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I would still give oral to a man who wasn't groomed - I might hold back from giving as much attention to his balls (but, at the same time I realize that must be a REALLY difficult area to shave, so it's a dilemma). As far as my own grooming - I did use to shave once in a while. Now that I'm in a drought there certainly seems to be no point. Maybe I would take it up again if I had a partner. I have to admit that aesthetically, my gray pubes are kind of a turn-off for me (part of that whole 'accepting the aging body' thing that I struggle with). I'll be interested to see how the men weigh in on your questions.   
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Great post. Though far from hairy, I'm au naturel. I've never been with a partner who has shaved, though I've been with many partners who have trimmed. I like pubic hair both on me and my partners; like you, the occasions of getting a pubic hair trapped in my mouth from oral sex have been rare. But it's the choice of my partners whether they shave or not. It's none of my business but if they ask me for a preference, I will say au naturel. But it's their call. Pubic hair (or not) isn't a deal-breaker for me and I don't expect it to be from my partner. 
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Ok. Here goes Have had girlfriends who didn’t shave and weren’t groomed. . I went down there. I didn’t care for it. I didn’t like the hair in my mouth or in my nose. So, time spent there was minimal. Had girlfriends that groomed. It was more pleasurable. The lips were clear and I didn’t have to comb through anything to get there. Some did the V, some a landing strip and some were still “bushy” but shaped nicely to accommodate a bikini. More time was spent down there. When wifey and I started dating, she was smooth. This was a first for me. I liked it! I practiced my skills every chance I got! And she seemed to really like that. I was hairy and she seemed to like it. She did not go to the scrotum. Oral was more of a handjob. When I decided to start shaving, it was a game changer. She was all over the scrotum, the area behind the scrotum and loved a smooth penis and pubic area. So, I would say, keep the lips and clitoral area clear. I would not say that I would walk away because of grooming habits, but I would not be as inclined to do certain things. I would try to avoid it. But that’s just me. Have a great day! 💋 Staci
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I'd trim but would never go completely bald.
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2/6/2022 1:12 pm |
I wouldn't refuse, but I would change if asked. 2 way street
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Much like political affiliations, religious beliefs, and food preferences — to shear or not to shear would have been touched on WAY before it had become a serious question. Then again, THAT'S what exceptions are for. 😊👍 I'd perform an examination and evaluate things on an ad hoc basis, if I was sprung with a surprise opportunity. Why close ones mind? 🤔 ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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I don't care what my (fictional) partner has - if she wants to be natural or shaved or trimmed then that's her prerogative. It wont put me off giving her oral, provided I don't need a compass, map, garden shears and a miner's lamp! Mine is let to grow as it likes although I do snip some long straggly ones from time to time. If my partner wouldn't want to "return the favour" just because I look a bit overgrown or she just doesn't like the look, then that's her decision and I wouldn't make or try and persuade her or use "Oh, go on" on her. If it means I miss out, then so be it. Would I shave if she asked me to? I dunno. I might make it a bit shorter - maybe that's a fun thing we could do together - but I am not sure I could shave entirely if our relationship depended on it.
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Amen to that!  I groom for me and me alone, and give my partner that same respect.
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Yeah, I've never cared if a man did manscaping, that's up to him. And, though I have shaved in the past, I've given up the practice. I'm not all that hairy and dislike receiving oral anyway, so why bother? This week's HNW: Pink/Hearts (Or Chocolate) is available on the other side.
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I trim. The thing is men and women ARE different, and access to a woman's clit etc is different than access to the dong (be it short or long ). And a mouth full of hair disrupts the rhythm of the givin. So I don't say no but tend to prefer shaved. When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro. The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.
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I keep things down there smooth. As far as you girls one or the other is fine. I am not a fan of lady stubble. Thanks for the nice blog.
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I trim but don't shave. My skin breaks out way too bad to ever try that. I also prefer a trimmed or shaved partner, but it's not a deal breaker. I once asked a partner if he would mind if I trimmed his pubic area and he was all for it. I'm pretty sure we both enjoyed not only the trimming, but the fun afterwards. If someone told me I had to trim or shave....yup, that's a deal breaker and it's time for a new partner. Pagan  Hmmmm....I know I left that wand around here somewhere!
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If your partner's pube status is different from your hair-there-or-bare preference, do you refuse to give oral? - Ppppfff - NO! And old enough to remember when ALL pussies had hair!  If your partner refuses to perform oral on you because your genitalia doesn't match their hair preference, do you change how you groom for them? - I groom when a date is on the agenda and I've never really had that request come up. But I suppose I would if it was such a big deal for them. Are You a Giver or a Taker Picture, Pictures, and More Pictures BW or WB, on HNW [post 3312759] My Private Post - Tell Me ALL Your Secrets – Anything you write here is just between us
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The first time I heard of women shaving because men liked it, I was so offended. All I could imagine is he was into little girls, pre pubescent. I just thought of sick mf’’ers. I have learned it is not always the case. Maybe some sickos there but not all. I hate shaving it. It is there for a reason, But, I will do it for his preference. My dry spells, not happening. I do like a hairy man,
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I've always respected a woman's choice as to whether they trim or not, certainly in no way a deal breaker.
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I have never shaved there but I have very fine hair and don't have much for a bush. I have been with women both bald and very bushy. I really like giving oral and don't care what is between her legs; just let me down there. As so many have said it is up the her if she shaves or not. So nice to be insane; no one asks you to explain.
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2/6/2022 4:46 pm |
As per many post, I too believe it's personal but if ask to shave it I'll accommodate.
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I was very bushy then I got a wild hair and thought I would shave and I kept it for until a year ago. Now it is not bushy at all and if a lover can not accept me for the way I am then the heck with him. I do like a guy with hair or trimmed The Light is shinning and she is lonely and waiting in the darkness. 
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I don't believe i've ever kbeen with anyone that has not giving me oral because of the pubic hair. I tend to like my partners pubic area regardless of grooming. I like to run my fingers through a nice bush, as well as massaging a trimmed pussy. I've never experienced a completely smooth pussy. I will give oral to a woman, regardless. I mean, the pussy is so magnificent how could one not?
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I have never refused!!! But I do like it trimmed!(Patch or landing strip) In my mind I feel like if she keeps it nice and in order, then she cares, and wants to please! It turns me on soo much! I keep mine trimmed for me. It makes me feel better about myself and more confident! If I was really into someone and they had a preference, I would surely oblige!!!!
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2/7/2022 12:33 am |
I trim once a while..but im not really hairy anyway...i prefer trimmed on a woman...but its not that important...as long as she tastes and smells good im more than happy😊x
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Like many here I don't mind either way either; shaved pussies seem to become more fashionable from about the 90s onward (check any vintage porn from 70s & 80s for proof) & I often enjoyed shaving my past lovers from about that time onward by mutual consent & pleasure; I would not refuse oral on a hairy pussy these days as long as I can find her pussy & clit & avoid catching the hairs in my teeth & have never shaved my own or been asked to either; good Q post thanks
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I totally agree. It doesn't matter if my partner is shaved or not, I'm going in! Lol. Shaving that area became a thing in what, the 1990's? Prior to that hardly anyone shaved. I guess I'm old school.
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I'm neatly trimmed and shaven myself, but that is my preference. I even do it before an important meeting. Not that is would come into play, but it makes me feel complete and confident. Yes, I prefer a woman that neatly trims and I do enjoy shaven or wax if they choose. I've found it only bothers me if I'm not truly into her. It is just a mental block If I'm into her. I happily work with what her preference is if I'm into her.
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There were summers in the past where I shaved off all of my pubic hair to stay cool and then grew it back in the winter. Now I just have my soul patch all the time. I actually prefer women with some pubic hair down there. Funny women are incredibly sexy!
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I would not say no to giving oral if she did not shave or trim though I certainly prefer that she shave around her lips. I prefer that she leave a nice patch above her clit. I have had GFs who did not shave. One was rather hairy and the other complained that she was losing hair down there I liked it as it showed her pussy lips more clearly. Would I change my habit of shaving my cock and balls for a partner? That would be very unlikely though I have discovered saying never is not always wise. If you see me in the real world, come say "Hi Justskin." I always behave. Preferably not well. 
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Hair or not they get the same amount of attention. I suppose a super hairy person may not get as much deep attention but its not reason for me to refuse.
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Dislike receiving? Now there's blog topic waiting to be written. I just did on Sunday, in the New Community  This week's HNW: Pink/Hearts (Or Chocolate) is available on the other side.
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Ok. Here goes Have had girlfriends who didn’t shave and weren’t groomed. . I went down there. I didn’t care for it. I didn’t like the hair in my mouth or in my nose. So, time spent there was minimal. Had girlfriends that groomed. It was more pleasurable. The lips were clear and I didn’t have to comb through anything to get there. Some did the V, some a landing strip and some were still “bushy” but shaped nicely to accommodate a bikini. More time was spent down there. When wifey and I started dating, she was smooth. This was a first for me. I liked it! I practiced my skills every chance I got! And she seemed to really like that. I was hairy and she seemed to like it. She did not go to the scrotum. Oral was more of a handjob. When I decided to start shaving, it was a game changer. She was all over the scrotum, the area behind the scrotum and loved a smooth penis and pubic area. So, I would say, keep the lips and clitoral area clear. I would not say that I would walk away because of grooming habits, but I would not be as inclined to do certain things. I would try to avoid it. But that’s just me. Have a great day! 💋 Staci
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2/9/2022 6:34 am |
How can someone not like oral...im shocked....ps i wouldnt hold you hostage over trimming😉x ..
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2/22/2022 2:49 pm |
I so enjoy a hairy pussy- it tickles when I lick it. And I cannot help but to remember the song from and about Hair "She asks him why "Why I'm a hairy guy?" I'm hairy noon and nighty-night night My hair is a fright I'm hairy high and low But don't ask me why 'Cause he don't know It's not for lack of bread Like the Grateful Dead Darlin' Gimme a head with hair Long, beautiful hair Shining, gleaming Streaming, flaxen, waxen Give me down to there (Hair!) Shoulder length or longer hair (Hair!) Here baby, there mama Everywhere daddy daddy Hair (Hair! Hair! Hair! Hair! Hair! Hair!) Grow it, show it Long as I can grow it My hair I let it fly in the breeze And get caught in the trees Give a home for the fleas in my hair A home for fleas A hive for the buzzin' bees (buzzin' beeeeeeeesssss) A nest for birds There ain't no words For the beauty, the splendor, the wonder Of my... Hair (Hair! Hair! Hair! Hair! Hair! Hair!) Grow it, show it Long as I can grow it My hair I want it long, straight, curly, fuzzy Snaggy, shaggy, ratsy, matsy Oily, greasy, fleecy Shining, gleaming, streaming Flaxen, waxen Knotted, polka-dotted Twisted, beaded, braided Powdered, flowered, and confettied Bangled, tangled, spangled, and spaghettied! Oh say can you see My eyes if you can Then my hair's too short Down to here Down to there Down to there? Down to where? It stops by itself Don't never have to cut it 'Cause it stops by itself Oh give me a head with hair Long, beautiful hair Shining, gleaming Streaming, flaxen, waxen Won't you gimme it down to there (Hair!) Shoulder length or longer (Hair!) Here baby, there mama Everywhere daddy daddy Hair (Hair! Hair! Hair! Hair! Hair! Hair!) Grow it Show it Long as I can grow it"
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I'm not a fan of bushy. If he's too hairy, that would be a big turn-off for me. Fortunately for me, most men I've been with were on the light side when it came to body hair. I groom because I like the feel, not because someone asked me to. I use an epilator. It's a hassle and takes more time, but the after effects are much better than a razor.
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