Reset Password
If you've forgotten your password, you can enter your email address below. An email will then be sent with a link to set up a new password.
Reset Link Sent
If the email is registered with our site, you will receive an email with instructions to reset your password. Password reset link sent to:
Check your email and enter the confirmation code:
Don't see the email?
  • Resend Confirmation Link
  • Start Over
If you have any questions, please contact Customer Service
Sex at the Beach and more...
Fun, Fucking, Sucking and fun in and around L.A. ..

This is our City of Angels (and Porn Stars)!!! Have you ever wondered what’s is really going on here in Sexland what we call Los Angeles which is the "Internet" and "Movie" Porn capital of the world?

My blog (hopefully) will be funny, witty, enjoyable and informative with my tilted perceptions on and about really nothing except various meandering thoughts and open conversations about living life here in the Porn capital of the world, Los Angeles (okay ..really the San Fernando Valley)!

Lucky for me, much of my time is spent out driving about in and around Los Angeles. From the trendy areas of Silverlake/Echo Park and Downtown LA to the Glitzy Westside areas of Pacific Palisades and Brentwood to the conservative Palos Verdes Peninsula.

Every neighborhoood around LA has its own lifestyle to speak!!!

So truly my hope is that we can enjoy this exercise together and please be constructive in your comments!!!

Keywords | Title View | Refer to a Friend |
Football season is over...
Posted:Feb 15, 2022 9:02 pm
Last Updated:Feb 28, 2024 3:40 am
Sunday, my city (okay an adjacent city Inglewood) hosted the Super Bowl. This last week was crazy, with extremely insane traffic and filled restaurants in an around where I live here at the beach. The tourist, most from somewhere else who were willing to spend the for multi-thousand dollar tickets for the SuperBowl.

I share season seats at Sofi (Section 3) and also have Arizona Cardinals seats in Arizona. So spending a few hundred dollars for a seat is not out of the ordinary yet spending 5K for a seat is insane (let alone 45K for one). Maybe I am old fashioned and conservative in this area.
COVID 19 - Sex and Dating in the time of a pandemic
Posted:May 23, 2020 12:02 pm
Last Updated:Feb 28, 2024 3:40 am
Perhaps it is my age, perhaps it is just common sense or as a few friends have said maybe it's stupidity. Turning down several sex partners over the last 8 or so weeks has had a strange impact on (and my relationship with potential partners). Finding myself isolated and playing here online, the opportunity fuck (suck and cuddle for 1 woman in particular) has presented itself more than a dozen times.

Yes, most of these are women that have been met here online and a few are from previous connections and prior trysts. For me, while getting my cock sucked and ridden by a tight (or loose) pussy is truly enjoyable and needed by all. Yet, in the nature of my business even during the pandemic you will find me all over this city of Los Angeles interacting with vendors, and sometime their customers. My concern is the older generation of men and women, that come into contact with me. Some have underlying health issues (cancer issues, liver issues) and some are just not taking care of themselves (weight, blood pressure, diabetes).

For me, the possibility of a great sex partner for fun and truly desired (and will say needed sex) is tempered by the fact many others could be at risk with me sliding my hard cock into a mouth, pussy or tight ass. My orgasm and explosion and the cum release; that relaxed feeling afterwards and my desire to pleasure can't overcome the personal responsibility we have to others health.

Yes, those of you with steady partners are having a great time. In some countries like Denmark, they advised that locked-down singles find “sex buddies.” Perfect thought. They know we need that physical touch. Whereas In New York, Los Angeles and other U.S. cities, however, officials recommended masturbation, and suggested avoiding sexual contact with people in other households. “You are your safest sex partner,” according to guidelines in New York and Los Angeles. “The next safest partner is someone you live with.” Well I am not that lucky (or maybe very lucky) to have a live in sex partner.

It has been fun to flirt and chase online, sadly for me there has been no culmination of bodies kissing, sucking and fucking, hot and sweaty, fully exhausted from sex and satisfied.

Scamming women is his job....
Posted:Feb 5, 2020 8:32 pm
Last Updated:Jun 28, 2021 7:58 am
Most of these men live in poorer countries around the world where jobs that pay well are scarce. He’s learned that by working a couple of hours each day, he can easily communicate with women in the U.S., find their weak spots and make a fortune.He’ll probably speak with a British accent that sounds so romantic especially to American women. He knows this and uses it to his advantage to hook you.4. What he’ll tell you about himself

He’ll have a romantic name like Valentino or Antonio. His picture online is usually drop dead gorgeous in a romantic sort of way. And he uses this knowing you’ll feel special being contacted by someone this handsome.Look closely at those pictures. They are often shots found on the internet of handsome models in ads selling items like hats or sunglasses. Or he’s holding a product in his hand like beer or wine. Or he might be standing in front of an unusual looking building or an expensive car. When you ask for more pictures, he’ll send family pictures of or grandchildren.

The big tip-off: he’s not in these family pictures because he can’t find any more pics of the model’s image he’s used.

Fucking one woman ..reprinted
Posted:Mar 7, 2019 11:11 pm
Last Updated:Feb 28, 2024 3:40 am
Yes my blog has been neglected. Shoot is my fault for not updating.

Amazing as it seems, I have been fucking only one woman over the last 60+ days. She is a sweetie and fun to fuck too! Yes, she is about 5'5 and 5-0 lbs, nice smile and cute figure. These are important, but the most important thing to me is that she is not one who is crowding me in and around my home, has her own life and is not interested in cramping my lifestyle!!!

Amazing ..of course we men sometimes find negative things in the women in our life or their "limitations", so I will tell you what I have found. Over the last couple of months, it seems that my cock has not "yet" exploded in her cute mouth!!! As much as I want to hard in her mouth, it has not yet happened. Maybe someone here can train her to take my cock deep inside her throat, slowly up and down while stroking me to orgasm....

Just recently (two - three weeks) the "Filipino" has been in contact (both she and I 'ing and calling). My black cock has gotten extremely hard and it has even exploded (with me stroking it..not her) thinking (or dreaming) of three or four other black and extremely hung men having her choke on their cocks orally and then cumming on her face. Not sure why this gets me aroused and has helped me explode some nights....

Yes, my experience cumming in a partners mouth has been limited by the fact it has only happened only a few times (two or three) in my lifetime. Not that it needs to happen, it would be nice to have a perfect sex life with this new partner and have all three (3) holes working my cock well and performing to perfection!!!!

What are your thoughts[/size4]

Is sex considered...a weight loss method?
Posted:Mar 5, 2019 7:38 am
Last Updated:Oct 19, 2019 12:10 am
Of course it must be, since for the most part we are exerting energy beyond just sitting in a chair and reading the paper!

Here are a few benefits of sex...other than the obvious one(s)....

Lose Weight
On average, sex burns about five calories per minute, depending upon your weight (I know I thought is was more). Even giving your significant other a hot kiss boosts your heart rate, which in turn increases your body’s caloric burn. Next time you’re too busy to work out, call you partner and get busy instead.

Look Younger
A study, done by Royal Edinburgh Hospital in Scotland, of 3,500 people between ages 30 and 101 found that regular sex may shave between four and seven years off your physical appearance. What’s the connection between youthfulness and getting it on? In addition to boosting self-esteem and confidence, sex increases the production of human growth hormone, which is known to improve muscle tone. So ladies remember sex=youthfulness!!!

In a study by the University of Paisley in Scotland (what is the Scottish focus on sex?) , 46 men/women were asked to give speeches to an audience who was told to act like they didn’t care, unbeknownst to the speakers. Afterwards, the participants’ blood pressure was taken & those who had sex within the last two weeks had the lowest readings. I think we ALL knew about this fact (laughing).

Maintain a Healthy Heart
In the Journal of the American College of Cardiology, a study showed that men who reportedly had three or more orgasms per week experienced 50% fewer heart attacks/strokes as compared with those who had less frequent orgasms. Sex may help the heart because orgasm triggers the release of the hormone DHEA, which helps with circulation and arterial dilation.

Live Longer
A study in the British Medical Journal found that men who had sex less than once per month were more likely to die in the next 10 years than those who had sex once a week. Researchers at Duke University found that women who enjoy their sex lives, lived 7 to 8 years longer than women who were indifferent to sex.

I really wonder if the exercise angle to sex is worth all the bother, since there are many other reasons including pleasure to enjoy it....

Top Sexual Fantasies for Men...
Posted:Mar 3, 2019 12:28 am
Last Updated:Mar 3, 2019 12:35 am
According to sexperts, and I truly wonder if they really are, men's sexual fantasies range from the conventional to the edgy. Around this site many just seem normal.

The nature of sexual fantasies is that they push the boundaries a bit, letting you imagine situations that occur infrequently, if at all, and exploring the depths of your and my desires. Fantasies are fantasies because they are not reality — they are often taboo or rub up against social barriers. Men tend to have core thematic fantasies that they can return to again and then there are fantasies that men would enjoy in the way they surf TV, exploring what catches their eye or their mood

Putting Your Partner in Charge
Perhaps one of the simplest of men's sexual fantasies is just having your sexual partner directing the sex script for the night. Whether it is a full-on dominatrix or simply a woman who knows what she wants and how to get it, many men find the thrill of a confident and sexual woman to be very appealing,
It can be tiresome to always feel like the pursuer. Feeling pursued can be a very sexy change, and it can also be a huge ego boost.

Oral Sex
The most common men's sexual fantasies are about your partners doing things they wouldn't ordinarily do. This one was really common: like the wife doing oral sex if she didn't do oral sex! Best news? No expensive props required.

Question? What could be better than one woman? Two is always the answer. At least, that's what the heterosexual men seem to believe. Chances are good that dreaming about a threesome (or, as it's called in French, ménage à trois) is on the list of most men's sexual desires. However, if you are able to find a universal answer for the next question,how do I get my lover to participate in a threesome...we can retire rich!

Anal Sex
Coming. or should I say cum(ing) in third among men's sexual fantasies is having anal sex with a partner who doesn't usually (or ever) do it. How do I get my girlfriend to enjoy anal sex? is another question that comes up often among men everywhere! Why is it that men fantasize about what they aren't getting? Dozens of sex manuals, videos and even websites can help partners who want to live out this fantasy and do so in a fun, safe and pleasurable way.

Watching others

As my personal favorite, me like I am sure Many other men are titillated by watching women pleasure other women and sometime other men too! Voyeurism in general is near the top of the list of men's sexual fantasies. It can be combined with other fantasies, including watching your significant other with another sexual partner or masturbating to orgasm, or even discovering other people in flagrante delicto. It seems that many modern sexual fantasies come from watching porn, but the drawback to that is often isolation. Sadly too many Men are experiencing their fantasies by watching them instead of sharing them or role playing. That works out ..more for me and you!

Many men enjoy sexual fantasies in which the man is more of a passive player. A lot of men enjoy being submissive, It runs contrary to the way they experience their lives outside of the bedroom. They enjoy being tied up, teased, tantalized, and spanked even some extend this theme with the fantasy in which a man's anus is penetrated by his lover, male or female. That’s a bit much yet it happens more often than naught!

Performing sexually in a public setting is also among men's sexual fantasies. Fantasies about having sex in public and being watched or discovered can fuel men's sexual desires. This is one area in which men and their partners should be careful about acting out fantasies. Sex and nudity in public places can lead to serious legal consequences. Videotaping sex play for later viewing could provide the same kind of titillation with less risk.

For some men, the fantasy of having total power over their partner in a sexual situation can be quite arousing. These types of men's sexual fantasies might also include bondage and sadomasochistic elements that blend pain with sexual arousal. These sexual desires might also merge into fantasies of role playing, exhibitionism, and voyeurism, depending on how you script them.


Men's sexual fantasies often include fetishes. A fetish can involve any number of body parts, such as feet, or objects, such as your lover's underwear. Often, men's sexual fantasies are wrapped up in things that typically aren't included in their sex play. Fantasy is the perfect opportunity to safely experiment with how these fetishes could be included in your lovemaking.

Role Play
For some, a strong men's sexual fantasy involves dressing up and playing out new roles and story lines. Heterosexual men might favor the character parts of strong men encountering attractive women.

Romance scams rank number one on total reported losses
Posted:Feb 27, 2019 4:57 pm
Last Updated:Feb 28, 2024 3:40 am
Scams that prey on people's loneliness,horniness and overall emotional vulnerability cost Americans more money than any other fraud reported to the Federal Trade Commission in 2018. Last year more than 21,000 people reported, and my guess it's twice that amount sent money to potential lovers -- to the tune of $143 million, the FTC reported earlier this week.

The victims who were swindled most often? Those between the ages of 40 and 69. Was that you or one of your friends?

An Old friend is stopping by to visit
Posted:Feb 18, 2019 10:46 pm
Last Updated:Feb 28, 2024 3:40 am

Would be too much to overthink that she wants to fuck?
Who is your fantasy? Your Hall Pass?
Posted:Feb 17, 2019 10:54 pm
Last Updated:Feb 28, 2024 3:40 am
Yesterday, Saturday, after running a few errands I stopped to have a cup of tea in the Palisades. While I was waiting for my order I looked up and literally ran into my fantasy woman. Amelia! I’ve watched this woman grown from a in an 50s setting English movie, to dating several a list actors who seemingly tore her heart out, have the lead actress in an academy award nominated movie, recently she is on Tv and ended up having a baby a few years ago with a guy she won’t let the public know who ( keeps his anonymity which is honorable).

Way back, what is funny, like back in the late 90s I was dating Regina (the sexy artist), Our agreement was this actress Amelia would be my “hall pass”. About 8 months into Regina and my relationship, right about when things were getting a little rocky, we ended up at an art opening for one of Reginas classmates at Claremont College, and guess who was standing next to me.... yes Amelia with along with her sister. She was at the art opening back in the 90s just as personable and friendly as she was at the coffee shop Saturday. Such a Beautiful smile, yes, it may sound goofy for me to pass on Jenna, or Christy or even Olivia... for me I’m smitten with Minnie Driver.

So who is your HallPass?

play before we play...
Posted:Feb 16, 2019 3:06 pm
Last Updated:Feb 17, 2019 9:30 am
Weds night is usually the night that is reserved for issues or catching up on the ever increasing backlog of DVR shows my schedule won’t allow me to see live. This past Wednesday one of my had asked me if my schedule was open to see a play “Linda Vista” downtown. Of course I’m always open for live theater especially one being staged at the Mark Taper at the music center with a !

While heading downtown on the train (metro line expo) my informed me that she could not attend and her friend Kathryn would be coming in her stead. Luckily, Kathryn is someone I’ve met a few times and even spent some time with at parties and at a concert (Greek theater) with friends. What I remembered most about her is that she had a great sense of humor, albeit a bit dry. Exiting the train at Grand Park, my phone got a text that she was already at the theater, my gosh this women is very considerate of my time or just anal about being prompt. Kathryn is 5’2 ish, in heels, yes she is quite petite,well in fact I mean tiny. At the Greek Theater concert I remember her hands holding a wine glass and her hands were sized like little girl hands with older mature person wrinkles on them. Naturally, her hair color is brunette yet, has hair color has varied from red to blonde. As a mid level executive in the TV business, she can also be ballsy and tough. One TV show she worked on “The B (itch) in 23” was cancelled after a season and it was rumored due to her toughness with one of the lead actresses agent.

Upon reaching the theater, Kathryn was sitting at a table with an umbrella since it was raining on an off most of the day it was a smart move. Kathryn was wearing a long heavy winter overcoat, you know those we rarely see here in Southen California with our usually fabulous mid 70s and clear weather. Her smile and eyes both greeted me seconds before her voice did. After a quick hug and I made a comment about her now salt and pepper hair color and style. She smiled and we turned and walked to the box office to pick up our tickets at “will call” and walked in.

When helping Kathryn remove her overcoat, it shocked me how really tiny and sexy she is when that overcoat came off. My gosh, it was amazing gazing at her body.. the cute shape; sweet and tiny and curvy just in the right places! Her round perky breasts were accentuated by the dark brown and cream colored dress she was wearing. We grabbed a program to share and made small talk while looked over the leading actors and to see if we knew the understudies. We talked, it was light and easy, mostly about what is happening now with us. We were friendly and interacted with our seat mates and got ready for the play.

The play was wonderfully staged and playwrite has had a couple of successful plays including August: Osage County. Which became a movie. Maybe since the content was a bit risqué with actual nudity and simulated (maybe not) sex scenes and a lot of sexual innuendo, intermission for Kathryn and myself was a little bit, actually very much a lively discussion with another couple regarding the sex scenes in the play.

Sometime during the second half of the play, Kathryn’s hand seem to drift and plant on my left knee. It’ was a slight and gentle and also quite sweet. Very comfortable. The action was friendly enough. With me being so focused on the play I did not give it a second thought; until that thought finally crossed my mind, yes I am slow when I’m focused on something else. It was about maybe ten minutes later when she had moved the position of her (now wandering) hand and those massaging fingers. Her hand and moving fingers eventually ended up alternating between my left thigh and leg. What for a few seconds, maybe milliseconds it seemed like a dream montage finally came into focus as a reality. The feeling of this woman running her fingers across my leg and inner thigh as if we were in a private booth or on a couch got my dick rock hard. It was sweet in some ways and yet very sensual/sexual and intimate although we were sitting in a theater with a few hundred other people
... to be continued

Stamina or technique?
Posted:Feb 8, 2019 11:45 pm
Last Updated:Feb 8, 2019 11:47 pm
The last few times my cock was... used, enjoyed, shared or borrowed this mind of mine has drifted back in time. Almost like a endless loop videotape with a play by play comparison of my young days in my 20s and 30s to today, all the while my cock is deep inside a wet pussy.

Yes, this is my admission that the last few times my hard (not as hard as in my 20s) black cock was working a tight,loose, large or small pussy my mind was not here in the present was off somewhere in the past, comparing my skill level today with my stamina of yesteryear and days gone by. Not that you, myself or even that big(ger-est) dick swinging stud you knew when you were younger can use a time machine and actually compare stroke for stroke our talents gained from experience with our youthful stamina and enthusiasm from (great) days gone by.

Maybe it was the several pinay porn clips on porn hub or the Jewish BBC MILF movies or the interracial threesomes that reminded me of a privileged sexual upbringing by those older and experienced women. Those women, luckily knew enough to show me that taking time to touch and taste your partners pussy was just as important to enjoy before fucking it. That any male cock can fuck a pussy. Yet to be a man it was crucial to make sure your lover/sex partner enjoyed herself too. If you worked hard and made sure she was comfortable, trusting of your ability to please her and slowed down to a rhythm ..her rhythm sex would be wonderful and plentiful.... How right they were.

Sadly, my mind has not been completely focused on my last few sex partners. Maybe this is a wake of call for me to get back to the basics, the basics of pleasuring my partner orally and physically, before thinking of myself. Not that my pleasure in bed sexually has come first it’s my mind is somewhere else dreaming of great days of my youth that seemingly gone past in the wink of an eye.

It puts a smile on my face that acknowledging this issue is a good step toward correcting it...

Super Bowl Weekend... yawn
Posted:Feb 6, 2019 11:31 am
Last Updated:Feb 28, 2024 3:40 am
It’s been a while since I’ve taken a minute (or two) and write here. Life at this age is full/busy/challenging. Working /driving around all parts of this the city of angels does not help, can you think traffic nightmare...

This past weekend was the Super Bowl, yes while Los Angeles had a team playing (Rams), so you would naturally think I would be at the game with my sports connections. No, shocking to many of the people I know, I actually gave away my tickets (sold for my cost) to a friends and his buddy. I do hope they enjoyed the game. Well, if nothing else they went and experienced to excitement of the festivities.

For Myself, my Sunday was spent with one female friend hiking a few hours in the morning, just up the way in Pacific Palisades Santa Monica mountains (Temescul Canyon). Quite a nice way to start a day. Then took time in the late afternoon at the music center seeing a play by myself. Boring, yes... rejuvenating absolutely!

Over the next few week, I’ll start writing about a few of my sexual experiences over the last two or three months... no it’s not kiss and tell... the names are changed to protect their anonymity or not if they are here and have asked me to share....
Football, food and fucking...
Posted:Sep 1, 2018 10:15 pm
Last Updated:Sep 1, 2018 10:16 pm

Isn’t football season the best! The excitement of your favorite team getting on the field to play and hopefully to win the game. College football, NFL or even watching those friday night lights games with the other married, unmarried adults watching the play.

Today in Los Angeles with a 1pm pst kickoff USC played UNLV at the Memorial Coliseum, home of two Olympics and many concerts. Electricity and excitement. Before many of the games, there is “tailgating”. Maybe it’s an America College or a football tradition or a you must attend a tailgate party. Tailgate parties are or can be amazing. Great food that could be as simple as sandwiches and chips or catered with bbq, sushi and even grilled shrimp like the tailgate today at exposition park.

. Luckily, my afternoon did not end after the USC Trojans slid by those running rebels of the Nevada, Las Vegas campus. Women, this is one reason why this guy loves football season. There are so many unattached women everywhere. Yes, Single moms galore. While it might be true, some of these women are not single, they only seem to act that way. I’ve heard guys refer to a few of them as attention whores. Personally, let’s all agree they might just be popular women.

This afternoon, after the game, one of those popular girls made my game day activities a lot nicer. There is only one thing better than your team winning the game played and that is getting fucked good after a win. You gotta love football.

To link to this blog (sexaddictdon) use [blog sexaddictdon] in your messages.

66 M
February 2022
Sun Mon Tue Wed Thu Fri Sat

Recent Visitors

Visitor Age Sex Date
vinnyjet  34M3/10