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How to message me; and others for success  

MsAvaPhx 42T
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3/23/2022 12:22 pm
How to message me; and others for success

Guys, let's have an honest conversation, shall we? You shell out some money for these sites, you post a dick pic, include the bare basics on your profile and maybe peck out a few sentences about how you're chill, laid back looking for some discreet free NSA fun sex partners.

Then you start thumbing your way through a profile search, find someone you think is hot, and you send a message. You don't bother to read their profile cus that's way too many words (more on that later) nope, you just look at the pictures and immediately send some dull AF 1st message that reads like:

"hey, what's up, how's your day, I think you're hot/beautiful/sexy and would like to get to know you. Check out my profile and hmu if you're interested."

Let's review: You have nothing but a dick pic on your empty profile and one sentence about how you're chill laid back and looking for free NSA sex. What exactly are they supposed to be interested in?

You were attracted to a face photo posted; or maybe a full body photo that shows their amazing hot body - and all you have is some extreme close up of your dick. See the problem yet fellas? If you won't extend the same courtesy of posting your face then we'll assume you're butt ugly, married or have a GF or ALL the above. We don't care about your excuses of why you are so ashamed to show your face. We don't wanna hear about your problems. You are a rando trying to get with US, it's not our job to coddle your fears that someone you might know might see you or your insecurities about not being very attractive. So if you won't level the playing field by including a recent face selfie with a message, then your expectation SHOULD be to get ignored. Look, when you give someone NOTHING to be interested in, you should really stop convincing yourself anyone is going to be interested. NO ONE cares what your lame excuses are for not posting a face pic...and NO, a first date or chatting is NOT what we do to see if we wanna hook up when we haven't seen what you look like. NO, its not shallow to base this on looks because it's human nature to find attraction. Why would I waste my time getting to know someone over single sentence questions and answers over days when a) I have no idea what you look like; for all I know you could have a wax eye and a wooden leg. b) all these things can be included if YOU would've written a profile and posted a face pic. Besides, its not like any of you send messages to women with empty<b> profiles </font></b>and no face pics. C'mon, for real.

Look, it's time some of you dullards learn that being dumb and lazy is a lethal combination that is guaranteed to end in failure. Still, it's your right to not include jack diddle shit on your profile but there is no forgiveness when you fail to read the<b> profiles </font></b>of those you wanna 'get to know' 9 out of 10 guys will include 'I wanna get to know you' in their first message. So, if you wanna get to know me why TF would you NOT read my profile? Do you really think I wanna type all that shit again? Secondly, people who write a decent profile do so because we know what we want and what we're looking for; it could only benefit you to read it, if for no other reason than to not waste your time or make an ass out of yourself. When you skip that profile, you waste YOUR time and MY time - when you're NOT what I'm looking for (re: married cheaters)

Now, tell me where in the world can you create success by offering less than the bare minimum and somehow expect maximum results? You can't and won't. So stop skipping<b> profiles. </font></b>Take a hot minute to fill yours out and if you're interested in getting to know me, start by reading the profile AND if you want me to be just as interested in you - it's YOUR JOB to offer me more than a dick pic and a single sentence about how you're chill and laid back. It IS your job to offer me something unique and interesting about yourself IF your end game is for me to be interested in meeting you. These are the basics of human communication and you need to learn them like the ABC's of getting laid online.

Final Note: If someone asks you to tell them a bit about yourself; DO NOT - I repeat - DO NOT - reply with 'what do you wanna know, ask me anything' because it is the epitome of stupid and lazy. Aint nobody got time to interview some fool with nothing but a dick pic.

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