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My Thoughts for the Day....  

77checkmate 53F
18 posts
12/9/2020 2:00 pm
My Thoughts for the Day....

LOL...Titles are not my thing. Just wanted to throw out a few observations and opinions after 2 days on this site. First conclusion is you have to be a gold member to fully get the most out of this place. Second. Although its touted as a dating site it has as much porn as other well known sites. Personally I enjoy porn once in awhile. I'm into a few fetishes and I am a bit of an exhibitionist, so yes I enjoy the attention of being a<b> tease. </font></b>What am I doing here? Well with corona shutting a lot of places down and the few that are open have so many restrictions its not fun anymore. One of my girlfriends told me she was a member of AdultFriendFinder. One day I watched as she uploaded a few nude photos of herself and the likes and comments came pouring in nonstop. I have to admit I was turned on by the whole situation and thats the reason I decided to give it a try.

thinkingofyou12 67M
4690 posts
12/9/2020 3:20 pm

Welcome to AdultFriendFinder and the Blogs, There are some good folks here, as well as duchbags lol I hope you have a great stay.

Leegs2012 51M
96137 posts
12/9/2020 4:13 pm

Very Nice!! Welcome to Blog Land! This is a fun site!! Enjoy!!

dell9600 67M  
1426 posts
12/9/2020 5:31 pm

You are a very pretty lady. You are going to get a lot of attention.

Goodfucker69xxx 40M

12/9/2020 6:45 pm

I like it

justaguyinalaska 57M
879 posts
12/9/2020 7:00 pm

Your two conclusions are spot-on.

Although there is an authentic *community* vibe here, at the end of the day, management has its eye on the bottom line. To that end this site's features, applications and accessibility are manipulated toward what management views as the maximization of its profit motive.

I estimate the blogs to consist of 1/3 porn. In addition there is a steady stream of adverts from sex workers, although they are usually flagged and deleted with an hour or two. I have been *assured* by a few super-bloggers here that a measurable portion of the blog-posts are also shills for management, used to arouse and generate gold membership sales. Presumably the same could be said for videos posted on the homepage.

That said, there are abundant signs of intelligent life in this community and more than a few bloggers who generously share compelling personal narratives and mindful insights into the realm of the sensual as well as the world at large.

You continued interest and participation is encouraged.

MyBaffies 54M
4983 posts
12/10/2020 3:40 am

Welcome to the blogs.

As you say, you pretty much have to be a paid-up member to get the most out of the site. The only free communication options left now are the chat rooms and the blogs.

Having said that, they used to give active single female profiles a free upgrade to gold if they met certain requirements - not sure if they are still doing that or not.

Hope you find what you're looking for.


Link to my blog: MyBaffies

CleavageFan4U 67M
69374 posts
12/10/2020 7:13 am


That you're here on the blogs already is a good sign. I've found the bloggers to be the most fun part of this site and now almost exclusively interact with them.

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profcoquin27bis 59M
4323 posts
12/10/2020 7:28 am

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