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Hot Pussy   1/19/2005

Ok folks, I want you to admit to the most stupid thing you have ever done whilst getting ready for the 'big' date. I am new to AdultFriendFinder and love it and recently had my first real meet which was a great sucess, but behind the scenes there was panic. I had been talking to this really nice guy for a while and we finally arranged to meet, however the day before he asked if he could rearrange ...

6 Comments, 570 Views, 43 Votes ,3.54 Score
Come on guys what do you really think?   1/18/2005

I have just had my first real meeting through AdultFriendFinder and I had the best sex ever. I am now completely hooked as the older I get the more sex I want. But all my life if a guy has multiple sex partners hes a stud but a woman? All you horny guys out there are looking for sex, but what do you think, really think of the women who answer you genuinely, who genuinely want to meet for sex. ...

3 Comments, 422 Views, 12 Votes ,3.68 Score
a humbling experience....   1/18/2005

So I dated this girl I met on-line. Well imagine her disappointment when I showed up, instead of the guy in my profile. No rippling muscles, no flowing hair (except on my back)and no monster 15 inch love tool, unless you count my Ronald McDonald shoes I was wearing. To sit across from this young lady and watch her dissolve right in front of me was humbling. I had played right into her sick, ...

4 Comments, 298 Views, 14 Votes
Satanists need love too..   1/17/2005

So I go on this date, right. And we are really hitting it off and I'm feeling lucky. Well, and then, I happen to mention that I worship the Lord Satan. would've thought that I had pissed on her sweet messiah's head or something. She freaks out. Starts crossing herself and everything. She ask me if I'm going to sacrifice her. I tell her that Lord Satan is only interested ...

3 Comments, 122 Views, 10 Votes ,2.19 Score
Singles bars & casual sex....   1/16/2005

Okay so... I've never been into that scene. I've never really looked. I've pretty much been in relationships for most of my adult life and most came about when I least expected. <br> I've gotta take a break from serious stuff for a couple years, I think. <br> What do you think the majority of women in singles bars are looking for and what works? The only thing that ...

1 Comments, 116 Views, 10 Votes ,2.59 Score
two don'ts: GOP and NASCAR   1/16/2005

Do not, under any circumstances, date a Republican woman or one who loves NASCAR. Come on guys, have some standards. Have some limits. I mean a Republican woman is a tight ass prig, who will be quoting the Bible the whole time you're slamming into her tight little pussy. And then a NASCAR fan????? She's probably married to her brother's father's mother's cousin. And she only knows one ...

1 Comments, 78 Views, 9 Votes ,2.14 Score
so how about that carbon 15....   1/16/2005

Dating has become such a minefield. Walking on egg shells with golf shoes would be easier. Too many personalities, too much baggage. Too much thin skin. On both sides... why can't men and women just forget all the bullshit and all the games and just get along? Why?

0 Comments, 45 Views, 5 Votes ,2.49 Score
rm_purrfectkiss 56 F
10  Articles
safe sex   1/14/2005

If you are having sex with others, especially someone you had just met, you know that you should be using protection! also, if you are in a relationship and decide to cheat on that person, it's one thing to cheat, and it's another to give that person a disease.

1 Comments, 270 Views, 47 Votes ,3.79 Score
This is my first time and i dont know where to search   1/13/2005

Hi <br> This would be my first time gay experience and I dont know where to search for some gay sex one night in montreal, Qc. This is passif Just want to try out. <br> But where can I find a gay that can have a one night with me around montreal. <br> ( sorry i dont know where to post this )

0 Comments, 257 Views, 5 Votes ,1.19 Score
rm_D1nonly00 45 M
2  Articles
Told You That B#t%h Is Crazy!!!!   1/13/2005

It's always the beautiful ONES Well.. I would have hope that one of my friends would have given me a warning or something. It's going on week FIVE and I still can't get her to go away. The 1st time I saw her was at this but that I had just started going to. She was yelling at some guy that made her mad. Makin a scene at that. Red flag, or at least it should have been. This was about two ...

0 Comments, 146 Views, 5 Votes ,2.16 Score
cutting the tension..   1/11/2005

The most difficult thing with dating is cutting the sexual tension. If there is a chance in Hell that sex is going to come into the picture, then everything else kinda takes on that foggy tint. Everything is predicated upon those opportunity, those chances to start a sexual encounter. And if both people are on the same wavelengths, then everything...I mean everything..will give off that ...

0 Comments, 65 Views, 5 Votes ,2.49 Score
my first AdultFriendFinder MAN   1/8/2005

had my first AdultFriendFinder date a couple of month ago. We talked several times leading up to the actual meeting. We decided that we would meet at hotel. we meet around 8 oclock and went out for dinner and talked. Soon after, we went back to the hotel. I was nervous and not sure what to do, so he just started kissing me. I did this and I watched as he began to undress. He move dowen and ...

2 Comments, 431 Views, 28 Votes ,3.86 Score
coffee_T_or_me 42 M
4  Articles
lucky with chat   1/8/2005

Hi. I would like to share my new experience with the readers. Afew days back I went for browsing in an internet café and opened the yahoo messenger. Somebody had left their msgr without closing. I was about to close and go on to my site but a message popped up. The id was a girls name and it said meet me at a certain coffee shop at 6pm on that day. And it completed the message with lots of ...

0 Comments, 204 Views, 5 Votes ,3.47 Score
mp20052 46 M
1  Article
What some women don't want you to know (part 1)   1/8/2005

Before we begin for some I will be stepping on people toes other will agree. But one thing for sure everyone will have a opinion. Dating in the city can be a great way to meet new people and explore new horizons. However if you become or are successful at the dating scene and don’t follow these cautions then your hate the scene. Your personality will reflect it too. Now remember I ...

1 Comments, 203 Views, 12 Votes ,5.45 Score
My Best Friend Part 2   1/8/2005

Well, Thanks for the advice all, <br> Here is the follow up with me and Tammy. We have decided to go away for a week out of state and really sit down and look at things in a different perspective and figure it all out. We are still best friends more close than ever. We have decided to have and lesbian open relationship. I felt this is the way she could determine if she really is ...

1 Comments, 282 Views, 10 Votes ,3.78 Score
rm_Darkharts 47 M
1  Article
Friends in Mobile Alabama   1/8/2005

Looking to meet new friends in Mobile Alabama so if yall are interested in meeting me drop me a message and let me know maybe we can have AdultFriendFinder get together sometime and meet fellow local AdultFriendFinder members <br> <br> Gregory

0 Comments, 70 Views, 2 Votes ,3.81 Score
MIXED   1/7/2005


1 Comments, 137 Views, 3 Votes ,3.92 Score
mumbai    1/6/2005

mumbai had its own charm when I was to visit the city but slowly I began to feel lonely & suddenly everything seemed to turn dull & boring my company put me up in a plush 5 star hotel in south mumbai in the colaba area & one day after the housekeeping people had left I found a visiting card with just an E-mail mentioned on it it was mypkhan at and after finding it I just posted a ...

0 Comments, 238 Views, 3 Votes ,1.96 Score
rm_hornballguy 54 M
1  Article
hacked off with ingnorant types!   1/6/2005

im and easy going guy, ive been told a lot im not a bad lookin' guy, but every time I try to be nice to a girl, they end up getting the wrong impression or just ignore me, especialy on this date site! its annoying and just downright rude and nasty to do sutch a thing, especialy on here where I have sent dozens of messages and got no replys in turn! ive allways been considerate with what ive ...

0 Comments, 205 Views, 4 Votes ,0.92 Score
Jakarta Underground   1/3/2005

Buat cewe2 yang suratnya tidak saya balas, sori, saya ga mau jadi budak sex . Gue cari cewe yang mau menikmati saat-saat romantis, lebih daripada sekedar sex, tanpa ikatan, merasakan sentuhan, belaian, dan kehangatan, untuk yang anda wanita yang merasa cocok dengan saya jangan malu2 mail me at Xmatch <br> Regards, <br> Joni

0 Comments, 397 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
AD8713 48 M
10  Articles
Make Your Own Porn Star(Part 1)   1/1/2005

Most women have a confliction when it comes to the image they want to project during the day and the image they want to project at night. By day, they want to be seen as a professional, dignified, strong, independent, and focused woman(who just happens to be sexy). By night however, they often find that they want to be told what to do. Thay want to give up a certain amount of control...and ...

3 Comments, 4123 Views, 111 Votes ,2.91 Score
AD8713 48 M
10  Articles
Make Your Own Porn Star(Part 2)   1/1/2005

If you hadn't read part 1, I suggest you do before part 2. Ms. Jackme and her contemporaries, Heather Hunter and Jenna Jameson, are considered the ultimate pros in their profession. What makes them so successful? What makes their movies sell more than other porn videos? are their breasts bigger? Are they prettier? Do they act sexier? Although these may be good reasons, they aren't the ...

0 Comments, 811 Views, 11 Votes ,2.79 Score
AD8713 48 M
10  Articles
Make Your Own Porn Star(Part 3)   1/1/2005

I hope those that read this, are doing so in sequential order. When you think porn star, how do you envision them? Big boobs, fat ass, wide pussy? Yeah. How about their clothes(assuming yu've ever seen them clothed)? Tight and skimpy, right? What about their atitude? Agressive, yet willing to submit, combined with unadulterated enthusiam. Does this sound accurate? Well, how do you get your ...

0 Comments, 717 Views, 6 Votes ,2.51 Score
AD8713 48 M
10  Articles
Make Your Own Porn Star(Part 4)   1/1/2005

This is the last in this series. A change of scenery often affects the way a person acts. This theory is proven by the producers of "Girls Gone Wild", who have collected hundreds of hours of footage of otherwise sensible women doing everything from baring breasts to making out with one another. Like the old saying goes:"What happens here, stays here." That's why it's in your ...

1 Comments, 4084 Views, 82 Votes ,3.13 Score
njyounglovers 45 C
3  Articles
one fight   1/1/2005

i hate how i can have one fight with my bf and then for a week we ague.he can be so stubern. I guess i dont help i get on him about every

1 Comments, 549 Views, 9 Votes
Been awhile and still looking?   12/30/2004

It's happened to all the guys on here, can't say whether the women have much of a problem, but i'm just going to say sometimes it's hard. It's hard to find a woman no matter how hard you look. Take heart though, usually it's just when you've given up, there they are. The one you've been waiting for whether it be just for fun or something more. So don't give up gents, if it was easy all the ...

0 Comments, 68 Views, 1 Votes ,5.00 Score
rm_open_open 31 M
2  Articles
mature vs young   12/30/2004

hi everybody and happy holliday, my question is simple, is it normal for a young man to love mature women more than the one his own age? i do prefer mature women i dont know exacly why but it is that way. am i the only one or what! i sure find young women atractive a lot but its just not the same. Does older women are interested in you man too or its only in one way?

2 Comments, 114 Views, 6 Votes ,4.22 Score
jbiglord 35 M
3  Articles
what do the lonely do for new years   12/30/2004

This time of the year is a real pain in the ass. as some of you know, new years eve in particular is like the biggest party day of the year. I'd like to know if anyone had a suggestion as to what a lonely young man could do on this day.

0 Comments, 69 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
Music.   12/27/2004

Supposed you have invited a girl to your house for a dinner and after the dinner you are having a glass of wine with that girl. Yep, on this moment, what type of music will be suitable to make any serious events to happen or is music really important to a date at your own house with your invited partner?

2 Comments, 49 Views, 16 Votes ,1.80 Score
SxyBlonde8271 53 C
1  Article
He is always out of town   12/26/2004

Ok, I need some help here, we had joined this site together to have a 3some or something with another female or maybe even a male. I knew when I started dating him almost 8 months ago that he worked alot and was out of town. Well now he is always out of town I haven't seen him since early part of November . We have it very casual , we have been dating along time but we don't even have alot ...

3 Comments, 193 Views, 25 Votes ,3.02 Score
WHADAYA WANT?!?!   12/24/2004

Women help me out please. I would just like you to clear the air. Men want to know, "What are are your top ten reasons for going out with a guy?" Next, "What are the three most important things a guy can do to please a woman in bed." "What are the top five mistakes guys always make on a first date." Pleas do the following...Tell all you friends about this article. Reply with e-mails to ...

2 Comments, 174 Views, 32 Votes ,3.43 Score
ryouintrgued 58 F
2  Articles
Just Tell Me Why...because I don't understand   12/20/2004

Why can't guy just be up front with a girl? If you are not into that person, you should be honest in the beginning, not lead her on. It's better to be up front, then to hurt some one later, because you are not able to be honest with her.

8 Comments, 295 Views, 44 Votes ,3.83 Score
is it because im married?   12/20/2004

I've been a member for quite a while but sadly I never had any luck finding a partner(s). Am I so horrible to look at or is it because I'm married I don't get any response?

9 Comments, 294 Views, 29 Votes ,3.14 Score
rm_kindashyguy3 53 M
1  Article
Chat rooms or ? What is the alternative?   12/19/2004

Where do you meet people the most? Chat rooms etc or out in public? Most chat rooms are over crowded with men and men pretending to be women. But it is easier for a shy person to start a conversation online than in person. Would like to hear some other opinions.

2 Comments, 86 Views, 7 Votes ,2.53 Score
My best friend.   12/19/2004

My best friend: Lets just call her Tammy. Well, Tammy and I do every thing together. We have considered our self soul sisters. Who were bought in this world to be each others balance. We compliment each other very well. Tammy is straight and I am lesbian. After a weekend eve of our usual sitting at home watching movies and drinking a couple of drinks Tammy goes in the bath room and jumps in ...

3 Comments, 299 Views, 43 Votes ,3.08 Score
ryouintrgued 58 F
2  Articles
Confused   12/19/2004

I met this guy around the end of October, we emailed for a while and finally met around the later part of November. We had a wonderful date, everything I thought went very well. He was asking for a second date early on in the date, I really thought everything was fine. He is currently in Macon, I Stockbridge Ga. He said he would be back in two weeks. Due to his profession, I have not ...

10 Comments, 350 Views, 33 Votes ,3.79 Score
joleme05 42 M
1  Article
Ladies, can big men be attractive too?   12/19/2004

It's a simple question that I think doesn't have a simple answer. I think some people can just say, fat is ugly, and that's that, but I do know some people have different tastes. Also, a persons confidence level is part of it. So, just for some feedback from the ladies, "Do you think big men can be attractive as well?"

3 Comments, 135 Views, 20 Votes ,2.49 Score
That first time (help from the ladies)   12/18/2004

When you finally meet someone on this site, and want get them to take the next step, how do you get them to respond favouriable. I have got plenty of network memebers, now but can't get someone to take the next step. I have tried being aggressive being nice, letting them take the next step, and nothing. Ladies ideas to help me would be appreciated

0 Comments, 114 Views, 10 Votes ,2.99 Score
chillen405 41 M
21  Articles
How do you know if your friend likes you.   12/18/2004

I have this friend and she is a nice girl, I think she likes me but im not sure, I like her, the thing is i dont wanna feel weird if she doesnt like me or if it doesnt workout, because she is a really good friend, what should i do?

3 Comments, 109 Views, 23 Votes ,1.61 Score
Southrn_Com4Urt 46 M
9  Articles
Why is it hard for black men to meet people?   12/18/2004

I have been on AdultFriendFinder for a few years now with a couple of profiles and like clock work it is the same situation all over again. I find it extremely hard for black men to meet friends on here. I probably have one of the most respectful profiles that describes myself and my interest but there is still the crickets chirping that I hear. Can anyone give any advice.

1 Comments, 76 Views, 8 Votes ,3.48 Score
am i ugly???   12/18/2004

ok i fell i have problems..... i am a serious guy... i ha\d a high skool sweetheart of 5 year break up in april... broke my heart and really hurt.... now i met a chick and was cut wen she told me to day after catchin couple of movie that she couldnt get in a relationship wid me..... am i that bad??? i havent had sex since i broke up wid my xgf but not really jumpin for it... i love ...

1 Comments, 90 Views, 6 Votes
SensualFriend4us 68 C
38  Articles
Dating as more than two?   12/16/2004 meet someone, or maybe someones as in a couple, and you have hit it off. Having dinner in the privacy of your home is great, but you get to the point where you want do you get over that uncomfortable feeling of not knowing how to go out on a date in public as say a three or a foursome? Are there you pretend you are all just friends, or is it OK to show ...

0 Comments, 111 Views, 19 Votes ,4.97 Score
SensualFriend4us 68 C
38  Articles
First Date Question   12/16/2004

We have gotten a few invites from men who have shown some interests in us, though we have not yet opted to meet them...well, except for one, but that is another story. <br> For a first meeting, we are thinking it best to meet some place public, for say dinner or a drink and see where it goes from there. Now, my question is this...if they are pursuing us, is it up to them to A) ...

7 Comments, 127 Views, 33 Votes ,2.96 Score
dating after a decade   12/14/2004

I have been with the same woman for nearly 9 years and for the year before that I didn't date, so for that last 10 years I have not had to keep up those skills. Now it is once again time to date, and I am finding in today's "sexual Harassment" world, I am fearing to flirt with any woman. My fear is that if I even make a simple comment to the woman I am liable to be sued for it. When you ...

1 Comments, 81 Views, 5 Votes ,2.82 Score
rm_SCUBA602 50 M
5  Articles
Anyone live giving/receiveing oral better than intercourse?   12/14/2004

I've found that I like eating pussy and getting a blowjob more than actual intercourse, and I'm wondering if anyone else has the same tastes? Ever figure out why? I haven't as of yet.. I do like fucking, don't get me wrong, but if I were to choose, oral would be my choice...

3 Comments, 112 Views, 12 Votes ,3.86 Score
Long Distance Relationships   12/14/2004

Long distance relationships are hard, but there are ways to get through them and make them work. I know this from first hand experiance. Almost 17 months ago I met this guy on yahoo games and we started to talk. After a little while of talking we started to date. I thought at first it was just some little thing but as the time went on we got closer and closer. The first year was hard for us ...

4 Comments, 206 Views, 52 Votes ,3.42 Score
40+   12/12/2004

In reply Vivianne unbuttoned her pink shirt and took of her glasses, unpinning her hair. Her young student watched with his cute mouth hanging open. Of all the things, this was something he hadn't even considered. His classmates often called her a prude, she never touched the sexually explicit topics in their class. Little did they know that it was because they excited Vivianne so much that ...

0 Comments, 224 Views, 9 Votes ,3.00 Score
Intro's through AdultFriendFinder emails   12/11/2004

... and why MOST of them go unanswered, ignored or just deleted. <br> I've noticed that the majority of emails from single guys seem to be of the "generic" or "copy and paste" type. "Hey baby, nice profile... wanna hook up?", or other versions that seem to be very "non-specific" or maybe directed might be a better description. I'm thinking a note that "replies" to your own profile ...

8 Comments, 341 Views, 69 Votes ,4.76 Score
rm_PunkBritt6 39 F
0  Articles
Annoyed   12/9/2004

Ok, so i have been dating this guy for a month. During the first week and a half we were exclusive, and it was great. He went on a trip to visit family for 2 weeks. as soon as he left all these opportunities came up to cheat but i didnt. i told him i needed to be able to date other people, and he said it was ok but he didnt want anyone else. so now i fuck other people on the side, and i ...

4 Comments, 212 Views, 30 Votes ,2.95 Score
Don't let distance stop you...   12/9/2004

I have gotten some replys from women that I live to far from them. At first this does appear to be so when a person lives in antoher state. However we have to remember that in todays times distance is not that great of a deal. Most cities have a major air port, with conncections to smaller cities. You can some times get reduced round trip flights for those middle of the week encounters. ...

1 Comments, 49 Views, 16 Votes ,1.51 Score
dtil6792flex 50 M
3  Articles
Just No Luck   12/7/2004

I am about to give up on Love/dating. <br> I am 30 soon to be 31 and the last two woman I was interested/attracted too have turned out to be lesbians. <br> I like woman that look hard/Tom boyish. Maybe that is my problem.

6 Comments, 63 Views, 29 Votes ,2.44 Score
Disabled   12/6/2004

Ok its tough for a guy in a wheel chair and woh uses a walker to get around to meet quality women. I physically need some help when in public to get around. hard to find women who dont mind these obstycles. any advice

2 Comments, 108 Views, 21 Votes ,3.74 Score
Who's More Likely To Initiate Contact?   12/6/2004

This question is for the men and women. Is it true that men are more inclined to initiate contacting a woman first, or have some experienced this to be the other way around here on AdultFriendFinder??

3 Comments, 97 Views, 23 Votes ,3.24 Score
rm_PapaLegba666 56 M
14  Articles
Question: When dating again, what's a good 1st date?   12/5/2004

I was living with the same woman for 15 years and of those, we were married 7. We recently divorced, and it begged the question: After having been out of the dating scene for that long, what would be an ideal place for that 1st date? NO doubt, my social skills are rusty and I'd like to make a decent impression. So ladies, any ideas? <br> <br> <br> ...

0 Comments, 119 Views, 14 Votes ,1.54 Score
one4sex692 73 M
3  Articles
Am I really that naive?   12/4/2004

Am I reading things right? I have viewed many, many profiles here in which woman state they are looking for "Generous Men" only. The subject of generosity seems to appear frequently. There are also a few which state they want to be taken care of for which a man will receive great rewards. <br> Am I wrong or are these women trying to say no pay, no lay? <br> If I wanted ...

4 Comments, 183 Views, 20 Votes ,6.70 Score
what do women look for...   12/4/2004

i was just wondering what most women look for in a guy, any ladies what to respond that would be great

4 Comments, 173 Views, 21 Votes ,0.77 Score
Rules for Meeting/Dating Online   12/4/2004

From meeting people this way, I have gotten to undersand a few things. While they are common scense to most, you would be surprized.... and I thought I would share them with you, as follows: <br> <br> 1. Not everyone will be attracted to everyone else... learn to take rejection and to give it without being rude. <br> <br> 2. There is always someone ...

6 Comments, 259 Views, 104 Votes ,7.41 Score
sensitive_man111 59 M
2  Articles
STD's   12/2/2004

How do you approach the issue of STD's? Do you come right out and ask, and if so when. I have found that many people are offended if you aproach this to early or in the wrong fashion. I always try to broach the subject before we may get into a romantic or sexual situation. My belief is that the wrong time to bring it up is as you are removing her pants!

3 Comments, 44 Views, 16 Votes ,5.92 Score
How do you get that first date.   12/1/2004

How do you get that first date, Ladies lets hear from you and see what you have to say, any ideas on how to get a woman to a least go for that first date.

1 Comments, 212 Views, 16 Votes ,1.80 Score
Where have all the women gone??   11/28/2004

I'd simply like to ask, where have all the English women gone?? I try searches using my ideal categories and only come up with a handfull of people.. most of which I've already tried communicating with (without success).. so I change my settings and maybe get one or two more. <br> If I browse the USA (which yeh I know is huge compared to the UK), but just a single state has ...

1 Comments, 20 Views, 15 Votes ,3.44 Score
Usefullness of dating   11/25/2004

I think dating is great in essence some woman like myself like to get the feel of the situation before getting ourselfs into one you can tell a lot about a person on a few dates.

1 Comments, 44 Views, 61 Votes ,6.82 Score
jbiglord 35 M
3  Articles
Am I a fool for trying?   11/23/2004

Well let me say that this will be my omage to Ushers song, " confessions". Let me confess a few things to the world, then let me ask a question. Im a 23 yrold male, quickly approaching 24 who has only been on two dates in his entire life. I've only kissed three women. Yet i've had sex with 11 women over the course of my life. Three of which took place in one night. With all of this ...

3 Comments, 24 Views, 19 Votes ,5.76 Score
SEX   11/23/2004

how many people like to have one night stands

3 Comments, 21 Views, 12 Votes ,1.03 Score
craftsman1979 44 M
5  Articles
one night stands   11/23/2004

why are most women againt the idea???it baffles me!!!

10 Comments, 77 Views, 19 Votes ,2.73 Score
Normal run-o-the mill guys dont get the attention they deserve   11/20/2004

I'd just like to say that from my perspective, I've come to accept the fact that so many women are looking for what they know they cannot have (Mr Gorgeous/Built like a battleship/officer in white unifor etc...) us normal guys get left on the sides... and I'm getting pretty bored of it!! <br> It would be interesting to hear from other guys and what they think... and you women.. ...

5 Comments, 103 Views, 30 Votes ,5.69 Score
dating   11/19/2004

No point of dating, just have one night stands until you get married.

1 Comments, 12 Views, 10 Votes ,1.99 Score
Skinny guys and BBW women !   11/16/2004

I'm a slim guy and I have always dated BBW women. It seems to me that most BBW women I meet are attracted to me. I love women of all sizes, including thin, average, athletic, petite and BBW. I just love women period. The sex is great most of the time and most of the BBWs' I've been with have nice plump tight pleasure boxes. My advice to skinny guys is that if you have never been with a big ...

1 Comments, 21 Views, 17 Votes ,6.94 Score
NaughtynWet1   11/16/2004

I have never saw someone who is beautiful like u.

0 Comments, 8 Views, 10 Votes ,2.99 Score
Romantic Dating for me Includes:   11/15/2004

Going for long walks holding hands, which I really love. Another is just cuddling on the couch, gazing into each other’s eyes, and just going with the flow of the moment. A really nice date is when there is no pressure, no high expectations, the first time. Just enjoy the evening and whatever happens with two consenting adults. I believe in love at first sight, but I also believe in ...

1 Comments, 15 Views, 33 Votes ,7.55 Score
chitown69us 57 C
6  Articles
advice   11/14/2004

I've read some good responses here. It could be some event in her life that she is responding to. It could be some one else. What is life for the two of you like, in general. Have you grown in different directions and just sort of co-exist. She may be thinking that is all about the sex for you. Get home early one day, fix a nice dinner, and after that's over tell her you'd like to talk. ...

0 Comments, 76 Views, 33 Votes ,5.08 Score
Men.....   11/13/2004

Decide wether or not he is fr you by observing the way he treats his mother.

0 Comments, 21 Views, 49 Votes ,3.36 Score
Are there no real men in Kansas?   11/13/2004

Why is it i see all these great guy's on here, but there to freaking far away (or there just not into BBW's). Are there no real men up here in Kansas, i may have to move back to Texas just to get a little "companionship". "laugh" I read guys complaining about us women on here. About how we never really want to meet in real life., well you guys do the same thing. every time i talk to a guy ...

0 Comments, 39 Views, 17 Votes ,5.53 Score
rm_Poetrybf 38 F
4  Articles
Fools Rush In   11/9/2004

I don’t really know how to start this. I’m a fat girl, and when I say fat, I mean FAT… like grab your torches and pitchforks; you should lock me up in a dungeon somewhere. But that’s not the point. I’m pretty young, just recently turned 22, but up until very recently I was a virgin. In fact I was convinced that I’d die a virgin. That any maladies I ...

5 Comments, 141 Views, 17 Votes ,6.38 Score
Woman looking for Sexual Relationship with Another Woman   11/7/2004

I only want a sexual relationship with a woman that could evolve into us having group sex with other women. Is it possible I can find a woman who's down for this?

3 Comments, 24 Views, 19 Votes ,5.76 Score
SethGreen22 44 M
1  Article
Cheap Dates   11/7/2004

how to go on a cheap date. Goto park for pic-nik Pic-nic on the beach dollar theator fly a kite rent a movie goto beach at midnight on a weeknight.. go for a walk watch for shooting stars..

0 Comments, 21 Views, 9 Votes ,5.14 Score
why   11/6/2004

Can anyone tell me why women are so put off dating a man who has been widowed. True I was married to a wonderful woman who tragically died .. I have a great from that marriage. I am now ready to move on. The only fly in the ointment is meeting a woman who doesnt think I have put my late wife on some sort of pedlestool because that is not the cass. Women say all the time they would ...

2 Comments, 18 Views, 4 Votes ,5.19 Score
satisfiednever 49 M
3  Articles
I Know What Type of Man a Woman Wants!   11/6/2004

I think women want that man who is a mix. A 50/50 mix of bad boy and nice guy. The 100% nice guy just is a too much of a push over and the bad boy is just too bad making him unstable! But to have that 50/50 mix isn't can learn how to be a "nice" guy...but being a bad boy ain't just have it or you don' if your a bad boy work on mixing a little niceness in...if ...

1 Comments, 44 Views, 13 Votes ,5.32 Score
1  Article
any chance of a date   11/4/2004

i want a nice date with a lady but having trouble any help

1 Comments, 15 Views, 12 Votes ,4.74 Score
How wrong it can go...   11/2/2004

The following is not erotic, but too nice not to tell. <br> Friday afternoon I arrive with a friend in beachtown village after having made a small stop in another beachtown village. I had promised my friend to show the donkey with the Mexican hat, but somewhere I made a wrong turn and we ended up in the wrong part of town, where we had a drink at the beach and realize that all the ...

0 Comments, 25 Views, 16 Votes ,4.30 Score
woman dating younger men   11/2/2004

do older any older women have an interest in younger guys around 20-25 age bracket? I absolutely love women from around 30-40 but they dont seem to want anything to do with younger guys... so are any of you interested in us young bucks?

1 Comments, 38 Views, 14 Votes ,4.26 Score
silentbrother05 53 M
1  Article
dating is lost idea now   11/1/2004

people just dont date anymore and get to know each other and they just jump into something and 9 time out of ten thats why it doesnt last.

0 Comments, 11 Views, 8 Votes ,5.10 Score
big_tulsa 42 M
4  Articles
What's the best way to get a woman's attention on a first date?   10/31/2004

What is the best way to capture a woman's attention on the first date? What are the three most important things that women look for? Attractiveness? Money/financial security? Character? <br> Also, do these rules still apply when trying to bed a woman?

0 Comments, 11 Views, 5 Votes ,5.75 Score
EricInPa 48 M
1  Article
Where has the Romance gone?   10/29/2004

Is it just me or has there been a greater growing lack of romance in dating these days. What happened to the James Bond type of men. I for one believe chivalry is not dead, just asleep. I rarely see passion and the courting of a woman happen anymore. More and more it is becoming more clear to me that seducing a partner is a fading act of sexually foreplay. <br> Let me know ...

1 Comments, 23 Views, 32 Votes ,8.21 Score
Nate408 41 M
1  Article
HMMM   10/29/2004

Dating can be fun if you do it right... Dont try to follow any rules just go with that little voice... go with the real instinct not what you "want" and logically try to convince yourself of.

0 Comments, 6 Views, 2 Votes ,5.20 Score
fujhonny 38 C
1  Article
no friends   10/29/2004

do people really meet up with other ppl in this site? i have been here for less than amonth but ntohing i dunno

0 Comments, 15 Views, 4 Votes ,4.41 Score
B 4 REAL   10/29/2004

It baffles me how people one this system are not true to their word.If after meeting someone and they aren't what you expect why not just say so.Why keep them in limbo by not answering their emails.If you aren't feeling the person be man or woman enough to say "Sorry you don't fit into my criteria.

1 Comments, 9 Views, 14 Votes ,6.82 Score
Fellisha 43 F
2  Articles
help! i'm juggling 3 different men at the same time....!   10/28/2004

So I have 3 different men all wanting to be my only one. The first one is in love with me and I don’t want to hurt him , since I’m his first love. The next started out as my friend but ever since we’ve had sex wants me all to himself. He helps me financially all the time, but goes through women like old socks….I don’t want to cut off what I have with guy ...

0 Comments, 62 Views, 17 Votes ,4.40 Score
why do men choose the bad girl   10/28/2004

im a very nice lady i give me there space all i ask is that they spend a little time with me so why do they alway go to the women that want them up under them 24/7 and treat them like dirt can some one please tell me why

1 Comments, 17 Views, 7 Votes ,6.10 Score
rm_lgliang 41 M
9  Articles
Humour, the best icebreaker   10/26/2004

There's no better weapon to break the silence of a first meet than with humour, and believe it or not, it's rather easy to make someone laugh without cracking a joke. <br> People will laugh at anything, whether it's tasteful or not. When someone trips and hurts himself, someone will laugh. Do an impersonation, someone will laugh. Make a comment about a random politician's lack of ...

0 Comments, 7 Views, 12 Votes ,4.92 Score
Dating for sex!   10/26/2004

Is it too much to ask that the men who contact you with the intentions of having sex, be gentlemen?!! WTF guys?

7 Comments, 63 Views, 65 Votes ,6.51 Score
To invite for a vacation   10/26/2004

Internet dating seems to have a bad image. Every time again I invite a woman to come to Spain and enjoy a hot (and free) vacation, the usual reply is "Yeah, right.....". Being a gold member does not seem to matter either. <br> Anyone with bright ideas (or good experience?) <br> Social.

0 Comments, 12 Views, 28 Votes ,5.91 Score
rm_aussiescot58 59 M
2  Articles
women in melbourne   10/25/2004

There seems to be a distinct lack of single women in Melbourne these days. When i was in country Victoria i had quite a few reply for people in Melbourne can anyone explain this?

0 Comments, 20 Views, 12 Votes ,0.86 Score
kinkydetroitcpl2 50 C
13  Articles
Should i or shouldnt i   10/24/2004

My girlfriend wants me too fuck her best friend.I think its a trick but I should do it anyways.

0 Comments, 65 Views, 17 Votes ,3.41 Score
standard membership   10/23/2004

standard membership does seem to werk uve just gota dive in+find ya way about join sum groups even start sum aynt had a date thru AdultFriendFinder yetbut am interactin with ppl cyberly+its all good stuff+maybe one day il find a lover/sex partner thru AdultFriendFinder thatd b cool stik wif the site it werks

0 Comments, 12 Views, 14 Votes ,2.82 Score
sarahthegreat23 42 F
1  Article
Girl On Girl With Boyfriend   10/23/2004

I am a bisexual female, and recently have like dthe idea of having sex with a female infront of my boyfriend. The one thing I am scared of is, probably a common fear. WHat if he finds her more attractive than me? I am not a unattractive person, but I do have my insecurities. Does anyone have any advice on this?

2 Comments, 78 Views, 15 Votes ,5.27 Score
Does this site really work for standard members??   10/21/2004

I would like to know what other user experiences when trying to meet members, and or otherwise utilize this site. Any suggestions/tips would be welcome.

2 Comments, 31 Views, 36 Votes ,6.52 Score
taking your women out   10/17/2004

one thing that i have learned recently, is that if on your first date with a girl, you take them out to a nice place, and spend alot of money, if you dont keep that up, they get bored. girls, like most people, if they have something, they want it again, same, or better.take it from me, start with jack int he box, and work your way up.

1 Comments, 17 Views, 21 Votes ,3.25 Score
Dating a woman from AdultFriendFinder   10/15/2004

What it is like when you meet a woman from AdultFriendFinder. My first experence was wild.

0 Comments, 13 Views, 14 Votes ,1.70 Score
bananacockman 50 M
1  Article
newcomer   10/15/2004

Can anyone advise a newcomer on how best to use this site?

1 Comments, 13 Views, 8 Votes ,4.17 Score
rm_WillyGuttz 49 M
0  Articles
An older woman   10/14/2004

I've dated many woman throughout my life from the 20's to fourties and I have always noticed how an older woman is not only better in bed but also has a lot more to offer. Many of the experiences with was just fast energetical sex. it got repetative and didnt get any better untill I started using the things I learned from older women. Many young women are attracted to your car and ...

0 Comments, 48 Views, 19 Votes ,6.29 Score
What if she is 5 or maybe 10 years older?   10/13/2004

I do wonder how it would be to have a lover that between 5 to 10 years older. Don’t you? There has to be a difference in well both the physical aspect but as well as how the sex is, I presume. I know one thing for sure, when an attractive older woman looks into my eyes I certainly would like to know how a older lover would feel like. Thank you.

1 Comments, 20 Views, 7 Votes ,5.08 Score
Why are people lonely in a multimillion town?   10/13/2004

First of all I want to say that I have lived in a respected European city and also in Scandinavia and recently I live in Tokyo. I have noticed the difference in how people come together and start dating and all that. It seems to be more difficult to find someone you like as the town increases in size. I do wonder why that is since there would be a proportionate increase in all types of people. ...

1 Comments, 11 Views, 6 Votes ,4.79 Score
rm_madcron 41 F
1  Article
monkey   10/13/2004

i love dating especialy when you can talk to you mate. When it's just you and him/her underneath the starlight licking eachother lustfully.

0 Comments, 238 Views, 27 Votes ,6.29 Score
rm_xtreme01 45 M
2  Articles
Be frank with us, ladies why dont u come on to guys more aggressivly??   10/12/2004

im a very good lookin guy not to sound cocky or anything but i have a very interesting point that considering that the nature of the site is about sexuality and everything here i see allot of woman that seem to want to tease and and do the small talk, yadaa yaada yadaa, but for the most part the ladies in here are doin nothing more. i feel that the chics in here need to be more ...

1 Comments, 19 Views, 9 Votes ,6.20 Score
Re: Is she a nympho   10/12/2004

Is English your 5th language? Because you sure made it seem as such in your post. <br> If you want a succinct answer, provide a succinct question. <br> Now after you've looked up the word succinct, please provide a post in the appropriate manner.

0 Comments, 8 Views, 4 Votes ,2.47 Score
rm_Hobbes145 38 M
1  Article
Embarassed...?   10/9/2004

When I knew her in high school, we used to kiss. Every spare moment we had we'd make love with our mouths. We'd never kissed anyone before... I remember when we first touched our tongues together, flitting in and out of each others mouths. I used to feel wrong when I kissed her and my shaft got so hard that it would push up against her. I used to get embarrased when the tip of my dick ...

0 Comments, 30 Views, 30 Votes ,5.10 Score
rm_AustinBC 44 M
8  Articles
Sex in the eve and sex in the morn   10/9/2004

I don't understand why ever single woman I've been with, loves sex in the morning, and I love sex at night. I think sex at night is better because everything is clean. In the morning, I don't mind, but at the same time sometimes my mind isn't on it. In the morning you are just waking up, you look like crap, and your breath stinks...what is so sexy about that?

0 Comments, 35 Views, 3 Votes ,1.47 Score
rm_rdnckwomen 66 F
1  Article
men on line   10/9/2004

There are alot of men here at AdultFriendFinder that claim to curious looking to meet a woman /couple. Alot also claim they are looking for friends 1st too. Where are they?!? I am not having much luck meeting them. Most who have wanted to meet me, couldn't have cared less what kind of person was or anything about me. Most you loose the next week or so and never hear a peep out of them..Like are you hiding..LOL ...

0 Comments, 65 Views, 9 Votes ,5.35 Score
rm_coaster_cock 38 M
1  Article
i wnt to try but...   10/6/2004

hi, im a gay, i think and i wnt to try a man for some sex but do not know how to go about it. i have a few mates that i would like to see naked but noe of them will. i am asking is there a way of seeing them though they are not gay and how to ask a man for gay sex

0 Comments, 109 Views, 4 Votes ,4.80 Score
Second Date Advice   10/6/2004

I suggest you start it all over like it's a brand new day which it will be and don't worry too much. If the two of you are meant to be a couple you will be whether you worry about it or not, destiny. If you're not supposed to be a couple, that will soon be apparent also. Why over analyse something that was just great? Keep up with great until it goes one way or the other. And don't run like a ...

0 Comments, 25 Views, 5 Votes ,4.77 Score
Looking in All the Wrong Places?   10/4/2004

I’m 38 and people are constantly asking me why I am still single after all these years. I used to reply that this is a universal question that has yet to be answered. Now I found out the reason. I have tried every method known to mankind to try to find my soul mate. I’ve done the bar scene, personal ads, dating services, online chat rooms from various services. AdultFriendFinder, and their ...

0 Comments, 7 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
question for all the ladies   10/4/2004

All right her is what's on my mind... The other day i ran a favor for the company i worked for.I picked up a check from one of the companies we do business with; low and behold there was this beaiutiful lady not married and she said she didn't have a boyfriend.( i asked this one and told her how beautiful she was LO I take it she was the companies secretary i wanna see if she wants to hook up; ...

0 Comments, 6 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
RE: How Long " IS LONG" Enough ???   10/4/2004

Very good questions Queenless. I'm sure all of us guys have asked ourselves that question numerous times. As a college student I would hear my fellow students who are women talk about their breakups. Every single guy with the exception of myself would always say, "I'm available and wouldn't mind going out with you sometime." Then after the guys leave I would hear the women say, "That's NOT ...

0 Comments, 25 Views, 5 Votes ,3.14 Score
69josh 47 M
3  Articles
I want to know why women always get emotional about sex.   10/3/2004

I never get emotional about sex. exspecally if its new thing I understand if you dated someone for a long time but sex is just sex

1 Comments, 22 Views, 0 Votes
what women look for in a man   9/29/2004

What Women Are Looking For In A Men I just bought the advanced CD series & it's amazing what a difference they make over the book. Being able to listen on the way to work, whilst out doing chores, A date should simply be 'tea & stimulating conversation', which for all of the reasons you give makes perfect sense to me. But once I've done the tea & conversation with this ...

0 Comments, 13 Views, 7 Votes ,3.55 Score
We will always have August.   9/29/2004

I have a job where in the daytime I have some time on my hands. So I started playing on this site. After 1 week he talked me into coming over. We kissed it was nice, just what I wanted. We IM’d everyday, really got to know each other so the next week I went over and had sex. I started liking it so much we had lunch dates. We had sex over 10 times in the month of August. I only ...

0 Comments, 36 Views, 2 Votes ,4.50 Score
rm_surecumthing 52 M
2  Articles
guys dating women, similar to selling a vehicle   9/27/2004

Establish a little rapport by asking simple questions like what do you like to do for fun, to relax, what gets you wild, or interests in general. make the conversation 80% about her. If you ask questions, you will illicit criteria about what she wants in a relationship or for just having fun and you can then connect easier and both will feel more comfortable.

0 Comments, 6 Views, 2 Votes ,5.20 Score
0  Articles
Why can't men just say what they want...   9/20/2004

It never ceases to amaze me that some men today still don’t know how to tell you what they want. I have been seeing this guy for about two months, and he has a CRAZY ex-girlfriend that will not leave him alone. He says he wants to be with me, says he loves having sex with me and the feelings are quite mutual, but she just wont go the hell away.... He says he is trying to get rid of ...

1 Comments, 50 Views, 26 Votes ,5.07 Score
snowstorm800 42 M
1  Article
How should a married man hit on a women   9/17/2004

I was just looking for both points of view, frome married men and women to singles. What is the best way to aproach a person about a discrete extamarital affair?

0 Comments, 56 Views, 23 Votes ,5.23 Score
re: How to ask a date to wear a condom   9/14/2004

This really is a 'no-brainer'. Ask yourself the question:is this experience worth dying for (literally!)? I am sure this analysis will lead you not only to ask but insist.

0 Comments, 12 Views, 51 Votes ,7.97 Score
rm_versedem 55 M
4  Articles
beauty and me   9/13/2004

You're so beautiful and i'm just me and through eternity your face will burn its features in my mind I can never hope to find anything that quite compares to you yet I fear you can see through this porcelian facade It seems quite odd that I (of all people) must wear a mask ('tis a grueling task to be myself and survive) And I fear that no matter what I do, I will still lose ...

0 Comments, 10 Views, 13 Votes ,4.15 Score
rm_RabbitHips2 38 M
1  Article
Dating Is Expensive   9/11/2004

Dating has became expensive. No longer can a couple have a good time with about 50 bucks, this is an outrage. A low income young man can't go out every weekend and go to school at the same time.

0 Comments, 6 Views, 34 Votes ,6.66 Score
Bars are the best for Meeting   9/10/2004

Singles are constantly bashing the bar and nightclub scene. I disagree 100% and this is why. <br> Yes, the crowd at these places are a little frisky but its good to see that side of a person. You are much more likely to be deceived or let down by meeting someone in a coffee house or bookstore compared to a bar. <br> There are three simple rules for hanging out at a ...

0 Comments, 5 Views, 29 Votes ,7.45 Score
takes two to tango   9/7/2004

why is it that when a girl shows interest i do not and vise-versa

0 Comments, 3 Views, 16 Votes ,1.95 Score
AAF does really work   9/7/2004

Hey I would just like to say that I almost gave up in persuing a friend or lover or whatever you may being doing...But I finnaly met a sweet girl from AAF and I am also going to see her again today.. So don't give up.. One thing that you guys need to understand, Is that females get aprox. 50 to 100 e-males or request a day, so If you don't get a reply, its not always that they dont like you ...

0 Comments, 9 Views, 42 Votes ,7.85 Score
rm_purrfectkiss 56 F
10  Articles
"is it real love"   9/6/2004

someone posted, is it real love and says they think they might be a sex addict and is there such a thing...I don't know, I suppose there is, but I also don't believe that you love your boyfriend or husband enough if you are going to continue this behavior. If you really love your man, you will be completly honest with him, and let him make the decision if he wants to stay or leave. Most ...

0 Comments, 16 Views, 24 Votes ,7.56 Score
direption69 54 F
20  Articles
response to short men   9/6/2004

It's not that we don't like short men. You just have to work harder at making us feel safe and cuddled. A big man's hug is very different than a short man's hug. It's physical closeness. <br> However, there are a lot of short men who hold lots of grudges and can be very difficult to get along with due to insecurities about height. Fair or not, taller men are perceived genetically ...

0 Comments, 14 Views, 17 Votes ,5.81 Score
There are no "rules"   9/6/2004

I had an odd experience the other night. A woman who I've been seeing invited me up to her place, which was a bit odd since I was getting a "friend" vibe off of her, but I accepted. <br> I found out that since we'd been on three dates, she felt obligated to have sex with me. <br> I turned her down on the basis that if she was just doing it as an obligation, I wasn't ...

0 Comments, 6 Views, 16 Votes ,6.80 Score

Hi....i am asian men looking for a white female around my age for date. i am friendly n easy to be with. you can reply to my e-mail

0 Comments, 7 Views, 32 Votes ,3.52 Score
cando4U3 65 M
1  Article
It is all foreplay   8/31/2004

Just my two cents. <br> Gentlemen, remember that it is all foreplay. From that first coffee, dinner or whatever. Relax, let her get comfortable and let her figure out just how safe and normal you are. We all know that the guy just knows in the first two minutes whether he wants to sleep with a woman or not, and the woman may know also, but she will want to go a little slower. ...

0 Comments, 1 Views, 59 Votes ,9.09 Score
Is It Real love ?   8/31/2004

Is there a such thing called " sex addiction" If so I may have it. I have a bf and i have been with him for some odd years now and i love him. but i cant help to notice i like varity dicks. Before we get marry I like to experience different men with big cocks. Most People would think i dont love him but i do. Its jus i cant control my nerves.

0 Comments, 33 Views, 36 Votes ,7.99 Score
BlacknGold1 51 M
2  Articles
Why Do Women Hate Short Men?   8/30/2004

Why do women make such an issue about a man's height? Last time I checked, there was no correlation between a man's height and his virility. It really makes women look shallow and ignorant to judge a man solely on physical characteristics. It's also hypocritical. If a man judged a woman strictly on looks, he would be condemned as shallow and immature. If a woman does the same nonsense, ...

0 Comments, 11 Views, 46 Votes ,7.10 Score
Flowers and champers?   8/29/2004

20 years ago, women loved being given flowers, or being taken out for a candlelit dinner. Have times changed that much? In my experiences now, the more you spend on them, the more please they are. Is Romance dead? Are women today following in the male stance?

0 Comments, 12 Views, 18 Votes ,4.90 Score
sterockymember2 35 M
3  Articles
There is only one way   8/29/2004

In thew act of dating there is only one way around it do everything that the opposite requires in their way of doing it and then you will find it becomes much easier and you get on a lot better.......

0 Comments, 5 Views, 20 Votes ,1.34 Score
Why do younger women like older men?   8/27/2004

Why do the younger women (20 - 2 enjoy being with older men? is it because of the maturity level, our knowledge on how to please, or just the excellant sex.

0 Comments, 10 Views, 66 Votes ,5.83 Score
rm_page03 60 M
1  Article
hot date went wrong   8/27/2004

I went to night school some years ago and i had a mind to learn something new and meet new people. <br> Well the learning bit went fine and made progress thorugh the course however I was falling for this lovely lady in the class and she was hot for me and more importantly we got on very well together. We went on a few dates together with some other class mates however there was ...

0 Comments, 7 Views, 34 Votes ,4.68 Score
sterockymember2 35 M
3  Articles
the game is in the meeting   8/26/2004

Just wondering if the Good Friend is yourself, especially as you are both bi... <br> If he has then it's down to him to introduce the subject the biggest problem is not getting up tight about this

0 Comments, 10 Views, 17 Votes ,5.53 Score
Dating A friend's ex   8/25/2004

Can I date my best friend's ex if they have been broken up for two months?

0 Comments, 5 Views, 28 Votes ,3.34 Score
aquarius_sg_guy 47 M
9  Articles
LADIES: What type of guy do u prefer to date?   8/24/2004

Question: LADIES <br> What type of guy do u prefer to date? <br> - Guy with Intelligent - Guy with Appearance (Looks) - Guy with Wealth (Money) <br> - Other (You name it)

0 Comments, 16 Views, 35 Votes ,6.67 Score
re: Differences in Dating   8/21/2004

I'm really taken by the fact that people will talk about intimate sexual details with people on here and not anything about themselves. I filled my profile with sexual information, yes, but that was so I could then talk to people about other things. Like, whether or not they have a dog. <br> I know that sounds strange, but do you really want to have a sexual relationship with ...

0 Comments, 18 Views, 11 Votes ,4.85 Score
Compatibility   8/19/2004

I have studied the Myers-Briggs Temperment Indicator and it seems to be fairly accurate and defining the different types of Mentality people have and which ones work to support ones weaknesses and empowers ones weaknesses. I was just wondering who on here has taken the test and what was your reslult? I am either a INTP or ENTP I can't decide when I want to be extroverted and when I want ...

0 Comments, 1 Views, 30 Votes ,6.18 Score
Differences in Dating   8/18/2004

Has anyone noticed the difference when you meet someone from this website or others like to; to meeting someone you know nothing about? <br> Is it because you've read their profile, you have an understanding of what the person is about and what they want (sexually)? <br> Compared to someone your just meeting, know nothing about, blind date. You know very little-to ...

0 Comments, 14 Views, 12 Votes ,5.10 Score
Save sex   8/13/2004

I have always had a problem with condoms. Do not enjoy the feeling of a guy wearing them. But with everything out there it is necessary. Is there anything similar for safety.

0 Comments, 12 Views, 44 Votes ,5.02 Score
Always be honest   8/10/2004

The best time to start a strong relationship that will end up a long term one is in the beginning . Make for sure that the one you are dating has the same feelings and ideas about stuff that you do . Don't just drag it out if you are not totally in sink with one another just to keep it going a little longer . There are plenty of people that are out there , everybody ought to be able to ...

0 Comments, 3 Views, 28 Votes ,6.94 Score
RE:first dates   8/10/2004

It's a smart move if you meet face to face while going on a 1st DATE as you never really know what kind of person your really talking to no matter how he/she talks...i knew a person that talked to a guy online & went out with him that nite.....and all he wanted was SEX....but while they was chattin online.....there was NO sex involved......yes she made it through the date without giving ...

0 Comments, 3 Views, 16 Votes ,5.77 Score
Why Girls Date Jerks..   8/6/2004

Reasons Why Women Date Jerks Instead of Nice Guys <br> 10) More fun to complain about them to your friends. <br> 9) Guys who actually like you just aren't challenging or exciting. <br> When you do date nice guys, they turn into jerks anyway, so why not save time and go for the jerk in the first place? <br> 7) You won't get as emotionally ...

0 Comments, 31 Views, 69 Votes ,7.02 Score
GCLane 52 M
2  Articles
Hot Import Nights Aug. 7   8/2/2004

I'm going to be showing my car at the Hot Import Nights(HIN) the 7th of Aug. in the Market Hall and I was wondering if any of you girls would like to meet(eat)me there. I'll be wearing a black T shirt with an Intercrew logo on it. P.S. I look like my profile

0 Comments, 128 Views, 24 Votes
understanding men   8/1/2004

tell me something how do you really understand men? I just recently put my add on AdultFriendFinder and got a reasonable amount of responses, I even went out with one for awhile he seemed as if things was really going well then never called again and even ignored me, so tell me whats up with that? someone help me with advice....Im a respectable person, Im not one to just go out there and have sex with ...

0 Comments, 10 Views, 22 Votes ,6.13 Score
rm_babler 60 C
1  Article
notty little girl   7/30/2004

the door was locked but my window half cracked that way the boys could watch me undress. this has been going on for sevrel months I pretend not to see them, knowing there out there watching. Gazing as each piece of clothing falls to the hard wood floor. Cock in hand. I wonder witch ones out there now, As I take out my toys I can feel his dick in his hand furesly jerking, panting like a wet ...

0 Comments, 51 Views, 54 Votes ,6.93 Score
andrew34211 40 M
1  Article
Does this work?   7/28/2004

Is AdultFriendFinder really helpful? Are there any true "swingers" on this site as the name implies. I don't know, i've been on the site for about 6 months and have met only one person from here. I do better with out it.

0 Comments, 5 Views, 34 Votes ,2.97 Score
Re: Why Women Don't Reply   7/27/2004

I don't reply to most of my emails, the simple reason being that most of them are not worth replying to. Just because this is a sex site doesn't mean everyone will hook up with you because you want them to. Granted, people here are more OPEN to it, but the same loser attributes one has in real life will still be turn-offs here. Many profiles suggest indiscriminate men. They don't care about ...

0 Comments, 5 Views, 54 Votes ,7.87 Score
is there such thing as to old?   7/26/2004

Is there such thing and a guy being to old for you? the man i am in love w/ is so many years old than me i neve even counted! all his are older than me as well!

0 Comments, 1 Views, 28 Votes ,7.14 Score
is a smile a good sign?   7/25/2004

well i know its kind a funny question but u know when ur on a date and like there is a silent moment and ur just staring at each other. and someone then decides to smile does the snile mean say something or does it mean your boring but i dont want to say it or does it mean kiss me ?

0 Comments, 1 Views, 34 Votes ,5.40 Score
moonchaser1411 67 M
7  Articles
Give a guy a chance girls   7/25/2004

I just want to get some opinions from some guys AND you girls. I am a divorced male who is looking to have a relasionship again after many many years just sorta existing but don't really know how after all this time. Times have changed so much from when I used to date so I am unsure of many things. If you girls would just give a guy a chance you may just find that he is genuine. Lets here ...

0 Comments, 18 Views, 31 Votes ,3.24 Score
great eye contact   7/23/2004

No matter what going on the the date (good or Bad) you can really feel a person out by ther eye's. So give it a try women love it and they will love you the same way back ( depending on the date) so good luck and tell how it works for you <br> good luck, jimmyk4224

0 Comments, 1 Views, 41 Votes ,7.71 Score
wizardmerlot 69 M
1  Article
Dating Game and it's not on T.V....   7/20/2004

At what age did we as individuals decid that we are no-longer dating, that at some point, we started calling it "matching"? I have tried to keep up with what will make me happy, fulfilled, complete, of course, less-horny, and I haven't managed to budge an inch, in my endeavor. What is "Dating" and does it work? I joined "Adultfriendfinders" not for the dating possibilities, but, ...

0 Comments, 7 Views, 19 Votes ,6.55 Score
RE: why women don't reply   7/19/2004

I've e-mailed a ton of women on this website and got only 2 replies. If I am not wrong, you are looking for the same thing we are looking for, so why don't you women reply when we e-mail you? It's a matter of courtesy. I would you like to hear your opinions about that.

0 Comments, 111 Views, 62 Votes ,9.27 Score
Having Sex Your Girlfriend?   7/18/2004

Having Sex With Your Girlfriend Which You Just Meet Her Through Online?

0 Comments, 3 Views, 54 Votes ,6.24 Score
imtocute2000 40 F
6  Articles
do be a loser   7/18/2004

when it comes to dating I wish guys knew that they can have a short trem fling with a girl with out being an ass hole about it. Be charming, make her feel like this was so wonderful.

0 Comments, 23 Views, 24 Votes ,6.88 Score
First time meeting   7/18/2004

I have met someone for the first time in public and at their home. My advise is stay with public meeting for first time. Safety in numbers. You can somewhat get a feel for personality. <br> Their are advantages to see the home but if you are alone and they all of a sudden have friend or friends show up you can be in big trouble. I was able to leave with no problems but it could ...

0 Comments, 7 Views, 27 Votes ,5.45 Score
3 girls, 1 me, the odds are still in my favor.   7/13/2004

My lady and I want to add a 3rd maybe even 4th person, female only. We both have the drive and energy but it seems impossible to locate females that are single and think the same way we do about this. Can anyone help?

0 Comments, 8 Views, 37 Votes ,7.47 Score
RE: Re: to "single parent"   7/13/2004

Just so you know, it also happens to single dads. I try to be straight up front that I am a single parent of a wonderful little man. I have, on several occcasions, mentioned this and lo and behold she all of a sudden has somewhere to be. You know, forgot sisters baby shower, left my electric blanket on, etc. Makes one want to give up on the fairer sex.

0 Comments, 9 Views, 20 Votes ,6.06 Score
rm_FullFigure1 67 F
11  Articles
Re: to "single parent"   7/9/2004

Don't pay any attention to that last jerk who responded. He compared a "dog" to a ""!! PLEASE!!!! When a guy turns and runs when he finds out that you have a , LET HIM GO! He's not the man for you. You don't want someone who turns and runs from responsibilities anyway. It will take some time to find that "right man", but until that guy shows up, don't take these other guys so ...

0 Comments, 16 Views, 21 Votes ,7.83 Score
DChardcorepunk 42 M
1  Article
Are you really sprung?? Chris W.   7/8/2004

It seems at one time or another we look back and remember that one (or more) girlfriends you thought you could never live with out. But when the time came the pain and heartbreak was the worse you had ever felt. Mine was not that long ago and I wanted to know what this woman had / or did to make me this caught up in her. Ay first I thought it was because she was the first older woman I had ...

0 Comments, 16 Views, 13 Votes ,5.16 Score
rm_hitchcock410 44 M
8  Articles
Is that even a thought?   7/5/2004

not that I'm asking for a date, but it is kinda funny. Some profiles read like this is a dating site, others read like I want some lovin and then you can go away now.

0 Comments, 11 Views, 18 Votes ,5.58 Score
rm_cedsmooth 62 M
4  Articles
Clean up   7/3/2004

Hello to all, I have a few comments and just maybe i'll get some in return? I have been on AdultFriendFinder for close to a year and have not hooked up with any one (mostly because the ones that I want and have pictures are taking the pictures with a crappy camera or if you look t the picture all you can see in the background is junk and clutter and that kind of thing turns me off) and maybe it's ...

0 Comments, 5 Views, 34 Votes ,6.48 Score
kellygreeneyes69 50 F
1  Article
Re:20 Simple Dating Tips.   7/2/2004

Wow! Very Insightful, you understand us well. Should have that one published and easily accessable for all men to see and follow. As much as we LOVE sex, your mannorisms before and after are just as important and help decide whether or not we come back for more. Thank You for seeing us so clearly, Kelly

0 Comments, 110 Views, 24 Votes ,3.70 Score
Flying by the seat of my pants   7/1/2004

I dunno, but every date I've ever been on, there was no plan, no thought on what to do etc. I've always winged it, flew by the seat of my pants, been myself, been kind and courteous and everything always seemed to go very well, sex included. Now I'm what you call a bad boy rather than a gentleman but I have a good guy nature to the bad boy side, I don't disrespect women and maybe that's ...

0 Comments, 11 Views, 17 Votes ,4.12 Score
love4greenbay 42 F
5  Articles
response to men having a problem dating single moms   6/30/2004

~There are several reasons why men wouldn't want to date a single mom. <br> ~1) Learning that a woman has had a , whether or not the lives with her, means that she could have stretch marks and the man may be turned off by them. <br> ~2) The man may be afraid that the woman is also trying to find a replacement father for her , and he is not ready to take on that ...

0 Comments, 29 Views, 39 Votes ,6.90 Score
Monogamous sex vs. open sex?   6/29/2004

Married people like to have sex, sometimes, with others other than their spouse. If this is a site where we seek sex, then why does it bother women (or men for that matter) if the men looking at them are attached? A zipless fuck can have intimacy. And I think it can enhance the single person having sex with a married one by realizing their sexiness. What do you think?

0 Comments, 8 Views, 37 Votes ,6.03 Score
rm_sexylipps9 49 F
1  Article
Fake Bi-Woman   6/28/2004

Why is that you e-mail a woman they e-mail you back you both sound interested in one another but when it comes time to meet they: back out, stand you up or when you do meet them they look nothing like the picture they sent you? I don't understand if you are not interested then don't reply or atleast be real and stop playing with people's emotions. I need a real woman not a fake one!!!

0 Comments, 25 Views, 22 Votes ,6.37 Score
Re: Why do men stop talking to you when you have a    6/27/2004

Wait a minute, you saw this guy for three weeks and didn't tell him you had a ? Surely this is information you should have offered up earlier. <br> Allow me to be blunt: most men are scared of single moms. Single moms are unpredictable in their actions and especially in their motives. I'm sure you're thinking that you're not, but we don't like to take that chance. Single ...

0 Comments, 7 Views, 21 Votes ,6.22 Score
twisty1982 41 F
7  Articles
tell me what you think..   6/27/2004

what is dateing can you be in love with someone and just date them..and when you are with someone who lives far away can you love him and be in a commited relationship with him or would it be better just to date him??????

0 Comments, 6 Views, 5 Votes ,2.16 Score
Re: Women who don't follow through   6/27/2004

You must be aware that there a large number of fakes and weirdos on the internet. A vigilant woman will remember this when going to meet for the first time. Perhaps the women you've tried to meet have been through this before or have been warned sternly about meeting "strangers" from the internet. If you're smart, you won't be pushy about it; you'll be patient. <br> Oh, and ...

0 Comments, 6 Views, 12 Votes ,6.69 Score
twisty1982 41 F
7  Articles
what do you think   6/24/2004

i live in cali and my boyfreind in new mexico do you think its ok that he plays online with other girls even though we are in a attached relationship???????

1 Comments, 20 Views, 23 Votes ,4.53 Score
young women who like older guys   6/22/2004

is it a myth or is it true that some younger women find an older man sexually attractive, I would be most interested to find out: true facts: older men find younger women attractive : older women find younger men attractive Basically when you are looking for a partner, whether you beleive it or not you are driven by instinct to find someone who will bear offspring with ten ...

0 Comments, 12 Views, 60 Votes ,7.97 Score
Women don't follow through.   6/22/2004

When it comes to meeting women through online sites, most women are afraid to follow through. They list what they are looking for and what they want. When they chat with someone that has those qualities and interest, most women will not follow through. With women, it is a game, when it comes times to follow though they are unwilling or afraid to go through with it. What is your opinion? ...

0 Comments, 6 Views, 15 Votes ,2.82 Score
Wuld luv to   6/19/2004

I would love the opportunity to date, however there is no time during the week to be out woman hunting due to the responsibilities that a 35 year old man has. What other alternatives are out there? Well the main alternative that is here for all of us are classified within may city pages and newpapers. The more sophisticated way of searching for possibilities is on the net but within the ...

0 Comments, 1 Views, 44 Votes ,8.28 Score
rm_jono1957 61 M
1  Article
older man looking for older women   6/18/2004

Hello all you older women this is maybe strange to a lot of people my age 46 you would think nice young women but not for me I enjoy older women they are good company and definitely less problems and they really apprieciate someone who genually cares so I, m trying to link up with people now so I may be able to meet them when I travel home in August .

1 Comments, 92 Views, 26 Votes ,6.05 Score
Good Looking Women   6/18/2004

I am a good looking single gal. I've been single for a long time now. Do you know why? I'll tell you why. I hear this comment so often I want to throw up. <br> I'd have to say that men in general do not know how to communicate...or approach a woman with confidence. <br> I hear months after the fact...."Oh..I thought you were in a relationship". I'M SINGLE. Why not ...

0 Comments, 12 Views, 56 Votes ,8.52 Score
Is "looking" online at singles and dating sites OK?   6/14/2004

We have been dating for 8 months, not serious, and a couple of months ago during, a rough time, we both joined a couple of dating sites, seperately. Now we are getting closer but he still is very active on these sites. I don't mind doing it with him, but he emails and sends winks to other girls. He says it's just for fun, but when is it "too much"? I still check out mine for the hell of it ...

0 Comments, 1 Views, 56 Votes ,4.19 Score
Lets Get Real About Dating   6/13/2004

Definition: To DATE is to go out with someone you you think is attractive and a possible future long term or short term partner. People who Date are out their having a go, they dont sit around, they are out there Dancing, walking along a beach hand in hand (it may not be for ever) but who gives a shit. A great poet wrote it is better to have loved than to have lost. To Date is special ...

0 Comments, 3 Views, 26 Votes ,5.61 Score
WellBuiltGuy75 49 M
0  Articles
Inheriting her ex's stupidity.   6/11/2004

I am writing this article in the hopes that it might illuminate a 'problem' I have encountered in the very beginning of dating relationships: The problems that past boyfriends/husbands heaped upon these poor women are being used against me. Let me illustrate with two fine examples. <br> I was set up with a woman for a first date. It was not a 'blind' date in the strictest sense ...

3 Comments, 29 Views, 33 Votes ,7.83 Score
chrisomaha 44 M
11  Articles
what's up with girls not responding   6/10/2004

I have been a member for three years. I have had only two responses in this time. What's up with girls not responding?

0 Comments, 17 Views, 46 Votes ,5.96 Score
texastornado75 40 M
0  Articles
Re: Death of Chivalry   6/8/2004

First off, let me start that I hate it when people associate the actions of a few with an entire group. I absolutely despise being grouped as "a young stupid who has no respect for anyone" by society's standards just because I fall into an age bracket. Not all of us college age guys are @$$holes. Those that are simply ruin it for the rest of us. Just like in any other group, the ...

0 Comments, 9 Views, 22 Votes ,8.05 Score
When Guys date a girl,does he already plan for SEX??   6/7/2004

or is it still pure love, but most people think of sex and plan to get it done with the gal asap.. Right?

0 Comments, 4 Views, 39 Votes ,7.31 Score
At Least TRY   6/7/2004

Soo...I go on a date tonight... <br> Here's where the trouble starts. <br> First, she's a half-hour late. No reason, just, "Sorry, I'm always late." <br> Besides that, she didn't even attempt to look, well, presentable. I'm not saying you need to "Dress up, " but we are adults meeting for an adult date in a place where adults eat...and, you know, we're ...

0 Comments, 7 Views, 22 Votes ,6.97 Score
rm_Ian197224 52 M
1  Article
where to meet people   6/6/2004

For chicks: <br> The driving range: Spend the afternoon in the sun with a bucket of balls. These places are always overpopulated with men, and they go gaga over women who can swing a crooked stick. <br> Outdoor food and music festivals: Any event where there's a band and vendors selling those gigantic Fred Flintstone turkey legs (or some other meat-on-a-stick) is a ...

0 Comments, 89 Views, 84 Votes ,6.29 Score
No Such Things As Rules   6/5/2004

You hear crazy effin' rules about dating: <br> don't call her too soon after the date... don't call him for at least three days... no sex until the 3rd or 4th date... don't tell too much about yourself first night out... <br> To borrow a phrase from our friends across "the pond": it's all bollocks! <br> Every good dating experience I've had has gone ...

0 Comments, 5 Views, 37 Votes ,6.20 Score
thicknpeachie 45 F
11  Articles
why lie   6/2/2004

married men if u are married why lie i think it is best to be honest ya know let the women decide if she is willing to go there dont lead her on and then spring it on the women that is just selfish and ugly ya know to grt someone hooked and neglect to tell them you r married is strictly looking out for what u want with no regard for the next person stop it

0 Comments, 22 Views, 24 Votes ,8.02 Score
sexinscc 38 M
1  Article
making the first step   6/2/2004

I've been dating a girl for several weeks now. She claims to be "old fashioned, " and actually refuses to call me (what a shame! and we only date when I initiate the contact. <br> Anyways, I'm enjoying my time with her and I think she is too. What's the best way to act on this without killing any potential friendship we might have built up?

0 Comments, 4 Views, 18 Votes ,6.26 Score
Re: Generous   5/31/2004

When a woman wants a generous man, it is code for, "I'm an and require money to have sex with you."

0 Comments, 6 Views, 7 Votes ,4.57 Score
Where's a good place to find someone for a first date?   5/30/2004

I'm looking for suggestions, preferrably from the female side. I am a 28 year old male that has been married and divorced and just about forgotten what it is like to ask people out on a date. I'm tired of the bar scene and would just like some suggestions for where to go and meet people. Any ideas?

0 Comments, 1 Views, 25 Votes ,7.45 Score
Dating Today   5/29/2004

It seems like dating today has come to the point of misery. You meet someone you would like to get to know, they seem normal at first....and then the "Real" person comes shining through. If it not jealousy's absolute detachment. Why is it that there is no middle ground? What happened to "getting to know each other"? Dating for me is, taking it a little slower.....getting ...

0 Comments, 16 Views, 13 Votes ,5.66 Score
StudsMcGee 38 M
1  Article
How much time do i have to put in?   5/27/2004

What is the standard nowadays about how long a couple should go out before they have sex? Do they even need to date? What if they just meet and hook up; do girls expect a relationship out of that? I know it's probably diffrent for different girls, but with some of these girls, you gotta wonder when your investment in dinner and movies will finally pay off. How soon do you ladies feel ...

0 Comments, 3 Views, 22 Votes ,6.49 Score
rm_two4fun1962 51 F
115  Articles
Re: What do I do about him.....please help   5/26/2004

Sounds like you need to dump this jerk. You don't deserve to be treated this way, as does no one. Whatever you do, do not lend him any money.........if you do, not only will you never see your money again, he will continue to treat you this way, because he knows he can.

0 Comments, 4 Views, 62 Votes ,7.88 Score
It's All About Cynthia (pt. 2)   5/23/2004

It’s All About Cynthia (pt. 2) By Nolan Hagey <br> When the valet brought my car up to restaurant door, I took a few steps back to look at my date. She turned, of course, to see what I was doing with a questioning look. I laughed and circled my finger to tell her to turn around which she happily did. Off times the pleasure of seeing a woman, refined, in an evening ...

0 Comments, 33 Views, 33 Votes ,7.00 Score
3 Essential Questions to ask a new Date   5/21/2004

When you first start dating someone, there are 3 essential questions that you should ask your potential partner in order to find out what is written in their personal "Book of Love." <br> The Book of Love that we all carry around with us and from which we read when we're in a relationship with another person. It contains all the images, stories, feelings and behaviors that we ...

0 Comments, 21 Views, 902 Votes ,7.69 Score
“It’s About Cynthia”   5/17/2004

“It’s About Cynthia” by Nolan Hagey <br> My father once said, “Sex was the thing that everyone does, ” and then jokingly, “but very few know how to do it well.” He also knew the only reason I was asking about it was Cynthia, that beautiful girl in my Algebra class, had leaned over my shoulder and asked me to help her with a word ...

0 Comments, 7 Views, 35 Votes ,5.97 Score
rm_two4fun1962 51 F
115  Articles
Re: HE cheats why can't i?   5/14/2004

Who says you can't go out on your own and ****? Your boyfriend? Sweety, you are not his slave, he does not own you, you are not a piece of property. If you want to go out and fool around by all means do it, he apparently does. Whats good for the goose is good for the gander. If he can't accept it, oh well!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

0 Comments, 23 Views, 36 Votes ,7.64 Score
rm_two4fun1962 51 F
115  Articles
Re: whats the easiest way to get laid?   5/9/2004

No, this isn't the place to get to get laid quickly and easily. If all you want is a 1 night stand, go to a bar, its much easier and quicker than here.

0 Comments, 2 Views, 47 Votes ,8.52 Score
rm_20NWILD 46 M
3  Articles
Traditional or Nontraditional   5/8/2004

I am wondering what is the number one sex position out there today. After talking to many of my friends, I have found that people are still into missionary, but there are those who people who like to be adventurous. What type of sex do the people of AdultFriendFinder like?

0 Comments, 8 Views, 27 Votes ,5.34 Score
rm_two4fun1962 51 F
115  Articles
Re: hey why dont more people share ?   5/8/2004

No it's not that people are that narrow minded. It takes A LOT for a spouse or mate to share their partner with someone else. It consists of lots of different things, security in the relationship, trust, etc., also this way of life has a completely different mindset going on. Sharing is not for everyone.

0 Comments, 1 Views, 21 Votes ,7.95 Score
Older men and teens, nah.   5/8/2004

I'm a fifty-one year old man and I do like younger women--but younger women for me means those in their forties and thirties (and, rarely, later twenties). I do believe that older men *might* be better lovers because they are more likely to be considered and considerate about making love to a woman, about giving her pleasure, about sustaining the act and making it more meaningful, about ...

0 Comments, 25 Views, 50 Votes ,6.58 Score
snooker will not be the same   5/6/2004

Visiting the auction rooms we found a store of games and pastimes occupying a separate room in the basement but the gazed door was locked Can we look in there we asked at the first floor reception the door is locked and marked private. Oh yes she replied, hardly any one visits and it is opened for such enquiries as yours. Here take the key and return it and when you have had look round, ...

0 Comments, 10 Views, 15 Votes ,5.27 Score
Overcoming Shyness and Making it Count   5/4/2004

I've always been shy around other people... but now that I am looking for an equally frustrated "MILF"-type soccer mom to make love with, I'm faced with having to actually interface with women! <br> What I've decided to do is this: when I go to the grocery store or Wal-Mart, I make it a point to find a woman I'd love to be with and compliment her. No strings. No waiting around ...

0 Comments, 89 Views, 47 Votes ,8.24 Score
Shapely423542 60 F
10  Articles
Motivation/Pictures/Relationships   4/30/2004

Just curious if most men here are really seeking just plain down and dirty sex. Are you even remotely motivated by what a woman says in her profile? Are you turned off if she says she is looking for a relationship? What if by that she just means.....just a friend to hang with type relationship? Sometimes sex, sometimes not.

0 Comments, 35 Views, 20 Votes ,4.27 Score
Re: Ladies want to meet...   4/28/2004

Meeting someone can either be good or bad. The first thing you need to do is find a neutral place to meet. If the person in question ends up being a crazy, you really don't want them to stalk you at your regular restaurant, coffee shop, or bar. Coffee is generally a good place to meet first. It gives both of you a chance to talk, watch one another's movements, et cetera. If that goes ...

0 Comments, 5 Views, 21 Votes ,7.58 Score
JoeJoe823 40 M
1  Article
Why must I guess?   4/25/2004

I have crashed and burned too many times in taking dating to the next step. I usually get caught up trying to figure out whether they're giving hints to me to make a move or they're just being open. I don't the thought of INVADING someones space, so I just try to wait until they tell me the door's open. If they make the first move, I'm not the type think of that as being easy. It won't ...

0 Comments, 31 Views, 30 Votes ,6.87 Score
jumpin_lava 43 M
3  Articles
how long could be the first date?   4/25/2004

should the first date for the coffee is around 15 min (excellent) or 30 min(good)?

0 Comments, 8 Views, 12 Votes ,5.80 Score
friendsfirst2004 58 M
83  Articles
RE: I just want to get laid   4/23/2004

If you just want to get laid then try looking at profiles that say "sex only" or "no commitment", but expect it to take time. <br> If you want to get laid right now, you better check out the section of your local newspaper, or a shady street corner.

0 Comments, 3 Views, 23 Votes ,6.98 Score
rm_two4fun1962 51 F
115  Articles
Re: Should the guy have to pay for every date   4/23/2004

In my opinion, no the guy shouldn't have to pay for every date, only the ones he intiates. : ) If the guy does the asking out, he should not expect the woman to pay. However, if the woman offers to pay or to go dutch, then by all means let her help. If the woman does the asking out, she should expect to pay. There are many men out there though, that were raised to be gentlemen and to ...

0 Comments, 2 Views, 24 Votes ,6.99 Score
rm_playfulcat4 47 F
1  Article
Can someone who has a STD still date?   4/23/2004

Q: Can someone who has a STD still date? (Not AIDS/HIV) I am talking about STD's like Genital Herpies and ones like it. I am just looking for Adults Opinions on this it's for a study in my class. Please be Open minded about this if you reply. Thank you

0 Comments, 34 Views, 11 Votes ,5.78 Score
pocky_bi_bytch 51 F
1  Article
Re: the cock shot or smiley face ?   4/19/2004

I, myself, prefer a person's main photo to be one of their face( i.e. clothed) If a guy wants to put a pic of his cock I think it is better placed on either of the other photos 2-5. That is my opinion.

0 Comments, 3 Views, 62 Votes ,9.05 Score
cross borders   4/18/2004

with the advancement in air travelling, i've finally able to date a few women from different country in asia. but i suppose in countries like the states, china and europe it's a common thing.

0 Comments, 5 Views, 16 Votes ,5.33 Score
The purpose of AdultFriendFinder/   4/14/2004

What is the purpose of AdultFriendFinder also known as Here is a copy and paste right off of help page. <br> "The purpose of the site is to make it as easy as possible for you to meet people, using the power of the internet. At, you'll find a community of people using the site as a tool to make connections and find partners for dating, romance, ...

0 Comments, 13 Views, 49 Votes ,7.79 Score
ty_cho2002 41 M
1  Article
How many internet hookers are there.   4/13/2004

Im totaly serious with this online hookers. There completely pissing me off with "oh im sorry it took a bit but please goto I just ask Why and because i am wasting my time sending emails to these people that have regular photos. im not talking about those super hot girls with perfect pictures im talking about those pictures that actually look like real people. WEll whatver ...

0 Comments, 8 Views, 27 Votes ,7.66 Score
rm_lilnortylola 39 F
3  Articles
how to treat your girlfriend.   4/12/2004

Basically, like all my articles i'll keep it simple and to the point. Were all basic structures us humans and the female variety isn't that much different to your own. <br> We really don't expect that much from relationships. <br> Here's the run down of what and what not to do: <br> *don't forget birthdays, anneversaries or holidays; and please...get us a ...

0 Comments, 7 Views, 25 Votes ,7.56 Score
wondering what to do   4/12/2004

wondering what to do. My g/f broke up with me 3 months ago and i still have feelings for her. When she broke up with me i had really started falling for her (dated for 3 months). She had a crush on me for months and i didnt want to go out with her because i didnt want to hurt her. When i started going out with her though my drinking and partying had got worse and she broke up with me ...

1 Comments, 34 Views, 11 Votes ,5.04 Score
jumpin_lava 43 M
3  Articles
one liner, how do you date with them?   4/10/2004

there was this girl, who on the first date would answer in multiple choice style. she would either say 'yes', 'no' or 'i like anything'. eg: me:what movies do you like she: i like all moview. me:what games do you play, she: i can play pretty much everything. me:what places do you like to go out for, she: i am open for everything. me: what music do you like ? she: i am open to any type of ...

0 Comments, 1 Views, 20 Votes ,1.85 Score
jumpin_lava 43 M
3  Articles
what is the best dress of the first date   4/10/2004

this is a very complex question for me. from the past experiences it has always been bit formal side which was succesful. but most of my friends have a opinion that casual with jeans, t-shirt, coat/jacket, snikers. what do you think is the correct one? formal( excellent ) casual ( very good) does not matter ( good )

0 Comments, 4 Views, 25 Votes ,6.23 Score
DSSWM looking for that special female to have and hold and love.   4/6/2004

Want that special female who knows she is to sexy, smart, and beautiful to sleep alone. Also she must know why GOD in his omnipitant wisdom created man before woman. (hint) She knew a good woman would need a _______.

0 Comments, 16 Views, 22 Votes ,0.12 Score
kinky_bi_chic 42 F
3  Articles
Re: Need Help   4/5/2004

Maybe you should divorce your wife. That might make your girlfriend happy. My soon to be ex husband left me for his girlfriend while I was pregnant and, even though I love him dearly I just want it to be over and him to leave me alone because I can't handle the pain. Well good luck with everything.

0 Comments, 172 Views, 27 Votes ,6.40 Score
A night on the town   4/5/2004

Easily the best to a girls heart is to know how to treat her and how to help her enjoy herslef. I def. try my hardest, lol, always be courteous, always be a gentleman, be the kind of man yer mother raised, haha

0 Comments, 7 Views, 15 Votes ,5.43 Score
Back into dating   4/3/2004

Well here I am back in the dating scene again after 30 years of marriage. The bar scene is ok but it gets old after awhile. There really are not enough places out there to meet people. Plus I seem to be asked out by all younger guy. That's kinda hard when they are all my age or younger. LOL Then I go onto this dating site. Everyone is about looks. I think I'm ok. No complaints so far ...

0 Comments, 11 Views, 19 Votes ,5.50 Score
rm_two4fun1962 51 F
115  Articles
Re: My first date ***ed me   4/3/2004

You cant **** the willing, and you were more than willing it seems. She made you pay for the beer and hotel? Seems you willingly opened up your wallet, no one can make you do that. You opened it wide thinking you were in for a full night of sex. You may of been disappointed, but then again she may have been too.

0 Comments, 4 Views, 31 Votes ,7.36 Score
rm_two4fun1962 51 F
115  Articles
Re: The way you thin women are   4/3/2004

Excuuussssssssseeeeeeeeeee ME!!!!! I am a thin woman, and if a man EVER hit me, he would be 6ft. under. You think all thin women put up with a mans BS? Some of us do have respect for ourselves. Sounds to me that you are a very jealous man because you want something from this friend of yours, and she isnt giving you the time of day, except to USE you when it suits her. Thats your fault ...

0 Comments, 5 Views, 14 Votes ,6.02 Score
rm_fuckable01 50 M
1  Article
Need help   4/3/2004

Well where do I start? Lets see I am dating this one girl for over4 months now and we have been living together. the problem is that she want to be with other ppl. Well guys that is. I guess that I cant complain to much since I am still married but I am not living with her. Well my gf has already cheated on me once and I never have. I really want to be with her but at times I dont. At one ...

0 Comments, 7 Views, 10 Votes ,1.59 Score
rm_KonaCoz 34 M
2  Articles
Men See Hot Woman!   3/31/2004

It's just an unfortunate fact, that probably holds true for many woman too (on the opposite side of looking at this issue) - is that new experiences are needed to keep the big guy going hard. Why do you think we look at the hot ones walking by all the time? A raise from a pretty girl walking by can actually help a relationship - after all when he get's home with you after getting raises all ...

0 Comments, 7 Views, 12 Votes ,4.39 Score
rm_KonaCoz 34 M
2  Articles
Ok to date young!   3/31/2004

I notice this trend is very much in full swing! I see younger woman dating older guys, and younger guys dating older woman. But is it really dating, or is it just a temporary sexual relationship? I believe it's ok to date someone much younger than you, but beware that the maturity level is going to be different so don't get too attached or be too surprised if that younger someone runs away ...

0 Comments, 4 Views, 12 Votes ,5.45 Score
I would choose a nice guy any day.   3/30/2004

This idea that " nice guys come in last " is something I don't understand. I would take a " nice guy " any day. Who says that they can't be great lovers. Women that look for " bad boys " get what they deserve and men that search " bad girls " get likewise. They both end up crying the blues. Loose women and promiscuous men end up alone. They deserve what they seek. I married one of the ...

0 Comments, 13 Views, 12 Votes ,6.33 Score
sultrymistress 62 F
3  Articles
Re: Black Woman   3/29/2004

Golfer317 I'm a black woman and all of my experiences on this site have been with white men. Most of the gentlemen that I have dated we still remain good friends if you know what I mean So the answer to your question is I'm sure that their are lots of black women on this site that has dated or dating white men. Color is just color when are people going to realize it's only skin ...

0 Comments, 150 Views, 32 Votes ,8.49 Score
rm_tagmein 56 M
6  Articles
How old or young will you date?   3/28/2004

As a man of 40+, I find myself still very attracted to younger women. Not just for the obvious male fantasy, but a lot cuz my friends are already at least 10 to 15 yrs younger than me. Not that I would at all mind of woman closer to my age. But the ones that I do meet, are just so settled, ..ahhh! Still have to much life in these bones to totally settle down. So what's basically acceptable ...

0 Comments, 1 Views, 33 Votes ,6.27 Score
rm_tagmein 56 M
6  Articles
Do women these days crave anal?   3/28/2004

As a true lover of anal pleasures, I still find it hard to find women who like/love anal sex. Do they just don't want to admit they like this particular act or is the general idea still taboo!

0 Comments, 32 Views, 20 Votes ,4.53 Score
rm_tagmein 56 M
6  Articles
How do you make the approach to see if a woman wants anal sex, and still be respectful?   3/28/2004

I find myself always thinking about getting the next relief from anal sex, but find it hard to inquire, with respect, if my date likes her asshole eaten! I like to communicate first on what is enjoyable for her, then fulfilling those needs. just seems a hard subject to bring up without offending her or the conversation. What approach do you women prefer?

0 Comments, 29 Views, 21 Votes ,5.48 Score
rm_tagmein 56 M
6  Articles
Would it seem to be to obscene to own so many toys/movies for a man?   3/28/2004

I own quite a few porno movies and I've just started collecting toys, especially for anal delights. my question is, ...Am I over doing it, to a womens point of view? Does that seem desperate ladies?

0 Comments, 2 Views, 14 Votes ,5.86 Score
blkgoddess69 49 F
4  Articles
I AM SO HAPPY I MET HIM WOW!   3/28/2004

OK YOU LIKE TOO HEAR, MY 3RD GUY I HAVE MET FROM HERE?well im sure u do!! well i am in total shock right now, i love white men! that will never change, well we emailed back and forth for about a week(he been tryng to meet me for about a month) we are both virgos, and so imagine the attitude, lolwe click!! both where very sexual when we got intimate, omg, he ate my pussy so good i almost ...

0 Comments, 46 Views, 5 Votes ,4.45 Score
I am an older woman and know why it's difficult for younger men   3/26/2004

I have on article posted about my dating experiences on AdultFriendFinder but I get hundreds of emails from young men that would like to " experience " an older woman. I did end up marrying a younger man ( 20 years my Junior ) but I am almost 62 and he is 41. When I first came on I stated in my profile that if you were under 45 I wouldn't even consider dating. So I mostly dated men that were closer to ...

0 Comments, 88 Views, 49 Votes ,8.95 Score
who pays for the hotel bills?   3/26/2004

for your first encounter, after dating, if both do not go back to their place and decide dto put up a night or a few hours at the hotel, who should be paying? the guys? the girls? or split the bill? cast your votes? cast agree for guys settling the bill! cast disagree for girls to settle the bill or cast neutral for splitting the bill. doesnot apply to same sex or group....

0 Comments, 3 Views, 41 Votes ,5.82 Score
SEX AS A RELAXANT   3/23/2004

i ve been looking for love in all the wrong places, clubs bars shopping malls.i found some adult friends that have the same interest as freaky as that may sound god bless america big women small women bring them all this is the most relaxed ive been in years om a swinger and im relaxed so relax just do it you have one life make it the best. sex is the best relaxant

0 Comments, 24 Views, 33 Votes ,7.19 Score
dont know what to do with an older lady   3/22/2004

i met this woman who is older than me. i knew she was more experienced by the way i grew when she kissed me. i want to fuck her and even start a relationship with her but feel at a loss, tell me what i should do please

0 Comments, 17 Views, 20 Votes ,3.38 Score
FunLovinGrl4U 39 F
1  Article
Re:What most woman on this site want!!   3/21/2004

I totally agree..I know several girls besides myself on here and all they tell me they ever want is to find a guy on here whose EXTREMELY rich and will take care of them. <br> To these types of girls: NEWS FLASH.. this is a SEX site... not FIND THE MAN OF YOUR DREAMS site!!! If you expect a guy you meet on here to just open his wallet for you...your gonna be disspointed!!!

3 Comments, 400 Views, 43 Votes ,8.75 Score
The dating experience of Annau22 on this site   3/19/2004

I came onto AdultFriendFinder about three years ago as a widow. I had a very extensive profile. I spent a long time writing down what I was looking for and what I was able to give a man. I was looking for the last love of my life. I dated close to 200 wonderful men from this site. I always responded to my email. Never have used an auto reply ( think that is rude ) If I was interested I wrote them back a ...

0 Comments, 12 Views, 26 Votes ,7.45 Score
grannieslover 67 M
1  Article
women over 60 are sexy   3/10/2004

I´m a man in the late fourties and prefer older women. I like their experience and open mind but also their sexuel attraction. The body of a woman over 60 is curvier, sexier than that of a girl with 25. Why is it so difficult to meet such a women. Do really only stars like Joan Collins dare to have a friend much younger?

0 Comments, 55 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
Breaking Up   3/10/2004

Dont waste your time in a relationship if you are unhappy, Life is just way to short!

0 Comments, 4 Views, 2 Votes ,5.20 Score
My first date fucked me   3/8/2004

She met me in the restaurant. It was she who initiated the conversation. Being a gullible kind of guy I fell for her.We had beer together and she made me pay for it. She escorted me to a nearby hotel room and asked me to book an AC room. I paid for it. We had a meal together and she put me on the bed. She unzipped my trousers and squeezed my cock. In anticipation I reached seventh heaven. ...

0 Comments, 24 Views, 125 Votes ,6.08 Score
Zakira21 35 F
3  Articles
HELP I'm sleeping with my best friends man   3/7/2004

PLease Help as i'm sleeping with my best friends man, every weekend we get together and have fun special fun, he takes me out places buys dinner and go to moives together then we head back to my place and make sweet dream love to together. He says he wants me but dosen't want to break up with my best friend (his partner) i want to tell her that were busy making love IS THAT WRONG?? or ...

0 Comments, 22 Views, 34 Votes ,2.07 Score
blkgoddess69 49 F
4  Articles
i want him bad!   3/4/2004

Hi there, i need a lil help on a short notice, i will meet a sweet guy tomorrow, he been trying to meet me for about 4 months but i been very busy, but i am now readyt o meet him, i am so attracted to him i don't even know what to do, i just want to grab him and kiss him deeply, and grab his ass!! yes i like guys ass', there hot! his cock looks very good, nice size, and i love the ...

0 Comments, 26 Views, 20 Votes ,6.57 Score
Why do Black Males have a hard time on AdultFriendFinder?   3/4/2004

I have been a member for 3 years on AdultFriendFinder and I have only met, 2 women. Is this not the place Black male to meet women of all races?

0 Comments, 17 Views, 20 Votes ,6.32 Score
RIDEME1963 57 M
13  Articles
FINDING A DATE   3/3/2004

Finding a date is no easy task, especially when you don't know where to start. Hopefully I can provide you with some tips of where and how you search can begin. The best way to guarantee a successful date is by getting to know a potential date first. You want to make sure that you'll have enough things to talk about, that there is chemistry and that you are both out for dinner for the same ...

0 Comments, 12 Views, 1 Votes
one for the women regarding giving oral sex   2/28/2004

I dated my wife to be for a year and then we were engaged for two more years before getting married. We saw each other generally on weekends and fooled around all the time. The sex was great right up until we got married. We went down on each other almost ever weekend and occasionally used the "69" position for simultaneous pleasure. Right after the wedding the sex dried up quickly and the ...

0 Comments, 7 Views, 53 Votes ,7.56 Score
Leaving this site after 2 and a half years- tired of no reponses.   2/26/2004

The only reponses were spam ladies trying to get me to waste more money signing up at other sites.

0 Comments, 4 Views, 969 Votes ,8.13 Score
extasycouple 57 C
1  Article
How is it fair to our relationship   2/24/2004

I am involved with this guy that has a thing for a married woman. They had been together for a few months last year but thanks to me they stopped seeing each other but now they want to hook up again for some casual fun. I am open to swinging but only if my partner is with me, I am not allowed to be there because she is afraid that I might know her. He thinks it would be great if we could ...

1 Comments, 102 Views, 17 Votes ,7.23 Score
Good one   2/21/2004

Hi!!! I read ur stories regularly and I wish that others should also read my stories. This is a true incident that I am narrating to u. It was when I first had sex with my girlfriend. Her name is sony and she is a real bomb. She has beautiful boobs (36") a flat waist and big butt. She is as horny as a bitch. It was our first date together and I was so nervous I could almost feel myself ...

0 Comments, 16 Views, 17 Votes ,3.83 Score
20 simple dating tips that I've learned   2/21/2004

1. It's okay to suggest a drink instead of dinner for a first date. She dreads a boring four-course ordeal, too. <br> 2. Call her by early evening on Monday to confirm a Tuesday get-together. (Weekends aren't for first dates.) <br> 3. Leave your home and work numbers. No home number and she'll assume you have a wife or girlfriend. <br> 4. If you want to ...

0 Comments, 12 Views, 114 Votes ,9.23 Score
sexyydancer 59 M
4  Articles
Interracial sex   2/18/2004

Do you think AdultFriendFinder should set up a chat room called maybe the interracial room some people do enjoy other races and you could chat there some people are a little reluctant to put that on there profile but are interested what do you think.

1 Comments, 103 Views, 31 Votes ,7.94 Score
FriendWantedNow 58 C
10  Articles
Valentine's Day   2/15/2004

Today is the 15th of February. Last night I received several phone calls from friends of mine asking if I wanted to go barhopping with them. These friends were married and knew that this was my first Valentine's Day with my best half. Why would they imagine that I would think of going out with 'the boys' on this of all days? Why weren't they at home with their wives? Have all men become ...

0 Comments, 13 Views, 11 Votes ,6.53 Score
About Article for 1st Dates   2/14/2004

I agree that the guy should always pay for first date. But on later dates, it wouldn't hurt if the woman helped contribute(like leave a tip), even if the guy asked her out(of course, when was the last time a women asked out a guy and paid). In my opinion, for more pricey activities like concert tickets I'd say she'd have to pay for her ticket, but I would take her out to dinner.

0 Comments, 6 Views, 4 Votes ,3.63 Score
rm_J95911450 64 M
3  Articles
RE-why I can't a date   2/12/2004

Read your piece and in for the what it s worth colum. Gent you're not alone. Seems to be alot of that going around. It's the same for me and lot's of guys..I really wish I had a handle on it. Nothing works at all....Would really like a Lady to anwer this delema...

0 Comments, 15 Views, 7 Votes ,4.82 Score
FriendWantedNow 58 C
10  Articles
Anniversary: The Rules   2/10/2004

First Rule: Guys remember the important date and do something about it. Second Rule: Guys it has to be something very special and personal. Getting your secretary to send flowers doesn't cut it. You're in for the whole day and pawning it off on someone else to take care of for YOU is simply insulting. Unless your secretary is sleeping with your wife then YOU pick up the flowers, YOU make ...

0 Comments, 16 Views, 6 Votes ,3.37 Score
rm_roadie_x 48 M
1  Article
Honesty check ladies: Do you reply to most of your messages?   2/8/2004

Hi, can you please help me out here, I've got a profile, but I've never joined, I chose another site, being new to this I really didn't know what to expect, I put a decent profile in, a very tame pic(well like I say I'm new to this!), I got no replys back and soon gave up on it, I really want to join a site for people like me, people who just real wild fun, I'm not Brad Pitt but I'm an ...

0 Comments, 7 Views, 48 Votes ,7.32 Score
69iwannafuku69 38 F
6  Articles
what about a 3 way relationship?   2/4/2004

im recently interested in having a 3 way relationship, not just sex but a commitment between 3 people im not sure if this is normal but it seems to be the right thing to do in my situation. i have a girlfriend but i also love a guy i know there interested in each other too but im not sure what i should do. im not looking for answers really i just want to tell someone my thoughts so i can ...

0 Comments, 15 Views, 31 Votes ,6.21 Score
How to find an older women seeking a Younger Man   2/3/2004

Any one have any thoughts on how to approach the topic of dating with a women that is 15+ your senior?

0 Comments, 3 Views, 37 Votes ,6.20 Score
Just wondering   2/2/2004

I was just wondering what it is that women like about men. Truly, I understand that each woman has her own style so to speak, but what is the overall attraction? Is it eyes, voice, presence, or body? Maybe I am totally off point. Just wondering!

1 Comments, 26 Views, 24 Votes ,5.63 Score
lynne42c 54 F
1  Article
bust or legs   2/1/2004

why do men always have to talk about sex before even asking your name

6 Comments, 423 Views, 41 Votes ,6.14 Score
romantic_damo 41 M
1  Article
why cant i get a date?   1/31/2004

i'm confused. i'm a nice guy, i'm romantic, i'm horny as hell and naughty too but most people put up with it. <br> now everytime i get near a girl and we flirt a bit and stuff, after a short time, she loses interest. for nooo reason. seriously, everything went smoothly. worst still is that 1 of them didn't give a reason, just a blank stare, and the other told another friend that ...

0 Comments, 31 Views, 42 Votes ,5.01 Score
rm_janpetat 74 M
5  Articles
Yes or no   1/26/2004

Why can woman never be straight on. They say never yes, but they say maeby when they mean yes and they say no, when they mean meaby (or mean no).

0 Comments, 22 Views, 19 Votes ,4.05 Score
NoAverageJoe37 57 M
2  Articles

You know it's funny how things change when you are in your late 30's.I never had a problem getting dates in my 20's and even my early 30's.But now i am 37 years old, gosh i don't even feel 37 let alone look it, for some reason i am not finding it easy to find dates, maybe it is because i don't have as much confidence in myself as i did back in the day.I am a goodlooking guy still, sure i ...

0 Comments, 5 Views, 20 Votes ,5.68 Score
My first Date   1/23/2004

I had just started earning a livelihood and looking arund for some good time. I happened to go to a restaraunt near my place of work. I was gulping down my bottle of beer when I saw her march in. Dammit she looked great, sexy, out of the world. I mustered courage and asked her to join me as she was also alone. Normally this would have brought in a indifferent reaction in our part of the ...

0 Comments, 23 Views, 24 Votes ,6.88 Score
rm_Cryderman 41 M
18  Articles
wow dating suck   1/20/2004

i have no clue why people would even want to date it takes up so much time you dont' get to do as much with your freinds. Dating should just you have a girl just you and her and she or you go over every once and a while just for sex that is my type of dating

0 Comments, 15 Views, 12 Votes ,1.56 Score
rm_tony22uk2003 42 M
1  Article
How long????   1/20/2004

How long was it till you got your first wink....I've seen so many gorgeous women here....I'm hoping they get round to seeing me...

0 Comments, 8 Views, 8 Votes ,4.87 Score
FriendWantedNow 58 C
10  Articles
Recipe For Younger Women & Older Men   1/17/2004

Hi. I'm a 'Dirty Old Man', or so I have been told. I am 38 and my partner is 23. As I lost my virginity at 12 I am quite literally old enough to be her father, with 3 years to spare. This bothered me when we first got together and so did the comments and jokes others made. Now that I've had time to think about it, it doesn't. Let me tell you why. <br> Morally: Throughout human ...

0 Comments, 91 Views, 7 Votes ,5.33 Score
raiders1000 38 M
3  Articles
How to have a good date   1/17/2004

Listen to the female and do what she wants to do and be open and honest about yourself and be yourself and try to relax and have fun but you must make sure that you are honest

0 Comments, 1 Views, 1 Votes ,1.10 Score
why oh why   1/16/2004

Why is it that after being married and now going thru divorce is it so hard to find a sexual partner is it me or the women im after seems to me it should be a lil like riding a bike but maybe i just need a refresher course

0 Comments, 8 Views, 0 Votes
RE to : "Why do men think they can meet you Monday . . ."   1/14/2004

" The World's Largest Sex & Swinger Personals site" <br> . You're able to see those same words in the top left area of your screen right now!! Why do people spend good money on things they don't understand? The reason why you are upset is because you are on an ADULT SEX site!! Not a dating service!! Dating sites are everywhere! AdultFriendFinder has one, too! Check it ...

0 Comments, 3 Views, 133 Votes ,9.18 Score
FriendWantedNow 58 C
10  Articles
Profiles & Pics   1/12/2004

I see a lot of the single guys here complaining about not getting responses from women on this site. Fella's you are your own worst enemies. I am 23, thin, healthy and I am told quite pretty. When I had my "Single" profile up I got about 15 or 20 emails on a slow day, plus winks, plus network invitations, etc., and that is without nude or near nude pics posted. Now if I was busy for a few ...

0 Comments, 18 Views, 218 Votes ,9.28 Score
re tonypornstars article......ok look at THIS about dating mistah   1/11/2004

Did you ever STOP and think that maybe it is because the woman does not wanna be an endless piece of chattle and ass ??? In other words , tired of feeling ''used'', though sure , she loves sex too!! But some still have dignity and self-control... what a concept , huh? LOL Why don't YOU get real! Times have changed. Women have been thought to ''hold the key'', well ...

0 Comments, 10 Views, 20 Votes ,5.93 Score
carmeltoned 41 F
1  Article
sexy lady looking for other ladies for friendship and intimacy   1/5/2004

hello i am a 21 year old african american female in te downtown nashville area. i stand at five feet two inches tall and weigh 120 pounds. i have brown hair and brown eyes and sexy hips, lips, eyes, and thighs. i am seeking a lady or ladies for intimacy and friendships. women only-no men(i have that part covered). yet, i am having a hard time finding someone. i have been told that i am cute ...

0 Comments, 18 Views, 56 Votes ,7.85 Score
rm_Zeppo69Play 65 M
1  Article
The worst internet dating horror story ever in my life   1/3/2004

I thought I’d submit this to a “Most Horrible Dates” contest, hahaha. Maybe I’ll get lucky and win a consolation prize, hahaha or maybe everyone will feel so bad they’ll go together and get me an escort, ha right I WISH hahahaha… This actually happened, of course… New Year’s Eve 2003. Here you go. <br> Her: What happened? ...

0 Comments, 9 Views, 31 Votes ,0.75 Score
rolee1999 53 M
3  Articles
Women in South OC Look here   1/1/2004

If you are interested in a and complete relaxation from one of the most intuitive and attentive men in the area, look up my profile...rolee1999

0 Comments, 12 Views, 7 Votes
New to dating - want to ask a co-worker out after work.   12/31/2003

I work with a very pretty single redheaded lady. I am 55yo and she is 50yo. She looks 30. I secretly love and admire her. This is not the usual caveman sex thing. I really do like her a lot. I have been told she likes me too. We both work until 10pm. How do I ask her out? What should I say to her when I approach her? Where do I take her? Do I settle for coffee or do I ask her to have a beer ...

2 Comments, 15 Views, 5 Votes ,5.75 Score
RE: getting past rejection fear!   12/31/2003

What kind of clubs do you join? Where do you find them? What if you don't know how to dance? Lastly, is age 55 too old for a still-single man to get into the dating scene. Do ladies in their 40s have an interest in men in their 50s?

0 Comments, 0 Views, 7 Votes ,4.57 Score
Getting a response...   12/30/2003

I agree with 44DDGIRL on her post in 'articles', I was a member once and when it expired i didn't re sign up. I would(as a member) email someone who I was interested in and never even get an answer from them, not even a "not interested", some people are just fake or browsers. I'm not a member now and if someone emails me I will answer but still most are really not interested in meeting. ...

0 Comments, 5 Views, 22 Votes ,6.97 Score
rm_daviecowboy 56 M
2  Articles
are there REAL women here?   12/30/2003

With everything I have read and seen here on AdultFriendFinder, it seems that about half of all the responses from women are really spammers/porno sites trying to get you to spend even more money on their wares. Are there some real women out there, and how am I supposed to know if you're real or not?

0 Comments, 13 Views, 31 Votes ,7.17 Score
any woman who needs a New Years Lickin'   12/28/2003

I am a man in search of the woman. New Years could be the start of something wet and wild...time2grow2 <br> Showers, baths, tongues and lips, thighs and hips... safe sex a must, and it must be mutual, I like to give better than I get, but I like a woman who can give me more than I give; 23 years of marraige, she came 3 to 5 times every time we made love... I usually only ...

0 Comments, 0 Views, 114 Votes ,7.08 Score
you're 26 and you know it all!   12/28/2003

well in you'rewhole 26 yrs.i'm REALLY glad you told us what a woman is all about.i'd like to see what you have to say after another 20 yrs.i for one would be really glad to read you're words of wisdom, no i don't expect anything from you, except the BS that you are about to give back, in you're whole 26 yrs.of wisdom.hopefully life gives you A REAL GOOD HAND!

0 Comments, 5 Views, 67 Votes ,7.19 Score
puzzle piece's   12/21/2003

i find that relationships are like parts of a puzzle. one time you find a man that is good looking , great personality , loving but sucks in bed or just doesnt fil your needs despite his efforts. then there is the guy who is great in bed , but you arent attracted in any way to him ..its just the sex you have. then there is the guy who has everything for you ...with one exception..he is ...

0 Comments, 14 Views, 29 Votes ,7.45 Score
whats the deal?????!!!!   12/16/2003

so tell me guys....why is it when your stright up and honest with your " partner " they do everything they can to try and see if your full of shit. Why not just trust that women to be honest, faithful, loving and a fuck monster in the bedroom? No, the guy has to play the same games he gets pissed about from other chicks! phone games, e-mail games, if you love me games. what a load of ...

0 Comments, 0 Views, 25 Votes ,6.34 Score
snowmanhot 90 M
31  Articles
RE: Where do I find the words   12/15/2003

We all have gone throught the agony of how to start a conversation. If you met anyone that is of the slightest interest or you find something you like then use her for practice until you find someone you are find very interesting - your practice will then ease your way to greet her. The first and easiest way to greet a person (anyone) is "Hi!" This is easy to say, cannot offend and is ...

0 Comments, 25 Views, 54 Votes ,7.49 Score
mind games   12/14/2003

I am so sick and tired of people playing mind games. They make you think you are sexy and want to meet you and have sex, or what ever you want, and then when you make plans with them, they suddenly think its too fast, or they are enguaged, or married and wont cheet on them. Well my question is if they don"want to cheat on their spouce or future spouse, what the hell are they doing on a ...

0 Comments, 22 Views, 9 Votes ,6.20 Score
Re: what's with the social sceen?   12/13/2003

I have been single for many, many years. I have noticed that the "social scene" is geared towards couples, every time. For example, my company Christmas parties have a cost that includes dinner for 2. And our work contact list doesn't have a "next of kin" on it - it has a "spouse" entry. <br> It may sound negative, but I believe the single has a hard road ahead of them in a ...

0 Comments, 29 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
Straight 8 guys looking for Bi, where. hard to find   12/7/2003

I've been looking for an ongoing steady relationship with a bi-female so I can becaome a couples and enjoy a wonderful lady who is open minded. I'm close to Toronto, and do you think I can find a single lady who is bi and open mined to consentual sex with others.... its hard. Where are they all.?

0 Comments, 11 Views, 61 Votes ,7.39 Score
rm_nolafool 38 M
1  Article
just dating? i dont know   12/3/2003

i jsut met this lady at a bar shes 1 year younger than me.. but she svery nice.. we have meet a couple itmeas and play pool alot together.. but i asked her if would could get a bit more serious.. and she told me ... she was only dating right now... anyone care 2 help me out here?

0 Comments, 4 Views, 44 Votes ,4.94 Score
wontgosoft 46 M
1  Article
what's with the social sceen?   11/30/2003

Over the last year that I've been single, I have found it so difficult to find that somebody to be with. Is it me or is it society in general. Is there any suggestions for this man out there?

0 Comments, 3 Views, 24 Votes ,6.99 Score
Re: To ...Just Sex   11/18/2003

Have you ever heard of getting to know someone first! HELLO, I mean if someone e-mailed me I am not even about to tell them come right over and here is my address. Mainly with all the freaks out there. It is not good to just open your life up to someone that you meet on the net. ALWAYS meet in a public place first and get to feel if you are even comfortable with that person enough to @#ck ...

0 Comments, 4 Views, 91 Votes ,7.50 Score
shaft2003isback 49 M
4  Articles
Girls, does size really matter?   11/18/2003

For the ladies only, I want to know if you think size really matters. In order to vote, use higher numbers if you agree and lower numbers if you disagree. Or type a response and tell me why it matters to you.

0 Comments, 2 Views, 79 Votes ,6.71 Score
rm_Brnsugr 49 F
2  Articles
single and scared   11/14/2003

I have been divorced for over five years and am kind of afraid to get back into the dating field. I haven't dated or had sex in the past five years. I think there maybe someone out there for me but not sure. I got out of a relaly bad relationship and am afraid that the next relationship will be the same. Can anyone give me any pointers? Considering I am a very shy person what should I ...

0 Comments, 240 Views, 3 Votes ,5.39 Score
what is it about a woman that attracts you to her?   11/12/2003

If a guy sees a woman at a bar, store, street what is it about her that will get him to come over and say, Hi, I find you attractive and would like to chat for a minute.. This would help me out as i am an attractive woman who used to get hit on a lot but these days it isnt happening as much.. Is it because I am getting older or the men less bolder? Thanks Dee

0 Comments, 19 Views, 136 Votes ,6.27 Score
SexyBigAss2002 48 F
1  Article
My first date!!!   11/2/2003

I am engaged to the man who stood me up for our first date over 3 ½ months ago, weird huh!!! <br> We were supposed to go out to dinner and just hang out when he called to tell me that a friend of his needed to go the hospital for stitches. I said ok, maybe another day, just let me know how your friend is. Well, he emailed me a day later to tell me that his friend needed only 4 ...

0 Comments, 15 Views, 2 Votes ,5.20 Score
This is getting tame....   10/31/2003

Clearly the mighty dolar has told at last... All the top 50 most popular profiles have suddenly become those with face shots>!>?!?!?? move them to! This is a SEX site. Please AdultFriendFinder owners don't compromise just cos there seems to be more money in dating than sex hookups!!!!!

0 Comments, 6 Views, 0 Votes