264 Views, 5 Votes ,3.14 Score
silkythighs350 31 F
10  Articles
Caught up!   4/15/2006

I think sometime we dont do the right thing as far s being safe when yur caught up in the moments of extreme pleasure its like for that moment you just dont care...

1 Comments, 186 Views, 6 Votes ,4.50 Score
whatsername86 37 F
3  Articles
Use protection   4/9/2006

THis is self explanitory.....everyone just use some form of safe sex.

0 Comments, 65 Views, 2 Votes ,5.20 Score
searching12979 38 M
1  Article
anal   4/9/2006

Well gentelmen. Your lady has finally agreed to do that nasty. After all the months of proding and trying to sneak it in she has agreed to let you travel the hershey highway. Thats right folks I am talking about anal sex. Guys here are a few tips. This hurts the first time like HELL. So go slow. Only do it on a night that you and her are really turned on. Don't plan it. She will worry about ...

1 Comments, 232 Views, 8 Votes ,4.41 Score
AdultFriendFinder/i 20 m in tehran   4/7/2006

i 20 m theran i like have goodly sex with single girl/woman than living in tehran

0 Comments, 18 Views, 0 Votes
Sharks Out Here   4/5/2006

There was this guy with a very high squeaky voice. Even after he reached puberty he still had this high squeaky vocie. Well he deicded to see his Dr and find a cure for his squeaky voice. The Dr. ran a series of tests and then told him the bad news . He said I have some good news and some bad news. The fellow with the squeaky voice what's the good news first. The Dr. says I can cure your ...

0 Comments, 30 Views, 0 Votes
Piercings and Condoms   4/4/2006

Being a semi retired Body piercer I have a few piercings and one is my P.A. I was wondering what kinda luck pierced men have with condoms and how many times the piercing has broke one...

0 Comments, 29 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
Knowing Your Partner   4/4/2006

Well I've been on this site for a year now and read a number of articles on safe sex - the best advice I can give is to only have sex with those you know their history. Ideally, you should get some medical information to back up what they say. Always wear protection . Avoid risky activites and refuse sex with someone who refuses to wear protection. Its awkward asking difficult questions but ...

0 Comments, 66 Views, 3 Votes ,2.94 Score
rm_Hardbodydark 41 M
4  Articles
Unprotected oral   4/2/2006

Would you give Oral sex to a man if he said that he was disease free?

1 Comments, 204 Views, 6 Votes ,3.08 Score
tests   4/2/2006

Has anyone gone as far to ask for test results for various stds? Condoms can break and kissing can transmit certain stds.
Just curious

4 Comments, 355 Views, 8 Votes ,4.17 Score
SIUtvguy 32 M
2  Articles
Condoms   4/1/2006

For those of you that are allergic to latex condoms, there are polyeurothane condoms. Trojan makes the Supra and Durex makes the Avanti condom. These are great alternatives to latex condoms.

0 Comments, 28 Views, 2 Votes ,5.20 Score
nicetolookat69 60 F
11  Articles
I have a problem...   3/28/2006

I have a problem with men, that do not take shower's after having sex, personal hygeine is very important to me!! That is WHY I AM so picky!I like to shower, before and after. There is something, wrong with a person in my eye's that does not practice personal hygeine!!We should all WORRY about what is GOING in to our bodie's, sure we can use condom's, but what about oral? That can bring ...

3 Comments, 156 Views, 15 Votes ,2.98 Score
cometoxmatch 44 M
12  Articles
Are blow jobs can bring any inconvinience filling?   3/26/2006

Some time after my love blow me I have some strange fillings down to myu belly. What is that?

2 Comments, 250 Views, 7 Votes ,0.24 Score
safe?   3/25/2006

Has to be. touching, feeling thier good too.

0 Comments, 66 Views, 6 Votes ,1.94 Score
mightystick54 63 M
10  Articles
sex during mensurattion   3/24/2006

Blood come out female cunt periodically and sex during this period is not considered safe from health point of view.In hindu religion the females having mensuration become untouchables during the period of mensuration. They take complete rest and do not involve in regular domestic activities. Though they can be instigated to have sex during this period it is very bad from health point ...

9 Comments, 657 Views, 19 Votes ,0.88 Score
rm_funfoxtom 38 M
5  Articles
double dutch   3/21/2006

hey would you go double dutch (condom & pill) in order to be safe?

4 Comments, 184 Views, 5 Votes ,2.49 Score

Am i missing something? What pleasure is received from anal sex. Surely it's not safe, can it not slcken the muscles and lead to blood loss? I only ask as i have only ever tried it once, it was awful. Does everybody enjoy it. Obviously homosexuals do otherwise they wouldn't be in that position. Anyones thoughts or comments may help to enlighten me!

15 Comments, 2054 Views, 74 Votes ,3.89 Score
rm_Canada1988 36 M
2  Articles
Ex girlfriend   3/19/2006

My ex girlfriend convinced me to have sex with her without a condom and promised that if I let her on top she would pull off before I came but then when I told her I was gonna cum she didnt pull off only went faster and harder.......... now that we are broken up I beleive she is pregnant =/ she told me if she is that she is gonna have a abortion... thats all I have to say just dont let ...

1 Comments, 428 Views, 20 Votes ,5.42 Score
cherrysstud69 52 C
10  Articles
Safe sex is really hard to do!   3/18/2006

I am all into safe sex, but I don't feel like I practice well enough. We always use condoms to actually fuck, but not when giving head. Can't you get or give something orally if it is there? Just curious. Thanks!

1 Comments, 292 Views, 9 Votes ,3.00 Score
Kaya_Bear 37 M
4  Articles
What is safe   3/16/2006

I know most people say that condoms are a must for safe sex. I say that is true. If you dont want to use one, the safest thing to do is get tested, and be with someone you know is clean

0 Comments, 62 Views, 3 Votes ,2.45 Score
rm_irockonly1 45 M
2  Articles
Is There a cream that is safe.....   3/15/2006

Is there a cream that is safe to use with condoms that can make you go all night long?

0 Comments, 91 Views, 4 Votes ,2.08 Score
Are condoms still in vogue?   3/12/2006

It seemed during the late 80's and early 90's with the AIDs scare, that condoms were a necessity (and I still believe so). Are they still used as much by everyone?

1 Comments, 62 Views, 5 Votes ,1.84 Score
rm_martinwent 46 M
8  Articles
Protection during oral   3/12/2006

We've all heard about the pussy-protector that can be used when going down on a woman, but has anyone ever used one?
Guys / girls: How does it work? What does it feel like?

1 Comments, 196 Views, 6 Votes ,4.22 Score
rm_sexy7one 61 M
8  Articles
what is safe sex   3/11/2006

Is safe sex just wearing a condmn ? But what about the orally challenged who loves to eat, lick or suck, what are they doing for safe sex?

0 Comments, 95 Views, 3 Votes ,2.94 Score
needsreviving 55 M
5  Articles
There can only be.....   3/11/2006

There is only one way to have sex with a new partner and that is with a condom, i've travelled the world for the last 18 years and have seen the effects of aids in Africa and developing countries. And it's always the innocent that are effected , so get real and use protection..........

0 Comments, 47 Views, 3 Votes ,2.94 Score
lucky6914_ 38 M
14  Articles
sheep skin condoms   3/11/2006

How do sheep skin condoms feel compared to latex condoms...and do they break easier or less easy then latex. and can the sheep skin give u somekind of sheep disease?

1 Comments, 87 Views, 5 Votes ,3.80 Score
GoodGame126 46 M
6  Articles
**No title jus my 2 cents**   3/11/2006

I got a safe sex suggestion...always use it with a new/old partner if you want to prevent pregnacy and/or disease...In my life time (im 27 now)i only had unprotected sex 5 times, all were before the age of 25. Two were with my girlfriends at the time and the other 3 were my friendgirls. Hell, my last girlfriend (one of the 2) use to get mad at me cuz i always wanted to use a condom...what ...

0 Comments, 69 Views, 3 Votes ,2.45 Score
chapsgirl69 53 C
5  Articles
Cybersex   3/10/2006

We travel quite frequently and sometimes we'er apart. During those times, my husband and I like to talk on the phone and webcam. We once in awhile have cybersex to get us through extended periods of time. We enjoy voyuerism with each other via the internet but, there's nothing like the real thing. I guess you could say that it's our way of having safe sex with each other.(LO

0 Comments, 78 Views, 7 Votes ,2.53 Score
funseeker3103 45 F
1  Article
Horrified!   3/10/2006

After reading some of the responses in this 'safe sex' section of the website, I have to say I am utterly horrified to know what some people think is safe sex practice!!
I am a soon-to-be Nursing Graduate and would like to clear up a few myths & make a couple of statements:
1) Not using a condom can lead to pregnancy and/or disease
2) YES, you can catch Herpes, HPV ...

4 Comments, 618 Views, 54 Votes ,8.75 Score
Masturbation with vegetables   3/10/2006

Did you know that both men and women can masturbate with vegetables? Think about it.

1 Comments, 111 Views, 3 Votes ,2.45 Score
lucky6914_ 38 M
14  Articles
not wearing a condom for round 2 or 3   3/9/2006

is it true that once you ejaculate there is not enough sperm left in you to get someone pregnant if you continue to have sex again like 10 minutes later because you used all of your sperm in round one so round two or three you cant get her pregnant because your body has not produced any more yet?

2 Comments, 156 Views, 6 Votes ,1.09 Score
amir19602   3/5/2006

strong handsome decent

0 Comments, 57 Views, 0 Votes
moonman532 71 M
2  Articles
there is no safe sex   3/2/2006

is where realy such a thing as safe sex as for when you use a condom but yet then a women gives you a blow job you don't . it's still skin on skin right

2 Comments, 426 Views, 11 Votes ,3.73 Score
We all should use protection   3/1/2006

These day we have begin to be careless with using protection. But everyone should understand that diseases have no certain look. Most men tell you that it just dosn't feel the same without a condom but as females we have to put our healt first. We have to respect our bodies. HIV is an serious issue which some of us just dosn't take seiously. We our need to value our lives.

0 Comments, 146 Views, 11 Votes ,5.41 Score
Building a Relationship (1837)   3/1/2006

That you are an adult, at least 18-years of age (21-years old where 18 is not the age of majority). That you will not permit any person(s) under 18-years of age (21-years old where 18 is not the age

0 Comments, 66 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
Building a Relationship (1837)   3/1/2006

That you are an adult, at least 18-years of age (21-years old where 18 is not the age of majority). That you will not permit any person(s) under 18-years of age (21-years old where 18 is not the age

0 Comments, 38 Views, 1 Votes ,5.00 Score
1sexyyoungguy4u 38 M
8  Articles
Threesomes   2/27/2006

Who likes to have threesome? I absolutely love threesome! Their fun, exciting and turn everybody on! I really enjoy it with my friends! Its great! Lots of laughs!

0 Comments, 74 Views, 5 Votes ,2.82 Score
1sexyyoungguy4u 38 M
8  Articles
Threesomes   2/27/2006

Who likes to have threesome? I absolutely love threesome! Their fun, exciting and turn everybody on! I really enjoy it with my friends! Its great! Lots of laughs!

0 Comments, 73 Views, 2 Votes ,1.73 Score
Which is better   2/27/2006

I don't really need a response from the guys since I can guess the answers, but what about you women...Do you prefer sex with or without a condom?

4 Comments, 262 Views, 7 Votes ,3.55 Score
rm_101101001 58 C
75  Articles
You're the Surgeon General, what would you do...   2/26/2006

To everyone; <br> If the president appointed you as the Surgeon General and told you that what ever you came up with (in dealing with the AIDS pandemic and all other STDs) would be signed into law by him by executive order. And that there would be absolutely zero tolerance for non-compliance with the executive order laws. What would you suggest be made into law or do? <br> ...

1 Comments, 221 Views, 5 Votes ,3.14 Score
rm_101101001 58 C
75  Articles
When & how did you...   2/22/2006

When and how did you say to your parner to go for free HIV & STD testing with you? I'm curious about how and at what point in your relationship(s) you handled the subject with your partner(s). <br> Did you make testing and being HIV negative condition of continued sexual relations? <br> Stud Puppy

1 Comments, 65 Views, 3 Votes
rm_101101001 58 C
75  Articles
What is Herpes Whitlow? Medical exam gloves in a purse...   2/22/2006

Dear Everyone; <br> Here is something else to keep in mind along with having condoms handy in your purse. Sleeping Bag always keeps two pair of medical exam gloves in her purse for emergencies when someone may need first aid and is bleeding. Try Keeping a two pair (or more) of medical exam gloves in a compartment of your purse and in the glove box of your car too. I keep two ...

0 Comments, 130 Views, 2 Votes ,3.81 Score
Guitarplayerred7 38 M
2  Articles
How many condoms do u like to use?   2/20/2006

I personally use the box to make love for 1 hrs towards any woman.

1 Comments, 166 Views, 4 Votes ,0.92 Score
surferchick_2k4 36 F
11  Articles
what do you use?   2/18/2006

i use condoms n tha pill. has neone used them difram things for chicks? i dnt know what there called but appprently they can get stuck up there? is that tru?

2 Comments, 293 Views, 13 Votes ,3.81 Score
rm_jxjx88212 43 M
4  Articles
always   2/18/2006

is it appropreiate to ask a fling to get tested before sex???

3 Comments, 113 Views, 5 Votes ,3.80 Score
rm_101101001 58 C
75  Articles
Come on now! Be honest...   2/15/2006

Dear Everyone; <br> I used to break condums every time, all the time then I got sniped and didn't have a need for them with my clean & steady partner. <br> Be honest! How many of you have had a comdum either break or slip off when having sex? <br> Curious, <br> Stud Puppy

2 Comments, 151 Views, 8 Votes ,3.25 Score
rm_101101001 58 C
75  Articles
Safe Sex in North West Indiana Is there no...   2/15/2006

Dear Everyone; <br> Is there no one on AdultFriendFinder (or in North West Indiana) that insists on going together with their sexual partner(s) for free pre-coital HIV & STD testing (in other words, testing before fucking or having sex with someone)? <br> Is there no one on AdultFriendFinder that has enough love of self and self-respect to insist on free pre-coital HIV & STD testing from their ...

1 Comments, 182 Views, 4 Votes ,2.86 Score
rm_gemini354 41 M
2  Articles
Condoms   2/13/2006

Sometimes when using a condom a vein in my penis bulges out. Does this mean I am wearing too small of a condom??

1 Comments, 84 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
Don't risk it   2/13/2006

It's not worth it...that's my policy. Safe sex everytime.

2 Comments, 46 Views, 2 Votes ,3.81 Score
Sex and Alcohol/Drugs   2/12/2006

Is there anything wrong with having a Sex Set with another woman or women for one night...(safe sex of course), that's strictly hot, nasty, raw, sex.....Having some drink and perhaps some drugs ....just for the moment....

0 Comments, 107 Views, 5 Votes ,3.80 Score
rm_spoil_her2 40 M
3  Articles
Anal Sex..   2/12/2006

i have never had anal sex before.. been dying to try it but apprantely iam very big for my g/f and wen we did try it she feld too much pain.. i need to know wat can i do to reduce the pain.. i have tried most of the lubricants and stull.. is there any substance i can use that will make me slide in esaier?? plz tell me

3 Comments, 219 Views, 7 Votes ,4.31 Score
sathompUF1 40 M
2  Articles
condoms   2/10/2006

use condoms with strangers

0 Comments, 190 Views, 5 Votes ,4.12 Score
Do\Don't   2/4/2006

Most say they do but Do you really? People say they have been tested do you trust them? I think now days they should give out card's telling when and what you have been tested for.Or that you were tested for a list of stuff .{THEY} meaning {DOCTORS} What do you think?

5 Comments, 224 Views, 13 Votes ,5.32 Score
Guitarplayerred7 38 M
2  Articles
2 rubbers better than 1?   2/3/2006

So whats ur opinoin guys and girls, 2 rubbers beat 1 rubber condom or what. I personally just like using 1. but i am part jewish so i am circumised. So my dick has the shape of a true dick.

0 Comments, 466 Views, 9 Votes ,2.36 Score
etheric_rapture 41 C
3  Articles
Bondage Basics, A Primer   2/3/2006

S&M and to a lesser extent B&D evolved from the practice of attaining higher mental and spiritual planes through pain. This is seen in many different cultures across the globe from the suspension rituals of the North American Indians to the ritual flailing of early Christian monks. It was not really considered a sexual act until the advent of the Marquis De Sade in the 18th century. S&M has ...

1 Comments, 223 Views, 19 Votes ,5.23 Score
Be true to yourself   2/1/2006

To promote good safe sex habits come with people that are true to themselves and others. If you are not openly honest to questions and giving an answer ask yourself is my life (health) and others life (health) worth jeopardizing for sex...If you are ever in doubt about yourself to a question don't hesitate to find out the true answer.

0 Comments, 161 Views, 6 Votes ,4.22 Score
Think About It   2/1/2006

Think about it... <br> I feel that if someone (other than your long-term lover) is willing to have unprotected sex with others, clearly they don't have a shred of respect for themselves or others. If they're willing to risk giving or receiving an STD...they're simply not worth having sex with! Respect yourself. <br> In my opinion, the only one that you know whole ...

1 Comments, 125 Views, 7 Votes ,5.59 Score
Remember this   1/29/2006

wear a comdom before u make love

0 Comments, 285 Views, 9 Votes ,6.42 Score
oraldelight83 41 M
1  Article
Safe sex...   1/28/2006

I feel that it is very important to take all precautions to having safe sex. But if there is no doubt as to whether both partners are clean or infected with a STD, then its fine to have sex naturally or raw. Personnally i feel that there is nothing better then having a girl giving me head then sit her wet pussy right onto my hard dick without a condom...mmm....

1 Comments, 110 Views, 5 Votes ,2.49 Score
Safe Sex   1/27/2006

Please if you are going to engage in sexual relationships with various partners please do it safe. <br> guys wear a condom it may save your partners life. <br> take action stop the spread of STD's especially AIDS and HIV. <br> Now go and have fun people

0 Comments, 143 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
robert313718 44 M
1  Article
safe sex   1/26/2006

You should always practice safe sex, because you never know what you are getting your self into. So you have to decide for your self, whether you are willing to take risk, or protect yourself.

0 Comments, 185 Views, 3 Votes ,4.90 Score
Savage_n_slut 50 C
2  Articles
HELP!!!!!   1/24/2006

I am about to do my first EVER major gangbang next month....aside from feeling really nervous, I am more worried about what I can do to prepare my ass... I have had a little damage in the past and although I love it (get off on the nastiness of it all) it usually REALLY hurts...this gangbang is looking like 8-10 guys per girl (as you will see in our group queensland gangbang).... ...

4 Comments, 873 Views, 24 Votes ,1.99 Score
rm_bvhandyman 86 M
0  Articles
Condom provides limited protection against Herpes   1/23/2006

I don't know how many of you hear Dr. Dean Edell (who has a syndicated call-in radio program) or have done any research on the Internet. Dr. Edell has dealt with calls regarding STDs many times. I'll pass on some of the comments I've heard him make plus info I’ve found at medical related web sites. (Needless to say, the following is my understanding of the facts, and my understanding ...

0 Comments, 277 Views, 14 Votes ,5.86 Score
rm_rugzx924 43 M
9  Articles
Safe Sex   1/17/2006

Yeah it sucks having to use a condom but it is only a temporary situation. After having sex with the same person for a couple of weeks u should know wether or not u have caught something. After a few weeks and no outbreaks, skin to skin contact should be cool.

5 Comments, 384 Views, 18 Votes
rm_eatinatdaY74 49 M
2  Articles
what is safe sex?   1/15/2006

One could say that the safest sex is no sex. But what do we do when we want to enjoy the greatest feeling God has given to mankind. As for me i am going to continue to enjoy this feeling. I see it this way. If i am going to die from doing something why not die from doing something i am good at or i really like to do.

0 Comments, 103 Views, 2 Votes ,3.81 Score
rm_Jarrett7575 49 M
2  Articles
how long do you have to date someone before...   1/13/2006

not using a condom?

1 Comments, 209 Views, 6 Votes ,0.23 Score
rm_love88j 46 M
3  Articles
LOVE MAKING IS ALLWAYS NEED TO BE.........   1/13/2006

Safe sex to men and women need to use condom or if you whant to sex without to use condom you may go to make a measurement in the hospital, i love making it and i allways have a desire to make a safe sex for not having use condom if so......!!!!!!!

1 Comments, 128 Views, 5 Votes ,1.19 Score
rm_NWGuy4213 45 M
2  Articles
Safest Sex   1/12/2006

What about getting your pet fixed. Ok, most men are now cringing at a week of throbing pain but come on. If you and your partner are STD free and you took the bullets out of your gun is that not the safest? No need for a condom. Am I wrong?

1 Comments, 132 Views, 9 Votes ,1.93 Score
giovanniLA213 45 M
1  Article
CALL & U WILL SEE   1/12/2006

AdultFriendFinder OR 559-322-0943

0 Comments, 66 Views, 4 Votes ,1.30 Score
guy1234563 40 M
11  Articles
Does it Insult You??   1/11/2006

I was just wondering how many people out would find it insulting to have someone ask them if they had an STD?

2 Comments, 258 Views, 7 Votes ,2.28 Score
dental dams   1/11/2006

what does a dental dam look like??? where can i get them?

0 Comments, 342 Views, 2 Votes ,1.73 Score
guy1234563 40 M
11  Articles
be carefull   1/10/2006

safe sex is always good.

0 Comments, 70 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
FPSJ20 39 M
10  Articles
Condom or no Condom?   1/9/2006

I was wanting to know that if I did meet someone on this site, would it be safe just to use a condom since you really don't know the person? Or should we get tested and if we are clean, go with no condom? Lastly, if a person says they are clean and have no diseases, should you just go by there word or should more be done before any intercorse happens?

1 Comments, 257 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
1  Article
safe sex   1/8/2006

always a good idea to rubber up people

0 Comments, 53 Views, 4 Votes ,2.86 Score
rm_tttspr 56 C
2  Articles
Keep your condom on   1/4/2006

I have had the best sex of my life with 2 guys from AdultFriendFinder but both guys condom kept sliding down and at one time it came off. We stopped imediately but i could not help but to worry the entire time. Both men are VERY hung too so I did not think keeping a condom on would be a big deal. I love SEX!

2 Comments, 744 Views, 23 Votes ,3.83 Score
girlcravesgirl 49 C
10  Articles
Condoms vs. Skin   1/4/2006

If a man or woman asks you to not wear a condom, what do you do? In my opinion, the first thing that runs through my is what are they carrying that they want to give away! Think about it.

0 Comments, 350 Views, 19 Votes ,2.99 Score
rm_Shep253 34 M
20  Articles
safe   1/4/2006


0 Comments, 104 Views, 0 Votes
rm_spunky5112 67 F
14  Articles
spunky agrees!!   1/2/2006

when hooking up with AdultFriendFinder folks. i do repsect contact wishes and make sure to read their site for sexual when young type contacted me for fun..he did say he always has used protection.. we met at a local restaurant and agreed to have some fun.. he enjoyed my new adventure and i really enjoyed his talents.. but when it came time for sex...i whipped out my little stash of ...

3 Comments, 555 Views, 20 Votes ,3.64 Score
rm_cv4135 45 M
5  Articles
Safe sex is good.   12/31/2005

Safe sex is like running. People seldom want to participate but it just may save your life. It sucks sometimes to break the momentum and whip the bugger on, but it also a good test to see hoe mentally courageous you are. Do you have the will power and strength to back up your vows and concerns. And it is especially important when dealing with people online. You have no idea where they've ...

0 Comments, 119 Views, 3 Votes ,3.43 Score
rm_Richo1986 37 M
9  Articles
Strap your tool   12/31/2005

Men Men Men. You just don't get the point do you. Use a fucking condom you idiots. Unless you want a desease or .

0 Comments, 205 Views, 9 Votes ,5.14 Score
wants_sex_only 36 M
1  Article
What to do?   12/30/2005

Say you hook up a female and as you go to grab protection she says no. What do you do in that case? I wore protection and I havent heard from her since.

9 Comments, 599 Views, 26 Votes ,4.54 Score
Cold hands.   12/30/2005

I enjoy a handjob by a great looking lady anytime that I can. I sometimes feel guilty that I enjoy it too much. This kind of sex is kind of safe, but I wish there was a way to ask a lady if she would like to jerk me off without offending her. Then find out how she would like to be pleasured. Any thoughts?

0 Comments, 167 Views, 0 Votes
rm_Shep253 34 M
20  Articles
condoms   12/29/2005


1 Comments, 160 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
shecheatedonme 40 M
2  Articles
Do you use condoms?   12/22/2005

My wife is the only person I have had sex with, and she is on the pill so I've not had to use a condom. I am new to this site and was wondering if YOU use a condom when you are with people from this site?? Post away...

4 Comments, 382 Views, 11 Votes ,1.86 Score
Gingely oil and sex   12/20/2005

Hi to all of you. I would love to share this wonderful secret known to a few or a small number of people. Gingely oil makes an excellent lubricant for oral sex and also acts as a birth-control measure. For those couples out there. Use it when you are in a mood for a long session as u'll never be able to count the number of climaxes u'll have. Follow it with a hot-water batch and that's a ...

0 Comments, 183 Views, 4 Votes ,3.25 Score
friendz4phun 52 C
2  Articles
Remember   12/19/2005

If it's not on, it's NOT ON!!!! Merry Christmas everyone and have a Fantastic New Year.

0 Comments, 161 Views, 15 Votes ,2.82 Score
oral   12/18/2005

does a woman needs to ware protection to be safly eaten out <br> <br> ?

2 Comments, 402 Views, 5 Votes ,3.14 Score
licking   12/17/2005

i really enjoy licking for a long time , is it safe for me to do so ?

0 Comments, 489 Views, 1 Votes ,1.10 Score
Birth Control   12/17/2005

Is birth control safe? I heard that it can cause harmful effects with long term use?

0 Comments, 103 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
Irishsex135 38 M
5  Articles
Hah   12/15/2005

Yea you should try safe sex sometime.

0 Comments, 282 Views, 0 Votes
rm_dicknpannies 41 M
2  Articles
do it   12/12/2005

it up..... like a loly pop sucker...

0 Comments, 145 Views, 0 Votes
rm_101101001 58 C
75  Articles
Would u go with another 4 free pre-coital HIV testing if asked?   12/11/2005

Why don’t more people have this as a personal policy? <br> <br> The plan is for us to meet and if we click, we must go to a place that offers free HIV testing and we must show each other our results and we must agree to being sexually abstinent until we get our results. And you must agree that we will repeat our testing and sharing of results again two months later. ...

1 Comments, 134 Views, 6 Votes ,3.93 Score
TheLast_BoyScout 54 M
1  Article
Femal Condom   12/11/2005

I did a site search and found 1 artical 2 years ago asking about these condoms. I tought I would re-post this topic again to se if any one has used them and has any feedback. I did a google search on female condom and would like to hear from some of both seces that have used them and what your opinion of them is. Thanks

2 Comments, 240 Views, 5 Votes ,2.82 Score
wifey3223 55 F
20  Articles
while, im being fucked & made love to , let do it right?   12/11/2005

Hum , where do I start......I know what I want & expect. I love my pussy licked in allways to start, held open, bit , pulled, fingerd. I also love men & women to lick all my cum & then we both will lick it off our lips as were kissing. I NO LONGER DESIRE OR WANT TO PRACTICE ANAL, hurts & isnt worth the repicautions, lol. I do how ever want to exp, more couple, more 3 some's& women. Know ...

1 Comments, 292 Views, 13 Votes ,3.14 Score
Interesting Numbers   12/11/2005

Okay. I suck at numbers but if my math is correct it looks like this: 1. AdultFriendFinder claims to have 18, 818, 656 active members. 2. Every herpes info site I have found has estimated 1 in 5 north americans has some form of HSV. Thats 20% where I come 3. Assuming the same rate of infection for people who inhabit the AdultFriendFinder site ( unlikely since this site is about sex and promiscuity ) ...

4 Comments, 383 Views, 9 Votes ,5.99 Score
safe sex?   12/9/2005

Is there really such a thing as safe sex? Just thought I would bring up the question

2 Comments, 119 Views, 6 Votes ,4.22 Score
Condom or No Condom?   12/4/2005

I use to always use a condom, I didnt wanna chance gettin pregnant, but lately when I was with this one guy, out of maybe 30 times having sex, we used a condom once or twice. I know its not a very smart thing to do, after im not on birth control. Does anyone have the same fear of getting pregnant but hate using condoms like I do?

2 Comments, 512 Views, 12 Votes ,2.62 Score
Dasser_m 46 M
1  Article
condoms   12/1/2005

Safe sex and condoms are the only way to go unless you're in a committed relationship

1 Comments, 90 Views, 4 Votes ,1.69 Score
rm_hornycpt1 48 M
1  Article
whats safer   11/29/2005

Alot of fuss is being made about giving head without a condom , yet there is no protection when muffing.

4 Comments, 343 Views, 5 Votes ,2.49 Score
Luv2lick_69_U 51 M
4  Articles
How do you perform safe oral sex?   11/28/2005

Okay, this is really something that bothered me for a while. Men can wear condoms while women perform oral sex on them but I am not aware of any protection that works if men perform oral sex on women. <br> What is everyone's thought on this? I mean, I love to perform oral sex on my partners but I also want to be safe, of course.

0 Comments, 381 Views, 9 Votes ,4.28 Score
horny_couple1931 50 C
1  Article
Safe Sex?   11/25/2005

I honestly dont understand why people dont practice safe sex. I respect myself enough to protect myself from unwanted diseases, and thankfully I have never had any. <br> Recently a male friend of mine has been to a clinic 3 times since August, and has fallen out with a girl he hardly knows because she thinks she may be pregnant. All because they didnt use protection. Is the hassle ...

0 Comments, 284 Views, 6 Votes ,3.08 Score
wows 40 M
1  Article
Just not worth it   11/25/2005

It feels so much better, but if you don't know the girl, you just gotta wrap it up. I raw-dogged a girl last year and I thought she gave me something. I got tested and everything came back negative. Luckily it was just some jock itch. That rash scared the shit out of me!

0 Comments, 184 Views, 0 Votes
rm_Mz_thick2 47 F
33  Articles
Do people still practice safe sex?   11/24/2005

Why do i run into men who do not want to practice safe sex as needed?R people not concerned about their body's anymore?Or is it all IN?

1 Comments, 297 Views, 3 Votes ,3.92 Score
alzobr_almoftary 50 M
7  Articles
AdultFriendFinder   11/21/2005

i like sexy ladies from egypt

0 Comments, 67 Views, 2 Votes ,0.34 Score
alzobr_almoftary 50 M
7  Articles
alzobr_almoftary attt hooott   11/21/2005

alzobr_almoftary att hooot yoaho id is alzobr_almoftary i like sexy ladies from egypt

0 Comments, 95 Views, 1 Votes ,5.00 Score
alzobr_almoftary 50 M
7  Articles
alzobr_almoftary 3ala alhoot   11/21/2005

alzobr_almoftary 3ala alhoot bareed like sexy ladies from egypt

0 Comments, 88 Views, 1 Votes ,5.00 Score
alzobr_almoftary 50 M
7  Articles
AdultFriendFinder   11/21/2005

i like sexy ladies from egypt

0 Comments, 20 Views, 1 Votes ,5.00 Score
rm_xxxringop 57 M
5  Articles
Oral sex safety   11/16/2005

How is everyone handling the issue of safe sex when performing oral sex?

1 Comments, 446 Views, 8 Votes ,3.48 Score
rm_LegendFuck 48 M
3  Articles
hi   11/16/2005

A special smile, A special face, A specail someone i cant <br> replace, A special hello from me to you, for the special <br> person i find in you...

0 Comments, 97 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
rm_LegendFuck 48 M
3  Articles
hi   11/16/2005

Condom says to cotex FUCK you, every month you stop my business <br> for 1 week, Cotex says: Ahhhhhh if you make a mistake 1 time <br> i lose my business for 9 months.

0 Comments, 159 Views, 3 Votes ,2.94 Score
fatmushroomtip03 47 M
7  Articles
how safe is oral?   11/11/2005

How safe is it to give or recieve oral unprotected? Is it riskier for a man or woman to give?, and is it riskier for a man or woman to recieve? I'm not real sure...maybe someone out there can enlighten me. I know one thing, I would almost rather get a blowjob from a talented woman than to stick it in her. I love to feel her warm wet mouth and her toungue swirling around my shaft. I've ...

2 Comments, 607 Views, 14 Votes ,4.58 Score
rm_camaleon1973 48 M
5  Articles
Mood killer   11/8/2005

Is it a romance killer to the ladies when you are getting ready for intimacy and the man takes time out to put on a condom?

2 Comments, 187 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
rm_imaabout8 36 M
1  Article
why and why not   11/7/2005

im not sure what the big deal is safe sex and bareback feel about the same and i have done both and i do know how great it feels as a guy to be able to shoot a load or more into a nice virgin pussy but at the same time its not hard to respect a womans wishes and use protection. i dont know why guys do stuff like make the condum break or say htey have it on then take it off. i just dont get ...

1 Comments, 307 Views, 8 Votes ,1.16 Score
How to avoid messy anal sex-laxatives   11/7/2005

I know from experience that things can get very messy down there if the situation is not right. On the other hand, on some days everything can be clean as a whistle. What kinds of foods should be eaten to ensure all poo has exited the back door? <br> I havent tried any fibre supplements but was thinking they could work. What about laxatives. Does anyone know any types ...

1 Comments, 341 Views, 4 Votes ,0.53 Score
rm_nebs25 44 C
1  Article
Vegan Condoms   11/5/2005

My wife and I are both vegan (we don't eat or use animal products), for a variety of reasons that we care deeply about, so please don't use this as an opertunity to flame our lifestyle. It might come as a supprise to some that condoms are not vegan, they cantain the protine derived from cows milk called casine. Now having a product that in part comes out of the breast of cow on my penis, in ...

0 Comments, 214 Views, 10 Votes ,2.19 Score
rm_quailo 55 M
5  Articles
Why do porno stars fuck with condom   11/5/2005

Why do porno stars fuck with condom then take it off to cum in mouth? If it to prevent STD transfer surley infection can be passed orally.

1 Comments, 390 Views, 4 Votes ,2.86 Score
rm_BrazysGal 49 F
1  Article
People may not know   11/3/2005

Since people may not know they have an STD safer sex is always the answer. What they don't know might kill you. No orgasm is worth my life.

1 Comments, 141 Views, 14 Votes ,4.58 Score
moe12005 54 M
4  Articles
Do you find a lot of people that are willing?   11/3/2005

I am all for Safe Sex. There is so much out there that can't be just washed off. Do you find the guys to be willing to have a condom on? If only we could find someone we knew was realy D/D free. I like it better all natural but don't want to get anything eather.

1 Comments, 260 Views, 19 Votes ,4.44 Score
rm_101101001 58 C
75  Articles
Would you join a group...   10/31/2005

Dear AdultFriendFinder members; How many of you would be willing to join a discussion group, where the membership requirements are. That you must be willing to go with a current group member or the group’s moderator, for free and anonymous HIV testing (say within thirty 30 days from joining the group) and share your test results with each other to prove that you are both HIV negative? ...

2 Comments, 143 Views, 9 Votes ,1.72 Score
bone_shaker69 41 M
10  Articles
is there such a thing   10/30/2005

Is there such a thing as safe sex. Yes self sex is the only safe sex. Sure you can use condoms to prevent birth but as far as germs or worse no. Viruses and germs are carried so many ways contact, inhalation, even body fluids like saliva and sweat. doesn't have to be blood or semen or vagina secretions. unless you wrap your entire body in latex , naked gun type*LOL*, then no there is no ...

0 Comments, 93 Views, 10 Votes ,2.79 Score
Vampirichours 55 M
1  Article
Safe Sex - OSFA Regulations (O.k, it's a joke)   10/28/2005

A safety spinoff for the bedroom workplace OSHA creates OSFA (Occupational Safe Fucking Architecture) <br> Created by the president himself after a rough night of sex with the First Lady, the following safety protocols now need to be followed: <br> 1.) Headboards now need to be padded for the woman's protection, 1 inch of padding per inch of the man's length he'll be ...

0 Comments, 117 Views, 0 Votes
rm_101101001 58 C
75  Articles
Why not a group for those willing to prove they are disease free?   10/26/2005

Has anyone on this site ever thought of starting a group for people who are will to go tegether on first dates for free and anonymous HIV (and other STDs')testing? <br> If you know someone of the oppostie sex that is very physicaly attractive but you also know that they are HIV positive; would you "seriously" have anything to do with them? Of course you wouldn't. <br> So ...

0 Comments, 175 Views, 2 Votes ,3.12 Score
youllcomwithme 65 M
2  Articles
STD's: choices, decisions, actions and consequences....   10/25/2005

The fear of catching an STD shouldn't take away the pleasure that sex brings. We should however, do ourselves and others a great service by shedding the ignorance and staying safe! <br> I have Herpes: AKA, Genital Herpes, Herpes simplex virus type 2, HSV2, HSVII, below the waist herpes, cold sores on dick & etc. Fortunately that's all I have and a very mild case too (compared to ...

0 Comments, 810 Views, 19 Votes ,6.16 Score
Monkeymasacre 124 M
10  Articles
std?   10/24/2005

How do you ask someone if they have an STD without hurting their feelings?

2 Comments, 224 Views, 7 Votes ,2.79 Score
peterg19PLY 38 M
1  Article
safe sex doesnt feel the same does it?   10/23/2005

It may have the feeling of 'you're not gonna get crabs' but sticking your dick in a balloon, and then fucking really doesnt feel anywhere near as good as flesh on flesh

2 Comments, 333 Views, 11 Votes ,4.10 Score
safety   10/17/2005

My husband and I want to do a threesome with another female. What precautions should we use other than a condom-- Sexy08

4 Comments, 1196 Views, 29 Votes ,4.64 Score
Noob_of_the_year 28 M
1  Article
STDs Prevention?   9/29/2005

What is the posibility of even knowing you have contracted STDs because their incubation period is pretty long? Is there a sure way to confirm that you have contracted it and is a condom really protective enough to prevent you from contracting STDS? Are there others prevention measures?

1 Comments, 569 Views, 14 Votes ,3.78 Score
bi_anal_guy69 44 M
2  Articles
Watersports?   9/28/2005

i know that it can cause diseases, but can std's run through urine? It's obviously not the safest thing you can do, but has anyone that has done it ever had health problems or problems in general? any advice would help, thanks...

2 Comments, 499 Views, 14 Votes ,2.82 Score
It's more than just condoms   9/27/2005

We've been to a few different swinger clubs and resorts, and we're still amazed at the ignorance some people show. We were very happy at one place that really pushed safe sex - those that complain are either asked to leave or not invited back. At another location, it was frowned upon - with the answer that "people in the lifestyle don't have problems". They even complained about ...

1 Comments, 633 Views, 26 Votes ,6.05 Score
rm_turner11000 38 M
2  Articles
You think you know someone....   9/25/2005

You can meet someone that you think is fit and cool and get one really well. Everything goes well and you end up shagging, you always use condoms, but after you have split up she tells you that you still need to go to the docs because she has a disease that can be passed from her pussy lips to the very base of your penis. The motto is this, go to the doctors after you split from someone ...

0 Comments, 382 Views, 13 Votes ,4.49 Score
Safe Ass Licking   9/19/2005

What are the do's and don't of safe ass licking? Probably starts with a shower, but then what?

3 Comments, 629 Views, 7 Votes ,4.06 Score
JsAngelBaby 37 F
4  Articles
What To Buy?   9/15/2005

So I was thinking, since I want too much out of guys (like want one to be around 3 days out of seven) I was thinking that why not go get the next best thing . . . A vibrator or dildo. But I want to know more about them, what is what. Yes I have seen both, but what really works better? I have never had sex so if I get a dildo will it “pop my cherry, ” for say? ...

4 Comments, 557 Views, 11 Votes ,2.98 Score
justkickinit5 43 M
10  Articles
curious to see what the percentage of people out there are saf.   9/6/2005

well i was curious about how many peopl out there use condoms or some bitrth control... i hope its a big one , people we have got to be safe out there.... let me know...

3 Comments, 298 Views, 5 Votes ,3.47 Score
rm_BnKnNC 42 C
7  Articles
Wrap it   9/1/2005

If your gonna do it, Wrap it up!!! That's the only way to protect yourself. Especially, in a lifestyle like this. It only takes one person to have something before a whole lot of people can get it if you don't. It's not about birth control. It's about protecting yourself and the ones you love.

2 Comments, 244 Views, 12 Votes ,4.39 Score
a must   8/27/2005

it you are going to do it why not make it safe so you can do it again protect yourself

0 Comments, 270 Views, 6 Votes ,3.08 Score
cuple67 56 C
6  Articles
sex is good if we know how we do it   8/23/2005

hi to all nice and sexy people the sex live give us what we think in our imagination but we must be carfull a bout our health

0 Comments, 515 Views, 19 Votes ,1.94 Score
Is this safe ENOUGH?   8/22/2005

We've never been with anyone besides each other. We are only planning to play with one other couple, but we want to make sure that we are safe when we do. <br> Here's a basic "safety" list we came up with: <br> 1) Vaginal penetration by / with the other couple using condoms, but no internal cumshots. Pull out even with the rubber, pull the rubber off and let her jack him ...

2 Comments, 660 Views, 8 Votes ,3.25 Score
cplseeksfml4fun 44 C
9  Articles
Why do some people not like safe sex?   8/22/2005

Me and my husband are into the swinging lifestyle, yet we use protection both ways we go. We wouldn't have it any other way. It is the safest way to be. You avoid getting a deadly disease and you avoid getting pregnant by someone else's husband. <br> So why is it that people are so nasty and could care less about protection from both male and female point of views?

1 Comments, 303 Views, 15 Votes ,2.37 Score
mmmaybeu 51 M
3  Articles
oral   8/19/2005

Just wondering is oral sex safe or can you catch some nasties from it? Theres never such thing as a stupid question

0 Comments, 332 Views, 7 Votes ,4.31 Score
Why condoms????   8/18/2005

As a swinging couple I have to ask a seemingly stupid question? Why condoms? First of all you must trust, to a certain degree, the people you are swinging with. And if you engage in oral sex, as many of us do, you probably do it without a condom. So if a guy receives oral sex without the condom and then another guy receives oral sex from the same female it seems like those two guys just had ...

1 Comments, 496 Views, 15 Votes ,2.37 Score
hornydallasguy19 39 M
10  Articles
who does not like safe sex???   8/17/2005

i know i dont but its always better safe then sorry u know. but condoms feel soo weird n take alot of da pleasure away would u agree???

0 Comments, 60 Views, 3 Votes
HomerBigSlick 36 M
3  Articles
Condoms   8/17/2005

I hate using condoms, but unfortunately they are a necessity when sleeping with new partners. Does anyone out there know of any type of condoms that let you actually feel what you are doing?

1 Comments, 248 Views, 7 Votes ,3.55 Score
male contraceptive   8/16/2005

with the forthcomming trials of the male pill , would you trust yourself/your partner to take the pill?

0 Comments, 125 Views, 1 Votes
sixpackboytoy 42 M
3  Articles
fakes   8/16/2005

so many women are fake on this site you email them only to find that money is involved one way or another whether it be a site or flat out for sex people say if they look too good then it probably is but should i really have to lower my standards/

6 Comments, 551 Views, 24 Votes ,4.04 Score
4 bi men for fun (part 2)   8/14/2005

It was really getting very exciting one cock in my hand, one in my mouth, another mouth on my cock while another mouth sucked cock number four. It was so great. Lots of slurping, then in the background there is the faint tingle of a cell phone. Damn, someone's going to get called away. But no one leaves. How great is this, four of us enjoying the hot sex. I am tasting precum for the ...

0 Comments, 404 Views, 12 Votes ,4.74 Score
herc120368 55 M
9  Articles

No matter what the situation, ALWAYS PRACTICE SAFE SEX. As a guy and a girl, whether you like the feel of condoms or not, you should always practice safe. <br> Practicing safe sex not only helps in preventing STD's, but also helps in unwanted or unplanned pregnancies. If you dont't want an STD or if your mate is not ready to become a parent to a newborn, although feeling the ...

0 Comments, 98 Views, 4 Votes ,3.25 Score
rm_zoopa7789 44 M
1  Article
male birth control   8/8/2005

i've recently heard about a shot that men can take that will render them "sperm-free" for up to three years, without any major side effects... does anyone know anything about this?

0 Comments, 137 Views, 3 Votes ,1.47 Score
rm_gmik1973 51 M
3  Articles


0 Comments, 135 Views, 5 Votes ,1.84 Score
the benefits of condoms.   8/5/2005

what a great way to have sex and stay safe, with condoms. when you are using a condom then you decrease the chances of diseases. always ask your partner or tell your partner if you have a s.t.d. , and take precautions that keeps everyone safe.

0 Comments, 88 Views, 5 Votes ,3.80 Score
rm_howie5000 62 M
4  Articles
safe sex   8/4/2005

you canrt be too carefull today safe sex is a must

0 Comments, 107 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
AbsolutePrincss 55 C
3  Articles
Be Carefull   8/4/2005

Even though your cought up in the moment of hot wrong forget to stop and take the time to use protection. It wouldn't take much to get and spread something around...expecially if you have multiple partners

1 Comments, 540 Views, 34 Votes ,6.39 Score
looking4purefun 33 M
1  Article
With so many options how do you find trust   8/3/2005

With so many people on this site contacting one another for several different reasons from hooking up for dinner, making new friends, or just hardcore sex, how do you know who's clean... Everyone wants d/d free people because no one that is clean and knows they are for sure wants to catch anything. I know I'm clean because I am tested anytime I change partners and after I have been with ...

0 Comments, 120 Views, 6 Votes ,3.93 Score

Phone sex fun is anonymous.You can call someone, chat with them about sexy fantasies, then live them out! You can be sexually explicit, say what the other person wants to hear, enjoy satisfaction with that person and, hopefully, hear them when they kum and they hear you when you kum! The women take the longest time to smooth-talk into orgasm and the men take the least time.Hearing a woman ...

0 Comments, 75 Views, 3 Votes ,1.47 Score
SingleWhiteMan5 39 M
6  Articles
Has anyone gotten an STD from someone on AdultFriendFinder?   7/29/2005

I think if someone has an STD they should be required to post it on AdultFriendFinder, a lot of people are here for only sex and the more STD's spread the more likely it is anyone can catch them. There should be an option to post your records on AdultFriendFinder to prove that you do not have STD's, at least to the date shown, kind of like the confirm ID thing, what do ya think?

6 Comments, 706 Views, 25 Votes ,5.46 Score
smartin2680 44 M
2  Articles
the new patch..   7/27/2005

i am sexually active and recently i met a women who uses the patch for her contraceptive choice. i am a firm believer in the condom not only for stds but for birth control. she had said that it was just like the pill but better. i had my doubts anyway but am asking if anyone uses it or been with someone who does and how effective is it?

2 Comments, 305 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
Cunnilingus and safe sex   7/22/2005

I like to eat pussy, I am good at it. I want to be safe. Tell me what you know about safety. What do you do?

3 Comments, 990 Views, 14 Votes ,2.98 Score
jumboman69247 45 M
6  Articles
Oral Sex and HIV   7/17/2005

I hear that you can catch HIV from oral sex, especially if the sex fluid is squirted directly into the mouth without exposure to air first. The giver of oral can get it even if there are no cuts/sores in their mouth. Given this, how many people actual use condoms/dental dams for oral sex? I for one, couldn't imagine the pleasure being anywhere the same, since contact with the ...

2 Comments, 910 Views, 18 Votes ,2.17 Score
Sweetcock_1977 47 M
10  Articles
Condoms   7/14/2005

My friend told me they streched a condom over their head, is this possible or r they winding me up?

2 Comments, 171 Views, 5 Votes ,2.49 Score
GreatWithTounge2 47 M
4  Articles
Condoms   7/14/2005

Arnt they a pain in the arse, always ruin the moment + it feels so much better without! Wish there were another safe form of protection!

0 Comments, 106 Views, 7 Votes ,2.53 Score
rm_CUindasheets 56 M
5  Articles
What is a "safeword"?   7/13/2005

One of the thrills of SM is that it can stretch your limitations. If you enjoy this sort of play, you can naturally find yourself trying more and more new things, accepting greater and greater levels of sensation, doing and feeling more than you've ever done or felt before. But the process is slow and gradual, and people are not telepathic. It may be that you are the bottom in a whipping ...

0 Comments, 89 Views, 7 Votes ,2.02 Score
rm_brjn1 47 C
1  Article
Blood Donors and Safe Sex   7/13/2005

We have read on the advice lines before that the easiest way to get tested for sexually transmitted diseases in America is to be a blood donor, and that donors are given a certificate to say they are healthy. <br> Is this really what happens over there? <br> This doesn't happen in the UK. Our blood transfusion service has a policy of refusing blood donations from ...

4 Comments, 444 Views, 24 Votes ,4.61 Score
hawksoccer5 37 M
0  Articles
Practice Safe Sex!   7/12/2005

You should always practice safe sex becuz u dont want a that u didnt plan on runnin around in her womb!

0 Comments, 75 Views, 6 Votes ,2.80 Score
dealer0900 37 M
5  Articles
Are enlargement pills safe or do they have side effects?   7/12/2005

I was going through a site where I have seen the ads of enlargement pills, that "guarantee" satisfaction in a certain amount of time. I have read through their mechanism and how they actually stimulate the penis, and I think it would actually work. However, my concern is about their side effects. Since the enlargement pills are not tested in Bayer's laboratories, a question mark ...

1 Comments, 229 Views, 9 Votes ,3.00 Score
huckin 53 M
2  Articles
Why Talk about Safe Sex?   7/7/2005

I totally agree with this person. Sex, NO MATTER how, should always be safe. Take ALL the precautions there are.

1 Comments, 85 Views, 7 Votes ,5.08 Score
Abercrombie532 36 M
2  Articles
Getting tested   7/5/2005

Getting tested for hiv and other stds is something that should be done on a regular basis.

4 Comments, 238 Views, 12 Votes ,4.57 Score
SweetandWild27 48 F
3  Articles
Why Talk about safe sex   7/3/2005

Ok People, Think about this..You are on AdultFriendFinder, looking for sex, sex, and more sex, with someone You talk with through a damn screen..And Face it People condoms dont always work, nor does Birthcontrol, or being fixed...The only way to know You wont catch something is to get off the Sex Sites, and meet someone that You can actually see in person on a daily bases, and get to know that person ...

1 Comments, 534 Views, 24 Votes ,3.36 Score
my encounters with ladies when making love...   7/3/2005

making love is an art of enjoyment, with someone that we have chemistry and mutual understanding with... the enjoyment of being touch, feel, kiss, caress, and taste physically... in all, be it ladies or guy, we do have our needs at times... precautions need to be taken care of when we are enjoying love making...i have in due respects for the ladies that i have met so far... thanks! to ...

1 Comments, 195 Views, 3 Votes ,3.92 Score
tiny_puppy 46 F
6  Articles
just feel safe with condom   7/2/2005

too worried when without condom with some guy ..make me ready to mad. Clean, safe ...very important...

4 Comments, 460 Views, 20 Votes ,4.53 Score
Yumee6969 38 M
8  Articles
no more give away babies   6/29/2005

Why dont people just wear condoms or take some other form of contraceptive? There are enough people in the world, unwonted ones should not have to suffer through life because someone else was too selfish to prevent it from hapenning. If you want then have them but otherwise use safe sex. It wouldnt just be your life you would ruin but the childs as well.

1 Comments, 57 Views, 1 Votes ,5.00 Score
Yumee6969 38 M
8  Articles
Condoms   6/29/2005

Safe sex is essential in the 21st century with all of the std scares yet people still have unprotected sex. I think that people who have std's should have to wear somesort of a tag or some other form of identification because they are murdering other people. Then those people sleep with others and pass on the virus. People need to be educated better because a thin strip of latex during safe ...

0 Comments, 49 Views, 2 Votes ,5.20 Score
long_islander53 61 M
9  Articles
What is safe sex?   6/29/2005

Hopefully everyone is practicing safe sex. I bring this up because I watched a TV news magazine which had a segment on couples promising no sex before marraige. <br> Well did you know Bill Clinton isn't the only one who does not consider a BJ as sex? Also some of these are having Anal Intercourse. Guess what, a few of the have STD's because there partner did not abstain before ...

0 Comments, 100 Views, 4 Votes ,4.41 Score
Clintdriftwood 47 M
14  Articles
SEX HOW SAFE IS IT   6/29/2005

How safe are we really with needles on every street corner. People today are treating life as something you get more than one go at. <br> How do you feel about sex and how safe it really is?

0 Comments, 360 Views, 0 Votes
dynamitesneon 41 M
10  Articles
Is there a way as safe as condoms but feels like the real thing?   6/28/2005

I suppose the title pretty much sums this up.

2 Comments, 222 Views, 5 Votes ,3.47 Score
sexycowboy24 39 M
9  Articles
Clean   6/28/2005

I love AdultFriendFinder but any suggestions for finding out if a member is "clean"?

1 Comments, 178 Views, 2 Votes ,1.73 Score
loveitlickedhard 45 F
8  Articles
How long do you wait   6/28/2005

how long do you know a person before you trust them to not use a condom?

4 Comments, 335 Views, 9 Votes ,2.78 Score
loveitlickedhard 45 F
8  Articles
For those who love anal   6/28/2005

Do you like it with or without protection?

1 Comments, 402 Views, 8 Votes ,3.25 Score
loveitlickedhard 45 F
8  Articles
what do you think   6/28/2005

Who hates to use condoms more men or women?

1 Comments, 207 Views, 4 Votes ,3.25 Score
Condoms   6/27/2005

I've found that condoms are the safest way to have sex. It will protect you from STD's, pregnancy and you can still have sex and then cum inside her without worries.

0 Comments, 121 Views, 3 Votes ,2.94 Score
okiecouple4fun4 55 C
10  Articles
Advice   6/25/2005

If you had a friend that you have been close to for a long time and you know everything there is to know about them, and you got drunk or just decided to take the friendship further would you wear a condom or trust that they or you are clean?

1 Comments, 188 Views, 9 Votes ,1.50 Score
rm_101101001 58 C
75  Articles
The end of STDs'.   6/22/2005

I read several pages of postings form the safe sex postings. Why does no one speak of the last time that they went for HIV testing or testing period for that matter? <br> How many of you have been repeatedly tested for HIV, say once a month for three months from different labs? <br> My husband and I are both HIV negative. We got tested before having sex even with ...

4 Comments, 182 Views, 12 Votes ,3.33 Score
rm_101101001 58 C
75  Articles
Would you join a   6/22/2005

I would like to know if and how many other people in Northwest Indiana (Lake County) would be interested in joining a "Clean Fucking Buddies" interest group if I started one. <br> <br> All members must agree to the following. HIV Testing is free and anonymous. <br> <br> 1. Potential members must be willing to be tested and must have their ...

0 Comments, 111 Views, 9 Votes ,3.43 Score
put it on   6/21/2005

wear a condum

0 Comments, 125 Views, 6 Votes ,1.94 Score
bigjohnstud29 41 M
5  Articles
Good Times!   6/20/2005

Any women in the Vancouver area looking for a good time? I'm a horny male willing to please. Get in touch.

0 Comments, 55 Views, 1 Votes ,5.00 Score
rm_DIZEE125 38 M
2  Articles
Seeing if this works   6/15/2005

Just looking for a sweet sexy in shape girl to get to know and have passionate hours with. If there are any sexy females out there, wanting some of a young gun, hit me up.

0 Comments, 79 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
thirsty4sex2u 48 M
2  Articles
How much safe sex is possible with a stranger   6/13/2005

I had sex with a stranger gal while I was out of station for business purpose. I met her near a beach and recognized she's willing to go with anyone to satisfy their lust for money. I called her and she agreed. Since I hadn't got a room she suggested to have the intercourse on the backside of a shop. Shop had been closed that evening. I realised that I haven't got any modes for ...

3 Comments, 569 Views, 21 Votes ,3.00 Score
ihvirisheyestoo 64 F
40  Articles
Cherry Vanilla   6/12/2005

Tongues embracing in quick passion Tightly wrapped in each other's arms Legs entwined, bodies on fire Down his neck, her cherry lips go He breathes in deep, runs his hands down her back Enjoying the soft kisses on his hard body Running his fingers through her silk-like hair Almost letting out a small groan when he smiles She smiles up at him ...

0 Comments, 172 Views, 14 Votes ,4.74 Score
MathiasA 64 M
3  Articles
Make Sure!!   6/6/2005

Recently on a long weekend trip to MTL some of us ended up in a club which was rather out there (in a good way). dance club up stairs downstairs the caverns. Your given a lock and key for a locker because clothes are not allowed, 50 person jaccuzzi, pool tables, bar area, private/semi-private or out in the open areas and boy are they used. but one man and woman stood out. This bozo tried to ...

1 Comments, 336 Views, 9 Votes ,1.93 Score
properboitellye 32 M
2  Articles
condoms   6/5/2005

anyone else find regular condoms too small and tight but king sized ones too big?!

2 Comments, 213 Views, 7 Votes
Do you have safe sex   6/2/2005

It is good to know the person you are think about having sexuall encounters with has practiced safe sex. With the sexually transmitted disease's in the world today noone wants to be in fear of what if they had this or maybe this, It is a good idea to get regularly checked for your own benifit and for the other person as well. It doesnt take much time to have a test done and if it saves you ...

2 Comments, 330 Views, 32 Votes ,5.58 Score
rm_Aiwaloki 50 M
2  Articles
What is a better system?   6/1/2005

I been dating one women for a while and I used the pull out method. We have tried birth control pills and an IUD. I have been fixed, but the tests showed the operation was a failure. Is the sponge any good? How does it work?

0 Comments, 250 Views, 8 Votes ,1.86 Score
rm_cosgirl_83 40 F
2  Articles
condoms?   5/31/2005

does anyone believe in condoms anymore? its not just the fact that theres diseases out there, but does everyone also relise it helps lower the rate of unwanted pregnancies...i had a at 15 years of age, although i never regret it, my means the world to me, but there was no way i was having an many young ones are having just for the money..its hard work i raise my along, and ...

5 Comments, 468 Views, 28 Votes ,5.60 Score
FIRST DATES   5/29/2005


1 Comments, 186 Views, 15 Votes ,2.52 Score
donnydaduchi 46 M
3  Articles
condom is key   5/28/2005

Condoms are very important today is sex, an people act like aids is not out there protect yourself

1 Comments, 190 Views, 12 Votes ,2.27 Score
thebomb2112 55 M
7  Articles
condoms and myths   5/28/2005

For the guys who think sex is not as good or dosn't feel the same when you were a condom, I think its all in your mind, I mean, they got so many different kinds of condoms now that its allmost impossible not to find one that is too your likeing. One time I was getting my dick sucked by this girl and I didn't even know she slid on a rubber intill I shot my load and it did't get in her face. ...

2 Comments, 200 Views, 14 Votes ,4.26 Score
PennStateMTB210 40 M
1  Article
VIRGINITY   5/26/2005

Is it a bad thing for a 21 year old male to remain a virgin? I seem to be made fun of for it all the time.

5 Comments, 361 Views, 15 Votes ,3.59 Score
condoms   5/20/2005

ive tried the polyurethane condoms, and i have to say they are much better than latex when it comes to sensation. what are the stats on their effectiveness? does anyone know? are they better? worse? the same?

0 Comments, 170 Views, 13 Votes ,2.98 Score
rm_caotiloco 62 M
8  Articles
Practice, Practice, Practice   5/20/2005

Guys - always use protection! Girls - don't let a guy infect you - demand protection!! It's your life - protect it!

0 Comments, 86 Views, 8 Votes ,3.01 Score
shamar76 40 M
5  Articles
Safe Sex in My View   5/19/2005

I think safe sex is when both the parties taking part in it are safe. As we see in Mumbai, all sex workers should be certified by a medical officer to go on with their profession. It would be better if they are given an identity card and another card where her previous medical history and routine checkup details are mentioned. This will help her customers to ensure safety.

0 Comments, 147 Views, 8 Votes ,3.01 Score
rm_silversoul7 41 M
1  Article
Herpes protection   5/18/2005

I know that condoms can protect against most STDs like gonnorhea or syphilis, but what about herpes or HPV(genital warts), which spread by mere contact without any exchange of body fluid? If someone has these things in their genital area, they can spread it to you even if you wear a condom. Is there any way(other than abstinence) to protect against this? Is there some way you can tell if ...

1 Comments, 421 Views, 11 Votes ,4.85 Score
N33dsl0tsofsex 38 M
2  Articles
Condoms   5/16/2005

Condoms arent always reliable, but to make it extra safe, wear two... it may take away some of the pleasure, but anything is better then nothing

1 Comments, 183 Views, 6 Votes ,1.94 Score
I_Want_It_ 39 M
8  Articles
To Vasectomy, Or Not?   5/16/2005

Is it worth it? <br> Pros: Never Worry About Pregnancy Again!!! Never deal with condoms, pills, etc... <br> Cons: Possibly never have . Still have to worry about STD's and use condoms for STD protection... <br> I don't know.. I also worry; will it stlil feel the same? Has anyone out there had one? Please tell me all about your experience. I REALLY ...

1 Comments, 129 Views, 6 Votes ,3.08 Score
shelby6655 46,1946 C
4  Articles
Bare backing! why?   5/15/2005

M yself and my partner are very sexually active people. even if its not with other people we both have a strict view on safety in the bedroom. Its not that we are prude or narrow minde but we have been amazed by stories of what has become known as barebacking. We know of people (not people we would consider for a sexual relationship) who speak openly about and even at times boastfully of ...

4 Comments, 627 Views, 28 Votes ,4.47 Score
rm_BieastTXm 44 M
1  Article
Who hates rubbers?   5/3/2005

I was recently with a woman who said she prefers it without a rubber. Is this something women think about? I have never before heard this from a woman and wanted to know if other women fell the same way. I always thought it was supposed to be the guy who hates rubbers.

3 Comments, 456 Views, 21 Votes ,2.63 Score
rm_killerk0ck 39 M
2  Articles
why refuse to play it safe?   5/2/2005

So many ppl these days are trying to bypass safe sex. I am just thinking why would u do this? Your body is really all that u have, it's what no one can take away from u. So why would u wanna take it away from yourself by having unprotected sex

1 Comments, 63 Views, 7 Votes ,3.80 Score
doesnt safe sex reduce sexual pleasure   4/29/2005

safe sex is great, but when you have to put protection(like condoms)it actually reduces sexual pleasure(due to not full contact of organs) thats why being catious with sex is much better than wearing protection, dont you think?

1 Comments, 176 Views, 15 Votes
Herpes: What's HSV1 and HSV2?   4/28/2005

There seems to be a lot of misunderstanding on this site about just exactly what HSV1 and 2 are. <br> Both are common forms of Herpes. Now, most people would say "I don't have Herpes!" and likely "I need to avoid people with Herpes!" <br> Here's the deal plain and simple. The Centers for Disease Control in the United States estimates that 75% of adults in the US have one ...

4 Comments, 510 Views, 25 Votes ,7.00 Score
hatter001 51 M
1  Article
Its just this simple   4/27/2005

How many times have you heard about someone that is sexually active getting HIV? too many times in my oppinion. People need to use a little common sense when sex is involved. We all know that sex without a condom feels better, but catching HIV from unprotected sex will only give you blisters on your hand in the long run. whpo wants to have sex with someone that is HIV positive, especially ...

1 Comments, 172 Views, 11 Votes ,4.10 Score
calboy9820481278 48 M
1  Article
safe sex today it inesary   4/23/2005

it nesar y coz people should know each other other wise hiv and toher posiblities so be careful wiht out protecction . I say it is with condom you will be enjoying a banna with the cover which no one likes. so be carful

0 Comments, 92 Views, 13 Votes ,2.30 Score
Safe Sex is Difficult to Achieve   4/22/2005

I practice safe sex by using a condom when I am having intercourse or anal sex. But how do you achieve a level of safe sex when you are a very oral lover like me. I am not satisfied if I have not orally serviced a women to multiple orgasms, and on good days to the point where she squirts. I love doing that. I love the feeling of making her body squirm and tremble with pleasure ...

5 Comments, 557 Views, 8 Votes ,3.01 Score
Jeff26651 47 M
1  Article
Safest Sex Solution   4/18/2005

Abstinence, refraining from sexual intercourse, is a common practice all over the world. Historically, abstinence has probably been the single most important factor in preventing pregnancy. Women and men of all ages deliberately choose to abstain. Abstinence is a normal, common, and acceptable alternative to sexual intercourse. <br> Although some use only sexual behavior to ...

2 Comments, 92 Views, 4 Votes ,1.69 Score
how do you handle stalkers?   4/15/2005

What if you have osmeoen that keeps e-mailing you, you don;t want ot block them but are just not interested and they still don;t get the hint?

1 Comments, 81 Views, 4 Votes ,2.08 Score
is it ok to ask for condom use   4/14/2005

What do you all think about using a condom to give head?

1 Comments, 255 Views, 5 Votes ,2.49 Score
asguy 41 M
9  Articles
toys   4/12/2005

Hey people don't use toys during the sex. Becouse they may be not useful for your health. Just use what you must to use.

0 Comments, 145 Views, 7 Votes
rm_Crokodie 40 M
1  Article
Is there a 100% safe sex in swingigng???   4/12/2005

I doubt that anything could happen, even if we use condoms. Oral could probably cause decease. Are we aware of it, or is it only just things we like to take chance or take risk. How is the situation about deseases in swinging?

0 Comments, 205 Views, 6 Votes ,2.23 Score
rimming preps   4/4/2005

in getting ready for play, i wash everywhere thoroughly. some people are interested in rimming. seems that i wash and wash but i always feel that it is not enough and im going to be embarrassed once they go down there. should i use a strong fragrance soap or wash on top of being spotless?

0 Comments, 239 Views, 10 Votes ,2.39 Score
Safe Sex   4/1/2005

this is a bit of a misnomer. Safe sex would only be between 2 virginal people in a monogamous relationship. Condoms decrease the risk of transmitting (or receiving) sexually transmitted diseases. They do not eliminate the risk. The major problem with them, other than breaking, coming off in the act, or bad quality control, is that they do not prevent the spread of human papaloma virus ...

0 Comments, 143 Views, 10 Votes ,5.58 Score
sexmachine1450 39 M
4  Articles
wrap up!!   4/1/2005

im writing this so people who dont wear condoms when having sex take notice, recently a freind of mine had sex with a girl when he was drunk and now has caught an sti off her, so make sure you wrap up before have sex!!

0 Comments, 250 Views, 10 Votes ,4.58 Score
Is it sex without condoms?   3/31/2005

Many won't say its sex just because they are told by partners to use but i wonder how safe they want to be if they ignore safety!

0 Comments, 223 Views, 9 Votes ,3.85 Score
chillen405 41 M
21  Articles
best condoms, ladies please answer   3/30/2005

What are the best condoms from a womans point of view, which do u like the most and why?

0 Comments, 320 Views, 10 Votes ,3.78 Score
rm_ynohtna2005 39 M
9  Articles
Practice Safe Sex   3/27/2005

Safe sex is important with all those things going around today, it is important for us to practice it, sex was created by God for us to enjoy. So keep it safe both men and women love yah. Yah MANNN!!!!!!!!! IRIE

0 Comments, 82 Views, 6 Votes ,4.22 Score
wantsunfussygal 28 M
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Safe sex or not?   3/20/2005

Should we always use safe sex, are there people who prefer not too? I know an 18 yr old girl of the site that wants to have sex without a condom and shes not under birth control. She says it adds to the 'excitement' she met up with a guy off here for a weekend near the end of her cycle and she ended up benig pregnant. I dont know what her views are on it now, but the guy seemed chuffed with ...

5 Comments, 432 Views, 18 Votes ,3.53 Score
rm_silkbodee 50 M
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Is anybody having it?   3/17/2005

Sex just isn't the same when you put a condom on. The pill is great along with other birth control methods but without seeing a man ejaculate it just isn't the same. Yes you can get a lot of diseases but there must be an easier way to screen these people! Don't take the fun out of my loving S.T.D.'s!!

1 Comments, 295 Views, 12 Votes
HornyNow069 53 F
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Condoms?   3/17/2005

I am amazed everyday at how many men want to hook up without using condoms. It seems to me that in today's world everyone would be using condoms but I have found that less people seem to be using them. I really don't understand this. How do you handle the situation when you have told them safe sex only and they show up and try to enter unnoticed without the condom?

4 Comments, 448 Views, 23 Votes ,4.41 Score
19robby69 54 M
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ALWAYS THINK   3/16/2005


1 Comments, 159 Views, 6 Votes ,4.79 Score
Condoms   3/13/2005

what is the best type of condom to ensure pleasure for both parties to me its lifestyle in the yellow box. the french ticklers condoms to me hurt feels like someones sticking you in the side with needles

2 Comments, 418 Views, 23 Votes ,3.83 Score
habruleca 52 M
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alwas use a comdom   3/10/2005

I am not able to reproduce any more due to the snip opreation, but when i get my chance to meet someone either from in here or just from the mall i will make sure a condom is used, never be safe about what is out there me or them do not need to be getting sick.

1 Comments, 179 Views, 15 Votes ,4.97 Score
is it relly safe   3/8/2005

what happens if things dont work out like you planed and get something what then you cant blame anyone but your self and the person that gave it to you

1 Comments, 115 Views, 6 Votes ,2.23 Score
There is no such thing as safe sex   3/5/2005

I know a lot has been posted about safe sex. But, in reality, there is no such thing. Some members say we should carry our STD results around with us to prove we are clean. HELLO, anybody that has taken an HIV test is told that the results are only accurate up to 3 months BEFORE the date of the test. Meaning my last HIV test, on 2/15/05, is only accurate to 11/15/04. Obviously, using a ...

0 Comments, 391 Views, 34 Votes ,6.48 Score
tessandhim 60 C
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What kind of condom is best?   3/3/2005

I'm sure we all use condoms with 'friends' so here's my question. What kind of condom (brand and type) is best for YOU? There are so many choices but who really knows what to bring to the party? Do women and men perfer the new heat ones or ribbed or ultra thin or ......? Let me know.

2 Comments, 338 Views, 12 Votes ,1.74 Score
MUTigerinOPKS 55 M
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Self Pleasure   3/2/2005

As long as I'm here and with like minded adults I wanted to share my thoughts and desires (and maybe an experience) regarding mutual masturbation. Sure, I love to masturbate! However, and more recently, I crave the company of a female - I want to let her into my private world of self pleasure. I know many of you may be saying "what the hell are you talking about, there is nothing better ...

2 Comments, 326 Views, 15 Votes ,4.36 Score
condoms really suck   2/24/2005

I think as a guy using a condom really sucks. You loss some of that sensativity with a coat on. And from talking to some women, I know they don't enjoy it either. They lose the feeling of that wet, hot shooting load.

4 Comments, 467 Views, 21 Votes ,1.89 Score
JacksonWICouple 51 C
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I see condoms used , but not for blow jobs   2/24/2005

I see pictures of couples who say condoms are a must and see the same women with the guys cock in their mouth. Do you all think you cant catch something this way also. You have the mans member in your mouth and this also can give you STDs.You must use a condom for all sex and the man must use a dam for oral on a women. So I guess some of you need to wake up if you really want to practice ...

1 Comments, 712 Views, 26 Votes ,5.07 Score
BJ's and safe sex?   2/22/2005

Does anyone ever practice safe sex when it comes to performing oral sex on men? Do condom's work well for that? Any suggestions or advice appreciated!

3 Comments, 1065 Views, 26 Votes ,4.21 Score
Dental Dam   2/20/2005

I love oral sex - but fid it difficult to buy dental dams in local stores. Any idea why the idea of dental dam has not caught on as much as condoms? Now many people like to go downtown I guess .

3 Comments, 614 Views, 5 Votes ,2.16 Score
redswallow777 92 M
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So how do you control the risks?   2/18/2005

I suspect we have an audience here that is, or would like to be very sexually active. What are the real risks of being active....having multiple sexual partners? <br> I have been in a monogamous relationship for many years. I know my partner and I know the risks. I am looking outside that relationship for sexual experiences but it scares me a bit. Is a condom enough to ...

1 Comments, 450 Views, 12 Votes ,2.45 Score
Has anyone tried these?   2/17/2005

Has anyone tried the Trojan Extended Pleasure or Durex Performax condoms?

2 Comments, 230 Views, 5 Votes ,2.82 Score
Always Safe!   2/17/2005

There is no sure way to have safe sex, condoms break or slide off during sex but you have to at least try! I'm a Bi Tgirl and have sex with guys as much or more than women. This puts me in a hi risk cataglory. Although a condom never feels as good as bare it's the least you can do for yourself and your partner! Alway hot n horny! Kristy

0 Comments, 264 Views, 11 Votes ,4.29 Score
rm_StarShadow34 53 F
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Favorite Brands of Condoms   2/13/2005

Hey there guys, <br> What are your favorite brand of condoms to use and why do you like them? <br> Are there any types you really dislike using?

5 Comments, 779 Views, 44 Votes ,3.98 Score
rm_BiggiPie 45 M
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Please be real   2/13/2005

Hi i think we do this ( AdultFriendFinder) for differnt purposses some just because the feeling of people paing attention to your pix or profile makes them feel good others because we would like to really meet other people and try new stuff, me i would like to meet and get to know what others like and dont like Call it friendship with a twist i met some nice people here but none of them look to be ...

0 Comments, 93 Views, 5 Votes ,4.45 Score
clit_worshipper 45 M
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Never Leave Home Without It   2/8/2005

Know your partners. Respect yourself and your partners. Always use condoms.

0 Comments, 105 Views, 11 Votes ,3.92 Score
clit_worshipper 45 M
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How to have Anal Sex for the Very First Time.   2/8/2005

First thing to remember: clean everything. She should have colonic enema to cleanse all fecal matter, old and new, and bacteria. Do not spread the bacteria from her anus/rectum to her vaginal opening or urethra. Have fresh towels and toy cleaner on hand. And LOTS of LUBE. Water-based lubricants will not break down latex condoms like oil-based lubricants. Polyurethane condoms work ...

0 Comments, 354 Views, 23 Votes ,6.40 Score
Sexually transmitted diseases rising   2/6/2005

I would just like to say that statistics show that the practises of safe sex are ignored, as incidents of chlamidia, gonorrhea and syphillis are on the why dont people use condoms? The men that I have had relationships with always say that they dont like using condoms, lack of sensitivity, spontaneity etc. Has any other female experienced this? and how do they deal with ...

1 Comments, 174 Views, 17 Votes ,3.13 Score
Does any actually worry about Diseases anymore?   2/3/2005

There is a likelyhood that exists that you will make a connection or just hook-up for some sex as a result from using this website. Most people (well I can actually only speak for myself) are looking for a little something on the side, however I have read alot of profiles on AAF that advertise the willingness to do anything with anyone. This bothers me a bit. I would like to find a friend ...

1 Comments, 188 Views, 9 Votes ,4.07 Score
joebunda83 50 M
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Phone Safety   1/31/2005

A bit of advice to ladies that are considering giving out their phone number to engage in a little "harmless" phone sex. Make certain your number is unlisted, or use a cell number. <br> Cell have no central data bank for the public to look up (yet!). Your standard land line (if not protected) is way too much information to give to someone you don't really know. With just a ...

0 Comments, 139 Views, 7 Votes ,4.57 Score
AdultFriendFinder...Wrap It Up!   1/29/2005

Lets face it; a man will stick his penis anywhere a woman tells him to. It’s your prerogative to choose to have sex with or without a condom. Personally I think anyone who has sex with a man or a woman and doesn’t use a condom is playing Russian roulette with his or her lives. Unless you are in a serious relationship don’t let some man put his penis in you without a ...

3 Comments, 803 Views, 74 Votes ,8.32 Score
surferbra69 41 M
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condom   1/28/2005

do not expose a condom to heat or else it will break

0 Comments, 122 Views, 5 Votes ,3.14 Score
anal sex   1/28/2005

i have never had anal sex. Is there anyone out there that could inform me on how to go about to try it. my ex said it hurt when we tried an dsaid she would let me try again but never did. Any pointers

3 Comments, 478 Views, 19 Votes ,3.12 Score
fiestycouple4 38 C
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condoms   1/19/2005

comming from a males perspective i prefer to use condoms while having sex

0 Comments, 497 Views, 24 Votes ,1.99 Score
Out by a mile....   1/18/2005

I once slid feet first into a pussy. A perfect hook slide, I thought. Just missing that tag. Oh yeah, I was crowing. Safe at Sex. But then that blind motherfucking umpire called me out. I jumped up and argued, but the reply showed clearly that I was out. Damn. Thought I was safe at sex.

0 Comments, 310 Views, 13 Votes ,2.14 Score
don't try this at home...   1/17/2005

The other night this filthy crack and I were getting down, when I thought that I ought to use some protection. (I think that it was the smell that gave it away). But I didn't have a condom and she didn't either, that inconsiderate . So I took an old Alka-Seltzer that I had found on the sidewalk (we were at her place)and I inserted it in her cooze. Holy Sweet Jesus!!!! She bubbled and ...

1 Comments, 689 Views, 38 Votes
el sexo anal???? Que pasa????   1/17/2005

That is so neat....el sexo anal...wham, bam thank you senorita. The only safe sex is sex with a nun. They haven't really slept around alot and their pussy is blessed by God and Jesus. Can't beat a warranty like that. So next time you wonder about safe sex, just remember the chicks down at the nunnery are waiting to hear from you. And believe me, they like it deep.

0 Comments, 160 Views, 8 Votes ,2.09 Score
The waiting game   1/17/2005

It is so easy to get caught up in the moment and want to be adventurist...but just think about this- is the experience worth the restless nights. <br> I must admit, my hormones were raging one night and in a spur of the moment act, I ate out a girl I had just met a few hours ago. for days after, i couldn't help but fear I had contracted an STD from this impromptu oral adventure. ...

0 Comments, 230 Views, 12 Votes ,5.27 Score
Excite6970 54 C
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Where do we go to get tested to show we're DF?   1/14/2005

My wife and I have never been tested and want to do so just so we can answer potential new friends that we are truly disease free. Niether of us feel comfortable at all with addressing this with our normal doctors due to living in small communities and knowing office personel. Discretion is the utmost of importance to us. Are there common clinics that will provide testing? Also, what is ...

4 Comments, 732 Views, 40 Votes ,4.35 Score
Reel Bum-er   1/13/2005

I recently met a female on this site who gave me something to think about and I wonder what others might think. She had been in a relationship with a man until recently for over two years. During that time she says he is the only man she had sex with as they were supposed to be exclusive. She learned he had on several swinger's sites and was running around so she broke up with him. ...

4 Comments, 845 Views, 40 Votes ,6.59 Score
getdown1st 68 C
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TEST RESULTS?   1/12/2005


3 Comments, 378 Views, 26 Votes ,5.07 Score
rm_havoc_022 44 F
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how can u be sure   1/4/2005

how often can u realy be sure our partiner is clean...even after they tell you or you go to get a check up with them...your not in the dr office with them??? or can you go in?

4 Comments, 529 Views, 47 Votes ,3.23 Score
First Oral Sex Male with Male   1/1/2005

Ok, tonight i got an offer. I have always fanasized about oral sex with a guy. Well tonight i got an offer from a bi-guy to meet him tomorow. I am a tad nervous tho. I know nothing about how to give good oral sex or anything about him except what we talked about on the internet. Do you think this is a safe thing to do? Is there any type of caution i should take before "meeting" with this ...

3 Comments, 492 Views, 11 Votes ,3.35 Score
Condoms a must   12/31/2004

Any woman who has unprotected sex is a bimbo. If you feel like living disease and certain death free please protect yourself.

1 Comments, 627 Views, 81 Votes ,6.45 Score
SplitTailLuvr 71 M
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Cuckold husbands, safe or not?   12/31/2004

Men what has been your experience with cuckold husbands? I've seen a number of profiles where women or couples are asking for men to have sex with the women while the husband is watching, participating or just around. I'm not to sure about something like this, as I don't want some husband going ape shit on me while I was doing his woman. What's the scoop?

1 Comments, 707 Views, 10 Votes ,1.79 Score
Condoms   12/31/2004

I feel there must be something better that interupting that special moment than having to whip one out. Someone could make a fortune.

0 Comments, 146 Views, 10 Votes ,2.99 Score
scorpion696978 45 M
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always needed   12/31/2004

with todays people u can never be to safe or can you? what are some way to protect urself 100%

1 Comments, 221 Views, 11 Votes ,3.54 Score