I was a 42 year old virgin, who never let men become more than friends, simply because I was morbidly obese. I was bullied through my school years, and this made me believe no-one would find me attractiive - so I gave up, and became larger. I've now lost a lot of weight (42 kgs/92lbs), and while still a ways away from my goal, I'm seeing a new woman emerge. This woman feels sexy, and she wants to be seen as that. So tell me if you see the sexy woman coming through, and tell me what you could do for her...

My Ideal Person My ideal person, would be a man with solid experience, who could really introduce me to the part of life I don't have much practical experience of yet.

In my mind, i see myself with someone 35-55 years old, tall, with a certain amount of muscle (still at 182, so some manhandling needed), with a good sense of humor, and with the ability to be patient when needed.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.)

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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