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For the straight guys and gay girls.  

JuliaBiSlut 45T
36 posts
4/22/2019 8:45 am
For the straight guys and gay girls.

I meet most of my partners in the "traditional" way. Out at a bar, we notice each other, we chat over a drink, maybe dance a little bit, hopefully hit it off and both of us want more so we go home together (or to your car, or behind the dumpster, whatever. )
I've been a girl full time for a long time, so most people don't know my secret right away or even ever. So if you're the person hitting on me, when should I "come clean" to you.
Right away. I should always introduce myself "Hi, I'm Julia, and I have a penis"
Try and sneak it into the conversation as soon as it's obvious there's an interest
On the dance floor, before we start grinding
Before you call an Uber to take us back to your place
At your place, before the clothes come off
While I'm going down on you and looking up with my big green eyes
Just let you figure it out on your own


Nsafun2840 43M

4/22/2019 11:04 am

I think right up front is best policy


oraljim201 75M
7423 posts
4/22/2019 12:51 pm

figure it out on my own


jonilovebig 77M

4/22/2019 2:59 pm

when you feel you have an attraction for each other


newcuriousbivirg 57M
142 posts
4/22/2019 7:01 pm

Since it's a fantasy of mine to meet a woman like you and have her gently guide me down between her legs and then surprise my eager mouth with her surprise , I would have no problem finding out on my own. I would eagerly find out what it was like to have it grow and harden in my mouth before turning around and asking her to slowly and gently taking me from behind.


Heathen_G 65M
7974 posts
4/22/2019 7:51 pm

Highly suggest you tell the guy immediately. A straight man invites you out, and you don't tell him immediately, you could end up in the hospital. So better safe than hurt.

If he's fine with you being a gay man in drag, basically, then he was never straight to begin with.


JuliaBiSlut replies on 4/22/2019 8:44 pm:
Lol, well, I'm not a "gay man in drag", and I'm guessing if I were, this situation wouldn't be an issue (since my birth gender would be apparent). I'm a girl.

JuliaBiSlut 45T
14 posts
4/22/2019 8:57 pm

I should add that this is a situation I've been dealing with for almost all of my adult life, so I've developed a pretty good knack for navigating it successfully. There's definitely been some mishaps, too (never assume a guy knows!). I was curious what you all would think and am genuinely interested in what everyone has to say.


AllisonCD77 47T

4/26/2019 1:53 pm

As for me, that would be the icing on my cake, the cherry on my sundae finding out in the act would be a pleasant surprise!


cockinhand4uNow 60M
1373 posts
4/26/2019 9:53 pm

My first experience with a cock other than mine was with a trans woman. She was amazing. I didn’t know until we were making out and I reached down to get under her skirt and felt her cock. I was shocked but so turned On I just went with it. So glad I did


moralsSchmorals 46M
17 posts
4/27/2019 12:07 am

Maybe avoid clubs and bars where the men are going to assume you are anatomically a woman when you meet. There are tons of men who want you exactly as you are so there would be no need to have that conversation. My opinion. Other than that i would say something before or when there is that mutual connection and the potential for things going further becomes a real possibility. : D best of luck!


matalan14 30M

4/27/2019 3:35 am

Not the right person to answer, coz I dont meet anyone from there


JustinCaseNH4U 54M
1 post
4/27/2019 4:08 am

Julia, I Luv Trans Women So It Would Be No Issue When Ever You Decided To Tell Me About Your Secret

So For Me "While I'm going down on you and looking up with my big green eyes"
Is Really Super Hot

Justin ?*


Cuminmyfaceplea 56M

4/27/2019 8:46 pm

U shouldnt even havr to think of yhst becsuse u shouldnt do thst krrp thst dhit yo you kinda prople us normsl people dont want to fo snyyhing with freaks


Cuminmyfaceplea 56M

4/27/2019 8:48 pm

Shoulf i tell you i havr s gun right then or eait til were behind the dumpster?


JuliaBiSlut replies on 4/28/2019 6:18 am:
Lol, sorry me giving you a boner makes you so uncomfortable you then have to shoot me. You should probably work on that.

voyeur2017 61M  
1481 posts
5/9/2019 4:32 pm

I would vote to bring it into the conversation early on during the flirtation....its safer for you.....you don't want to deal with the drama on the Uber ride to his place and when he reaches to fondle your pussy...he finds a really engorged clit ~~ ya know..


lookingtoplay511 69M  
23 posts
6/13/2019 7:21 am

It would be great if during the conversation the flirting and gentle touches are sign of mutual attraction. Then you mention how special you are and see if the attraction continues.


amused704 60M
36 posts
7/29/2019 10:42 pm

I love the topic


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