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tulsaliza 65F
5485 posts
9/3/2022 8:58 am

I haven't posted in my blog in a while so I thought a quick update was in order...well, guess what???? I can't get to my blog anymore from my homepage!!! WTF????? I also see that my membership expires on 10/12/22 which not sure if that means I won't be able to access anything at all any more but I can assure you, I will not be paying for anything on this site. Perhaps it is time to wrap it up and abandon this site??? I've been trying to clean up and get rid of all the kinky acrutemons that I have in my house just in case I die in the near future.

I don't know, it seems like everything continues to change and not necessarily for the best, like this site, not being able to get to my blog, not being able to get to the groups that I am a member of...just makes me tired.

On the health front, I do have a new breast cancer care team at the "other" saint hospital here in Tulsa and I'm set for a double-mastectomy with reconstruction on Monday, 09/26/22. I'm busy trying to get my house in order, my paperwork for my job in order and just get ready for a month of shear and complete agony but then that will be the end of having to deal with breast cancer.

I'm anxious to get my breast reconstruction underway and get the inflatable implants to create the size of my new breasts. The reconstruction will involve getting new nipples, not sure if they will be tatooed on or if I will go for actual sewn on created<b> nipples. </font></b>There's so much involved when getting new breasts...but like I said, I have a new care team and they are FANTASTIC!!!! Nothing like doctors that communicate with you and tell you how they honestly feel or what their professional opinions are...

Maybe making a post will get me back on the "active" list but who the hell knows?!?!?!?!?!

Pleasure's a sin, and sometimes sin's a pleasure...
- Lord Byron, Don Juan

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