All of my friends would say I have a VERY outgoing personality. I'm have a GREAT sense of humor (which may be warped at times), very down to earth and don't have too many hangups (matter of fact, I cannot think of a single one). I can adapt to any situation or environment, be it ideal or not. When it comes to physical health, I TRY to exercise about 4 times a week (yes, I said "try"). I love to dance, be it at a club or in my car (c'mon...we all have car-danced at some point or another). I'm the type that will be the first one on the dance floor, be it with someone else or by myself (if it's a g I really like). If I'm dancing solo, it usually doesn't take long for a woman to walk up and join me. How she looks doesn't really matter to me at that point, as we are just dancing. She could be a cyclops and I will dance with her. Now, if she is attractive, I might decide to engage in conversation and see where it goes :-). Otherwise, it's just a dance and I leave it as such. I love sex just as much as the next man, but I DO NOT GET DOWN WITH EACH AND EVERY SINGLE piece of ass tossed my way. I don't ever want to regret having sex with someone for any reason. The 2 basic rules I have: 1) I don't sleep with any of my friends' EXes (be it serious or not) 2) I don't sleep with my friends' family. I am not one to boast and brag about what I can do in the bedroom. How good/bad I am is all relative to what you've already had. If I sleep with someone who has been with only one per who was "below average", I can come along with an "average" performance and she will think I'm Captain Ding-A-Ling :)). At the same time, I can come with my "A" game, and she might look at it as nothing special, depending on who she was with prior to me. With this being said, boasting and bragging is pointless. Either we connect or we don't.

My Ideal Person I prefer a full-figured woman. The only REQUIREMENT is that you do have to have some meat on your bones. I am not attracted to thin/waif-like women. I am a VERY affectionate person and like to feel the woman I am holding.

I'm looking for someone who can be discreet. I work as a white-collar professional and what we do with one another is our business. I am not trying to have everyone and their mama listed on here as a "friend". I know this is a sex site, but there still has to be some sort of formality in finding a partner. I would not approach a woman on the street and ask that she show me her tits, nor would she ask to see my dick. Just because we find one another attractive doesn't guarantee we're fucking. Therefore, meeting someone online shouldn't be any different.

I don't consider myself VERY kinky, but I'll try anything once to determine whether or not I like it.
As far as I'm concerned, the best place to have sex is wherever we might be and we just feel the urge and act on it (without getting arrested ). I don't have a problem with extramarital affairs. If that is your thing, so be it. I am not one to judge. I do believe that one's love for their spouse and one's desire to explore their sexuality are 2 different things. Besides, it's somewhat unrealistic to believe that everyone is only attracted to one person. We all have seen someone and thought "WOW". The reason we don't act on that "WOW" is not because we love our significant other, but we don't want to get caught and hurt the significant other. As long as the rules and "Terms of The Agreement" are laid out in the beginning, I can abide by them.

My feelings on one-night stands are more conservative than liberal. If I meet someone, have a good conversation, and we click, it's all good. Now if I meet someone and she's like "Hi. I think you're hot. Let's go fuck"....that is an IMMEDIATE turn-off. I do believe in getting to know someone first, even if the relationship goes no further than just being lovers. I've never slept with just anybody because the physical chemistry is there. Any "non-bedroom" connection only intensifies what goes down in the bedroom.

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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