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Sexting 101: How to Send Dirty Messages Without Ugly Consequences  

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10/29/2016 5:34 am
Sexting 101: How to Send Dirty Messages Without Ugly Consequences

1. Never show your face
We'd actually recommend to never send a photo point blank. It's just flat out too risky, but if you're a loca risk-taker, just don't show your face. Also, try an App like SnapChat, which allows to set a time limit on how long the photo exists on the other person's phone. If you're sending pics, remember that you want the<b> temptation </font></b>to run really deep, so if you show him everything all at once, he already knows what to expect. Simple messages will tease him and arouse him more, and as for photos, a snap shot of one sexy body part will do the trick and have him thinking: Dios mio! I can't wait to see the rest!!

2. Never sext if you haven't done the real thing yet
It's highly inappropriate to sext if you never actually "sexed." You don't know what the other is into, so it's just kind of awkward. Studies show that married couples sext to keep their marriages spicy (ahem, Salma Hayek admitted to this a while back), so sexting is mostly meant for those who got down and dirty at least more than three times.

3. Don't give too much away in your sext
You want to tempt your guy, so saying something like "When I get home I'm going to try out that sex toy with you" sounds like you're making dinner plans. Instead, have him guessing with something like: "I just bought something, and I think you'll drool when you see me in it tonight." We guanrantee his mind will only be filled with thoughts of your hot bod.

4. Don't sext something you'd never actually say in real life
Be yourself. This is why you shouldn't sext if you haven't done the real thing yet. If you don't know each other's personalities, you don't know what is appropriate for you to say. Saying something like "I'm going to rock your world Papi" is super awk if you know you never have and never will call your man Daddy.

5. Do try these sample sext messages
-"I've been daydreaming about you all day at work. I can't concentrate thinking about what I'm going to do to you when I get home."
-"Sitting at my desk fantasizing about how hot it would be to do it in my office."
-"I can't stop thinking about last night. I'm definitely ready for round two."

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