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relationships/dating   11/23/2006

Origional articles/ magazine


0 Comments, 21 Views, 1 Votes
secretlova2007 31 M
10  Articles
Should U   11/20/2006

Do u think u should start a relationship with someone based on the fact that everything is great between you when you are having or talking about sex?


3 Comments, 75 Views, 7 Votes ,2.02 Score
noondelight4_2 50 M
2  Articles
Does anyone take the time to get to know their mate, prior to having sex?   11/20/2006

I think it is best to take the time to get to know some one on line, via e-mail photos, prior to actually giving you 411 out. Filters are only effective to a certain point and then you need to be safe and use your good judgment and instinct filters. If it does not feel right, you need to run. I know that we are all here for passion, but I do believe that it is better to take it slow and be ...


1 Comments, 67 Views, 4 Votes ,5.57 Score
how long do you wait before u have sex   11/19/2006

When does waiting for sex turn from not rushing to this is not going to happen.


5 Comments, 127 Views, 4 Votes ,2.86 Score
clearlakefootbal 38 M
8  Articles
help   11/13/2006

i need help?


0 Comments, 20 Views, 3 Votes ,0.49 Score
an old gf   11/7/2006

back when i was in high school i had dated this really fine female, everything was fine. I went into the service and lost contact with her for 10yrs, until last week. Some how, some way i was able to get her phone number, and address so I called her and we chatted, I would like to get back with her, what should i do. She also has 2 now, but that don't bother me..


1 Comments, 96 Views, 2 Votes ,3.81 Score
best friends again   11/6/2006

well after the office thing i was almost afraid to meet up with my best friend. but it so happened that i had to drop off some things at his house a couple of days later, and guess who was home alone? she answered the door in a bathing suit and robe, invited me in. i knew that i should leave but she had a power over me, we went out back by the pool and were standing there talking when ...


1 Comments, 729 Views, 17 Votes ,4.82 Score
Funkentelechy76 30 M
4  Articles
pinto24pinto24pinto24   11/6/2006

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0 Comments, 24 Views, 0 Votes
ronaldprettyman 38 M
3  Articles
It take two   11/5/2006

Building a relationship take alot of work and responsiblity. You have to be able to commit or at least be honest. Is that so hard to do. I think its one of those things that really easier said then done.


0 Comments, 138 Views, 4 Votes ,3.63 Score
best friends    11/5/2006

I was in my office when there was a knock, it was my friends , looking for her father, he had left on an emergency. After telling her this she shut the door and came to my desk, she is a little brunette, with long hair, blue eyes, about 22 or so, lovely titties and a very sexy ass, not to mention her lovely legs. she was wearing a dress, green, with a low cut top to it. she smiled and ...


0 Comments, 857 Views, 16 Votes ,5.04 Score
long distance relationship   11/4/2006

My bf and I have been chatting on here and the phone. He was suppose to travel to meet me, and has excuses such as business and family (grandkids). I get my hopes up and now we are barely speaking, should I stay or let him go?


5 Comments, 118 Views, 2 Votes ,1.04 Score
xxxcpl6 55 C
1  Article
Going from sex toy to friend   11/2/2006

Has anybody else had trouble with how to handle the aftermath of a threesome. WE have had our few great moments in the sack with another female, but have never really clicked with that person afterwards. Is this pretty much normal or do some of you have long term friendships? Just curious. I wouldn't change a thing about the actual SEX, but we haven't exactly gone out for dinner or movies ...


2 Comments, 134 Views, 2 Votes ,5.20 Score
hnlflyer1 51 M
2  Articles
Work Romance   11/2/2006

So I have became interested in this woman at work, but their is a strict no relationship plicy among coworkers. We both get along fine and something could be there. Should we go out on the down low and see what happens?


2 Comments, 42 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
long distance   11/1/2006

has anyone had experience (good/bad) of sorting out long distance meetings on here? i'm sure some of you have. how long should you commit to making sure they are definately serious? how do you know? it would be gutting to travel a long way to be let down.
any advise?


0 Comments, 31 Views, 0 Votes
rm_pcantony1000 43 M
1  Article
knowing ever other is necessary   10/26/2006

b4 do anything knowing each other is most important


1 Comments, 33 Views, 3 Votes ,4.41 Score
rm_flguysrq27 50 M
10  Articles
Releasing Inhibitions   10/23/2006

Been married for 6 years and my sex life with my wife is horrible. She is very reserved and not open to anything other then "vanilla" sex, any suggestions?


3 Comments, 93 Views, 5 Votes ,2.82 Score
asheboroqriosguy 42 M
9  Articles
good points.   10/20/2006

-. *give your partener the chance to make decisions. *be honest for good or bad. once on a wile take your time to tell your partener ...


1 Comments, 21 Views, 4 Votes ,2.86 Score
rm_simon81887 41 M
2  Articles
finding it hard to find someone again   10/20/2006

ok im kinda weird for a male im sure you will all admit, i was going with a girl younger than me for neaarly 2 years and only recently have broken up, due to her having strong religious beliefs, and me wanting to live my life as and when it comes im finding it hard to meet someone else as to be honest im finding it hard to let go, does anyone have any advice?


4 Comments, 55 Views, 4 Votes ,2.47 Score
"First Time Sex" in a Buding Relationship   10/20/2006

This happened when I was dating my first wife. In Beaumont, Tx back in the sixties (before and after) people would go "parking" in the boonies. The boonies were secluded areas off some of the country roads where oil drilling had been done and a wellhead was put in place. There were ideal places to be "alone" because they were a graveled cul-du-sac so you could turn around and didn't get ...


1 Comments, 64 Views, 5 Votes ,3.47 Score
asheboroqriosguy 42 M
9  Articles
how to know if its the one to be with.?   10/18/2006

to know if the person with the one you r dating or sleeping can be a good person to be with. its very simple...check this out>>>....in the morning ., ,if the person wake up..all mad and grumpy..that is not a good person...to be with.....if she or him wake up...with a smile...and energy for the new day...that is the best kind of person..they r understanding and the ones with a good ...


3 Comments, 101 Views, 8 Votes ,3.94 Score
man_ofbooty 40 M
10  Articles
My Wife and Cyber Chatting   10/18/2006

My wife lately has gotten into a habit of chatting with me while im at work. She arouses me so much it want to cum at work. It is so much fun and frisky i think it is lighting a fire in our marriage again.


1 Comments, 44 Views, 5 Votes ,4.45 Score
knduhtheflirt 48 F
3  Articles
falling in love and trusting again.   10/17/2006

Life takes it toll on many of us as we get older and sometimes its hard for us to find love or even trust anyone again after being hurt in our lives. Sometimes we think we will never have love again in our lives, yet do we really know what true love is? Have we ever trully experienced true love, or did we think we were in love and settle for who ever was in front of us for fear of being ...


2 Comments, 105 Views, 13 Votes ,6.50 Score
dunkeyman 54 M
3  Articles
it's all about us not you and not me   10/16/2006

I think peoples biggest problem in relationships is forgetting what a true relatioship is all about. there's no I in we or us. we often put our own agendas ahead of "OUR" agenda. In all the decisions we make within the confines of a reltionship should be made with the two of us in mind because you are no longer just you but we are now "US". If we remember this you will never have ...


1 Comments, 26 Views, 6 Votes ,3.93 Score
How many people on here really want to meet?   10/15/2006

I am not talking about a single guy going out and hittting u profiles I am talking about a single guy being approached by another profile.
I have been and politely responded that I was interested and suggested possible places to meet but in all occasions they never respond. Are there a lot of people collecting pics out there or what?


2 Comments, 185 Views, 7 Votes ,3.80 Score
sexxxygirl805 36 F
8  Articles
is it as hard as it seems?   10/15/2006

trying to have a long distance relationship. its like the person that seems so right for you is always the farthest from you why? shit should you try and make it work or what


2 Comments, 39 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
sexxxygirl805 36 F
8  Articles
How do you do it when they dont want to?   10/15/2006

why is it so hard when you know someone wants a relationship but is scared and is always pushing you away? what do you do stay away or keep pushing?


0 Comments, 26 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
sexxxygirl805 36 F
8  Articles
Let me know what you guys really want.   10/15/2006

Well i would like to be married by the age of 21 or at least engaged so guys tell me what you really want from a woman? everything let me know


1 Comments, 39 Views, 0 Votes
rm_blackmeat04 37 M
10  Articles
what to do   10/10/2006

what is the foundation for a good relationship and how do you keep it good.Also how do you know when you have reached that point....


3 Comments, 31 Views, 4 Votes ,3.63 Score
Once it leads to a first meeting,...   10/10/2006

The problem with sites like this is the risk involved in meeting someone for the first time and finding that you have no interest in pursuing things farther. I guess it just goes with the territory but how can one protect themself from being pursued once the decision has been made to look elsewhere?


3 Comments, 51 Views, 8 Votes ,3.25 Score
sunilup777 46 M
11  Articles
What a lady wants love or sex?   10/7/2006

What a female wants in the initial phase of a relation only love or sex?


1 Comments, 44 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
rm_freak4u8 38 M
12  Articles
Build it up   10/3/2006

How do you build a trusting relationship with your partner.


1 Comments, 15 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
punto01041966 49 M
1  Article
where do you begin...   10/3/2006

we all know why we are on this site. to meet other people who have some of the same interests and desires as we do. what type of person are we looking for? one of the first things you do when you begin your profile is describe what looks and feels good to you. images flash in your mind of what you desire and then you have the task of putting those images into words...not an easy task, but ...


0 Comments, 37 Views, 5 Votes ,2.49 Score
rm_ParkerDaly 43 M
6  Articles
Opinion on Fuck Friends   10/1/2006

Friendships come in all sizes, shapes and complexities, but nothing confuses this important life relationship as much as sex. A man and woman can indeed be just friends, but friends don't (or shouldn't) express themselves through sex. Simplify your life by learning to separate the two.


15 Comments, 3165 Views, 101 Votes ,3.80 Score
rm_ous16 39 F
10  Articles
A guy...   9/25/2006

...i wanna find a guy who calls me beautiful instead of hot.. who calls me back when i hang up on him.. who will stay awake just to watch me sleep.. i'll wait for the guy who kisses my forehead.. who wants to show me off to the world when im in my sweats.. who holds my hands infront of his friends.. i'll wait for the guy who is constantly reminding me of how much he cares ...


4 Comments, 82 Views, 8 Votes ,3.71 Score
bc209670 36 M
11  Articles
"Can you handle the truth."   9/23/2006

I'm at the point in my life where I just want to get rid of all the games and bullshit involving relationships. If it's going to happen then lets do it. But in the past I find that most women really aren't ready for it even if they say they are. Then either I'm an asshole or insensitive. For I just want to enjoy each others company in all ways and go from there. I know it sounds easy, ...


5 Comments, 150 Views, 10 Votes ,4.98 Score
rm_riskyrick5 69 M
14  Articles
Taking time is the key   9/20/2006

I met a lady online and we have been chatting for a few days. I won't rush into anything with her out of respect for her feelings. She happens to be married and wants discretion when we do meet up.
I would not want to press any lady into anything no matter what.
Time is what we all have a lot of so take things slow and build a great friendship before jumping into ...


1 Comments, 43 Views, 7 Votes ,6.10 Score
Is it possible to fully respect and trust you partners if they cheated on their past partner with U?   9/17/2006

What do you think? And how do you fully trust them if the saying goes "once a cheater, always a cheater? Thanks in advance


8 Comments, 151 Views, 11 Votes ,4.29 Score
canumanageme46 50 F
1  Article
can you trust them   9/15/2006

When you significant other starts staying out late , or doesnt call as often as they used too , might be cause for alarm , or they try a new sexual positon on ya, or the strange calls that dont get answered when you are around, when things are as usual it is time to start checking things out , there ways to do this : the history on their phones or ...


5 Comments, 181 Views, 11 Votes ,3.73 Score
BigTigger48 45 M
2  Articles
Who's Fooling Who?   9/8/2006

Is it realistic to expect to go to a site that is tailored towards sexual excursions, that has sexual content as its selling point, and has sex as a primary destination and look for a true relationship?
I'm all for relationships that just happen, but when many come to a site looking for sex, how much of the relationship mating ritual should be adhered to?
Are those who ...


5 Comments, 110 Views, 5 Votes ,3.47 Score
rm_owingjemel 47 C
2  Articles
Hard Work Work   9/4/2006

You know what. My boyfriend and I have been together off and on for over a year now, and it has been hard to work on our relationship.
How do you decide to work for a relationship? Well in this article I am going to try to help you along with that one. In this article I am going to try to show and explain the ways of telling yourself how to start working for the relationship you ...


2 Comments, 72 Views, 4 Votes ,4.80 Score
rm_tan_ka_milan 53 M
3  Articles
FRIENDS IN INDIA   9/3/2006


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0 Comments, 96 Views, 3 Votes ,3.43 Score
rm_tan_ka_milan 53 M
3  Articles
tan ka milan   9/2/2006

I am ACHAL , 35 yrs, MARRIED MALE. 170 cm. (5' 7'') 72 kg. from INDIA. I WANNA FEMALES of any AGE UPTO 45 yrs. from NORTH INDIA for FRIENDSHIP and tan_kaa_milan. In my opinion FOREPLAY is the MOST EXCITING PART of SEX GAME. I luv KISSING and luv if she SUCK on my CHEST and between my THIGHS I luv LICKING on HER THIGHS and BUTTS. BITING on CHEEKS and SHOULDERS. SUCKING and ...


0 Comments, 80 Views, 5 Votes ,2.16 Score
Ms2curious 27 F
5  Articles
Long distance   8/31/2006

Do u think that it's possible to build a relationship with someone if you're 2 hours away?


4 Comments, 65 Views, 3 Votes ,3.43 Score
readyNwillin8885 38 C
1  Article
How do you build an honest relationship when one partner is not honest??   8/25/2006

How can you build a realtionship that is healty and honest when one partner is not being that way? I am open and honest about everything that I do, but yet I cant get my partner to be. He hides the fact that he talks to girls, he hides the fact that he gets on the internet to talk to girls. Why and how can I just get him to be honest? I dont know ...


7 Comments, 115 Views, 5 Votes ,1.51 Score
XxNaughty69xX 32 F
10  Articles
Good place to find a relationship?   8/19/2006

Is this a good place to find a relationship? Some say no, what do YOU say?


0 Comments, 24 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
rm_danielgadze 43 M
1  Article
Respecting for who I am.   8/19/2006

Hi everyone! How are you going? This is the first time I'm writing a brief article, because I know that some good people are out there and can help me with some good advice..
Anyway, I'm currently 29 and I've gone through alot of different type of relationships throughout my past.... however, something is really troubling me as I have recently discovered a pattern.
I ...


2 Comments, 68 Views, 3 Votes ,2.45 Score
HoustonHottie73 41 F
1  Article
Can It Work?   8/16/2006

Let say that u meet someone and you started out only fuck buddies. Do u think that u can build a relationship? Can you trust that person to only have sex with you?


3 Comments, 128 Views, 11 Votes ,3.17 Score
rm_gilbert2081 43 M
1  Article
hi   8/16/2006

i like to view all free sex vedio


0 Comments, 23 Views, 1 Votes ,1.10 Score
MajorEasy 51 M
5  Articles
Commitment...   8/15/2006

I've been talking to a few mates about this subject...especially once a relationship is formed.
They all say (not sure they actually believe it...) that it's important to stay faithful and not play the field any more...
My question is this...
Does this mean that we only get one shot at it?? Once we decide on one person, we have to accept that no one else ...


2 Comments, 115 Views, 7 Votes ,4.06 Score
rm_sb1111111 50 M
1  Article
sbales1111111atyahoocom   8/13/2006

hey there, alright article you got my attention Im engaged to be married and as of now it looks like were going to go through with it, Ive never been married before and never cheated on a women before but for some reason I feel like I need to have someone else on the other side of the bed, I cant explain it but so bad do I sometimes want to role over and put it in something new and yet my ...


1 Comments, 44 Views, 2 Votes ,1.73 Score
davidblueyes54 75 M
4  Articles
listening skills key   8/12/2006

Listening is key to any long sustained relationship. One must put other's needs to speak ahead of there own.
You must decide who has the great need and then you can procede with the conversation.
If you do decide to listen you should do it with an ability to reflect emotion and empathy with the other person.
If the other person feels that you are really ...


0 Comments, 17 Views, 0 Votes
inaday1 43 F
1  Article
what the fuck!?   8/8/2006

i need to get this out.i am bi sexual and i have a man that i love dearly. i love him so much that i told him about the AdultFriendFinder site hoping to be the honest ho. this dude goes to damn ny and starts his own profile! this was 2 months ago. he came home and got on my computer and when i logged on i saw another name. it was him! he didnt have the balls to tell me! well i went online and viewed his ...


3 Comments, 226 Views, 9 Votes ,2.57 Score
amyyoung2 35 F
1  Article
amyyoung2   8/6/2006

i love my body


13 Comments, 895 Views, 51 Votes ,4.74 Score
searching for a true relation   8/4/2006

i entered in different realtions , but till now i haven't found the girl that want a true love, i didn't stop looking cause i know , that girl exists , their a man for every women , so i'm ready to start a new relations but PLZ let it bee a true one my number.


0 Comments, 24 Views, 0 Votes
jokes   8/4/2006

...


0 Comments, 43 Views, 4 Votes ,3.25 Score
peachez_w_cream2 46 C
19  Articles
buliding a relationship   8/3/2006

on buliding a relationship u most have trust in your partner and never cheat on them or her and all ways have respect


0 Comments, 58 Views, 6 Votes ,2.80 Score
sexymicpl4fun69 37 C
2  Articles
Do u think that a relationship...   7/31/2006

that starts in a less than honest situation will never make it?
I met my current man while married to someone else. He was also engaged to someone else. I just wonder that since we began our relationship that way, are we destined to fail? Will the trust thing be an issue for us eventually?
That old addage, "if they cheat with u, they'll cheat on u" keeps popping in ...


5 Comments, 218 Views, 13 Votes ,2.64 Score
fhfhhfhfdfhdf   7/31/2006

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1 Comments, 39 Views, 3 Votes
rm_custom2634 113 M
1  Article
The way it began   7/30/2006

There once was a time I stood all alone No emotion or feeling just cold as stone
Existing in life through nights into days No apparent direction no way out of this maze
Then all of a sudden how could this be true A beautiful vision right out of the blue
You entered my life so causally I thought to myself this just cannot be
From a single spark of our ...


1 Comments, 106 Views, 7 Votes ,4.82 Score
Expat_lover_KL2 74 M
9  Articles
Is this you?   7/29/2006

You spoke of love and thought of sex. You spoke of happiness and meant satisfaction. You said forever and meant never. You spoke of me, but always thought of yourself.


1 Comments, 64 Views, 4 Votes ,3.63 Score
WILDDRIVER2004 50 M
8  Articles
The mind is a terrible thing to waste   7/29/2006

An 80 year old couple were having problems remembering things, so they decided to go to their doctor to get checked out to make sure nothing was wrong with them. When they arrived at the doctor's, they explained to the doctor about the problems they were having with their memory. After checking the couple out, the doctor tells them that they were physically okay but might want to start ...


0 Comments, 71 Views, 6 Votes ,5.93 Score
zebra299 64 M
8  Articles
Finding a friend or gil to date.   7/27/2006

Guys:
I been in the dating for about 53 and in that time I seen alot. Most importantly like to find a woman to chat or date on here. I find most woman very sulfish when they turn a guy down for a date It may be his looks or his clothes he wears. I sure wish A lady who saw a guy like this would either tell him up front; dont lie to us. Anyway I would like meet or see a nice girl ...


0 Comments, 143 Views, 8 Votes ,2.55 Score
greensleeves5 55 F
11  Articles
Relationship Dessert Recipe   7/26/2006

Ingredients: 1. 4 oz. interested 2. 4 oz. feeling 3. 1 pt. of passion 4. 1 pt. of emotion 5. Lots of kisses and touches
Method: 1.Bring interested and feeling to high heat until boiled. 2.Add passion, Reduce to slow heat and stir. Add kisses and touches occasionally. Stir gently when it's thick. 3.Add emotion and increase to medium heat.Add ...


0 Comments, 276 Views, 8 Votes ,5.33 Score
lexsmoke78 45 M
9  Articles
hygeine the biggest factor   7/25/2006

Today more and more people seem to be worried about the wrong things.Instead of the important things.For me a man or woman has to take care of themselves.especially If they call themselves adults. I ve ran across you would think to be decent folk , but In reality are gross and sick.I mean people who run our governments people In high positions arent anything in my book .Im not ...


0 Comments, 93 Views, 3 Votes ,2.45 Score
smitty613 60 C
6  Articles
deep throating update   7/25/2006

I have been working on my skills, on swallowing large fat hard cock. I love to suck cock but I know my down fall is I get so worked up and hot as hell that I lose my self control. I can swallow it down my throat but cant breath so if any one can give me more pointers on keeping focused on my task at hand it would be great!! It seems as if my throat is a strong muscle trying to fight against ...


2 Comments, 424 Views, 19 Votes ,5.37 Score
jswob54 32 M
2  Articles
Where to start?   7/24/2006

I never can find out where to start. Especially the first phone call, everything goes well for awhile and then there is alot of silence. I can never figure out what to say. And then when it comes to dating I have bad luck, but hopefully that will change. I just need some confidence building tips I guess.


0 Comments, 139 Views, 7 Votes ,1.51 Score
drllr 41 M
8  Articles
building?   7/23/2006

i'm not too sure about relationships. what's your opinion on "building". well, i know for a start, it has to have a foundation of truth and honesty


1 Comments, 80 Views, 3 Votes ,2.94 Score
Building a relationship from AdultFriendFinder   7/19/2006

I would like to know how is the best way to build a relation, friendship from AdultFriendFinder from the certain members seem to have clicks and talk about other members on chat lines instant messangers and so on.How is it possilble for people to trust who they talk to on AdultFriendFinder to build relationships. Just wanted to ask w2


1 Comments, 169 Views, 4 Votes ,1.30 Score
Why do men run away from women, even saying they are extremely interested ??   7/16/2006


Why are men so difficult to deal with? Why do they say things that lead women to believe and then flee away as if the conversation had never happened????? Is this really part of the male stratagy to pull out when not interested?
I've always wondered why men have an urge to praise us even when we look our basic? Is that because they are preparing ...



4 Comments, 346 Views, 13 Votes ,4.49 Score
threepin333 47 C
1  Article
Pleasure Enhancements vs. Competing/Jealous Relationships   7/14/2006

Jamie and I have an amazing sexual, spiritual and adventurous relationship that in our oppinion is unmatched by anyone we have met. We've been intimate for 9 years and she is the only woman I have EVER had sex with. Most people would say this is a shame but I am EXTREMELY proud of this. I don't know anyone else who has accomplished this through their own perogative. Plenty of people are ...


0 Comments, 372 Views, 3 Votes ,2.45 Score
i am looking for sexiest girls or ladies on earth   7/13/2006

Hi all! I am a very handsome young man, 37, from India. I have been using internet for the past ten years to find out the most sexiest lady or girl on earth for fucking.I have posted ads on various sites and I could not succeed. I prefer Indian girls mostly but I also welcome foreign ladies, if they fit me correctly.I am from Thiruvananthapuram, capital city of Kerala, India.IF any sexy ...


0 Comments, 396 Views, 2 Votes
White lies   7/9/2006

Is it always necessary to tell a man the truth on everything do u think they care if we have women secrets


0 Comments, 872 Views, 4 Votes ,2.47 Score
Am I crazy   7/8/2006

Are there women out there that want a relationship with a married man. I have been told that some women like to have one because married men are not likely to be possessive and are nice to have around when needed. This is true for the no-strings relationships.Is there any truth to this. Please tell me what you think.


3 Comments, 1117 Views, 10 Votes ,2.99 Score
The other woman   7/8/2006

Is it really to much to ask for a woman that wants a relationship from a married man, when the man is honest about everything, and the both of them are just looking for a long term relationship?


0 Comments, 1311 Views, 12 Votes ,3.33 Score
rm_mohar10 44 M
16  Articles
This above all: to thine ownself be true   7/8/2006

"This above all: to thine ownself be true, " LORD POLONIUS
I think we are all familiar with the above quote taken from Shakespeare's Hamlet, it essentially means that we can only be true to others after first being true to ones own convictions.
I am referring to the sad fact that we've been systematically taught in our respective cultures (in varying degrees) to make ...


0 Comments, 1604 Views, 4 Votes ,2.47 Score
friends the dreaded word haha   7/8/2006

why do things have to change ? and when does it go from being "just " a meet to "oh my god i dont want to know he is meeting other people" lol , i dont meet people now , my choice , i know he does but dont want to know or think about it , as long as he still makes time for me im ok , i think !! lol why do some people make you feel so special you fool yrself into thinking " hey maybe i am ...


3 Comments, 1843 Views, 11 Votes ,1.48 Score
rm_mohar10 44 M
16  Articles
The Only True Aphrodisiac   7/7/2006

We humans like the idea of spontaneity in our romantic relationships, we look for drugs and other agents that may help stimulate sexual desire, but love is a rebel bird that nobody can ever tame and lust is a fickle mistress not well understood.
We have seen considerable interest in using chemical communication based on human pheromones to help stimulate sexual desire, just like ...


3 Comments, 4203 Views, 86 Votes ,3.81 Score
rm_thom5932 65 M
1  Article
Trust and honesty in an open marriage is a must.   7/5/2006

My wife came home really late last night and I was layin' in our bed half awake when she slipped between the sheets and asked me whether I was awake. I could tell she had just been fucked by the smell of sex that was all over her sexy body. I told her, "Yes I'm awake, I've been worried about you for hours now because I hadn't heard from you." "Oh darling, my cell phone went dead ...


14 Comments, 34902 Views, 940 Votes ,2.75 Score
rm_thom5932 65 M
1  Article
After my wife brought another man home with her...   7/5/2006

This is a continuation of how I built my loving open relationship with my beautiful sexy wife. The night my wife called me to come home and show her how much I approved of her bringing another man into our bed was just the beginning. That night was the start of something very special for both of us. I remember getting undressed and crawling into our bed and feeling all the wet spots that ...


1 Comments, 1529 Views, 24 Votes ,6.65 Score
In search of the truth --- a tug-o-war of the mind....   7/4/2006

I sometimes wonder if there are truly honest people in this world. Are liars put on this earth just to throw you of center and mess you up, inside and out? They have no regards for others’ time nor their feelings, but themselves. They are users and manipulators. Are these foibles taught by /learnt from their parents and their parents’ parents, by the society, or both? ...


0 Comments, 413 Views, 3 Votes ,2.94 Score
rm_thom5932 65 M
1  Article
Becoming closer to your wife in so many ways.   7/3/2006

My wife and I are closer than we have ever been and our love grows deeper with each new encounter; this is how it began. My wife is a beautiful blond with a smile and eyes that can take a mans breath away, but for years I let my jealous side get in the way until one night while we were in bed reading some sexy stories from a popular mens magazine just for fun. I began to read her a story ...


2 Comments, 609 Views, 16 Votes ,5.19 Score
rm_xxxx7574 59 F
1  Article
Trust   7/2/2006

How can you bring trust back into a relationship?


4 Comments, 382 Views, 6 Votes ,5.36 Score
NoAFFingAround 39 M
4  Articles
Getting What You Give   6/26/2006

I've never known one who gave as much as, or even what, one wanted. It seems the human has evolved into needs that are so seldom met. We have such capacity to need, and we need to be understood, but we haven't evolved the same reflexive capacity to give, or to understand. What becomes, then, of that rare person who does give, who does understand. They say that you get what you give, ...


0 Comments, 100 Views, 5 Votes ,0.53 Score
sexy_mick2 48 M
0  Articles
Isabelle and I   6/25/2006

After weeks of playing the phone game, emails and the occassional chat on instant messenger we decided that it was time to take our relationship to the next level. I had already received a picture of Isabelle and knew that if she even looked half as good as she did in the picture then everything else would work out just fine. She was 5'9, 135 pounds of toned and tanned skin and had legs ...


0 Comments, 153 Views, 10 Votes ,4.78 Score
NoAFFingAround 39 M
4  Articles
I knew a young woman once.   6/17/2006

Yeah, I tried that caring, giving thing, the unconditional support thing. If you keep doing the same things, you'll keep getting the same results, it's said. So, once -- finding myself still with nothing -- I really tried. And I believed. I gave all I had.
You know, it doesn't work. All I got was knowing that I really tried, but that I had had it right, before.


0 Comments, 85 Views, 6 Votes ,2.23 Score
lucky6914_ 38 M
14  Articles
Sex   6/16/2006

How long do you usually wait before having sex with people that you date. Is it the sooner the better or is it best to wait?


0 Comments, 164 Views, 5 Votes ,3.14 Score
lucky6914_ 38 M
14  Articles
trust   6/14/2006

i believe every relationship has three key factors. Trust, care, and sexual attraction. What is everyone elses view on this?


0 Comments, 87 Views, 6 Votes ,3.93 Score
Collegedude3250 30 M
9  Articles
Approaching Stranger in Public?   6/10/2006

I have seriously considered meeting and hopefully starting a relationship with a woman I see out on the walking path a few times a week. We always say hi and just keep on walking past...is there some way to not look like a creep but to start a conversation that could go on for our walk so we can get to know each other better?
Thanks CD3250


1 Comments, 86 Views, 0 Votes
rm_sucaman 53 M
1  Article
Flirting with married women   6/9/2006

I came across a few woman at work, who enjoy it when I flirt with them. I even manage to stroke their hair, or slightly wrap my arms around their shoulders, or waist. Of course, I don't touch their breast, or ass. And, these women are already married! Why is that? Why do they allow me to do that?


1 Comments, 109 Views, 1 Votes
saximimi 34 F
0  Articles
not easy to meet a soul mate on AdultFriendFinder   6/8/2006

Have been on this site for quite sometime and was looking for love. I got in touch with an older man with similar intersts we talked a lot and agreed to meet see if things worked. As usual we had much in common everyone was a saint and sexy and wow we guessed we were made for each other. He is a doctor and am an accountant. He was separated with wife and has 3 adapted from her and am a ...


12 Comments, 314 Views, 15 Votes ,2.98 Score
outrightlucky 50 F
1  Article
Does it ever work?   6/3/2006

What happens when you meet somebody from an adult sex site and you hit it off from the first email? And after the first meeting it just gets better and better. And not just the sex but you have everything in common, its like you were soulmates. Can you actually find love on a site such as this? And if you do, does it actually work out?


2 Comments, 112 Views, 5 Votes ,4.45 Score
What are the biggest mistakes women make while on a LDR?   6/3/2006


I have noticed and even been through some LDR and it's odd that without an apparent reason, men simply vanish, leaving the woman wondering what were the mistakes she made to deteriorate the relationship and how she can ''improve'' so as not to make the same mistake again. It seems to me that mistake number one is lack of self-confidence. Men seem to ...



7 Comments, 307 Views, 11 Votes ,5.04 Score
nst5312 58 M
1  Article
Take Your Time   6/3/2006

Guys I want to tell you the best way to have the best sex in the world. Get to know the woman first, Find out about her work, her , if she has been hurt by a man. Listen to what she is saying, she is telling you how she expects to be treated and what types of sexual activities she enjoys even though not one time does she mention sex. Open your ears and your heart be able to listen and ...


0 Comments, 38 Views, 1 Votes ,5.00 Score
hmm   5/28/2006

what do u look for in a partner


0 Comments, 14 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
davidblueyes54 75 M
4  Articles
learn to listen-   5/28/2006

Learning to listen empathetically is the key to having wonderful relationships. communicate with your friends and enjoy the time together. regards


0 Comments, 21 Views, 1 Votes ,5.00 Score
BIGGER14ugirls 46 M
0  Articles
I think most women need to be treated like shit to be content!   5/28/2006

I do not know why so many were abused, but i really think that so many women were abused through childhood on up, that if you treat one of these women you meet to good;they will run from you because they just do not believe that you are being real with them!! They simply do not know that it is o.k. to be happy in a loving relationship! The women that have been abused;an they are every ...


0 Comments, 44 Views, 2 Votes ,0.34 Score
Does this site work?   5/22/2006

Does this site actually work? Most of the people I encountered on here are fake.


0 Comments, 39 Views, 0 Votes
Annaselly 44 M
9  Articles
Do You Hang Out With Indonesian People ?   5/21/2006

For all of you who are studying or living in overseas... Just curious, do you hang out with your own people? if yes, how often?
I'm going to be honest and say that i don't, even though i know that theres quite a lot of indonesians here... no offense but the main reason i don't go out with indonesians is mainly becoz all they talk about is material shit and most of the indonesians ...


0 Comments, 27 Views, 0 Votes
Hard or easy?   5/17/2006

Is it hard to get into a relationship with someone u meet on a site like this? Can you ever trust them? Will they ever be monogomous and stop coming online to meet and find people to have sex with. What do u think?


5 Comments, 325 Views, 11 Votes ,4.85 Score
rm_snafu1309 51 M
1  Article
Trust Your Senses.   5/14/2006

Many people complain that they have been scammed or conned in some form or another when entering relationships.
Relationships are a matter of trust and effectively can only survive for the briefest time without trust being presnet and continuing. The important thing however is that blind trust, especially when trust has been given despite misgivings (especially those internal body ...


0 Comments, 65 Views, 2 Votes ,3.81 Score
KandyCoated4U 46 F
8  Articles
When 1 of 2 want more.   5/13/2006

Myself and a friend see each other from time to time. Sometimes I get the feelings that he wants more. While I still want to enjoy myself. Is that selfish? I want to sometimes give him more, yet still have some fun in life. Not that he would slow me down. I just need the insurance that I can be who I am. I guess now days it's not as hard as it use to be. But I need him to understand. How ...


2 Comments, 175 Views, 4 Votes ,4.02 Score
Friend zone! whats wrong with dating a friend?   5/13/2006

recently i was told by a girl that we couldn't date because i was in her friend zone. she made out that this was a good place to be, very exclusive and she values her friends more than anything. I agreed, it is a nice place to be. We get on great, laugh at the same tings, she's really really smart, all in all i enjoy spending time with her more than anything else. So far so good. The ...


0 Comments, 174 Views, 3 Votes ,2.45 Score
clintonnlulu79 30 M
10  Articles
EASY   5/12/2006

Some sat that building a relationship is hard. I end to disagree. Its as simple as one two three. Treat that person with the sme deal of respect that you would want in return. And you must at all time if caught up. KEEP it Real.


0 Comments, 114 Views, 3 Votes ,1.96 Score
rm_BcRockme 49 M
2  Articles
The hunt and the Killl   5/11/2006

I know that the phrase "It's not the kill but the the thrill of the chase" and while that is probably true when speaking about hunting large game animals, I wonder when and how we decided that this same philosophy applies to our relationships? I love to flirt, and play, and when I see someone that excites me I become so focused one that person that all else will often be forgotten, btu ...


2 Comments, 2466 Views, 84 Votes ,3.75 Score
rm_hotstudinRI 40 M
3  Articles
Any Advice When Dating Older Women   5/11/2006

I’m 21 years old and my current girl friend is 37 years old. I really like her and we both enjoy being with each other. I really want to stay with her and would like any advice on dating older women that would help me to keep us both happy. I take her out and we go for hikes but it is all starting to get repetitive and would like new ideas or advice on what I could do with her. And ...


1 Comments, 184 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
nascarbaby2 54 F
16  Articles
trying to build a relationship is easy until someone trys to mess it up...   5/11/2006

My boyfriend got arrested on may 12 because he was drinking and because some people that own a store here got to stick their nose in others business but what happen is i left home to go to the store and he noticed i was gone so he came looking for me why he was drunk so he came driving up to me real fast and the owner of the store called her which is a police officer and told him that my ...


0 Comments, 80 Views, 5 Votes ,0.53 Score
rm_zoezanecom 77 F
1  Article
Be Nice   5/9/2006

The one person who is closest to you, treat them nice. It is very simple, but might be a challenge. Today start by being nice to the one who lives with you day in and day out. See what happens. Your words are very powerful and create your reality. Choose them wisely. Zoe Zane, zoblogs


2 Comments, 204 Views, 12 Votes ,5.98 Score
DYNASTYCHRISTY 51 T
1  Article
BUILDING SOMETHING THAT'LL LAST.   5/1/2006

BUILDING A RELATIONSHIP IS'NT EASY. SPEACILY WITH ONES THAT HAVE BEEN HURT A LOT. BUT WITH THEM JUST GO SLOW. TAKE THINGS ONE STEP AT A TIME. SHOW THEM HOW MUCH YOU CARE AND DO'N FORGET TO TURN ON THE CHARM BUT DO'NT OVER DO IT. ALWAYS USE A LITTLE HUMER IT BREAKS THE TENSON. AND TO HAVE A RELATIONSHIP THAT HAS A LITTLE HUMER IN IT THAT IS A LASTING ONE.


1 Comments, 81 Views, 2 Votes ,3.12 Score
suckmyasshole4 39 M
1  Article
how to build a good relationship   4/28/2006

always be open with your partner no matter what it is and always have a listening ear when they need one. no im not jokeing thats all it takes.


1 Comments, 71 Views, 3 Votes ,3.43 Score
rm_XZERO1980 43 M
1  Article
The " Real " Relationship   4/22/2006

On this site there are many beautiful women, but how do you go by being real with someone if they think that all you want is sex, and they think your not being true and honest with them when all your doing is being yourself and a gentleman the way you were brought up?...


0 Comments, 104 Views, 4 Votes ,4.41 Score
rm_therake83 40 M
1  Article
Relationship based on sex   4/20/2006

Can a relationship be purely based on sex? Is it all right to have nothing more than a physical attraction, to be coming back for just a piece of ass? Why not?


2 Comments, 127 Views, 8 Votes ,3.01 Score
Does anyone share the view that AdultFriendFinder is just for sex and not for seeking out a husband?   4/20/2006

I don't want to come off as insensitive to the women/men who sign into the site believing that they can find a relationship here.Most of the profiles you view, the women are here to meet a man for friendship and possibly a relationship.I am not against that, but there is Friend Finder for such a forum.Does anyone else share this view?


6 Comments, 455 Views, 25 Votes ,4.35 Score
is it ok to still meet other people   4/19/2006

Is it ok in the start of the relationship to still meet other single people even if ur not interested in sexual activity with them , would it annoy u if ur partner did this


1 Comments, 82 Views, 5 Votes ,3.80 Score
should past matter   4/19/2006

Just something that have been thinking about when thinking about a relationship do u want to know a persons past and should it matter


4 Comments, 154 Views, 8 Votes ,2.55 Score
rm_Superman6911 42 M
10  Articles
Adult Relationship Help: Building and Preserving Joy and Excitement   4/17/2006

Romantic relationships fulfill needs as strong as hunger or thirst. Loneliness and isolation are the source of numerous health problems. New discoveries help us turn an unfulfilling love relationship into an exciting and lasting romantic love relationship.
Sometimes falling in love is easy, but half of all marriages end in divorce and many of the rest find it hard to sustain the ...


1 Comments, 130 Views, 13 Votes ,2.47 Score
rm_happiEdeviL 36 F
3  Articles
i dnt no part 2   4/17/2006

Guys think with their cocks not all but a lot, well this 1 certainly duz. I like him a lot and i no we met off here n this site is basically 4 sex but is it so rong 2 want more? What should i say to him? i want to say something cos hes always lookn at other chicks on here n sayn how he'd like 2 fuck other girls and it upsets me. I know im not that stunning but there has 2 b sumthing there 4 ...


5 Comments, 395 Views, 19 Votes ,2.60 Score
rm_happiEdeviL 36 F
3  Articles
i dnt no   4/15/2006

I met a guy on here a lil while ago and it was just for sex u no fuck buddy. But after getting to know him a lil bit more i want more but he doesnt feel that way. Hes 10 years older, but we get on really well n have a good time....


0 Comments, 144 Views, 4 Votes ,3.25 Score
weplay2gether20 54 C
1  Article
I just don't get it   4/12/2006

I just don't understand. Where does the fire go? You work to get the realationship started and it has a fire that nobody can put out. Then one day you wake up and you notice that the flame that you once had is no longer there. I have looked and I have tried to figure it out. Do you just get tired, does the other person become unattractive to you, do they just not excite you the way they ...


2 Comments, 366 Views, 20 Votes ,3.64 Score
rm_B_Smooth233 40 M
3  Articles
I   4/11/2006

met a woman on here i really like how can i tell her


0 Comments, 42 Views, 0 Votes
Has anyone come looking just for sex on AdultFriendFinder,but ended up in a relationship?   4/10/2006

I know the AdultFriendFinder site is about adult personals, but I have read profiles of women who use AdultFriendFinder to find meaningful lasting relationships.I would think that is why Friend Finder is there.Does anyone agree, that the two should be seperate?


12 Comments, 434 Views, 20 Votes ,3.00 Score
NewFloridaGuy75 40 M
1  Article
The true purpose of a relationship   4/9/2006

What is the purpose to a relationship, not a friendship, but a relationship? Is it there to give us someone to turn to when things go bad? Someone to encourage us when we are down? Someone to share our shining moments with? The answer is yes to all of them. But the main purpose is this, to make us a better man or woman. Jack Nicholsons' character, Melvin Udall, line in the movie AS GOOD AS ...


0 Comments, 48 Views, 2 Votes ,3.12 Score
NDbeachbum 59 M
3  Articles
Ladies......I need some practical advice.........   4/6/2006

I'm married to a wonderful woman and our sex life at times is great, but sometimes just so-so. I approach sex with the attitude that my partner's pleasure comes first. We vacation every winter, just the two of us, and the sex is fantastic. But once we get home, it doesn't take long to fall back into the, to use a guy phrase, "hump & dump" mentality. I love long drawn out foreplay, oral ...


2 Comments, 203 Views, 6 Votes ,2.51 Score
2lvsecretly 60 F
4  Articles
There Is A Difference   4/5/2006

There is a difference in chemisrty and attraction. If one is building a relationship on what is an attraction it will never work out even if the sex is the best you have ever had. Once the attraction wears off the sex will not be as good. If one is building a relationship based on chemistry and attraction with good sex then and you both communicate and honesty well with each other then it a ...


4 Comments, 286 Views, 12 Votes ,4.21 Score
buxomwench4101 55 F
1  Article
I think I'm doing it wrong!!!   4/4/2006

I have a fantastic fuck buddy relationship, we talk, we laugh, fantastic sex, however i've now turned off my profile due to the reason i only want sex with this one guy (he's ok with that), and i'd like the relationship to go to the next level of being exclusive. He is not yet aware that i'd like to take it that far, and still has his profile up and i'm sure is having lots of fun. How can i ...


2 Comments, 299 Views, 12 Votes ,3.51 Score
married_cpl2006 50 C
4  Articles
Communication is the key...   3/30/2006

Without communication you don't have a relationship, as far as I am concerned. It takes a long time to build a commitment and that only grows by letting your partner share in your needs and desires. Trust, honesty, laughter, flexability, compassion, all comes through communication. If you can have a conversation about anything, you can build a strong relationship.


2 Comments, 120 Views, 10 Votes ,3.19 Score
okletsgoImready 67 M
1  Article
Think about it   3/28/2006

Would you buy a house by just reading about it? Of course you wouldn't. Most folks would actually go see it in person to see what it really looks like. If you like what you see then you do a inspection to determine if it will meet your needs. After that you make the decision to buy or not. So it only stands to reason that if you want a house you have to actually go out and look at a few. ...


2 Comments, 63 Views, 4 Votes ,2.47 Score
stayhumble 45 M
4  Articles
who should start?   3/28/2006

Should the pressure be on the man or the woman to build a realtionship


2 Comments, 84 Views, 4 Votes ,0.53 Score
SEX (IS IT REALY WHAT IT'S CRACKED UP TO BE?)   3/25/2006

Sex!is it really over rated?Or is it just something for us to do.If you really look at it, it's another form of drug that one needs at the end of a hard day at work.For it does relieves awful lot of stress that one has built inside after dealing with all the bull shit that one's boos or that ass hole of a customer puts us through on a daily basis.Some need it more than others.While others ...


2 Comments, 136 Views, 10 Votes ,2.19 Score
mightystick54 63 M
10  Articles
My thoughts on building relationships.   3/18/2006

I believe that every man loves the woment he appreciates and every woman loves the man she appreciates. They hold back due to various considerations.Some take initiatives to make advancements, some leave things to chances and some lack the courage to take the initiatives. Modern style of living gives lot of opportunities for males and females to interact with each other, read each others ...


0 Comments, 2154 Views, 94 Votes ,3.52 Score
how difficult to find a women for sex   3/17/2006

I m tring from long time to find a women for sex but I still can't? How can I do it? Wht are things women need?


1 Comments, 153 Views, 8 Votes ,0.70 Score
rm_freeplayer3 38 M
1  Article
Relate tion ship   3/16/2006

" Building a Relationship " after a relationship is built, what is the fruit of that?
Can we ever stop building on our relationship?
Do you think that HATE is necessary in a Relationship?


0 Comments, 51 Views, 4 Votes ,1.30 Score
rm_ballguy3 44 M
15  Articles
Starting out   3/15/2006

You always here of people "disapearing" when they meet someone new. Drastically reduced contact with friends is simply part of the commitment it takes to build something. The more work you do in the beginning, the more time you'll have to spend with others whom you care about in the future.


0 Comments, 43 Views, 4 Votes ,2.47 Score
it takes two, first w/you!   3/12/2006

buidling functional healthy relationships start w/you! first you must know yourself> if you have various issues you will need to work on them first, either through counseling or through an accountablity person. once you ahve started w/knowing whom you are and making a good acessment, you should then be acreful on whom you chose to eb in a relatinship with> change is difficult especially fro ...


1 Comments, 71 Views, 10 Votes ,4.78 Score
longtounge1965 58 M
1  Article
its a lot of work   3/10/2006

well there has to be atraction.also some common interest.i still feel the most important is commuication.i know from my experiance that with out this part you will fail.been married 2 times the first ended because of her drug problem.the second was do to lots of things but communication was i feel the worst.we didnt talk just lived with each other.i would try she wouldnt.she would try i ...


0 Comments, 42 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
how to start   3/9/2006

hpw to start building uop a relationship


0 Comments, 83 Views, 3 Votes ,0.49 Score
WHATS IMPORTANT   3/8/2006

WHATS THE MOST INPORTANT THING FOR A GREAT RELATIONSHIP?


0 Comments, 77 Views, 2 Votes ,3.12 Score
chapsgirl69 53 C
5  Articles
AdultFriendFinder...a good alternative   3/5/2006

We are a couple that enjoys each others company and we are very close. We are best friends, lovers, and companions. We are a very sexual couple and enjoy spicing things up a bit by adding another female to the mix. Like most people we like to be very discreet about our sex life but, it's nice to know we have alternatives to turn to for getting the information we need to build relationships ...


0 Comments, 235 Views, 14 Votes ,3.46 Score
rm_ballguy3 44 M
15  Articles
What does it take?   3/3/2006

What does it take to begin a relationship? Definitely a physical attraction? That connection that just happens? why are there so many possibilities? Is it because people are different? Is there not a standard by which we can base our perceptions and should there be?


1 Comments, 140 Views, 4 Votes ,2.86 Score
ROMANCE   3/3/2006

WHATS IMPORTANTED FOR A RELATIONSHIP TO BE ROMANTIC?


0 Comments, 139 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
WHATS REAL   3/2/2006

IS A RELATIONSHIP SERIOUS WHEN YOU MAKE LOVE THE SECOND TIME OR IS IT TO EARLY?


1 Comments, 172 Views, 3 Votes ,2.45 Score
1sexyyoungguy4u 38 M
8  Articles
Humour   2/27/2006

Humour is very important in an relationship, because its helps your gal or boyfriend to help each other out in tough times, and just keep each other happy!


0 Comments, 222 Views, 3 Votes ,2.94 Score
TenN1Half 59 M
6  Articles
Trust   2/26/2006

TRUST is the key to building a great relationship. Learning each other and listing to each other. Hanging out and doing fun things that each person like.


0 Comments, 119 Views, 2 Votes ,3.12 Score
Change is the the only thing you can depend on.   2/22/2006

This website and so many others allow people explore relationships, the lack of relationships and the hopes for new relationships. What I have learned is the only sure thing you can depend on is the fact that relationships change. People experience life in different ways dependent upon their past experiences and reactions. No two people will feel the same about anything. As long as one ...


1 Comments, 132 Views, 13 Votes ,3.14 Score
rm_rockhardo00 63 M
10  Articles
"When Yave You Fallen in Love?"   2/18/2006

In the seventies there were a series of cartoons which simply started, "Love is..." One of the most famous, least accurate was, "Love is....Never having to say you're sorry. The fact of the matter is, in my opinion, when you love someone you share every detail of your life with them. You also tend to vent toward them because of this. The person that we love the most, we feel the most ...


0 Comments, 155 Views, 9 Votes ,3.43 Score
wxxxa 50 C
3  Articles
Women and Strip Clubs   2/16/2006

My husband was wondering what my curiosity was when it came to women. His best way to measure this was to take me to the local club and find out for himself. Somewhat against my will, not really! I went along. Much to my surprise, I was really turned on watching the srippers interact with him and myself during the couch dances that we agreed upon. The eye contact that we maintained ...


1 Comments, 1402 Views, 14 Votes ,3.46 Score
rm_vixensf 46 F
1  Article
It has never been me.   2/15/2006

I was once young and naive enough to believe that when I met somebody and fell head over heels in love with them that then would be my chance to show that person just how far to the ends of the earth I was willing to go and all the things and friends that I was willing to sacrifice to make that person my number 1! Well I did meet somebody in fact I met 3, not at the same time but 1 ...


15 Comments, 4579 Views, 164 Votes ,4.84 Score
Making dreams come true..   2/15/2006

Everyone dreams but does everyone try to make their dreams come true. I am a firm believer in making my dreams come true. Sometimes it takes more time than others but when I want something I go after it and accomplish my goals. Building a relationship to me is the same, we must work at it and have similiar goals and dreams to work towards. My relationship is great, but like all they ...


0 Comments, 259 Views, 8 Votes ,2.09 Score
rm_aynapa2 48 M
1  Article
FRENDSHIP   2/14/2006

wEBE CAME A MEMBER BUT PEOPLE ARE STIL HASITATED TO CONTACT EACH OTHER . I EXPECT TO BE PERFECT CONNECTION BY USING THIS SITE .


0 Comments, 62 Views, 1 Votes ,1.10 Score
emersunbigguns 57 M
9  Articles
I'm trying to start a relationship....   2/14/2006

I'm trying to start a relationship with a woman I met on personals. I'm here to tell you, it's different. When you meet a woman on this site, you pretty much have a little fun, and fuck. you're forced to hold back, but, I think everyone wants to fuck. What is your opinion?


1 Comments, 107 Views, 2 Votes ,1.04 Score
gbcock4u69 49 M
12  Articles
who to choose?   2/13/2006

do i choose the woman i have sex with on the first date? this is someone i can have great sex with but then there is trust issues; or do i choose the one who waits and risk not having good sex but the trust is tenfold?


0 Comments, 106 Views, 4 Votes ,2.08 Score
jmam64 59 C
1  Article
Friendship:   2/12/2006

I my not ask, but I do care I believe in you even if you are wrong I'm there for you and if I am not, you will understand. You're there for me and if you are not, I will find my way When we fight, we except the differences and don't dwell on them You are my friend.


0 Comments, 73 Views, 3 Votes ,3.43 Score
4800direct 60 M
32  Articles
Neues Jahr Neues Erfahrung, New Year New Ideas   2/12/2006

Neues Jahr Neues Erfahrung, New Year New Ideas <br> <br> So ist das Neue hier und ich will, bekommen heraus und werden nackt mit gemerkten Leuten anderer Messe, aber im Moment hier in Deutschland sein ein bisschen zur Kälte, um sich von der Außenseite aber vielleicht im März auszuziehen, als ich den Urlaub von drei Wochen bekam, könnte das für ein Nacktes Hanky ...


0 Comments, 32 Views, 3 Votes ,4.41 Score
cherrysstud69 52 C
10  Articles
Don't expect a 3some to build a relationship!   2/11/2006

If you are not 100% sure about your relationship, adding a 3rd party is not the answer! You might think that it will spice things up, but you may be opening a can of worms. Of course, there is always a chance that your relationship won't make it anyway, and if you can get a 3some out of it, go for it. But seriously, too many people are jealous and things can go wrong real quick! Using ...


0 Comments, 101 Views, 4 Votes ,3.25 Score
learning how to build a good releationship   2/6/2006

i think trust is the basis for building a good solid lasting releationship. That trust have to be there first


0 Comments, 128 Views, 4 Votes ,4.41 Score
the slow approach   2/5/2006

I am finding myself in the position more often than not of dating mature ladies who like to get to know a man slowly and deeply. It is perhaps a preference of taste but I find that a lady I know and have built up intimacy with often explodes with passion nad for me this is preferrable to one night stand approaches. What do others think?


2 Comments, 114 Views, 8 Votes ,3.94 Score
snowonroof2006 82 M
0  Articles
First date sex   2/4/2006

As I've read various articles, there seems to be a growing number of people (mainly men)who are essentally demanding sex by (number) date. The ones who say that in their profile are at least being upfront about it. The ones who wait and say so in an email or maybe the first meeting are asses. Yes, this site is mainly people looking for sex. However unless you've stated it up front in your ...


1 Comments, 149 Views, 9 Votes ,3.00 Score
snowonroof2006 82 M
0  Articles
First date sex?   2/4/2006

From reading other articles I get the impression that a growing number of people (mainly men) are saying in their profile or email/other communications, depending on site policy, that they expect sex by ___ meeting/date. This article expresses my views on the subject. <br> Sex on the first date? <br> If you expect sex within a few dates, you aren't looking for a ...


4 Comments, 165 Views, 11 Votes ,5.04 Score
i love sexxxxx   2/4/2006

i love sexvery mush.


0 Comments, 107 Views, 9 Votes ,1.93 Score
rk10182000 40 M
3  Articles
Basic Desires   2/1/2006

Read the following statements about each basic desire. If they strongly describe you mark "+, " if they somewhat describe you mark "0, " and if they apply to you very little mark "-": <br> 1. Curiosity. I have a thirst for knowledge. <br> 2. Acceptance. I have a hard time coping with criticism. <br> 3. Order. It upsets me when things are out of place. <br> ...


0 Comments, 64 Views, 4 Votes ,1.69 Score
rm_101101001 58 C
75  Articles
AdultFriendFinder is a great place to start a relationship if....   1/30/2006

AdultFriendFinder is a great place to start a relationship if… <br> . <br> . <br> . <br> . <br> . <br> . <br> . You are a male, and looking for the sexually immature and novice female lovers. Doesn’t anyone on here know that it is considered rude to kill your lover with your genitals by giving them AIDS? Why don’t more ...


0 Comments, 177 Views, 5 Votes ,3.47 Score
"I Will Survive"   1/26/2006

"I Will Survive" A.K.A. The Women's National Anthem <br> At first I was afraid, I was petrified, When you said you had 10 inches Lord I almost died, But I'd spent so many years just waiting for a man that long, That I grew strong, And I knew that I could take you on. . . <br> But there you are, Another lie, I was ready for a big mac and you've bought ...


1 Comments, 277 Views, 9 Votes ,6.42 Score
girlcravesgirl 49 C
10  Articles
How long does it take?   1/24/2006

When trying to build up a relationship, How long should you wait to have sex. Sex is great, but how long should anyone wait? My partner and I waited awhile.


1 Comments, 336 Views, 7 Votes ,2.53 Score
happycouple6965 41,1939 C
6  Articles
trust   1/23/2006

is it just me or is trust the most imortant not to be taken serious in relationships these days.


5 Comments, 531 Views, 20 Votes ,3.76 Score
0nno61 59 M
4  Articles
sex in marriage ...   1/22/2006

Sex in the beginning of a relationship is more numerous than later. Perhaps you already heard this story, it is not my own: Put in a jar a bean for every time you have sex with your partner during the first year of the relationship. Take out a bean for every time of sex after the first year. The jar will never empty .... How about your jar? ...


0 Comments, 285 Views, 5 Votes ,1.51 Score
GreenArcher707 37 M
2  Articles
Better off with a stranger than with a friend...   1/21/2006

why do i say this? it's because if shit happens and you break up then the friendship usually goes splat along with the relationship. so i think it will be easier to get with a stranger, get to know the person then decide to have a relationship rather than tryin to get with a person you've been friends with for a long time. that's my two cents.


1 Comments, 513 Views, 9 Votes ,1.93 Score
FACTS ABOUT SEX   1/18/2006

+++++ FACTS ABOUT SEX +++++ <br> 1) 94% of men lie about their penis size. According to condom manufacturers, only 6% of men use extra large condoms. <br> 2) The average man is 5 inches long when erect <br> 3) 80% of American men are circumsized. Even though Pediatrics say it is not necessary. <br> 4) No matter what all the ...


4 Comments, 555 Views, 31 Votes ,5.44 Score
rm_rugzx924 43 M
9  Articles
what's wrong   1/17/2006

It isn't in a man's nature to immediatly start discussing what's bothering him. Ladies if u keep asking 'what's wrong' u will just piss him off. Let him simmering down for a few hours or days and then it should be cool to ask what was bothering him


1 Comments, 332 Views, 16 Votes ,2.54 Score
InkednPierced8 44 M
9  Articles
Philofecies   1/15/2006

I lick girls' rumps. I like to lick girls' rumps. Girls like to have their rumps licked. Most girls won't admit they've had their rump licked, let alone enjoyed having their rump licked. But believe you me, if you lick a girl's rump, she'll love you for life. In fact, that was my high school yearbook quote. <br> My conviction to 'slurping the brown pucker' doesn't stem from ...


2 Comments, 534 Views, 19 Votes ,1.94 Score
rm_crazyT1975 48 M
1  Article
Being attentive   1/12/2006

Well, for starters, I believe that you actually have to PAY attention to your girl. Seriously listen to what she is saying. Now, I know sometimes it is hard to stay awake when listening about her friends or her lack of wardrobe...But, You must suck it up..She will (90% of the time) make it up to you. If she feels like you are genuinely listening, she will reward you.


1 Comments, 536 Views, 18 Votes ,3.26 Score
26 ways to make a girl smile   1/12/2006

1. Tell her she is beautiful 2. Hold her hand at any moment . . . even if its just for a second. <br> 3. Hug her from behind 4. Leave her voice messages to wake up to. 5. When she is upset, hold her tight and tell her how much ...


34 Comments, 9849 Views, 761 Votes ,8.57 Score
SOMETIMES LIFE SUCKS   1/12/2006

As we grow up, we learn that even the one person that wasn't supposed to ever let you down probably will. You will have your heart broken probably more than once and it's harder every time. You'll break hearts too, so remember how it felt when yours was broken. You'll fight with your best friend. You'll blame a new love for things an old one did. You'll cry because time is passing ...


0 Comments, 239 Views, 10 Votes ,5.77 Score
would you let go?   1/12/2006

would you let go? Body: She sat him across from her, She looked him in the eye. "How much do you love me?" He said: "For you, I would die." She looked down at her hands, "Would you ever let me go?" His face turned very serious, And he responded with a "no." "What is this about?" He asked, The girl only shook her head, "Nothing, I was just curious, " But he doubted in what ...


2 Comments, 347 Views, 15 Votes ,6.50 Score
man and women what they about blow jobs   1/11/2006

ALL ABOUT BLOW JOBS~! <br> <br> BLOW JOBS-WHAT A WOMAN HAS TO SAY ON THE SUBJECT <br> 1. First and foremost, we are not obligated to do it. 2. Extension to rule ..1 - So if you get one, be grateful. 3. I don't care WHAT they did in the porn video you saw, it is not standard practice to cum on someone's face. 4. Extension to rule ..3 - No, I DON'T have to swallow. ...


1 Comments, 375 Views, 21 Votes ,3.74 Score
guy1234563 40 M
11  Articles
Building   1/10/2006

You have to have honesty for a good relationship.


0 Comments, 207 Views, 2 Votes ,1.73 Score
guy1234563 40 M
11  Articles
relationship   1/10/2006

honesty is eveything


0 Comments, 177 Views, 2 Votes ,0.34 Score
Language of Love   1/10/2006

If a kiss is the Language of Love, then we have a lot to talk about ... <br> methods of Love.... <br> +kiss on the ear--------------------"i'm horny" +kiss on the cheek-----------------"we're friends" +kiss on the hand------------------"i adore you" +kiss on the neck-------------------"we belong together" +kiss on the shoulder--------------"i want you" +kiss on ...


0 Comments, 194 Views, 12 Votes ,3.15 Score
How To Build a Relationship after So Long   1/9/2006

I have been dating for 4 years now and in and out of relationships. I have found that I am having trouble sharing what is mine. For example, my thoughts. I tend to clam up when it comes to intimate conversations and past happenings. I really need some feed back on where is a good place to start. I'm really tired of being alone, and I am now looking for a meaningful relationship. Sometimes I ...


1 Comments, 193 Views, 6 Votes ,3.37 Score
FPSJ20 39 M
10  Articles
Does sex help in building a relationship?   1/9/2006

I know this is probably a common question to hear, but I have heard so many different answers that I thought I put it on here and see what people think. Do you think by having sex in a realationship, can help it last longer or make it a more serious relationship? Or does it not really affect anything and it is all about the emotions beforehand?


0 Comments, 265 Views, 3 Votes ,3.43 Score
rm_Mz_thick2 47 F
33  Articles
R u ready   1/8/2006

When some people say they r ready for a relationship What makes them be so sure they r ready?


0 Comments, 316 Views, 0 Votes
rm_yngguy4you2 38 M
6  Articles
relationships and this site   1/6/2006

Lots of people seem to be disappointed that people on this site aer not looking for relationships. I am sure some people have found some but this is an adult oriented site, most people want sex. for relationships you should try thr friendfinfer.com site


3 Comments, 275 Views, 13 Votes ,3.65 Score
rm_cutn2dachase 46 M
1  Article
The one thing that every woman wants from her partner.   1/5/2006

What is the one thing that every woman wants from her partner? This question has baffled men and women alike for centuries. What is it, fundamentally, that each woman wants? The one single core issue that lies at the heart of it all. I myself, have search for the answer to this question like Indiana Jones searching for the Holy Grail. The frustrating part of this question lies in the fact ...


2 Comments, 196 Views, 9 Votes ,4.92 Score
Why?   1/2/2006

Why would you build a relationship when you're on this site. That's not fair to your partner unless they are aslo on this site


3 Comments, 186 Views, 16 Votes ,2.25 Score
rm_Richo1986 37 M
9  Articles
What love got to do with it   12/30/2005

Some time relationships are hard but they are worth it. It is hard to find a girl the will explore with you. I would like a girlfriend that brings company to the room. Treesomes are fun and can expand a relationship. Try for yourself and respone to me.


0 Comments, 89 Views, 2 Votes ,1.73 Score
brinlegryphon8 52 M
10  Articles
Treat Her Right   12/30/2005

I've always said you get out what you put in.Telling a woman what she wants to hear and spending cash thats the way to go. Shallow?...Maybe...True?...You Bet


0 Comments, 84 Views, 9 Votes ,0.43 Score
people who have found someone   12/28/2005

how many people out there have found that perfect someone on this site and built a relationship with them? do you continue to come here, or do you let your subscription expire and go offlline into real life? do you still seek thrills and chills of swinging and the like? leave your comments on what you think...


2 Comments, 202 Views, 6 Votes ,3.37 Score
hotbunsandtits 57 F
0  Articles
The right way to grow love   12/26/2005

The man I met when I was a was the man I fell in love with. He was much older and I was with him because everyone else wanted to be. The passion was not alive, but he took care of me and I knew he was my protector, but I also knew he was my preditor. My first born is from him through wedlock. After years of domestic abuse he assulted an authority and I gained my freedom. A dumb ...


1 Comments, 151 Views, 5 Votes ,0.86 Score
ex's   12/23/2005

My partner had an affair with a lady that was on holiday..She went back home, but they keep in contact by e mail and phone sometimes.I have asked my partner to stop contact with her so we could build our relationship up again..He says there is no harm in it, but I do..Am I being selfish or silly or should I just accept it???


6 Comments, 434 Views, 13 Votes ,2.98 Score
Finding the Perfect Lover   12/22/2005

On and off I have been with AdultFriendFinder for quite a while now. I joined when I was mobilized as a major in the Army Reserve after my spouse and I decided that two years spent mostly apart would be worse than selectively finding a lover. <br> I opened with the fact that I have been off and on because I have met several women through AdultFriendFinder, most of them very nice, and on a few occasions have ...


0 Comments, 454 Views, 17 Votes ,4.54 Score
rm_thebizzniss 38 M
4  Articles
Truth   12/19/2005

You'll never find anyone normal. I mean what's normal anyway, normal for who? But you'll definetly find someone who suts you, everyone does. Even if they can't stand them or stay with them, they're always there.


0 Comments, 56 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
wot to do   12/18/2005

do you think this is a good place to start a relationship or is it to hard


0 Comments, 64 Views, 0 Votes
how can i build a realationship   12/17/2005

can any body give me any help on this subject?


1 Comments, 263 Views, 0 Votes
Should I stay with The Man Iam with   12/16/2005

I have a boyfriend whom I never get to see its not fair at all he never calls i feel i should break up with but hes had his heart broken by his babys Mamma she was such a slept with his best friend while he was away for 2 and half yrs and she got pregnant with another mans and she told my boyfriend that she loved him and all this other bullshit and she hurt him so i was there in the end ...


6 Comments, 363 Views, 4 Votes ,2.47 Score
rm_ddtalvr 50 M
10  Articles
online   12/15/2005

i find it hard to keep a relationship that began online. most people here seem to be with someone already while looking around and are not trusting because you were online looking also. ironic?


0 Comments, 201 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
rockymtnlover 52 M
16  Articles
matter of mind   12/14/2005

Great sex is what everybody wants, even if that is part of a stable relationship or not. How do we get it? Do we have sex with the most good looking person we can get? Do we have sex with the most liberated person we can find?? No, the most mindblowing sex is with those people you connect with on a mental and emotional level. You must want that person body and mind to have the greatest sex. ...


0 Comments, 211 Views, 8 Votes ,5.80 Score
From a date to a marriage   12/14/2005

It has been my experience that after you meet someone you like, the best way to let the relationship is by letting it follow it's own path. Too often, expectations push a relationship in a direcion that is ackward or skews the progress. So people say that a relationship is a lot of hard work. Others try to reinvent the relationship at every turn. And some, are constantly looking for ...


1 Comments, 1821 Views, 117 Votes ,6.68 Score
happycouple973 49 C
95  Articles
Valentine's Day- How To Send your Love   12/12/2005

It's almost Valentine's day again and time to express your feelings to your loved one.Here I am to help you out along the way with some ideas and suggestions to get your creative juices flowing! So where do we start? Well there are approximately 1 billion Valentine's cards sold every year. So this sounds like a good place to begin. Choosing a card. There are so many ...


0 Comments, 396 Views, 6 Votes ,2.51 Score
rm_Mz_thick2 47 F
33  Articles
Y is it   12/10/2005

Y is it that when u r trying to build on a new relationship sex seems to b the greatest with one another?


1 Comments, 124 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
gsinghnoida 55 M
1  Article
hi to Ladies/Girls   12/8/2005

Hi Girls can have fun with the same sex. But it is not possible with men.


0 Comments, 161 Views, 8 Votes ,1.86 Score
rm_blondton13 53 F
3  Articles
What's wrong with wanting to date and be monogamous?   12/7/2005

My profile states that I am not looking for a one night stand, but not looking for marriage either...I'm starting to think that guys are taking this to mean "yes, I will just sleep with you for nothing in return." The only return I want is friendship and companionship, and a monogamous sex life, which I also outline in my profile. I am really curious why men seem so hesitant to explore the ...


8 Comments, 243 Views, 22 Votes ,4.93 Score
rm_chris1000uk 54 M
1  Article
Do contact site work long term   12/5/2005

I would like to hear from anyone who has met anyone on the site and has formed a steady relationship. <br> The reason why I ask is, is it harder or easier developing a relationship from a contact website rather than more traditional channels


0 Comments, 77 Views, 5 Votes ,0.21 Score
rm_Daring_bb 41 M
2  Articles
Here's to new beginnings!!   12/2/2005

I'm of african decent and i would like to meet women of other races and/or nationalities (esp. caucasians, indians/asians and other caribbean nationalities). I'm looking for someone interesting, who is not totally materialistic who is in search of new experiences. If ur interested give me a shout at [daring] [.] [45] [at] [gmail]...


0 Comments, 64 Views, 3 Votes ,0.98 Score
phi161 43 M
7  Articles
Wondering if those in relationships feel the need to "swing?"   12/1/2005

And if the swinging community accepts them?


1 Comments, 56 Views, 7 Votes ,2.53 Score
sweatnsheets 57 F
5  Articles
dont expect them to change   11/28/2005

I started talking with another member on AdultFriendFinder, we seemed to have everything in common except one thing. From the get go I told him that I didnt want to be in a relationship that had . I dont want to be a mother, step mother or "aunt" to . I dont want to be a mom even if it is every other weekend and holidays. I would also never ask someone to deny his for me. Well, he said he understood. ...


1 Comments, 233 Views, 11 Votes ,4.66 Score
rm_HoRnDoG19862 37 M
2  Articles
I still need more!!!   11/28/2005

First of all thank you very much allforfun for your responce but I still realy did'not get out all the complecations in my relationship. Now of course I am not thinking about ...well maby a little but I do understand that if I was selfesh about the situation and had for my own wanting to I would fail as a father for I would not be able to hold up to my dutys as a father. You see my ...


0 Comments, 61 Views, 3 Votes ,1.47 Score
rm_HoRnDoG19862 37 M
2  Articles
How can you say age dosent matter, and it mean something?   11/27/2005

Ok this is more or less a question for the more settled down couples please help me out because I realy need some feed back here!!! I am a 19 year old male I just got out of c. p. s. ( protective services at age 18. I know what people might say when I say this but I find myself stangly drawn to may lover who is 35. Not in any weired way more or less like when you say "there the reason I get ...


2 Comments, 89 Views, 3 Votes ,3.43 Score
rm_Mz_thick2 47 F
33  Articles
Do u always know   11/27/2005

Do u always know when u have run across the right person for u?If so how do u know that?


0 Comments, 102 Views, 4 Votes ,3.63 Score
rm_msy38ds4u 53 F
1  Article
What Is Love?   11/26/2005

I seem to hear women alot of time make reference to sex as being apart of Love.. Being a female I find that to be a simple thought anylonger.. To me sex is something instinctive, something thats been going on since the beginning of time. I feel love was put in when religions became a issue. To me love is everything out of bed, how you treat each other, how you get along with each ...


3 Comments, 309 Views, 21 Votes ,5.60 Score
rm_Mz_thick2 47 F
33  Articles
y does it take so long   11/25/2005

Y does it take so long to build on a relationship?Y can't men b trustworthy?


0 Comments, 79 Views, 2 Votes ,3.81 Score
A good start, great start, or the best start of a FriendshipWB   11/25/2005

I took a chance, and bought a one- (1) month gold membership. I wanted to read as many of the ladies personals as I could in thirty- (30) days, and to check out (at least a little bit of) the local male competition I have with men within my own age range, and hopefully, to meet my soul FWB. <br> After reading all those personals (M and F), and writing to a few select women, my ...


0 Comments, 87 Views, 4 Votes ,2.47 Score
willingdirtywife 34 F
1  Article
many different kinks   11/24/2005

I am a happy married lady who enjoys many knd of things when it comes to th bedroom. It took me a along time to even tell my hubby about some of the things i enjoy, for fear he would look at me as if though i was crazy. I did finally tell him and he worked with me on them. But there is one I still hold to myself. I would love to catch him putting toy in him. Stand off to the side ...


0 Comments, 535 Views, 23 Votes ,3.71 Score
happycouple973 49 C
95  Articles
How to handle Infidelity!!!   11/23/2005

Infidelity. Just the word can bring havoc and panic to the heart of most committed people, married or not. It happens all the time, we hear about it constantly. That coworker at the office, the late-night call from a friend. But...it never happens to US. Never in OUR relationship. Oh yes it does. You'd better fasten your seat belts boys and girls...this is one hell of a bumpy ride. ...


3 Comments, 385 Views, 18 Votes ,5.31 Score
happycouple973 49 C
95  Articles
Getting Past Guilt - To freedom of Sexual Expression   11/23/2005

When I got married, I had spent four years with my partner, but we had not once had a truly honest conversation about our sexual fantasies. We’d try, but then get embarassed or would tell only part of what we were thinking out of fear of judgement. To be honest, I’m not even sure we knew enough about our own fantasies to express them to each other, much less to start ...


1 Comments, 916 Views, 4 Votes ,4.80 Score
advice from me   11/23/2005

i hope nobody reads thiscause im not saying much...im just trying to get points for an upgrade and its getting frustrating


0 Comments, 40 Views, 4 Votes ,0.92 Score
bigandthik04u 44 M
4  Articles
Wounded women   11/23/2005

I have ran into so many women that have been hurt in their pasts and are not willing to give me the fair shake that I deserve because of either their baby daddys who did them wrong or just men in general. When are some women going to learn not to punish new men in their life because of pain others have caused them in their past? Holding on to the past prohibits a future.


0 Comments, 55 Views, 0 Votes
bigandthik04u 44 M
4  Articles
So quick to give up   11/23/2005

Why is is that some people think that when you first meet that everything is supposed to be perfect and if it isn't perfect they walk away? People have to understand that when you are geting to know someone everything is not going to be rosey because you are getting to know that person. If an arguement or disagreement comes up that doesn't mean something was not meant to be.


0 Comments, 27 Views, 3 Votes ,1.47 Score
cocky_confident 35 M
7  Articles
Give her an erotic foot massage...   11/22/2005

How To Give Her An Erotic Foot Massage (From A Female): <br> Nothing feels better when your feet are sore or tired than a foot massage. The most important thing to a good foot massage is to take your time. Take your lovers foot in your hands and use your thumb to massage the base of the second smallest toe. The tiny nerve endings here are supposed to put a person in the mood for ...


0 Comments, 126 Views, 2 Votes ,5.20 Score
cocky_confident 35 M
7  Articles
How to read her palm...   11/22/2005

HOW TO READ HER PALM: <br> As she runs her hand through her hair or does anything with her hand, stare at her hands until she says, "What are you looking at?" Then say, "Oh a friend showed me how to read palms, so I've been noticing them lately." <br> The three lines cutting horizontally across a womans palm tell you all you need to know about her. Just grasp her hand ...


0 Comments, 192 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
cocky_confident 35 M
7  Articles
How and why women test you part 2...   11/22/2005

How And Why Women “Test” You: <br> - NOT CREATED BY ME - <br> PART 2 <br> First of all, let's talk about the whole concept of "testing", and why women do it (and, more importantly, how to deal with it when it happens). <br> In a nutshell, "testing" is a woman's way of QUICKLY finding out a lot of information with a very small ...


0 Comments, 92 Views, 0 Votes
cocky_confident 35 M
7  Articles
How and why women test you part 1...   11/22/2005

HOW AND WHY WOMEN TEST YOU - NOT CREATED BY ME - <br> Have you ever called a woman on the phone to set up a date and had her say: "Friday night? Sure. Call me on Friday and we can talk about it..." ? Or have you ever had a woman ask you if you're a player? Or have you ever had a woman challenge you about something ridiculous? Or have you ever had a woman call you five ...


1 Comments, 280 Views, 0 Votes
cocky_confident 35 M
7  Articles
Women's erogenous zones... hot spots...   11/22/2005

A Womans Most Erogenous Zones: <br> Scalp- Massaging or scratching it releases pleasure hormones. Inside the arm- Between the elbow and wrist, run fingers lightly across. Outside of earlobe- Stroke it lightly with fingertip. Small of the neck- Flick your tongue lightly across this spot. Breasts- Stroke each breast in different directions starting at the breastbone or almost ...


0 Comments, 136 Views, 0 Votes
cocky_confident 35 M
7  Articles
Article about sex...why we like it...   11/22/2005

All creatures do things that feel good and avoid things that feel bad. The individuals who learn that best, live the longest. <br> Both sexes get pleasure from touching themselves without having to be taught. <br> learn to use touch as a means of connection at least as expressive as - and certainly more satisfying than - anything so detached as speech. ...


0 Comments, 72 Views, 0 Votes
cocky_confident 35 M
7  Articles
Top 10 women to stay away from...   11/22/2005

TOP 10 TYPES OF WOMEN TO STAY AWAY FROM <br> <br> <br> 10) The Leech - Wants all your time. <br> 9) The Stage Hog - Has to be the center of attention, no matter what. <br> The Gold Digger - Compliments your "pricy" watch, asks what kind of car you drive, what you do, where you live, etc. <br> 7) Mother Goose - ...


0 Comments, 1242 Views, 2 Votes ,0.34 Score
cocky_confident 35 M
7  Articles
Turn her on with little or no effort...   11/22/2005

TURN HER ON WITH LITTLE TO NO EFFORT... <br> <br> - treat her with respect - they are very susceptible to touching - touch her things with delicate touching, this subiminally sends a message that you'll touch her with the same consideration and care - pay attention to her, most attractive is eye contact - while maintaining eye contact, glance at parts of her ...


0 Comments, 205 Views, 0 Votes
cocky_confident 35 M
7  Articles
The laws of persuasion...   11/22/2005

LAWS OF PERSUASION <br> <br> Law 1) Every persuasive force causes an opposite resisting force. (Corollary: People resist being persuaded.) <br> <br> Law 2) People will let you get your way if they believe doing so will fulfill their personal needs. (Alternatively: People buy if they believe buying will fulfill their personal needs.) <br> <br> ...


0 Comments, 75 Views, 0 Votes
Jadin77 46 M
1  Article
Ok I met this woman...   11/21/2005

Ok I met this woman I really like... she says she likes me too... she says she wants to fool around and is as kinky and wild as any dirty minded man! Even more so then me lol... I have to chuckle the thought of a woman thinking she is more wild then me...! But yet she keeps making reasons on why we don't hook up and fool around already so WTF!?!?


2 Comments, 103 Views, 2 Votes ,1.04 Score
rm_longin2luvya 74 M
2  Articles
It takes time, a lot of time   11/20/2005

I think one of the keys to building a good relationship is really getting to know one another. This is not accomplished overnight, over the course of a few days or weeks . IT TAKES TIME to get to know someone. In this environment, (AdultFriendFinder) pictures and words are about all that you have to to determine if there is some chemistry, unless of course, you exchange emails and , and do a lot of ...


0 Comments, 83 Views, 0 Votes
rm_SexxyLegs79 45 F
2  Articles
Honesty   11/19/2005

Whether you are beginning or working on your current relationship! All I can say is honesty, honesty! Without it you will fall apart as your lies catch up woth you one by one! No matter the severity of the lie! Sometimes the truth hurts but it realy truly saves the time of a aching heart!


1 Comments, 155 Views, 10 Votes ,3.58 Score
what happened to my marriage   11/17/2005

I was just wondering what happens in a marriage that it just goes south. I have been married for 12 years and am now currently separated. I spent most of my time trying to please her with all I have. New cars, personal stuff that I thought would reflect how much I care about her and loved her. Sex seemed to go away first. Then the simple hello in the morning to goodbye when I was off ...


1 Comments, 150 Views, 2 Votes ,0.34 Score
rm_babycasper33 53 M
3  Articles
Should u have sex the first tim u meet   11/16/2005

can u have a meaningfull relationship if u have sex on the first date


1 Comments, 192 Views, 1 Votes ,1.10 Score
rm_LegendFuck 48 M
3  Articles
HI   11/16/2005

Someone who doesn't mind screaming on a roller coaster or letting me win a prize for him at a carnival. I guess what I'm trying to say is that a perfect partner for me would be someone who is real, different in his own way, and hopefully likes a variety of things (from the common to the unusual and offbeat). Someone who wouldn't grimace at the thought of watching a B&W ...


0 Comments, 178 Views, 5 Votes ,3.47 Score
rm_mackaycpl 62 C
2  Articles
whats with male ego?   11/14/2005

why is ti that males seem to have this performance thing...they believe the longer they go...the better the sex....(with intercourse) personallty i think a quickie can be just as fun


2 Comments, 134 Views, 6 Votes ,3.37 Score
Guys... not getting any email responses??   11/8/2005

I had originally posted this on the "advice" section and someone suggested that I repost here. <br> I received mixed responses to this article. Some felt I was being too demanding and unrealistic, I disagree. Some felt these were good to think about. So please don't flame me, I'm merely posting my experience at the request of another. <br> I have seen lots of folks ...


7 Comments, 247 Views, 18 Votes ,6.54 Score
Searchingcouple 37 C
1  Article
The Annoyance that comes with living together.   11/8/2005

Personally I feel that their should be a federal law that a couple should have to live together for one year minimum before they could get a marriage liscense. Though if the justice felt this not enough he/she tell them no to try living togther longer. <br> Let me explain why. When your seriously dating you usually only spend the weekend or a night here or there with the person. ...


2 Comments, 158 Views, 4 Votes ,1.30 Score
The sex was great but now the fire has gone   11/7/2005

Has anyone else been in long term relationship and found that after doing it 3 times a week for a year, it just gets a bit predictable? Unfortunately for me it is now down to once a week or less. And it doesnt last as long either because we dont do it as much. <br> We used to go all night and it was amazing.... <br> I need halp, can I dig myself out of this hole? ...


1 Comments, 71 Views, 2 Votes ,1.04 Score
Widecock419 46 M
1  Article
try   11/3/2005

try if you love some one or they will go i found out the hard way


0 Comments, 258 Views, 6 Votes ,1.37 Score
...Get Her to Try Anal Sex   11/2/2005

Many men fantasize about anal intercourse. Yet most women cringe at the thought of backdoor penetration. But many women can learn to love anal sex if it's introduced in a gentle and gradual manner: <br> 1: Get lubed. There is little or no natural lubrication in the anus, so you need to use commercial lubricants. (If you're wearing a rubber, stick to water-based products.) ...


2 Comments, 276 Views, 11 Votes ,4.66 Score
the best keys to a long lasting relashionship   11/2/2005

i think the best keys to a long lasting, true relationship are communication and honesty....but also u should be tolerant, and pass on some small things your partner is doing or saying....


0 Comments, 197 Views, 7 Votes ,3.30 Score
LansingGuy4Fun 32 M
3  Articles
Wow....   11/1/2005

Building a relationship....is no easy task...it takes work...its literally worse the na nine to five...but if you truely love someone its worth all the work and sacrafice in the end...trust me...you don't want any regrets...


0 Comments, 129 Views, 7 Votes ,2.53 Score
rm_101101001 58 C
75  Articles
Would you join a group...   10/31/2005

Dear AdultFriendFinder members; <br> How many of you would be willing to join a discussion group, where the membership requirements are. That you must be willing to go with a current group member or the group’s moderator, for free and anonymous HIV testing (say within thirty 30 days from joining the group) and share your test results with each other to prove that you are both HIV ...


1 Comments, 135 Views, 2 Votes ,4.50 Score
Human Magnetism   10/27/2005

What does it mean for a person to be attractive? I looked the definition up in the dictionary and it said that to be attractive is to be pleasing to the eye or mind. That doesn’t tell me much though. I am an individual, looking at things through a different set of eyes than anyone else. I analyze and appreciate things within my own capacity. My mind is my own, and it tells me what it ...


0 Comments, 122 Views, 2 Votes ,5.20 Score
Monkeymasacre 124 M
10  Articles
Socially online   10/24/2005

Do you think people who have a lot of online friends are social people when they are not behind a keyboard?


1 Comments, 143 Views, 1 Votes
youllcomwithme 65 M
2  Articles
Choose your words carefully...   10/22/2005

As a recent new member, I've learnt a valuable lesson about the need for choosing words carefully when making contact with other members. <br> I do try to study others' profiles carefully. On 2 occassions (eventhough knowing there wasn't a strong match), where they sounded very witty & intelligent, I just felt I wanted to touch base and say hi to share the AdultFriendFinder experience. ...


3 Comments, 433 Views, 15 Votes ,3.13 Score
barabond 42 M
38  Articles
Top 6 Great Gifts for Boyfriends of 6 Months or Less   10/19/2005

1.Magic 8-Ball never fails to deliver. Part oracle, part parlor trick this classic can be a game or a guide; it’s up to him 2.The Teenage Guy's Survival Guide - Help him understand you, yep guys get puzzled to, with this acclaimed book written just for guys. He’ll get the lowdown on everything that confuses a teenaged boy the most and he’ll have you to ...


2 Comments, 2672 Views, 85 Votes ,1.31 Score
rm_GregTheTrue 42 M
2  Articles
Where To Begin   10/19/2005

Relationships are hard all around. They’re hard to find, hard to maintain and they may rip you apart if they ever end. But we do it. We put every ounce of energy into these relationships because they’re worth it. And when you find that special someone, that someone who is worth it, all trials and tribulations seem minimal. So what should you do when you meet that ...


5 Comments, 2075 Views, 109 Votes ,5.02 Score
NWsuperhumper 45 M
4  Articles
How does it compares?   10/5/2005

How do you compare this site to the either the bar scene or the sex club scene? <br> My point of view is that this just provides a level of privacy and distance to meeting poeple, while in the bar they are in your (sometimes highly regarded) personal space. At the same time this site gives you the opportunity to feel in some way desired even before the first encounter, due to ...


0 Comments, 67 Views, 3 Votes ,2.94 Score
NWsuperhumper 45 M
4  Articles
Reality Bites   10/4/2005

There is a problem that I while spendiung countless of hours on this website and is that a lot of people take this as a relationship making website rather that what is advertised for a sex site. Most of the members regardles of their paying status make that intention abundantly clear especially the male members and especially the couples, but the vast majority are just play the field into ...


4 Comments, 236 Views, 4 Votes ,4.02 Score
You Gotta Read This One!   9/27/2005

When I first heard about it, I thought that thouhght that it was just a joke. But it wasn't a joke. On October 24, 2005, over 3 milion men nation-wide have agreed to... <br> break up with their girlfriends/wives on the first ever "NATIONAL DUMP YOUR WOMAN DAY." aka "DUMP-DAY." This is an idea that was created by an international group called "10 SOCIETY, " that is dedicated to ...


1 Comments, 378 Views, 9 Votes ,1.93 Score
rm_breakychat27 46 F
3  Articles
Is distance an issue?   9/23/2005

After talking to some interesting guys from passion .com we then come to the realise that we are miles apart, living in different states but our chats have become so erotic it leaves me keep asking the same question over and over in my head IS DISTANCE AN ISSUE?


2 Comments, 278 Views, 4 Votes ,4.02 Score
one step at a time   9/20/2005

this is a tough one. each couple is different


0 Comments, 653 Views, 8 Votes ,2.09 Score
   2005-09-13

Preface: <br> I recently met the most incredible woman on AdultFriendFinder. Somehow she enticed me into sharing my fantasy with her. Then after writing several emails to each other “The Bellhop Twist” emerged. This fantasy stuff is so much unlike me. In a million years I would have never thought that building a fantasy story with someone could be so intellectually and sexually stimulating. I decided to share our fantasy in hopes that someone else might enjoy it… <br> <br> <br> Sweet Anne, <br> Thank you so much for teaching me new things about myself and for the wonderful experience! <br> “THE BELLHOP TWIST” <br> I contacted her via AdultFriendFinder email and she replied back: <br> I'm a curious gal and I was wondering if you have a particular fantasy you'd like to share. You know, can you be more specific about what you like? <br> Animal sex...A purely physical and sexual encounter, inside a hotel elevator. <br> BTW, your fantasy is exciting to me. I wonder if you would pin my arms above my head at some point while we kissed deeply... <br> I would have you pinned against the wall... You are wearing sandals, a sleeveless top, and a blue jean skirt.... <br> My heart rate is increasing and my breathing is heavy. I'm pressing my loins into you. You kiss my neck and it drives me wild... I feel you unbuttoning my red sleeveless top. <br> And just as my hands are to touch your breast we hear a chime. The elevator door begins to open slowly. We quickly rearrange ourselves and regain our composure. The door fully opens. Just off to one side a bellhop is standing there before us. He glances into your eyes and he begins to smile. He senses something about you...something very special. You stepped onto the lobby floor, and proceeded to pass the small man. As I begin to follow the bellhop steps in between us. The wise man puts his hand on my chest, and he leans in towards me. He softly whispers into my ear: "Be patient, go slowly" "She savors the slow burn". I then proceed behind you onto the lobby floor. As we walk towards the dining area I am looking at your ass, and I am thinking to myself... <br> "Damn, she's got a nice ass." As if on cue, I bend over to adjust a strap on my sandal. I glance over my shoulder and see you looking and smile. <br> I suddenly felt a "guilt of innocence", caught with my hand in the cookie jar. As we approach the dining area entrance we come upon an easel. The sign reads " Dining Area Closed". I look you over, and with a shitty grin, I tell you: "I want to eat in the room anyway". <br> <br> I raise one eyebrow, put my hands on my hips and say "Oh really? Well, are you talking about food or what?". Your grin gets wider. <br> and I look into your eyes... I reply "WHAT!" and you begin to smile... You grab my hand, and with a soft but firm tone you say "take me to the room, NOW!" <br> We walk hand in hand back to the elevator. As soon as the door closes, we embrace and kiss hungrily. I press my body into yours. <br> I reach for the elevator key and switch it to “off”. The elevator becomes very still. We are alone, under the soft burn of the emergency lamp. I lift up your skirt and I press my thigh between your legs. You draw me in closer. You feel the swelling between my legs. I start kissing the cavity beneath your ear and descend in the direction of your neck. As I approach your lower jaw I feel your intense breathing stroking my ear. You unbuckle my trousers and lift out my shirt. I feel your warm hands touching my chest. I unbutton your top; it falls to the floor. You pull off my shirt; it also, finds the floor. I lift the straps off your shoulders and pull your bra down to your waist. I draw you in close me. Your soft breasts are pressing against my chest. I am kissing your neck passionately. I unbutton your skirt and unzip it. It falls to the carpet. You unzip my pants and they drop to my ankles. I start caressing your entire body. I am touching you all over and I feel dampness between your legs. You feel stiffness between mine. We are out of control. In a tremulous tone you whisper “I want you inside me”. I look into your eyes. I reply “not yet”… <br> I drive you to the floor. I position your arms between you and your bra. I tie my shirt around your head and cover your eyes. I lower your head to floor gently. With your arms pinned to your side, I cushion your head with your skirt and your top. In a soft tone, I tell you: “I will not stop until you say the word “bellhop” “relax and trust me.” I pull off your sandals and start kissing your feet. One by one, I start sucking your toes. I gradually ascend upward and start kissing your ankles. I advance up the backs of your legs slowly and focus on the cavities behind your knees. I continue upward. As I approach your inner thighs, your legs begin to quiver. I pause and I tell you: how incredibly sexy and beautiful you are. <br> I place my hands on your groins. I gently peel your panties off. I slightly elevate your thighs by cushioning your butt with my jeans. I begin to focus on your inner thighs. I kiss on them and nibble on them tenderly. As I cross over between them I lightly rouse your clitoris with my tongue. I am gently brushing the tips of your nipples with my fingers. I feel your nipples getting harder. I begin to pinch them with light pressure. Your back begins to arch and your hips begin to rise. I start licking the outside of your pussy lips. I lick between them, and I suck on them. I slide my tongue in and out of you. I place my hands under your knees and push your legs into your chest. I start rimming your ass. I slowly begin to rock you back and forth. While you are rocking, I’m licking your ass, your lips, and everything in between. <br> <br> After a moment I revisit your breast and I begin to lick your clitoris. I start to flick-it rapidly with the tip of my tongue. I feel your body starting rock naturally and I sync-up with your rhythm. As I give attention to your clitoris I start to finger you. With two fingers in a circular motion I slowly glide them in and out of you, going deeper and wider, with each insertion. I turn my palm upward and with light pressure I begin to massage your sweet spot. <br> Your body rocks faster and I stay in your rhythm. I gradually apply more pressure on your sweet spot and nipple. I feel your body starting to tremor. I start pulsing your sweet spot with increased pressure. Suddenly you feel the most intense and overwhelming sensation flushing throughout your entire body. You cry out “OH MY GOSH” “OH MY GOSH” “OH MY GOSH”… <br> I feel your contractions on my fingers and I lighten the pressure on your nipple and your sweet spot. Your clitoris becomes sensitive, and you quickly push my head away. I continue massaging your sweet spot. I gradually apply more pressure. I feel your body starting to tremor. I start pulsing your sweet spot with increased pressure. Suddenly you feel a deep sensation rolling throughout your body. You cry out “OH MY GOSH” “OH MY GOSH” “OH MY GOSH”… <br> I feel your contractions and I lighten the pressure. I continue massaging and I gradually apply more pressure. I feel your body starting to tremor. I start pulsing you with increased pressure. Suddenly you feel a deeper sensation rolling throughout your body. You cry out “STOP!” “I CAN’T DO THIS ANY MORE”. My cock is throbbing, and I say to myself “I can’t wait to screw her brains out; but we will go another round”. <br> I feel your contractions and I lighten the pressure. I continue massaging and I gradually apply more pressure. I feel your body starting to tremor. I start pulsing you with increased pressure. Suddenly you feel yet a deeper sensation rolling throughout your body. And then you scream out “BELLHOP!” “BELLHOP!”… <br> I hear someone yelling “bellhop” and I come to my senses. I look around, but only the desk clerk and I are present. I realize now I was daydreaming. I hear a chime and the elevator door begins to open slowly. The door fully opens and there before me is a man and woman. The woman steps onto the lobby floor and proceeds to pass me. As I glance at her, I’m held captive by her stunning eyes. The man begins to follow. I step in front of him and I put my hand on his chest. With a smile I lean in towards him and I whisper in his ear “Dining area closed”. A strange feeling flashes over me; I relived a moment that I’ve experienced once before…


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Letsplay69724 42 M
1  Article
Patience   9/11/2005

I think in a realationship you have to take the time and understand that your 2 different people, the best way to build a good realationship is to be patient and accept the other people the way they are, if you can do that, this your working against the realationship the will in the end fail


0 Comments, 458 Views, 7 Votes ,2.02 Score
naturistfriend 67 M
0  Articles
NATURE CULTURE   9/11/2005

Please see the articles on these pages on relationship and partnership issues, naturism/nudism, hedonism; i.e. Nature Culture. <br> I send these materials to you in the belief that you, the members of your organization and like minded friends are open minded to consider these materials. <br> It needs to be remembered that at this time, with the New Age ...


0 Comments, 868 Views, 12 Votes ,2.45 Score
drtycowgirl 50 F
3  Articles
building a long distance relationship?   9/10/2005

While in this global world we are able to expand our horizons beyond the streets and doorways of our towns and cites and on occassion discover love/lust in far flung places (or at least not easy to get there places). So here is my question, what are ways to make a relationship work long distance? Am i just chasing some dream ...


8 Comments, 2659 Views, 96 Votes ,4.09 Score
what are the steps in building a relationship?   9/9/2005

relationships can be of two typs. short and long terms. both are difficult in different ways. the main ideas are to find the solution for these difficulties. for this we got to have a view of our difficulties frst. so lets do that.


0 Comments, 273 Views, 9 Votes ,0.65 Score
lips4urdick 46 F
1  Article
How to make him let go?   9/7/2005

I'm stuck in a weird relationship. The guy I've been dating for 2 yrs is great and we have a lot in common, but he's afraid of committment. I'm not asking for him to pop the question, but I think I've stuck by him long enough to warrant more than just a phone call every other week. I trust him and I know he's not involved with anyone else, but when I tried to break away ...


9 Comments, 614 Views, 19 Votes ,3.26 Score
spinmedown 46 M
1  Article
Let's Get Cooking   9/6/2005

I've always found that cooking together is a great way to build a relationship. Yeah, I know. Boring domestic stuff, you think. But, it can be a lot of fun, and a great way to learn more about someone you really want to spend some quality time with. And then; after all the work, a nice, romantic (and hopefully delicious) meal is ready to be shared. ...


2 Comments, 2095 Views, 87 Votes ,4.53 Score
justkickinit5 43 M
10  Articles
i haven't quite got there yet...   9/6/2005

its seems like i always end up with women too crazy to have a healthy relationship... i think im there and then bam its all comes out at once... you know all those feeling they keep bottled up for one reason or another... i hope the next woman wont be like that but i have got a great run going so you never know... this happen to anyone else?


0 Comments, 399 Views, 4 Votes ,3.25 Score
sarah_brown307 42 F
2  Articles
No one wants the same thing   9/4/2005

Why is it that no one wants the same thing as everyone else on this site, some people are looking to hook up for more then just a one night stand, and others just want to hit it and leave. SO if you have any reasoning behind this point me to the way to the guys looking for more then just a one night stand.


0 Comments, 422 Views, 6 Votes ,2.23 Score
rm_BnKnNC 42 C
7  Articles
Worked for us!!   9/1/2005

HONESTY!!!!! Being completely honest with one another has worked incredibly well for us. We're not gonna tell you it has always been easy. It's been downright hard sometimes to tell each other somethings. But we did it anyway, and have loved the results. We understand what each other desires, and know what to expect. That's not to say we don't surprise each other. Just that we feel ...


1 Comments, 1936 Views, 83 Votes ,4.01 Score
Rushing into Relationships   9/1/2005

Has it come to this in todays time of rushing into a relationship for sake of being in one? How long does it last and is there any lasting thing to it? <br> There is no true meaning to it excpet for the quick slam bam thank you. It then leaves bad taste in some peoples mouth wondring why, then as quickly forgetting moving onto the next. Isn't there something missing from this? ...


1 Comments, 270 Views, 6 Votes ,3.37 Score
ahmdcpl 37 C
3  Articles
How to build a long lasting relationship   8/30/2005

Hello Can you tell me how to build a long lasting relationship without haveing any strings attached.


1 Comments, 254 Views, 4 Votes ,1.69 Score
rm_Stewbydoo69 45 M
2  Articles
We don't just want sex.   8/26/2005

Why do women think that all we want is sex? <br> Fair comment that some men are like that. I am different, I have been brought up different. <br> I prefer to chat and get to know people. I am on these pages to have fun and get to know people. I am not going to be visiting them for the purpose of having sex. I think a lot of women are tarring us blokes with the same ...


2 Comments, 192 Views, 4 Votes ,4.02 Score
A Blind Date   8/24/2005

I was a senior in high school when a friend of mine called one night and asked if I would go on a blind date so he could see his girlfriend that night.I went and she was the most beautiful woman I have ever met.We hit it off right on the spot.We dated for a while then broke up.A few years later we got back together and dated for about 6 months, as I was in the Navy at the time and also ...


0 Comments, 280 Views, 14 Votes ,5.22 Score
cbj9fan_at_yhoo 54 M
2  Articles
3 Simple Rules....   8/20/2005

Communication! Respect! Honesty!


1 Comments, 324 Views, 12 Votes ,2.80 Score
hornydallasguy19 39 M
10  Articles
is love enough to build a great one?   8/17/2005

wat all do you think it takes to build up da ideal relationship??? i know its more then love but dat has to be there


1 Comments, 176 Views, 3 Votes ,1.96 Score
Quiet___Storm 42 F
3  Articles
Has anyone found out their spouse was cheating and stayed?   8/17/2005

My husband cheated on me with a co-worker. The affair went on for four month. When I found out he was cheating he chose her over me then a week later he came back, then it happened all over again a few times. <br> After this on and off he broke up with her, and decided to commit to me. At first I was happy about his decision because I still love him very much and i have ...


13 Comments, 701 Views, 27 Votes ,4.61 Score
dagreatest143 41 M
1  Article
How can I get noticed in such a crowded room?   8/17/2005

I'm new to this scene and I want to know how I can get women interested in me. I want them to know that I'm not just looking for a cheap lay without getting to know them first. Although that might be what some women are looking for and I know there are men to satisfy that desire. I'm trying to meet someone that I can talk to and eventually build up enough mutual trust and respect to meet ...


1 Comments, 266 Views, 11 Votes ,3.92 Score
Sexy14UBoys 47 F
2  Articles
Meeting on AdultFriendFinder and hoping it works.   8/16/2005

I am curious to know if anyone has met their so called "soulmate" on here? I think I have found mine, for say. The greatest guy I have ever met, all around, heart, body, and soul. I knew the moment I met him that he was the missing link that I had been longing for. We are not living together nor do we have plans to but the way things are going is perfect. Meeting online on a "sex site" of ...


9 Comments, 2926 Views, 128 Votes ,3.79 Score
gty223 40 M
4  Articles
Getting what you want and others feel good about it.   8/8/2005

Toss out the ideas, folks. This one is clean. It can be applied in any format you desire, but please don't allow for those ideas to be suggested here. This is a framework of getting there no matter what the topic is. So, you have your plan set and you're ready to get started. Another person who you value has another idea. You like the idea, but really prefer to do what you have in ...


0 Comments, 188 Views, 7 Votes ,1.00 Score
wifey3223 55 F
20  Articles
SEXY VULUMTIOUSE WOMEN/ LIVING LIFE.   8/7/2005

I like to feel sexy, to live on the edge and to try new things. I like to mix it up ad flavor to keep my man intrested. I DONT KNOW WHY ? I always attract men who want it BUT WANT TO TAME ME AT THE SAME TIME. Ive always been what they call a closet women, only behind close doors. I ALSO LIKE TO BE CALLED BITCH IN BED, ONLY. And to talk nasty, make me suck youre nut etc. I also find alot of ...


1 Comments, 446 Views, 7 Votes ,3.55 Score
rm_newboy043 58 M
2  Articles
crisis?   8/1/2005

My girlfriend and I have a difficult six months but eventually since early July everthing has been working out. <br> We have done the usual stuff but sex was not on the menu, until recently. <br> To make long story short and save my blushes, we had sex the day of her period. <br> It was my fist time, and was great though we had done much of the foreplay ...


3 Comments, 252 Views, 18 Votes ,3.26 Score
very good friends   7/29/2005

it would be nice to meet someone and really get to know them and vice versa , so both of you can see if there is chemistry or just go with the flow of discreet relationship's or one night stand either is great , but you never know there could be that special one out there .


1 Comments, 227 Views, 9 Votes ,3.00 Score
happycouple973 49 C
95  Articles
Instructions for My Boyfriend   7/24/2005

I know you love me, which is why I finally feel comfortable telling you what I want. It’s not so much that you’re doing anything wrong, but I’m too shy to tell you what I really want. There are things I want, things that turn me on, that I’ve always hoped you would do to me, so let me give you some direction. <br> First of all, ...


15 Comments, 7145 Views, 508 Votes ,8.17 Score
ravenpa 47 F
1  Article
why can't guys keep it real?   7/23/2005

I have been in a committed relationship for almost 6 years, and recently I have been looking for someone to spend some time with. You know what I'm talking about ladies......someone to laugh with, talk to, someone to listen. Guys, don't take this the wrong way, ...but you know that when you have been with a woman for a long time, typically you take her for granted. Now don't get me wrong, I ...


2 Comments, 709 Views, 23 Votes ,5.00 Score
2sumlookin4fun 56 C
7  Articles
Wow!   7/19/2005

After 10 years of being together, my husband still turns me on the same way he did when we met. And, I turn him on more than I did to begin with! Let me start off by clarifying the start of our relationship..... we were a one night stand that has lasted 10 years! We had met and had alot of mutual friends but were never around at the same time. When we were both finally there at ...


6 Comments, 5835 Views, 279 Votes ,6.10 Score
rm_brothaman61 61 M
2  Articles
How long?   7/18/2005

I know this question has is been asked to death, but I must ask how long dose a person wait for intmaticy or a real sign for something to hold on to. Here is the situation. I met this beautiful lady on AdultFriendFinder and when we met it was good enough to meet again and again with emails and then phone calls etc. After a while of talking and learning more about each other she decides to take it ...


1 Comments, 434 Views, 17 Votes ,4.96 Score
ahmdcpl 37 C
3  Articles
What takes up in building a strong love relation   7/18/2005

I have been thinking a lot regarding what makes a love relation more strong and florish. People I would like you to post your reviews and suggestions. Thank you


2 Comments, 338 Views, 10 Votes ,2.79 Score
rm_DictatorX 37 M
2  Articles
The beginning is the most important   7/17/2005

When young and in a relationship, one must always pay attention to their spouse, boyfriend, girlfriend or etc, and give them attention, because if you don't. Then someone else will.


1 Comments, 382 Views, 16 Votes ,3.57 Score
rm_IMNUGRL 53 C
3  Articles
The Line!   7/14/2005

As I approach the line, a glance at the people in front of me reminds me that it will be some time before I get out of this place.Standing there-trying to be invisible-when I'm awakened by the scent of the person in front of me.I can feel the hair on my neck as it starts to rise.I think to myself, "what is wrong with you?" She turns her head slightly.I can see the outline of her face."Who ...


1 Comments, 491 Views, 20 Votes ,5.81 Score
TwoFun2PassUp 64,1968 C
1  Article
cuddling   7/13/2005

In this day and age, young lovers and not so young lovers are faced with a nearly insurmountable task of recapturing romance in a very busy world. We have become a society at the speed of light and in doing so, we have forgotten the sensual pleasure of presenting a dew covered rose to a lover with breakfast in the morning because there simply isn't time for it. <br> I contend ...


1 Comments, 234 Views, 13 Votes ,4.82 Score
freshfaces2005 53 C
0  Articles
Baggage The type you "want" to Lose   7/12/2005

In relationships the worst term I hear is the term "baggage" (please note I am not referring to ) I am referring to what we are accustomed to in our previous relationships and we bring into the current one. We expect that because this is the way it was previously this is the way it will be...NOT TRUE!!! We need to lose that baggage...just like no 2 snowflakes are alike so can be said for ...


1 Comments, 178 Views, 11 Votes ,3.54 Score
ahmdcpl 37 C
3  Articles
The building blocks to a successful relationship   7/10/2005

Today's life is so fast that we dont find time to look towards our relationship with friends, family and others. Through this article I would like to know what can a man do to achieve the best in all the fields.


0 Comments, 164 Views, 4 Votes ,1.69 Score
Want2LicknRideU 48 F
4  Articles
Ex Wifes   7/8/2005

Why is it that Ex-wifes hang on to something that is no longer there.My ex husbands first wife kept trying to hang onto him and then when she found on that he cheated on me with my best friend she finally gave up on him.S he hounded us and even tried to kidnap our saying they were hers and everything.She would constantly call the both of us at work.Why would a ex wife do that?


2 Comments, 348 Views, 18 Votes ,0.94 Score
rm_JEFFDONNA03 52 C
1  Article
i meet a great guy on AdultFriendFinder the love my life   7/6/2005

durning the worst of the time of my life back in march my marriage was going down hill.i meet him here on AdultFriendFinder he picked up the pieces of my broken heart . i never had a man treat me like a queen.and just want say thanks to AdultFriendFinder for bring us together


0 Comments, 156 Views, 4 Votes ,2.47 Score
tiny_puppy 46 F
6  Articles
unfortunately till now   7/2/2005

not yet find short or long term ralationship....


1 Comments, 333 Views, 15 Votes ,1.45 Score
sdgentleman69 50 M
10  Articles
Starting with sex?   6/29/2005

Can there possibly be a long lasting relationship that starts with meeting for sex? <br> There seems to be an impression among some women on here that this is possible. <br> I don't think so. What do you think?


6 Comments, 254 Views, 13 Votes ,4.32 Score
rm_zag3 80 M
4  Articles
head games or deception   6/28/2005

“Please no HEAD GAMES.” <br> That’s a favorite phrase in many profiles. <br> How about this. <br> I don’t think two people can avoid playing head games. <br> Let’s face it, parents play head games with their and eventually the learn the games and begin to play head games with their parents. play head games with their ...


3 Comments, 128 Views, 8 Votes ,3.01 Score
dynamitesneon 41 M
10  Articles
Take it slow   6/28/2005

What's the best way to keep yourself emotionally detatched from someone? Do you have a good way to have sex and still remain a little distant?


1 Comments, 144 Views, 9 Votes ,2.14 Score
Christiano28 47 M
4  Articles
Building a relationship   6/27/2005

Communication is for sure very important for a relationship. But can a relationship, even with good communication, survive without good sex?


3 Comments, 169 Views, 10 Votes ,3.19 Score
Clintdriftwood 47 M
14  Articles
How long do you wait   6/27/2005

How long would you wait to meet a person you were chatting with online? <br> I have met a wonderful woman online who makes my heart race as we chat. I feel a need to meet her but will that spoil what we have? <br> Please advise me your thoughts


6 Comments, 263 Views, 13 Votes ,3.81 Score
Strong Will Woman   6/26/2005

She comes from a long line of women who have always been head of the household and called the shots, and NEVER had any strong male role models around. In that situation one can only understand a woman being that way. But those near and dear to her need to know "that she" cares because the words "I love you" and hugs and other signs of affection are hard to come by from ...


3 Comments, 206 Views, 16 Votes ,3.72 Score
crazycoast 43 M
1  Article
Why is it....   6/24/2005

Why is it that after a girl has had a long term relationship which ended in the other partner cheating on her....will it take them over 6 months before they possibly even think about entering into another relationship? <br> How long should it take?


8 Comments, 199 Views, 9 Votes ,0.22 Score
AlohaORcupple 43 C
5  Articles
this is tough...   6/22/2005

this can be tough or easy. what do you do to make it as easy as you can. is it easier with a stranger, or a friend.


2 Comments, 191 Views, 10 Votes ,2.39 Score
Foregiveness   6/22/2005

Many people seem to think that no one should ever be disowned… <br> How would you handle someone if you knew they intentionally did things with the intention of strictly bringing harm to another? <br> If they used every man or woman that crossed their path? <br> And when you finally confront them about the issue… <br> They make absolutely ...


1 Comments, 75 Views, 5 Votes ,2.49 Score
Get help - you need it.   6/22/2005

Do you feel the last of passion in your relationship? Do you feel that he/she is not meeting your needs? I use to think my wife had to feel this void in me. She had to be the one who at all times would help me feel better about myself. When she didn't I felt betrayed and alone. I was setting her up for failure and myself too. The problem is I didn't know my low esteem would not be ...


2 Comments, 139 Views, 12 Votes ,5.45 Score
Guys Just LISTEN already!   6/22/2005

I was talking to a friend who was in the middle of a separation. He wanted so badly to fix the situation but his wife made it clear she needs space. What was his plan of attack? To call her about everything asking her opinion. He wondered why she wouldn't return his calls. This is a classic example of the lacking of listening done but us, the stronger sex. It took alot of therepy and ...


3 Comments, 188 Views, 15 Votes ,5.12 Score
rm_KissMeHere3 49 F
3  Articles
To say..or not to say?   6/21/2005

Very recently I've started dating a guy and we really hit it off, and even though there's an attraction to each other I'm holding off from jumping into bed with him right away because I really like his friendship and I want him to stick around. We've talked about anything and everything so far, except for the fact that I'm on this website. I'd like to know if anyone out there ...


5 Comments, 332 Views, 17 Votes ,4.54 Score
rm_kitty_692 44 F
1  Article
Just Half-way out the closet   6/21/2005

Ok....I know I'm not the only one who's curious. What do you do when you're married and willing. I guess just being Bi.... but secretly. How do you let your secret be known and not published. How do you know who's down and who's not. Are there topics, gestures..What??


2 Comments, 143 Views, 7 Votes ,2.79 Score
stickitin1965 51 F
3  Articles
Fellas Represent   6/21/2005

I have a few questions, are men capable of fidelity? How many of u guys have been completely (no head, rimming, fingering, licking or having sex with another woman or man)faithful to your girl? <br> If guys can;pt be faithful should women simply pursue pleasure to what ever means as men do? <br> Waiting to hear from the fellas!!!!!!!!!


8 Comments, 371 Views, 16 Votes ,2.98 Score
rm_davidj1987 36 M
1  Article
Keys to conflict resolution   6/21/2005

Communication breakdown is very often the root of all relational problems. Communication breakdown often stem from misunderstandings from unclear or a lack of communication. Try to put yourself in the mindset or situation of the person with whom you're in conflict. Considering their perspective may help foster empathy and help in conflict resolution. If you are having a problem with someone ...


1 Comments, 143 Views, 7 Votes ,2.79 Score