I never thought she would say those words to me : I want a divorce. I was stunned,shocked and hurt. But now I am starting to see that for the first time in a long time I can have my life and freedom back. The pain is replaced by a new found sense of adventure. The hurt is replaced by an air of mystery about the future that is kind of scary but also liberating. So i close this chapter of my life and start a new one. Anyone out there care to help me write it?