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FunbutIntense 56F   
12 posts
2/21/2022 11:01 pm

I see a lot of men's profiles, I mean a lot. So many of them state very strongly that they are straight. They are not looking for men. I suppose the gay men are hitting on them far more than they would like.
I can see why though. I don't pay for a subscription here. I can't afford to have a paid subscription on every site I use. So I pay for a subscription to one site this month and the next month a different site. What that means is I can only see your profile photo. If your profile file photo is a picture of your dick I'm probably not going to give it a second glance. If it's a picture of your body, it might warrant a second glance but to really catch my attention, post a picture that includes your face. Put a black bar over your eyes if you don't want to be recognized but give me an idea of what I'll be kissing while we fuck. I can suck just about any cock, but I can't kiss just any face.

Oh, and why do gay men keep contacting you? Because they don't read<b> profiles </font></b>or statuses. They see a cock they like they message you. If you don't have a dick pic for your main profile picture you will have less gay guys trying to turn you and more women giving your profile some attention. You can't build your profile the way you like it, that will only attract men. You have to create something women will like. Most women prefer to see the whole man. I'm not saying dick pics are a turn off. I know they turn me on and I hope you include a few. You are so much more than a cock. Your main profile picture may be only picture I get to see. You might want it to be one that makes me want to contact you..
I may very well be wrong, but it's a theory worth investigating.
Just saying.

69ereatwetpussy 61M
6774 posts
2/22/2022 6:49 pm

i get what your saying
i get hit on and if you check out my profile
(witch i dough they do)
i have all woman friends i say i only want woman
i'm not bi i don't condone them it their life.
i don't reply back i just let them go away
i do have cock picture in my profile
i have guys comments
seam like more than woman lolololol

i agree with you less is more xoxoxoxoxxxox Thomas

Unzipmeslowly51x 54M

2/22/2022 4:06 pm

I reallise what you say makes a lot of sense. Something to consider😊

FunbutIntense replies on 3/4/2022 1:52 am:
Thank you for the positive comment. I love your name!

Sensual_GentleM 58M
397 posts
2/22/2022 9:48 am

It is a definite fact that I get contacted by more gay/bi men than by women, even though my profile picture is not a dick pic. And while I agree with you that ideally my profile should include a face picture, my privacy/discretion is ultimately more important.

FunbutIntense replies on 3/4/2022 1:53 am:
I definitely understand the need for privacy. Thank you for commenting.

Piper3654K 54M
141 posts
2/22/2022 8:41 am

I have men contact me constantly even though I have a face pic as my primary. I think they like the challenge of the "conversion" or perhaps in reality a lot of "str8" guys really flow more in both directions. Either way, I just politely say no thank you once or twice then block them if they persist.... much the same as the women here stave off the onslaught.

Great post... keep blogging.


FunbutIntense replies on 3/4/2022 1:54 am:
Thank you for your positive comment, it helps to keep me blogging!

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