SINGLE MEN: PLEASE READ THE PROFILE FIRST. We only meet with SMs we don't know at LS parties, unless you have a girl to bring along. We both enjoy seeing each other having fun with others, so a single of either sex alone isn't as much fun for either of us. You are welcome to ask us what parties we attend. If your main profile pic is a dick pic, then you probably lost us already. Happily married and very secure couple of 30+ years. We are now empty nesters and can host. We generally do well with both experienced people and newbies. The sex is great, but we also really enjoy the social aspects of the lifestyle (LS). We are now comfortable in almost any LS situation, but we realize others may not be and that you have to feel comfortable in order to have fun. We seem to have a knack of making people feel comfortable. We do that by simply being ourselves and letting people move at their own pace. We get to play a lot, so we feel no need to push or pull anyone into anything. We enjoy playing with others that WANT to play with us because they enjoy our company and we enjoy theirs. Their is no jealousy between us because we genuinely enjoy seeing and hearing each other having fun with others. At this point we sort of view sex with others like vanilla people might view bowling. It's something fun to do with people that you enjoy being with. Just like bowling, just because it's fun, it doesn't mean we want to bowl all the time. There's also no worry that one of us is going home with someone else because they got a higher score ;-) Ironically we do enjoy bowling, both actually and metaphorically ;-) We also enjoy golf, going for a ride on the motorcycle, travel/sight seeing, dancing (ballroom), looking for bargains in antique/consignment shops, entertaining, cooking, making/canning our homemade salsa, home improvement projects, sci-fi and comedy movies, cards, and many other things that we enjoy sharing with others, besides ourselves of course. The male half does ALL of the on-line stuff, so emails and such that start off as, "Hey baby, you look sexy in your profile pic" tells me you didn't bother to read our profile. Expect to be ignored/blocked if you're a single guy and you better have a freaking hot wife otherwise...lol Been in the LS since Feb 2014 and have a number of experiences and still very actively enjoying it. We do occasionally have LS parties at our house ranging from 2-3 couples to 40+ people. It is only people we know and we do not advertise or charge. Send us an email if interested as we enjoy adding fresh fun faces (and other body parts) to the mix once we have met people in person and feel they'd be a good fit.. We have both been fully vaccinated since mid-May 2021 and boosted 6 months after that, if that matters to anyone.

My Ideal Person Local couples (within ~50 miles) that love sex as much as we do. Ones that are laid back and easy to talk to, not grossly overweight, use condoms when they play with others, and both enjoy seeing (or at least the thought of) their other half having a good time with others. If we do play, we like long playful sessions where BOTH play and are on the same page. Group friendly is a plus.

Blindfolds, bondage, and flogging/spanking are all cool, but "in addition to" and not "in place of" sex.

Nice if we can find FWBs that enjoy other things with us on occasion, like dinner, dancing, golf, a movie, playing cards, etc.

If you are a couple and you only play with girls or are looking to start girl on girl, then we are not a match. We will play with one half of a couple at a party, but ONLY if your other half knows and is OK with that, and we will need to hear that from them. We don't judge, but we don't knowingly play with cheaters. More of a karma thing for us.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Kissing

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual appetite

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

View more of mayhem8Too's responses