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cwazywabbit009 59M
1507 posts
2/20/2022 4:33 pm

I don't have a pic posted cause ………

How many times have you seen that reason given, mostly by men, but occasionally by couples, and rarely by women? And no, don't try to count them either, it would probably take way too long, and none of us want to waste our time doing that lol. Some of the myriad reasons/excuses given are:

1- I don't want someone from my work to recognize me
2- I don't want anyone I know to recognize me/know I am on here
3- I have a high profile job
4- I have tattoos and people will recognize them
5- I don't want to post a face pic [for the above reasons 1-3]
6- I don't want of me on the internet

They oftentimes to exchange , or you , even if you never asked them to , which would belie point #6 right out of the gate lol

Well, no said you had to post a face pic. The chances of someone you know, or work with, recognizing your naked body parts should be extremely slim to , unless you are in the habit of walking around naked at work/with your vanilla [as far as you know] friends, and if you are, I am sure finding you on this site would not surprise them [and they probably have already talked to HR/the funny farm about your wanderings sans clothing anyways]. Tats? Blur them, or just do not take of them = tada! Problem solved. Dick pic? Aside from it being so cliché, most women would rather you leave a bit [or in most cases, according to a lot of guys, a lot] to the imagination lol. If you must post , and you really do not, at least do not make it your profile pic, unless it is the best looking in the whole fucking world [which all too many think it is smh]. Yes, we mostly tend to be recently upgraded cavemen [some have not made that leap yet though] that tend to be very visual, and I am not saying that women aren't, but trying to engage her mind, make her curious, laugh, both, just might be a better approach. Now I understand that some of you have trouble putting a sentence together, and no, got ? does not qualify, so you guys are starting behind the 8 ball.

Maybe attention to the guys that seem to get along well with women in chat rooms. Odds are they are engaging in conversations that, while it may be flirtatious, is also relatively intelligent, oftentimes funny, and most importantly, comes across as a normal person talking to another normal person who is not in a huge rush to take them off to another chat room after 3 words so they can talk 1-on-1 [see slasher movie opening scenes for reference].

So, in summary, post a pic or do not post a pic, that is entirely to you, more power to you, but don't give a lame excuse why you choose not to. Just fess and say, I did not want to, or I have not got around to it yet [which does not really work for a profile over a few months old btw]. Just remember, dick are like flies on guano, there are millions of them out there. Give the ladies a chest, back, bum, even legs work, and if someone recognizes you in said pic, remember 2 things, one, they are on here too, and , if they can recognize you from a body part, they are either way too interested in you already, or they are a serial killer and they will hunt you down.

Just kidding about the serial killer part btw ………

Drop in and visit my blog sometime, but you'll probably regret it

cwazywabbit009 59M
6313 posts
2/20/2022 4:34 pm


Drop in and visit my blog sometime, but you'll probably regret it

oldbstrd55 67M
3292 posts
2/21/2022 6:31 am

I actually read one that said he didn't want anyone from his church to run across them. What kind of church do you go to or are you the pastor?

cwazywabbit009 replies on 2/21/2022 1:13 pm:
That is hilarious! As I said in the post, if someone recognizes him from his pic, just means they are on the site too lol

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