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Clyde192 50 M
0  Articles
Breakin' up is hard to do...   4/12/2004

Once again, a relationship fails for me. This time, the fault isn't me, her, so-called friends. It's my . Who is 6. He can't even remember me & his mother being together. He behaves well when he sees her & her new guy. But he lives with me, & he seems to be jealous of the time I've been spending with my recent partner & her . We've been together for 21/2 years, & been living together for ...

0 Comments, 3 Views, 4 Votes ,4.80 Score
rm_lilnortylola 39 F
3  Articles
When breaking it off with a female.   4/12/2004

*try to talk it through first. *Be honest. *Dont list our faults-it doesn't help. *Tell us, calmly and rationally what went wrong. *Try to be calm; yelling and name calling aren't a way of breaking up, they are a way of causing MORE pain. *Dont string us along uneccessarily for weeks, that makes it worse. *don't say sorry. It pisses us off more. *break it clean *dont promise ...

0 Comments, 19 Views, 11 Votes ,5.60 Score
Recent devistating divorce   4/12/2004

Hello everyone, I am a new member here (standard) I would just like experienced members to explain to me how it is worth it to join the site. The reason I ask is I do not know anyone who has ever joined any online dating site. <br> Recently I moved here (ND) to start fresh, and things are going outstanding, But I would like to begin dating, or more, but I have little time to go ...

0 Comments, 2 Views, 3 Votes ,5.39 Score
Misty178 47 F
0  Articles
Getting divorced   4/7/2004

My husband came home last Wednesday and told me that he wanted a divorce. We have 2 . He is being a real dick and wants everything but the 's. I am packing up my 's and moving out. Even though I married a real jerk I don't think all men are the same. As soon as my divorce is final I am going to go out and have some fun.

0 Comments, 8 Views, 15 Votes ,4.82 Score
not good at it   4/7/2004

I hate telling a girl it's over. It's like I don't want to burn that bridge. I might want to come back later and get some pussy or something. Or maybe I'm just a nice guys that doesn't want to hurt a woman's feelings. Anyone else have this problem?

0 Comments, 14 Views, 14 Votes ,6.02 Score
rm_Payam81 44 C
1  Article
Re: it took 10 days   4/6/2004

Hello, Sorry to hear about your problem. If both your names are on the lease then you are both responsible for paying the rent. If she doesn't pay her half you can get a court order to move her out. If it's only your name on the lease then it's even easier to get rid of her. Either way, don't evict the premises (not sure about PA laws) but in some states evicting the premises could ...

0 Comments, 25 Views, 5 Votes ,5.75 Score
rm_FullFigure1 67 F
11  Articles
Re: How Do You Let Go   4/2/2004

There are no words to say to anyone to help them let go. "Time heals ......" is not what you want to hear, but unfortunately, it's true. I've been there and done that soooo many times! Sometimes it takes longer than usual, especially if you were in love, but he/she wasn't. It is the most painful thing to go through. "One sided love" relationships is never easy, and I know that I'm not ...

0 Comments, 7 Views, 6 Votes ,5.64 Score
it took 10 days   4/2/2004

i had been dating this girl for around 6 months, we had talked about getting a place of our own, so we decided to start out in an appartment, i was madly in love with her after 37 yrs i thought i had found the perfect girl, enjoyed everything i did. people thought we where perfect for each other, her mom and dad told me i was the best thing that has happen to her in her life. so we started ...

0 Comments, 8 Views, 14 Votes ,6.66 Score
Who's To Blame   3/31/2004

I was dating a woman who was supposedly in a bad marriage and in the midst of a divorce. After a few months of intimate dating we decided to get an apartment together. About two weeks after we moved in together and two days before her divorce was to be finalized, she told me she wanted it to end, that she wanted to give her husband another chance. The shock, the pain and the anguish was ...

0 Comments, 7 Views, 2 Votes ,3.81 Score
soon to be ex-wife already engaged before our court date   3/30/2004

My wife kicked me out of my house 8 months ago and started dating a "friend" that is 6 years younger than her age of 32. Ok, at first I was pissed because she was stringing me along and lying to me in order to get money out of me. But once I told her I had to take care of me she filed for divorce. I can definately handle getting divorced! She was a golddiging who has learned this ...

0 Comments, 38 Views, 33 Votes ,7.74 Score
sexlovers2266 46 C
6  Articles
friend can't seem to get away from gf   3/29/2004

What is it with nice guys, not being able to get rid of the women that screw around on them and don't respect them? I have a friend who is the nicest guy in the world....treated his gf like gold....she cheated on him often, hid it from him forever, and he has now found out. I'm scared he's going to get back with her though, i'm wondering if anyone has some advice i could give help ...

1 Comments, 26 Views, 19 Votes ,6.03 Score
girlordinary 42 F
1  Article
How do you let go?   3/29/2004

How do you let go of someone? How do you cure a broken heart? Everyone says time - but I'm finding that time just hurts... they have moved on and you're still left there lapping at your wounds. <br> Take it one day at a time. Time heals everything. I'm tired of hearing this. I want strong arms around me at night. I want to feel closeness again.

2 Comments, 128 Views, 39 Votes ,5.92 Score
Take everything   3/28/2004

Why is it that when a man and a woman break up from a relationship one always feels it necessary to take everything that they have aquired as as couple?

0 Comments, 41 Views, 13 Votes ,6.16 Score
mattnewstar 45 M
2  Articles
No sex after marriage   3/22/2004

After I married my wife, she became less interested (virtually no interest) in sex. I accepted that there were some reasons for this over the first 6 months, as we had a young baby, but things did not get any better, even after breastfeeding stopped. <br> I am getting to the desperate stage, where I am so sick of wanking and I find it hard (impossible) to even talk to a woman ...

0 Comments, 33 Views, 36 Votes ,7.38 Score
marriage jitters   3/21/2004

Was dating a guy for 2 years. When we started dating he said he never wanted to marry again, which suited me fine. After 2 years he decided we were getting married, set it all up and told me the night before the wedding. I had told him I never wanted to marry and he had said he respected this, when confronted with this he said it was how he wanted it, and I agreed and married him or it was ...

0 Comments, 7 Views, 11 Votes ,6.72 Score
rm_xavorra 53 M
1  Article
Hard to let go.   3/20/2004

You broke up over a week ago, you know it was for the best but you still can't stop thinking about him. You can't stop thinking about all the great times and the bad ones. You miss the looks and touches. After two years of nightly contact, you now find yourself set adrift with nothing to do. You always knew that you loved him more than he loved you. You promised yourself you wouldn't call ...

0 Comments, 75 Views, 25 Votes ,7.45 Score
I don't know how   3/19/2004

I am in a sticky situation...I have been seeing this lady that has contact with my wife and I am afraid if I break up with her she will rat me out to my wife. What do I do?

0 Comments, 4 Views, 12 Votes ,5.98 Score
Plz Respond need break-up info help   3/18/2004

I meet this girl in highschool i was in 10th grade and she was in 9th grade..we ended up liking eachother and got together....facts about her (shes anti-social and depressed sometimes) we ended up having a and i stuck around and was with her...after we had the baby i was'nt being the best boyfriend and we ended up breaking up after about 1year and i took this pretty hard....she was 16 ...

0 Comments, 10 Views, 10 Votes ,4.78 Score
cumgetsome1966 58 C
3  Articles
Should I stay or should I go?   3/15/2004

Well ive been with this girl now for 11 years and the past year we dont seem to get along as well but we prefere to be and do everything together, I love her dearly and she says im to controlling but im not sure that i am. So lately when I go to work she goes out to her friends which i cant stand another female but she knows i do not like the girl but she goes anyway, We hangout on my days ...

0 Comments, 41 Views, 1 Votes
Completely Oblivious To His Cheating   3/14/2004

We had dated for 2+ years he is in the Army. He just came home for a week leave and he cheated on me and got caught and he telld me that this has been going on since this summer. He's cheating with his Sister-in-law's sister in law. Needless to say I broke up with him and sent in on the plane back to Georgia this morning begging for mercy.

3 Comments, 261 Views, 59 Votes ,5.37 Score
I Do not Know Why it ended   3/13/2004

I went out with this girl for six months, everything seemed fine sex was great she did not want a commitment just a bit of fun, I had been splitup from my wife for 12months and I was real happy just having a casual relationship. She would stay at my place sometimes, she was living with her parents after her marriage ended, she moved into a house of her own and boy did things change, ...

0 Comments, 9 Views, 2 Votes ,5.20 Score
Princess4Pirate 74,1958 C
1  Article
What to do after Sex?   3/11/2004

We just had our first time with another couple, man and woman, and we had great sex! Even though it was not a full swap, everyone enjoyed themselves fully. The other couple was very experienced, but the man was a smoker and we do not smoke, so that was a turn off. We had so much in common with the other couple, they could be our best friends, but I really don't want to have sex with them ...

0 Comments, 18 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
rm_thealaconda 45 M
2  Articles
Re:Friends Wife doesn't seem want to do it anymore.   3/10/2004

I think you should just let go of that desire to be with her and focus on your marriage. because although the sex may be good. it's not worth destroying a marriage, if her husband or your wife find out. and say that happens and both your marriages get ruin, and you and her are together. the Trust wouldn't be there because the both of you cheated on your spouses and both of you would think ...

0 Comments, 14 Views, 2 Votes ,5.20 Score
Get it over with!!   3/10/2004

Stop procrastinating, if you are unhappy, but scared of loosing the partner, don't worry it will only hurt fo a while. You will be much happier in the long run.

0 Comments, 18 Views, 1 Votes ,1.10 Score
AIM_minameiso 39 M
3  Articles
getting over it   3/9/2004

OK, that day you've circled in red ink on your calendar is here. This is the End of Mourning Day. Do something significant to mark its arrival. Buy yourself half a dozen bunches of different flowers, and fill your apartment with a riot of color and fragrance. You have to smile when you're surrounded by the beauty of nature, which is bound to lift your spirits. Or go buy yourself a new ...

0 Comments, 6 Views, 1 Votes ,3.70 Score
can,t we be freinds   3/8/2004

why is it that when you agree that your relationship isn, t working and you both agree that its best for BOTH OF YOU that you have a trial seperation everything goes swimmingly for a little while you both are just enjoying having a bit of freedom and chillin with your freinds then it happens someone who knows someone who knows your partner sees one of you having shall we say a nice time ...

0 Comments, 4 Views, 38 Votes ,7.22 Score
Move on   3/8/2004

Fuck the bullshit. The two of you tried everything. Or you didn't try shit. Either way he looks better, she makes more money and I just want to be the whoe that I am. Move on... stop wasting time. This realtionship ship is a no brainer. Either it works or it doesn't. Are you going to keep trying to sart that broke down car you got in ya drive way and had sitting in the same place for the ...

0 Comments, 3 Views, 37 Votes ,7.72 Score
aeromale 67 M
1  Article
Friends Wife doesn't seem want to do it anymore.   3/7/2004

About 10 years ago when a good friend of mine was out of town for an extended period, I got involved with his wife. She was tired of him going out of town all the time and needed cock when he wasn't in town. We banged out brains out on many an occasion when he was gone. At one point we thought he had found us out so we cooled it for awhile, but went back at it when that wasn't the case. ...

0 Comments, 44 Views, 60 Votes ,6.88 Score
bigthunder2002 73,1961 C
4  Articles
Have some self respect   3/7/2004

Yes...we've all done it. Begged and pleaded with the person leaving not to leave.. "please baby its all my fault...I can change". The only thing to try to remember when he/she is walking out the door is....your going to remember how foolish or how mean your being longer then the other person will!! Be good to yourself...your worth it!!

0 Comments, 5 Views, 43 Votes ,8.68 Score
broke up, sex starrved.....   3/7/2004

....and very, VERY randy... now meeting people is a pain, i believe i know enough people as it is, getting to know more people now seems like, and is in fact a pain in the arse. so i came on here as if from a thought of divine inspiration at a ridiculous hour of the dark manchester is this place a quick fix for someone such as myself......hmmm?

0 Comments, 10 Views, 38 Votes ,6.39 Score
sx_rx_n_rnr 41 M
1  Article
cold shoulder   3/4/2004

I just want to remind everyone that breaking up with someone is no good when you just do not return their phone calls. It sucks.

0 Comments, 4 Views, 14 Votes ,5.86 Score
tomlikestofuck 38 M
2  Articles
dump her   3/3/2004

whats the best way to break with girl that u dont want to hurt.

0 Comments, 20 Views, 1 Votes ,5.00 Score
rm_hardbodnAZ 53 M
1  Article
Paranoia will destroy ya, ya partner, and ya relationship...   3/3/2004

Trust is not only something that is earned, but is something that must be given as well. A three year relationship with a girl I once dreamed of spending my life with is coming to an end. From the very beginning she had issues with trust, which to me shouldve been a red flag. Before we had dated 3 times, she had a full background check done on me...I understood the reasons in the violent ...

0 Comments, 11 Views, 2 Votes ,3.12 Score
Why me?   2/28/2004

Every time I am in a relationship I am the one that dumps them...... I never get dumped. I never have..... either they just werent right for me or im a looser. one of the two. on this subject men will say they werent right for me, and women will say im an ass/looser/ whatever just watch they will. lol

0 Comments, 2 Views, 22 Votes ,0.96 Score
is it over...   2/26/2004

well i for one usually try to make a clean break when i do break up with someone. But... my ex was incredible in bed and still stops by occasionally just wantin sex. we have had sex several times since we broke up. i am now dating and my ex seems to want to fuck even more often now that she has seen me out with other girls. what should i do?

0 Comments, 2 Views, 32 Votes ,1.83 Score
Dumped with A Vengence.   2/19/2004

Bad breakups result in a broken heart but few people realize that they can be a blessing in disguise. If your signifigant other dumps you for another person, don't look at it as a tramatic experience but look at is as a sign. If your lover has the potential of leaving you for another then it's a good thing that it happened now. The pain may be too much to handle but it passes with time. ...

0 Comments, 9 Views, 46 Votes ,8.32 Score
still sleeping with the ex   2/18/2004

what do you do when he said love you cant live with you he doesnt like your friends old or new you go out then end up in bed with your ex even though you have ample opportunity to sleep around then ring to talk about something speaks like a pig to you

0 Comments, 7 Views, 18 Votes ,0.53 Score
AllNiteLong0069 57 M
1  Article
Why woman wants to be winner after breaking up!   2/15/2004

I was with my ex and we broke up after 3.5 years, i wanted us to be friends, but she started getting nasty and sending me threats. I keep smiling and reply calmly, but she does not give up fighting and insulting! <br> What shell I do, this is becoming pest, and I am fed up with it. I am not going to give in, because she thinks she is a winner, I think she is looser! <br> ...

0 Comments, 3 Views, 5 Votes ,2.49 Score
rm_johnph11 56 M
3  Articles
Just do it   2/12/2004

Breaking up is a difficult thing. You have to be sure before you even approach your partner. Once you do, things change and can't ever go back, even if you stay together. If you are sure. Do it and stay apart. The more you drag out the separation or see each other, the harder it is and more likely you are of not following your heart.

0 Comments, 8 Views, 0 Votes
Cowboy4Fun76 39 M
2  Articles
friends and ex's   2/9/2004

dealing with friends and ex's seems to complicate things to no end. dating someone then when it ends and a friend dates that person keeping them around. should it be better to just shut up and let it be, or say something to that friend that it is a difficult situation. if the relationship ended on bad terms it makes things ten times worse than if it ended on good terms. i dont know about ...

0 Comments, 25 Views, 40 Votes ,6.67 Score
How do I do it nicely?   1/29/2004

I met a guy from AdultFriendFinder, and he's really nice and sweet. The first time we met up, it was a lot of fun and we ended up sleeping together. Then I went out of town for a montha dn I have since come back and we've seen each other one more time. The problem is, this second time we had sex, but I just don't feel as attracted to him. I don't know what it is, but I do know that I don't want to ...

0 Comments, 20 Views, 9 Votes ,3.43 Score
Breaking up sucks   1/23/2004

Breaking up sucks, My girlfriend and I broke up 2 weeks ago b/c I did not call her at 8 o'clock, when I was suppose to get off work. Instead I called her at 11 b/c my boss asked me to stay over and help out and I said "hell yea, my g/f is out of town any ways and it will put me in over time". Also I did not call her, nor did she call me the next day. I had to work at 8 till 6 and only got 2 ...

0 Comments, 16 Views, 11 Votes ,5.41 Score
She would change into either this super sex machine   1/23/2004

OK, its the end of my marriage. A four year adventure filled with lots of sex, alcohol and torment. Unfortunately, I was married to a person that had four or five people inside one head. Her comment "at least we all have the same name". I think the alcohol was the biggest problem with her. Her personality would change dramatically with alcohol. We're not talking a lot, maybe two ...

0 Comments, 24 Views, 25 Votes ,6.01 Score
angiehartono 45 F
3  Articles
Sick husband with small dick   1/22/2004

I work as a slimming beautician and have a attractive slim body and sexy legs. I am 5ft 7" and 126lbs. My husband is 5ft 9" and 180lbs. The problem is that he had a small dick. Only about maximum 4" and thin. But he have a crazy hobby. He likes to watch me making love with big dick men and taking photos of my nudes and sex action. Each time when I got horny and wet from teasing by big ...

0 Comments, 79 Views, 16 Votes ,4.89 Score
re:Walked out on us,please come back,i'll love you forever...........   1/21/2004

I wish i had a husband like that. Mine just spends time doing profiles on here and putting married and still looking. how can that make a women feel. the day will come when i will have an end to this and i hope its soon. I know it will be for the best.

0 Comments, 4 Views, 8 Votes ,1.62 Score
rm_Cryderman 41 M
18  Articles
Email   1/20/2004

I had this one girlfreind that bothered me so much that i did not know what to do so i decided to break up with her through email.

0 Comments, 0 Views, 6 Votes ,2.23 Score
LiquorSweetly 50 M
4  Articles
Why would she do that ?   1/20/2004

My ex and I had recently split up. We had a close relationship and she knew everything about me. Including sexual intrests of mine. Some of which the everyday ordinary person might find a bit odd.. When we split up she made these intrests of mine public for friends, family and complete strangers to know about.. Why would anybody want to destroy somebody and humiliate somebody like that ?

0 Comments, 11 Views, 6 Votes ,3.37 Score
rm_bottom_boi23 40 M
7  Articles
RE: Should you break up over sex?   1/20/2004

Should you break up with this guy? YES!! Hate to say that but I am sure you are as attractive as you say you are and if he is not giving you what you want you need to move on. It maybe tough even if you love him but your confidence in yourself can't be too great right now and the realtionship can't be all that great either. A healthy relationship also involves a healthy sex life with ...

0 Comments, 91 Views, 9 Votes ,2.57 Score
Trying to get rid of hubby   1/19/2004

Ive been with my hubby for almost 8 years and i cant seem to get rid of him. We have a horrible marriage and i almost cant stand to be around him.The problem is we have so he wont budge. We havent had sex for over 8 months. How can i get him out?

0 Comments, 4 Views, 3 Votes ,4.41 Score
rm_XXX_Lil_imp 44 F
1  Article
Are bisexual men better lovers?   1/19/2004

K this is a question for the women. Have you ever met or played with a bisexual man? Am I the only woman out their that finds bisexual men fascinating to play with? I am 23 and going on a 1 year relationship with an extremely hot bisexual man. Sex with him has been absolutely incredible I find his experience with other men has come in handy. When it comes to pleasing he seems to have a ...

0 Comments, 77 Views, 8 Votes ,6.03 Score
retiredguy91552 82 M
1  Article
what a mistake   1/17/2004

I started dating a married woman eight years yonger than me, I was 62 at the time, we both live in Calif, even though she lives with her husband for econemic reasons, they sleep in seperated bedrooms , have seperate lifes.She was the love of my life, but I became distrustfull, hateful, and jelous, and started seeing other women and rubbing it in her face, I tried everything I could to drive ...

0 Comments, 24 Views, 2 Votes ,3.12 Score
FriendWantedNow 58 C
10  Articles
Honour & Pain   1/17/2004

There is a thing called honour which seems to have fallen out of fashion. Honour is what is owed to someone that you may have once cared enough about to get involved in a relationship with. Honour is telling that person the truth, no matter how difficult it may be. Honour is showing your partner respect and treating them as you would want them to treat you. It is not having an affair and ...

0 Comments, 24 Views, 1 Votes ,5.00 Score
ramjeter5 54 C
70  Articles
give it up   1/15/2004

I once cheated on a boy friend.I told him what i did, and i broke up the relationship.A few days later he calls me back wanting to work things thing s out.Man!This went on for some time whe n i finally told him to give it up, and he did.

0 Comments, 34 Views, 122 Votes ,2.83 Score
The perfect relationship   1/14/2004

Me and my ex were together for 2 years and recently we lost our first to a miscarriage. Was I wrong for breaking up with him?

0 Comments, 5 Views, 50 Votes ,5.51 Score
Discovering the real her....   1/14/2004

I just broke up with my girlfriend of 10 months. At the beginning it seemed like we were meant to be, but things quickly deteriorated with her being very jealous of my ex who I am still friends with. Her jealousy began with lack of communication and later manifested into erratic vioent temper tantrums where we could be talking about something completely different and suddenly she would be ...

0 Comments, 5 Views, 66 Votes ,8.87 Score
rm_sexyruffryda 39 M
10  Articles
definately do it   1/13/2004

people, agree wit me on this one...breakin up wit a long term girlfriend can let u learn somethin right?

0 Comments, 6 Views, 65 Votes ,7.09 Score
rm_sexyruffryda 39 M
10  Articles
long distance   1/13/2004

does anyone think that if a guy were in boston and a girl in long island that a long distance relationship would work...if they had been going out for 6 months prior to the change in locations for the 2?

0 Comments, 15 Views, 79 Votes ,4.55 Score
rm_hotlips710 53 C
5  Articles
its not the end of the world just the begining   1/12/2004

after reading many articles on broken realitionships i can only say that my marraige break down was the best thing that happened to me, not at the time of course it broke my heart and i felt like shit, 12 years and 4 and i had to walk away from it all.but now 4 years on i have the best girlfriend and best friend i could wish for and i have my living with me and the ex the one that cheated ...

0 Comments, 6 Views, 77 Votes ,9.48 Score
If it doesnt work the first time will it ever work?   1/11/2004

Ok my ex and I have broke up about a dozon times and we always get back together so my Question is will it ever work out or are we Just postponing the end?

0 Comments, 6 Views, 24 Votes ,5.29 Score
RE: seeing the girl that broke up with me again   1/6/2004

I just wanted to say that I went through the same thing. Last summer I went to Milwaukee for an internship that would last 6 months. The girl I was dating at the time insisted on staying together even though it was going to be difficult so I decided that the relationship really meant enough to try and stay together. We called eachother every night but after about 2 and a half months ...

0 Comments, 23 Views, 7 Votes ,3.30 Score
middi2 41 M
2  Articles
me and my gf   1/5/2004

i broke up with my ex but i luv her to bits. How can i win her back. I know she wants the same aswell.

0 Comments, 4 Views, 7 Votes ,4.31 Score
cheating spouse   1/3/2004

I have been married for 9 years and with her for 13 years.I have never once cheated and had opportunity many times.My wife recently cheated on me and now I dont know what to do. Should I say what the hell she opened the door for me to cheat, stay with her, or just end it?

0 Comments, 33 Views, 13 Votes ,4.99 Score
hgjhgygyg   1/2/2004

d detect any such injury(-ies). He managed to choke out, "Excuse me for a moment" and exit before laughing hysterically. After regaining composure, he returned to advise the lass that the literature suggested that she should be safe, but that, if experiencing significant pain or discomfort, she should cease or try something else. A comely lass inquired as to the caloric intake, and more ...

0 Comments, 1 Views, 4 Votes ,2.47 Score
YOUR THE ONE   12/31/2003

your the one i need <br> your the one i need near me <br> just to hold u in my arms <br> close me my heart my soul <br> close to my inner self <br> u make me feel so happy inside <br> i love u dearly <br> u ...

0 Comments, 2 Views, 4 Votes ,5.19 Score
Never Fall For A Married Man   12/29/2003

That is exacly what I did. He wrote an ad seeking a female friend and I answered it. It led to 7 months of wonderful times and fine memories. All while I knew he was married, he was with me most nights after work and went home to her 2-3 weekends per month. He lived and worked in different towns. I stressed how much honesty meant to me and we vowed to always be honest. He claimed he ...

1 Comments, 38 Views, 7 Votes ,5.08 Score
She Never Changed   12/29/2003

Many years ago I met a beautiful, sexy, funny woman. It was love at first sight for me, but it took me a while to get her attention. She was in the middle of a divorce, and had a boyfriend (the cause of her divorce, she told me), so I didn't really think that I had a chance, but our work threw us together day after day, and after a couple of months we finally started to click. ...

0 Comments, 106 Views, 197 Votes ,9.27 Score
if you think about it being over...then its over!   12/28/2003

Peole...if you think about you and your partner not being together, then go tell them because the relationship is all ready over! There is no point of wasting time that could be spent on finding the "right" partner for you, so do it!

0 Comments, 13 Views, 89 Votes ,4.89 Score
Obvious   12/26/2003

It?s kind of weird but I always seem to know when things start to go downward in a relationship. And from what I have seen, it is very obvious and I have predicted breakups for me and people I know, pretty much down to the exact day. It seems the harder I try, the worse I make it when I do notice things going wrong. I first notice it in her voice and the way she talks to me. She seems ...

0 Comments, 5 Views, 58 Votes ,8.94 Score
rm_hotredturbo 43 M
9  Articles
the best way to break up a long relationship   12/25/2003

Is there any good way to break up with somebody that you've been with for a long time without hurting there feelings? What would be the best way to do this gently?

0 Comments, 3 Views, 55 Votes ,6.62 Score
AngelEyesInMo 46 F
11  Articles
Why Is It So Hard To Do?   12/23/2003

Can anyone tell me why breaking up is so hard to do? Is there any good advice for healing and can you tell me how to move on and be happy? I have been so badly burned in this relationship that I wonder if I will ever be able to fully love and trust again. Are there other aching souls on here that can relate to me? I appreciate any tips or advice and words of encouragement.

0 Comments, 10 Views, 60 Votes ,7.51 Score
Why don't guy's tell the truth if they are in love......   12/20/2003

I have been in a wonderful relationship for 8 years and he was the first guy I had ever loved or cared about.. Well I knew he wasn't hiself one day so I asked him if he has cheated on me and he wouldnt answer me all he would do is ask a question what if I did what would you do or say.... well he didnt know how much I loved him and we talked and made up and he told me why he did it... and ...

1 Comments, 155 Views, 32 Votes ,1.83 Score
magicsensations 47 C
1  Article
how do you get over someone   12/19/2003

After being with a man I had met here on AdultFriendFinder he decided to tell me that was and always had been a just a good fuck.Not that I ever expected an I love you or anything like that from him but I do have feeling for him.Why anyone continue seeing someone several times a month for two years and then end it by telling them that. We run into each other several times a week going ...

0 Comments, 35 Views, 77 Votes ,7.99 Score
What to do when ones heart is on the line   12/19/2003

I have been with this amazing girl on and off for over 2 years now. There are times in the relationship that she becomes very distant and dosent want me around. She tells me she needs time to figure out what she needs, but yet dosent want me to go completly. It seems as if I am her safety net and someone to fall back on. I love her dearly and this is driving me nuts.

0 Comments, 6 Views, 28 Votes ,7.66 Score
Breaking uP   12/17/2003

To break up....juz ignore and I MEAN IGNORE the girl until she gets the idea, she will try all sorts of ways and means to get u backa and of course that includes TEARs, but never give in and even when she contemplates suicide and threatens to die or whatsoever, never give in....Remember once u give in, u r DEAD...jus like the prey in the web, u can never get out..

0 Comments, 1 Views, 24 Votes ,4.49 Score
oregncouple 50 C
0  Articles
Help   12/16/2003

My girlfriend of 1 1/2 years got high on mushrooms and had a threesome with the older married couple across the street. The next day I found out about it and asked her about it. she told me that they her. To make a long story short the truth is it was all her idea. when I confronted her with the real version she confessed to everything, and that the was a lie and she said that she would ...

0 Comments, 20 Views, 52 Votes ,3.03 Score
nolongerakid18 31 M
2  Articles
ever move on   12/15/2003

i moved here from az after i borke u pwith my gf and now she is always on my mind i can't stop thinking about her i think i love her what should i do

0 Comments, 186 Views, 31 Votes ,2.38 Score
should i stay or should i go??   12/15/2003

a friend of mind had the recent problem <br> his gf had an affair with her ex after she is with him. and she told him about it. of course my friend was pissed, but since he really loves the girl and so he doesn;t want to leave her like this. but then he is also pissed that he think he should do something to the guy and/or to the girl to show them a lesson. <br> also, ...

0 Comments, 3 Views, 55 Votes ,6.81 Score
how to deal with all the cheaters.   12/15/2003

note: i read this from a email forwarding, but i don't know the source, and since it was in different language, i will try to translate as good as possible. <br> the husband had always suspected that his wife is cheating on him, being younger than him for 6 years, and with such an attractive body and gorgous face everyone must be interested in her. <br> also, she is ...

0 Comments, 6 Views, 55 Votes ,1.43 Score
rm_Bodhisaht28 50 M
1  Article
So this is how it is...   12/15/2003

So this is how it is.... <br> This fear, hurt, sorrow and pain Cuts through me like a hurricane Lost to me now, she goes away Such anguish I refuse to display <br> It is better to have love and lost Someone once proclaimed They never counted the cost Of such internal pain <br> Sleepless nights and torturous days Every morning awakening with a ...

0 Comments, 5 Views, 5 Votes ,5.75 Score
wannanow1000 59 F
1  Article
Iz it possible to maintain a friendship with your ex?   12/13/2003

Wow, what does one say about breaking up? It's certainly not an easy thing to do when you love someone. I'm going thru it right now myself. I find that trying to maintain a decent relationship in a small town iz not an easy thing to do. Well it's even harder when there are so many feelings still attached to the broken relationship. Example my ex and I have (not together) but our kidz ...

0 Comments, 2 Views, 2 Votes ,4.50 Score
Sweetcheeks6981 42 F
1  Article
HOW?   12/12/2003

I've been seeing this guy for almost a year now. He lives 5 hours away and I've done everything for him. I heard a rumor from someone that he has a girlfriend and is expecting a baby. He denies the girlfriend part, but does not deny the baby. I don't know what to believe. I love him to death, but I don't want to be used. I don't know anymore.

2 Comments, 170 Views, 48 Votes ,5.31 Score
Use the walk.   12/8/2003

If you're trying to break up with someone, then try taking them for a walk. Tell them that we're going for a walk. And while you're starting off your walk with them, tell them that this walk might not turn out to be that pleasant. Them start to explain how it's not working out for you. And then ask them do they know where this is going. The worst should be over by this point. But if it's ...

0 Comments, 3 Views, 36 Votes ,4.96 Score
what to do to get noticed?   12/8/2003

Wahts going on? A quick question. What extra can you do to ge noticed on AdultFriendFinder besides upgrading? Any suggestions if so please let me know

0 Comments, 2 Views, 48 Votes ,6.83 Score
direption69 54 F
20  Articles
I miss you   12/7/2003

Toon the shelf I wince and think of spring <br> Chimes and bells fill the season as I listen for your laugh <br> skies and life dance a difficult waltz such brilliant blues and chilly winter rains nervous hands and a heart stopping glance my friend, <br> <br> As every door opens I hope that it brings your smile <br> With ...

0 Comments, 10 Views, 38 Votes ,7.55 Score
More Internet Etiquette   12/3/2003

I can empathize with the writer's disillusionment upon finding someone lied to them after a few encounters. Sounds like the person who lied enjoyed the meetings, but is using AdultFriendFinder as it was expand their sexual possibilities. The real problem appears that the person left behind was looking for a relationship. Frankly, I'm stunned by the profiles I've seen where it reads "Looking ...

1 Comments, 41 Views, 31 Votes ,7.55 Score
lust or love   12/2/2003

when you are all loved up and sex is great you think you can survive anything that good ol life gets in the way and weakness show sex does not solve everything yes it helps the lust starts to dwindle and sex becomes a litle regulated the same fantasties become not so good any more finding that balance is hard do you swing do you avoid hard swap or occasional swap like every thing else when ...

0 Comments, 11 Views, 67 Votes ,0.76 Score
What The Hell?   12/2/2003

I have always had terrible luck when it comes to guys. I cannot escape it...This last guy I was dating, he broke up with me last week because he was cheating on me. He even told her about me! He had started dating her a few days before he dumped me. That just sucks! I don't know what it is, but this always happens to me. There is a part of me that misses him, and a part of me that wants to ...

0 Comments, 1 Views, 38 Votes ,5.81 Score
Turning the chapter   12/1/2003

I'm 30 years old, have a great job, and live a great life.But I have one problem. I can't seem to get it through my ex-fiancee's head that our relationship is over!!! Actually it's been over for over 2 years sexually!! When I first met her things were okay. I even took in her elementary school . I took them both into my place and paid each and every major bill of our household. About a year ...

0 Comments, 7 Views, 17 Votes ,4.12 Score
Why would he hurt me   12/1/2003

I met this guy in 1999 and it was like love at first sight.He was everything a girl could want.Fine, sweet, and packing a bunch of meat.I was so and love and he said he was to. All a sudden I started hearing rumors of other girls, me being me I can't believe until I see. Why confront him.It was christmas and he brought me an engagement ring, something in my mind clicked and said I am not ...

0 Comments, 73 Views, 31 Votes ,3.91 Score
rm_TXActor 54 M
5  Articles
Everyone is doing it!!!!!   11/30/2003

Well it seems that the mentality of people today is sure i'll get married if i don't like it i'll just get a Divorce. People really need to give their relationships a little more thought and COMMUNICATE!!!!! But today most people hold in their anger or let it out to that friend of the oppisite sex and then they wind up getting together and that makes things worse! <br> If you ...

0 Comments, 18 Views, 25 Votes ,4.46 Score
Breaking because of Bipolar Mood Disorder.   11/28/2003

I experienced a love that at 46 years of age I have never experienced before, with my last boyfriend. Our relationship sort of fell together, but it grew and grew. We didn't live together, but saw as much of each other as we could. after nearly 3 years we were both amazed at times when we just held our forheads together gazing into each other's eyes and almost orgasmed at the intesity, we ...

1 Comments, 18 Views, 19 Votes ,7.74 Score
rm_HoneyChile 46 F
2  Articles
RE: Why is it?   11/27/2003

You sound like what I went through. Met this really great guy, totally connected on the cerebral level, like cosmic twins. But we somehow didn't get very far because he's considering a new job and having tough luck dealing with the various women in his life. Its hard to accept such bad timing but ultimately everything happens for a reason. Its ok to feel sorry, the trick is not to dwell on ...

0 Comments, 30 Views, 3 Votes ,4.90 Score
Breaking up, good or bad?   11/27/2003

Breaking up! is it good or bad i want to know because you cant win either way can you? if you`v ad enough of the relationship and call it of she`s in te nut house over it and if she breaks up then its you in the mad house so it`s good and bad just try and be on the good end of it

0 Comments, 14 Views, 4 Votes ,2.47 Score
love gone sour   11/27/2003

Love Gone Sour <br> What happened to the innocence? To the conversations that made sense? What happened to happy sensations? All replaced with fucking expectations. What happened to long walks hand in hand, Gasping for air in between making out in the sand. Love and friendship replaced by lies, jealousy, and hate. A once opened gate, Is now shut to love gone sour. ...

0 Comments, 14 Views, 12 Votes ,4.21 Score
blacksnoopy77 32 M
1  Article
Easy Breakup   11/27/2003

If you don't know if you have enough reasons to break up with your significant other, then don't worry about all the things that you have gone through with them, add up all the negatives and you shouldn't have a problem.

0 Comments, 9 Views, 9 Votes ,3.85 Score
AngelEyesInMo 46 F
11  Articles
Too Many Other Fish In The Sea!!!   11/24/2003

After undergoing a recent separation myself and suffering much pain associated with it, I thought what better article to write but one that deals with separation. The pain of a separation is real, nonetheless, but as bad as it may seem, it does pass. Often we spend years in unhappy situations because I believe we get too comfortable. Change is not always pleasant but can sometimes be for ...

0 Comments, 4 Views, 6 Votes ,5.07 Score
AngelEyesInMo 46 F
11  Articles
Pain And Recovery In Separation   11/24/2003

Anyone who has ever endured a breakup can understand how painful it is. The pain can be worse than any physical ailment ever for the pain of a breaking heart is so hard to curb. I can think of no pain greater than to be rejected or betrayed by the one with whom you shared your heart and soul. Let me assure you that this pain does eventually fade. Resentment and bitterness may abound at ...

0 Comments, 4 Views, 14 Votes ,6.02 Score
rm_vardmhr 60 M
1  Article
Ladies tell me why...   11/22/2003

the lady that I loved and loved also told me that I brought out feelings and touched her heart only as one man has before.... and then told me goodbye. WHY?????

0 Comments, 87 Views, 4 Votes ,4.80 Score
leevo23 43 F
1  Article
hard love   11/21/2003

Being in a relationship is hard especially if there are up and downs. if you really want to stay in that relationship also be truthful no matter what.

0 Comments, 7 Views, 74 Votes ,7.66 Score
lovely469 43 F
9  Articles
help please..   11/16/2003

I was datin' someone temp! and we decided that we could never be.. But everytime I am around he is always messin with me. Why can't he just let me be??

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cheat   11/12/2003

My girl friends was soo nice to me , she the best girl friend you could ever imagine. Untill after she broke up with me cause she thought it would help us out with our school I found out she slept with eleven guys , and made up with about another 5. She was a virgin when she first met me and then went all bad , now I cant trust any girl.

0 Comments, 11 Views, 147 Votes ,5.52 Score
Cheating works two ways   11/12/2003

I recently read an article on here about cheating , the writer stated that cheating is wrong. Well some may think so. My husband cheated on me 17 months into our marriage. I went into this relationship after being divorced for 11 years. We dated for 3 before deciding to marry. I told him that when I loved him it was a special gift to give someone , but he didnt belive me. I had known he was ...

0 Comments, 27 Views, 186 Votes ,8.01 Score
rm_HoneyChile 46 F
2  Articles
The thought of breaking up   11/12/2003

People break up everyday... all over the world infact. Some do it with valid reasons - like infidelity, some just feel wronged, annoyed or even threatened. If the thought of breaking up creeps up your mind every now and then, you should realise that something is inexplicably wrong in the relationship. Your heart is telling you things your mind doesn't register. Worst yet, the mind tries to ...

0 Comments, 32 Views, 96 Votes ,8.29 Score
lets just be friends   11/10/2003

well, recently i got the famous "lets just be friends". What she told sounded remarkably similar to what i told the last girl I broke up with, when I met the one that broke up with me. Now for me lets just be friends to be 100% honest means, I'm going to keep you around for back up and want nothing to do with you unless I am desperate. Yet everything seemed to be going totally fine this ...

0 Comments, 4 Views, 3 Votes ,4.90 Score
swissebony 52 M
1  Article
What is a man supposed to do ?   11/8/2003

hi people, ¨ i've just been left heartbroken and it's way hard to get over it. Does anybody know what's best to do ? Thing is my ex Girlfriend went to the states on holliday. and there she met up with the guy she's been having online chats ever since. The first evening she she phoned me and even wrote me an email saying she loved me and misses me and can't be without me. But then ...

0 Comments, 4 Views, 138 Votes ,4.83 Score
babygirl232 54 C
3  Articles
Break up and still be friends.   11/8/2003

When you get ready to break up with someone, people need honesty then as much as in the beginning. They may not like it at the time, but they will realize it in the future. In the past , I have found that when I have been honest with the guys I broke up with, we still remained friends, To this day, I can see one of my ex's and still speak, give friendly hug, smile, and have a cordial ...

0 Comments, 15 Views, 138 Votes ,8.28 Score
gckscpl 52 C
4  Articles
where did it go wrong?   11/5/2003

okay, this is years old now, but yet it feels like yesterday. We had a woman living with us. We both were falling for her. She had a place in our heart as well as our home. we took her in when her husband kicked her out. I am not sure if she was wanting something more stable and presentable in public or what? She started seeing another man, that was married and was a neighbor of her ...

1 Comments, 81 Views, 86 Votes ,4.22 Score
Cameron9909 42 M
2  Articles
How to best do it   11/5/2003

What's the easiest way to break up with a girl? I've been seeing a girl for only a few months but its just not working out. We dont seem to click at all but I dont think she really knows that. She's very nice and I dont want to hurt her. Any suggestions would be grateful.

0 Comments, 5 Views, 62 Votes ,5.99 Score
Breaking up with a girl that claims she will never let you go   11/4/2003

How do you break up with a girl that says that you two will be together no matter what. If you tell her that you want to break up with her and she says "no, we aren't breaking up" What do you do. If you walk out of her house and leave she calls your phone. She calls constantly. She comes over. She still tells people that the two of you are together. How do you handle that situation

0 Comments, 7 Views, 46 Votes ,5.89 Score
Re: Cheater's   11/3/2003

I think you should just give up on the girl, this make's 3 time's she has cheated on you already. It would be a different story if you were both in the life style of swinging, then you would both be getting pleased at the same time.

0 Comments, 5 Views, 1 Votes ,5.00 Score
shaft2003isback 49 M
4  Articles
Giving her back her stuff   11/3/2003

If you ever get in a situation where you have to return items back to a girl you dated, send it postage due. Nothing says go to hell better than having to pay .40 cents in postage.

0 Comments, 4 Views, 0 Votes
breakin up is easy and fun to do.............   10/30/2003

Breaking up is an art form. You want to let the person down easily but get your point across that you don't want to be seen in the same state as said person for as long as you live.

0 Comments, 16 Views, 1 Votes ,5.00 Score
affair ended   10/29/2003

I was abandoned by my married girlfriend last week. We were suppose to be great friends and able to tell each other anything. She decided to end our 5 + years affair. I didn't have a warning from her and it hurt deeply. I asked her why she didn't talk to me about it she said she didn't know how to end our relationship. She said she loves me but she can't do it anymore, I am ok with that ...

0 Comments, 15 Views, 106 Votes ,8.32 Score
Re: Cheaters   10/27/2003

take it from a woman that went through her husband cheating through out our whole 13 years of marriage, once i found out about him doing it to me, i just had to return the favor, get out before you get into the relationship way too deep, she will continue to cheat on you as long as your together

0 Comments, 16 Views, 105 Votes ,6.87 Score
What's a girl to do?   10/27/2003

Now tell me , what are you to do when you think your man is cheating but you have no proof ??? first off I think fuck get even, don't hurt!do I just do my own thing and play are should I say have fun!!!!!!!!Toy

0 Comments, 15 Views, 44 Votes ,5.54 Score
wannanow1000 59 F
1  Article
the hardest thing to do iz to let go   10/27/2003

I like to write, so here it goes... I have found out very recently that no matter what you do in a relationship, sometymes it's not good enough... If you find yourself in a relationship that iz going no where, and seems to be offering you nothing in return then why be there... Jerry Springer say's you can't force your partner to love you, you can't force your partner not to cheat on you... ...

0 Comments, 7 Views, 40 Votes ,6.27 Score
eaglemaster01 41 M
11  Articles
the hardest break ups.   10/25/2003

I have to say that the hardest breakups are those which require you to break up with someone that you really do love but you realize that your lifestyles jsut dont match. For example I dated this mormon girl, and anyone that knows mormons knows their lifestyle, and I loved to drink smoke gamble and all kinds of things that were wrong to her religion. After about a year and a half of dating ...

2 Comments, 44 Views, 70 Votes ,7.62 Score
Cheaters   10/24/2003

Okay, so my girlfriend have been dating for over 2.5 years now. A year ago, she told me that she had cheated on me. . twice. I forgave her though and told her that I loved her and wanted to make it work. Recently, she's gotten rather "adventurous" and wanted to play with other people with me. I told her I didn't think it was such a good idea because things like that can ruin a ...

0 Comments, 20 Views, 63 Votes ,7.92 Score
Re: Should I break up or cheat   10/21/2003

I feel you should break it off with your ex, even though the sex is better now then it was before. Woman hurt worse when they find out their man has been cheating on them. Be honest with her at least, tell her about the other women and see where it goes from there. You may be shocked to hear that she wouldn't mind that going on, as long as you didn't do it behind her back.

0 Comments, 13 Views, 63 Votes ,6.77 Score
Is it worth it?   10/20/2003

I have been in my current relationship for 12 year's now. I divorced my first husband due to the fact that he cheated on me and I found out he was cheating when I walked in on him in my own house. Of course he was the one that left and I was stuck persueing the divorce out of my own pocket. Well, back to my current situation. My lover would love dearly to have a women join us in bed, I have ...

0 Comments, 42 Views, 36 Votes ,6.26 Score
When you get dumped   10/16/2003

Why do women love you and then . Just dump out of the Blie. This thas just happed to. And now its like I never was. I am shit to her. Any women out ther that would like to let me know. Please do so. PA Dumped

2 Comments, 58 Views, 62 Votes ,4.77 Score
divorce and the court system   10/16/2003

I have a soon to be Ex-wife, that started a fight, shoving and choking, while i tried to keep her at arms length. she then tried to hit with a closed fisted, i restrained her by grabbing both arms at the biceps area. she screamed and yelled, called me a fucking bastard, at which time i let her go. she ran and called the police, they came, took statements frome each and examined each for ...

0 Comments, 43 Views, 39 Votes ,7.88 Score
1/5th   10/15/2003

A gentleman I know told me the perfect way to break up with a stubborn woman. Slam down a 1/5th of whiskey, and tell her to fuck off. The only problem with this particular fellow, that he mentioned after the story, was it was the bosses . <br> I don't care how hot the slut is, DO NOT EVER DATE the bosses . ESPECIALLY if they are Italian. I know Itailian women are ...

0 Comments, 9 Views, 36 Votes ,6.43 Score
CaliBoy365 39 M
1  Article
Watch out for Study Abroad! It will kill your relationship   10/15/2003

So this "article" is for all you people out there with a significant other who are about to embark on a foreign exchange program, study abroad or whatever; or for those who have a significant who is about to leave. <br> No matter how much you are in love with this person... the time apart is completely damaging to any relationship, unless of course the other person is going on a ...

0 Comments, 5 Views, 23 Votes ,6.28 Score
Why Do Women do this?   10/13/2003

If you are happy with someone, why do you think you have date others because you "think" it may be greener on the other side? Anybody you meet may be better in one way or another...sometime you eventually need to be happy with what you have. <br> I started dating a younger girl, I was 23 and she was yes there was an age difference there, however I am very mature, yet ...

0 Comments, 10 Views, 58 Votes ,8.53 Score
bendover1975 49 M
1  Article
re: is devorce the answer   10/10/2003

My advice to you is to just leave her alone. One of two things will happen when you do this. Number one she will be happy that you are leaving her alone and get on with her life as you should yours. Or number two she'll be scared that you are getting on with your life and she will come to you because she misses you. <br> You may have never thought of this but you might be too ...

0 Comments, 2 Views, 25 Votes ,6.45 Score
HAndH247 45 M
1  Article
Preminisions...   10/2/2003

So the other night I was fooling around with a girl that I have been seeing for a month or so... We were just about ready to get it on, and everything was going great... Well I got this really cold chill up my spine and then in the back of my head I felt like I was being watched... I felt so weird that I lost my erection... The odd thing was I looked at her clock at that same moment and ...

0 Comments, 2 Views, 52 Votes ,6.53 Score
Sometimes the best revenge...   9/25/2003

If your wife leaves you for another man, sometimes the best revenge is to let him have her.

0 Comments, 39 Views, 3 Votes ,5.39 Score
Nicepackage4a69 55 M
1  Article
RE:Ex Fiance Seeing another guy   8/31/2003

I know what you mean. well sort of. My ex fiance had to move because of my ex-wife being a total nut case! She told me that she couldn't handle all the stress and she still loved me and wanted to "date". Of course I took this as total rejection and broke it off completly, which sometimes I regrete ;o( <br> I don't call her or stop by her apartment like she wanted me to. But at ...

0 Comments, 15 Views, 56 Votes ,6.20 Score
leefleeper 60 M
1  Article
Time   8/17/2003

I had a tempestuous and deeply passionate relationship that we both allowed to continue for over 3 years whilst still knowing that it would never be forever. <br> Over a year down the line after taking the plunge, (I changed all my telephone numbers and returned all letters), I now feel free and happy again. Thank heavens for time, because TIME is the only cure, TIME AWAY. ...

0 Comments, 38 Views, 43 Votes ,6.86 Score
re re caught between 2   7/29/2003

I too was in a similar situation and had some great advise. NEVER leave someone for someone else. The grass may look greener, but what kind of trust can you two ever have? A relationship is built upon trust and communciation. You may have great communication, but the tinge of doubt will be there the first time there is a problem. It is OK to divorce, but not for someone you think you want! ...

0 Comments, 52 Views, 24 Votes ,6.65 Score
meatman5130 73 M
1  Article
MEN OR ABUSE TO   7/27/2003


0 Comments, 6 Views, 33 Votes ,1.40 Score
lovtolickalot 61 M
0  Articles
WHAT HAPPENED   7/5/2003

I met this lady oct, 19th 2002.Well she is a very beautiful woman from guam. she was so sweet and we had so uch fun together on our first date. Me being weak hearted felt a trong attraction right away.I sense she feels the same. Well we were together everyday from day one. Two weeks into this relationship she leaves myhouse one day to go home and get ready to go out to dinner well she neer ...

0 Comments, 23 Views, 27 Votes ,5.03 Score
1984 is here !!   5/20/2003

As you look into your screen and read this, remember the book 1984? well it's here and should have just as well been called 2004, i notice alot of people breaking up now, marriages falling apart alot more and faster these days, and there is always someone who pushes for this, but in the end, your life is pretty much the same but now just lonely and heart broken, and here we ALL are whoring ...

0 Comments, 19 Views, 73 Votes ,7.25 Score
Not an actual break up   5/4/2003

I've been dating a great guy for the last ten months. He's my first love, the first person I've ever had strong feelings for. Although I am young, I have had a lot of relationships. Before him I used to sleep around. I was horrible. But after I started dating him, I changed. I no longer liked the person I was. I was ashamed. I've never slept with my boyfriend. The reason? At first when we ...

0 Comments, 45 Views, 62 Votes ,5.49 Score
re;; leigh 's article..   4/24/2003

sounds like its his loss, and i suspect its because of his selfishness, ,, , selfishness usually is part of a maturity issue, , there are always some of us that have some human compassion reguarding anothers feelings, , also there is a similar situation and that is the one thats a control freak, , i think both may be linked to a self security deficet!!!johnfrend

0 Comments, 12 Views, 29 Votes ,7.15 Score
Riddleking 48 M
0  Articles
Part of the "Whys"...   4/19/2003

First there's the shock, then there's the "oh shit" . Then comes the begining registration that it's seriously over. It doesnt matter whether it was 2 months or 20 years, if you were in love, even a little, it's like the world just ended. <br> I'd love to say that love isn't measureable, and actually it's not, but to say that a relationship ending after 1 year is the same is ...

0 Comments, 32 Views, 42 Votes ,7.78 Score
RE: Ex Fiance Seeing another guy   4/16/2003

Hey Man I think is time tomove up. It will hurt you more as more time you spend wth her and more she talk about the other guy, I have been in that place with my first girlfriend. But Later I understand that we love each other but not in the way of being partners for a Long time relationship. <br> I Stop seeing her ad my second advice is do not felt in love with your next girl, go ...

0 Comments, 7 Views, 18 Votes ,4.76 Score
rm_HAMMER82604 46 M
0  Articles
Fallen into a pit of despair!!!   4/14/2003

I met her a little over three years ago and was completely taken aback not only by her beauty but her awesome personality. Having been very outspoken from the gate I soon dubbed her whisper (like calling a big man tiny). A name that has stuck to this very day! We began hanging out and before long we were the best of friends, and then on on glorious night I put my fear and anxieties ...

0 Comments, 69 Views, 22 Votes ,6.25 Score
I guess my man has a membership here.... (cheating men)   3/20/2003

I have no membership to this website, but the man I have been with for the last two years seems to know about it. I found this website on the computer with his description of what type of "quickie" he is looking for or "secret relationship" just to have fun. I might have to agree slightly with the woman who says "every man cheats" except I would say more like 90% of men cheat. I know there ...

0 Comments, 42 Views, 107 Votes ,7.42 Score
Re Bi-polar   3/17/2003

I know what you mean, I had been married for 27 year, (she walked out in the early morning the day after our 27 Aniversary) she lost one of her dogs some 12 years ago and went into such depression, she was diagnosed as Manic Depressive, (Bi-Polar) she would not go out, she be came Anorexic, no interest in life, sex, our relationship, etc, etc. During this 12 year she has tried to kill ...

0 Comments, 33 Views, 17 Votes ,6.10 Score
uncles are backstabbers too.   2/28/2003

i was going out with my ex girlfriend when i found out that my uncle had eyes for my girlfriend and that he her and then she broke up with me to go out with him because she said a she had was his but the test came back that the is mine but he owes me money but won't give it to me.

0 Comments, 62 Views, 27 Votes
A Very Hard Decision   2/18/2003

I met a very nice guy on AdultFriendFinder in June of 2002. He was everything I had wished for. Very much a true gentleman except for one thing. I just recently found out he was married. He swore to me that he was widowed and that he had no one else in his life. He also told me he lived in a town 75 miles from my home and I found out he only lives 41 miles from me. I know I should have seen all ...

0 Comments, 7 Views, 39 Votes ,7.23 Score
hotcouple4u2abc 42 C
1  Article
you cant trust women either   1/24/2003

i was seein an absolute angel for ten months, she treated me so well, and we thought the world of each other, during the summer she went to ibiza and i didnt contact her for a few days, she got back and we rowed about my emotional detachment, i have spent the last few months feeling guilty and thinking that i have hurt hr, she begun to see a new guy and he didnt want a relationship, she ...

0 Comments, 39 Views, 34 Votes ,6.74 Score
honeygingermilk 39 F
2  Articles
15 minutes or 2minutes   1/22/2003

I am facing a dilemma. I have broken up with my ex. Our sex was awesome and to be honest it was the best I had ever had, He knew exactly how to suck my breast and how to make me cum continously by licking my clit and the threesomes were awesome. I am sick of the other areas of our life not clicking. Why must it be this way, now I have what seems to be a nice man but i must train him to ...

1 Comments, 68 Views, 42 Votes ,7.16 Score
so sad   1/12/2003

My girlfriend for the last few months was not able to truthfully tell her family that we were dateing, instead she told them I was stalking her. So last week they took her to the cops, where she told them the truth. But later that day I was to pick her up where she and her mom work, the mom saw me and ran in screeming call the cops, call the cops. They came, city not county, they had ...

0 Comments, 16 Views, 19 Votes
The unclean break.   12/28/2002

There has already been a response to the 'coward' comment, but it wasn't quite deep enough. If you rail on someone when they have presented a vulnerability, especially if you use their disclosure as a weapon, don't be surprised if they decide to leave you. This guy said he was afraid to talk to you, and you used it as ammunition against him. This guy was apparently right to walk away- ...

0 Comments, 45 Views, 32 Votes ,7.55 Score
rm_jwwt15 48 M
1  Article
What did I do wrong?   12/26/2002

I was in the Army for 12 years. I suffer from several disabilities now. The majors are migraines and kidney disease. I have been out of the army now for 3 years and it has been nothing but pure hell. I could not keep a job, wife had to start full time work to support us. I receive disability now from VA but that was not enough to make her happy I guess. I found a job that supplies a house ...

0 Comments, 50 Views, 36 Votes ,4.96 Score
Can you really cheat an honerable person?   12/8/2002

I have noticed as I'm going thru a drawn out break-up how important the "cheat" is. It truly to me was. I relentlessly pursued these truths in a varity of methods. All proved something else was .(a new in another state)etc. All of the discoveries hurt me on a wide range and each was about the ability to betray. And continue as if nothing could wrong. All the painfull levels of these deeds ...

0 Comments, 18 Views, 126 Votes
i don't know why my wife left me for an 63 yearold man ?   12/4/2002


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... a response to being dumped on,,   11/30/2002

.... i read with much interest the article from the woman that just went through the hell of being dumped on, , as i have been through the same thing, , i thought i was part of a growing relationship for 2 years, and my significant other met someone at a convention and in a month it was all over , , it has been very hurtful for me, , obviously, this is a very tender and unselfish woman ...

2 Comments, 26 Views, 547 Votes