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Posted:Sep 19, 2022 9:19 am
Last Updated:May 23, 2024 1:40 am

Just my thoughts on Romance, Foreplay, and Sex

Some Thoughts on Romance

Romance is not a one time thing. It must be a constant, ongoing, and even change over time as the relationship evolves.

It is not just a flower when expected. There can be that, but best when the flower is not expected, done for no reason then just to give the flower.

It includes holding hands, including in public. Giving your hand that quick little kiss.

It include a gentle caress of your hand or the small of your back.

It includes whispering some sweet words in your ear.

It includes that look when eyes meet.

It can include cuddling for not other reason than to cuddle.

It can include long kisses.

It can include giving you a foot rub with lotion after a long day at work.

What else can it include? That is yet to be explored!

Some Thoughts on Foreplay

Foreplay can be an extension of Romance, and in truth should be. I believe that it is also crucial to a great sexual part of a relationship, and also as a stand-alone fun part of a relationship. It does and should take time.

It can certainly include cuddling, and should.

Gentle sucking of fingers and toes – before lotion - perhaps.

Kissing your neck and licking the backs of your ears.

Caressing each other, over our clothes.

Exposing each other – to a point only. Maybe go caress each other under clothes – to a point only. The idea is to excite each other, but the further fun may come later.

Wearing items at home that we know excites the other, or dressed the way we know excites the other.

Washing your back when you are taking a bath.

Giving you an all over rub with lotion.

At times watching porn together. For that, should be wearing very little, or nothing.

What else can it include? That is yet to be explored!

Some Thoughts on Sex

While “hook-up” sex can be fun, it is not more than that. Great sex can and may, and likely will and should, start early in a relationship but, like Romance and Foreplay, gets much better as the relationship gets deeper.

It should build from Romance and Foreplay! Those two should be the foundation!

I do like to start with the Foreplay. Nice long time of Foreplay.

You do not get to undress yourself, that is for me to do! You can claim the same.

I will take my time, touching, kissing, licking, as I go.

I enjoy masturbation, taking care of each other at the same time, or watching each other. Both can be very stimulating. It can also be a part of Foreplay.

I do enjoy oral, both giving and receiving.

I can use Masturbation and Oral on you to bring you to many orgasms, which a woman is very capable of.

If you are not already a screamer and a squirter, I will do my best to get you there.

For intercourse, which is not always necessary, many positions are possible, and should be explored.

Some sexual activities can be done in a car.

Outdoors sex is fun too. That is, even if sitting on your own patio at night and just masturbating each other.

If you have not already tried it, I will introduce you to what is known as Lite Bondage, which is just simple restraint. It can be a fun addition occasionally or even as a constant.

After play, holding you, talking, kissing.

What else can be done? Exploration can be fun!
Posted:Jun 5, 2022 12:22 am
Last Updated:May 23, 2024 1:40 am

It has come to my attention that some males are actually using a copy of MY description in profile! While some may say it is the most sincere for of flattery, it is IRRITATING that others may simply using this. Understand, I disavow any other who may copy in part or whole my profile!
Wait a minute, why the auto editing
Posted:Feb 9, 2022 2:44 pm
Last Updated:Feb 13, 2022 4:29 pm

In my immediate previous Post I mentioned Senior Sizzels, the site I am on. I mentioned other sites own by the same parent which I named, but those got changed - not by me but by the site.
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Then, now, and real or not
Posted:Feb 9, 2022 2:38 pm
Last Updated:May 23, 2024 1:40 am

Set the background. Veteran, previously high end professional, globally experienced, college degrees, personal Copyrights. Also been married times, and now a widower. Now, that I have the "This is why I walk on water" stuff out of the way, time for the frustration. Understand, I know this is NOT universal, but I want to let off some steam. Oh, I do NOT go to bars or do any of those kind of things. Been there, done that when younger.

I do actually seek a long term romantic - and yes sexual - relationship. I had success online at one point, how I met my third and late wife, some 3000 miles away at the time with eHarmony. But now it seems to be different. The usual sites are not providing much, actually almost nothing. Senior Sizzles which is the AdultFriendFinder owned site I am on, has many claiming to be female and many claiming to want long term. Oh, alt is another AdultFriendFinder owned site, but they truly need to hire someone to actually manage the site so it will load and work and it keeps hanging .

Now, I get if I am outside the selection and have no issue with that. What irritates me is all the ones that reply chat we discuss, on and on, but then they ignore my very clearly listed Red Flags. To wit, start calling me names like honey, dear, darling and so forth and even after being reminded more than once, continues. OK, tells me you in Nigeria or Turkey or somewhere like that. The other worst is asking for or similar considerations before we meet face to face. Tells me they are fake and very likely scammers. And especially when we get close to hopefully meeting. Then they tell they are somewhere that is NOT what profile states and they want help to get back. Know what, you lied from the get go. Freaking hitchhike.

So, in summary, if in fact they are real and truly seek a long term relationship, why do they absolutely ignore the Red Flags, which are clearly listed front in my profile? OK, I have blown off steam. Continuing the search, and yes, across many sites.
Truly do not understand
Posted:Jan 30, 2022 11:55 am
Last Updated:Feb 1, 2022 11:12 am

Why is so difficult? I make clear in my profile, what the RED FLAGS are. Yet, seems some do not read. I get questions that are actually easily answered in profile and females get offended when I send them back profile. For the ones that do, then they ask for or similar considerations. I would love find a REAL female on here that is also close enough meet. Why is that seemingly impossible?
Senior Sizzle aka AdultFriendFinder
Posted:Jan 29, 2022 11:18 pm
Last Updated:May 23, 2024 1:40 am

Here is the thing. They do NOT ALLOW ANY thing that does not meet party line. I have discussed with many who did not meet that and have been limited or more. It is time for us to hold these folks to the SAME Standards that we must be held to! Actually, past time.

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