This gracefully aging rock climber is looking for a woman who is outside the mainstream in her approach to life, who is independent, has kept her health, is height/weight proportionate, questions the indoctrination of the 4 P's (parents. politicians, professors, priests) and embraces an active lifestyle.. I'm quiet, university educated in a couple disciplines, well read, heterosexual, politically kind of progressive and not religious at all. Primarily a career woodworker/cabinetmaker and one-off bespoke furniture maker; in Las Vegas I specialized in very high end commercial finish carpentry and mill-work. Retired from the Carpenter's Union in 2010 and began to study trading options. It's a simple and thoughtful active lifestyle centered around rock climbing yet I'm always reading and researching. Can't remember the last time I partied; no bars, clubs or gambling. I like Jazz, blues, R&B, generally all music except tunes from the crooner/rat pack era; I can always predict the next chord progression. With snow sea approaching I'm thinking about some back country skiing. Late evenings, if alone, I'm catching up on the "narrative homework" aka financial news and data, I'll watch a video. The gym and climbing gym is on a regular schedule. I'm hiking and climbing a couple times a week. Course climbing by definition keeps you fit; I'm training for some challenging projects and a couple road trips in 2017. If you pause to consider how many men have 40+ years of rock climbing experience and are actively rock-climbing at this age you realize it's a very small percentage of the population. [B]Sex and emotion[/B]: inseparable in my mind. Casual one time sex just looses value quickly for me. An ongoing relationship has a lot more potential... at least that's my view. I have an active imagination and a wild side I'll show you once I'm comfortable with you. My modesty quotient is very low. I've met some very nice women on this site but, if it's the first time I write and you don't respond, it's assumed no interest. I'm here to actually meet people face to face. Generally, I like to meet in per after a few exchanges. If there is sexual energy in meeting I'll want to pursue that to see where it takes us. I'm earnest and decisive. And I deal with total strangers in a polite and caring way all the time. I don't chase. I don't play games. Let's agree to treat each other with care and respect. There is not so much of that going around that a little more will devalue it. I'm a gentleman. I'll treat you like a lady; then I'll try to treat you like you want to be treated. [I]"A sophisticated view of human reality takes account of the possibility that where there is love there is also some hate; where there is admiration, there is also some envy; where there is devotion, there is also some hostility; where there is success, there is also apprehension; it takes great wisdom to realize all feelings are legitimate; the positive, negative and ambivalent."[/I] From "Between Parent and " by Dr.Haim G. Ginott Tom

My Ideal Person I'm open to a variety of encounters but primarily I want to meet local women over 45 within 20 miles. If you are over 5'-7" ... height and weight proportionate, I might break my rules about writing only once and pursue you a bit.

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
Having sex in my SnugTop canopy under clear warm skies.
I've actually done this more than once.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Light Bondage, Role Playing, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Ability to be discreet, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, Creativity/Kinkiness level

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
No..most of their persona are fake.

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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