Its an odd request here but I’m too busy and just need a stable and monogamic (physically and mentally- connected) relationship.... I’m sticking here because the physical chemistry is more important than others and would like to encounter the possible pers. I am not interested in virtual one and would like to contact the real pers for the platonic meetings for the first time. I’m single w no s, full time professional. I’m plump and rather large as an Asian woman. ... anything else? Please ask by texts on message box or in blog articles. I don't check "chatting" at all.

My Ideal Person Unattached (no married or no separated) guy in 40s and 50s who are staying in my area (basically in Japan) more than a month.
Yes I know that they are rare in the AdultFriendFinder world but it is my prime preference.
...Sorry, I won’t read any message who is out of my criteria.

Similars (in shape, social status etc) are more acceptable but I don’t figure them out from texts. Let us see our chemistry by a meeting with coffee or wine.

I am too busy to chat at all, FYI. Please communicate some topics over the blog or email... though I may not check them that often either and please allow me to reply sooo delayed.

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
Want a guy who can practice a sort of tantra style...who
do not fuck toward his coming but know the ecstasy higher
than that, OR want to have two or more men alternatively
on one night. I (my pussy) cannot get satisfied with one
quick cum. I need to feel a real hot hard and thick cock in
me for long hours.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A bed, The middle of a park, An airplane, A dark back alley, A movie theatre, A remote wilderness spot, Under a waterfall, My desk at work, An elevator, A hotel room

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Light Bondage, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Sexual appetite

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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